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Serena
08-01-2002, 09:21 AM
Why are people so willing to throw away what they have?
What do you do when the person is sitting on top of the fence not knowing what to do?
Lucky4me
08-01-2002, 09:31 AM
serena, push them off!

Seriously, it's hard to say without specifics so I'll just say {{hugs}} and I hope things are better soon. :)
browneyes
08-01-2002, 09:33 AM
Laurie, just be there for them. Sometimes knowing someone is there and that someone actually cares makes all the difference in the world. {{hugs}} If this is about that boat of yours, use a frying pan.;)
Serena
08-01-2002, 09:37 AM
It's my husband trying to decide if he wants to throw away 20 years (9-19) of marriage or not.
JasonLyons
08-01-2002, 09:39 AM
hang in there
Saffron
08-01-2002, 09:47 AM
:( {{{{{Hugs}}}}}
browneyes
08-01-2002, 09:54 AM
Originally posted by Serena
It's my husband trying to decide if he wants to throw away 20 years (9-19) of marriage or not.
Like I said, use that frying pan. {{hugs}}
Rajah
08-01-2002, 09:56 AM
*hugs*
The Mystery Machine
08-01-2002, 09:59 AM
No advice just lots of {hugs}...
meeshi
08-01-2002, 10:31 AM
(((((((HUGS))))))) :(
Mamu
08-01-2002, 10:39 AM
If you think it's worth it fight back every way you know how. If that doesn't work then he's the loser.

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kejoda
08-01-2002, 10:45 AM
{{{HUGS}}} Serena.
SuiteDisney
08-01-2002, 10:48 AM
:( (((hugs)))
nativetxn
08-01-2002, 10:48 AM
Oh sweetie :( No advice, just {{{HUGS}}} and a reminder that we are always here if you need to talk and we care <b>a lot!</b>

More {{{HUGS}}}

Katholyn
Serena
08-01-2002, 10:52 AM
Some days I wonder if he is worth it. Part of me wants to tell him to get the hell out until he makes up his mind.

Most of me just wants my husband back. The guy I fell in love with 21 years ago.
shep
08-01-2002, 10:56 AM
Hang in there kiddo..:( (((hugs)))
JerseyJanice
08-01-2002, 11:05 AM
Serena, I'm so sorry.

Have you suggested counseling?
helenabear
08-01-2002, 11:09 AM
No advice... just tons of big {{{HUGS}}}
Dan Murphy
08-01-2002, 11:11 AM
Adding mine to all these here, Laurie, my {hugs} that things go better for you guys.
newmousecateer
08-01-2002, 11:19 AM
Sorry you are going through this. :( {{{{HUGS}}}}
Serena
08-01-2002, 11:28 AM
I'm going to suggest counseling tonight for all of us.

thanks guys
RitaZ.
08-01-2002, 11:29 AM
Laurie~ Sorry to hear that.:( Take care. {{hugs}}
Hnymoon@Dixie
08-01-2002, 11:31 AM
**hugs** I hope everything will work out for you.
We're all here for ya!
glo
08-01-2002, 11:55 AM
Laurie...hang in there. I hope things work out for you. {{{hugs}}}
Kama89
08-01-2002, 12:03 PM
I'm so sorry to hear you're going through this Laurie! :( My heart goes out to you. {{{{Hugs}}}}
cotye
08-01-2002, 06:45 PM
My good thoughts for you... {HUG} :(
DocRafiki
08-01-2002, 09:40 PM
Good luck with the counseling. I hate to see people throw all that away without giving it a chance.