If you have Santa's ear...Update post 25

[rosiep]

I figure he may not listen to me..but if you're in touch can you please tell him that all I want is for my daughter to get a job. She lost both her jobs at the University when she graduated and hasn't found work yet.....she's running through all her savings. :sad1: She has worked since high school and she's feeling like crap!!!

That said, if he thinks I've been extra good and deserve more...tell him I want an upgrade to Wilderness Lodge :lmao:

[wallyb]

I figure he may not listen to me..but if you're in touch can you please tell him that all I want is for my daughter to get a job. She lost both her jobs at the University when she graduated and hasn't found work yet.....she's running through all her savings. :sad1: She has worked since high school and she's feeling like crap!!!

That said, if he thinks I've been extra good and deserve more...tell him I want an upgrade to Wilderness Lodge :lmao:

Ooooo That's Crappy Rosie.
:hug: to your DD.

:scratchin You could teach her the pole dancing routines
you use to do back in the day.
You said Benny Franklin was a big tipper - right?

[rosiep]

Ooooo That's Crappy Rosie.
:hug: to your DD.

:scratchin You could teach her the pole dancing routines
you use to do back in the day.
You said Benny Franklin was a big tipper - right?

Not as good as Jefferson!

[jlewisinsyr]

I figure he may not listen to me..but if you're in touch can you please tell him that all I want is for my daughter to get a job. She lost both her jobs at the University when she graduated and hasn't found work yet.....she's running through all her savings. :sad1: She has worked since high school and she's feeling like crap!!!

That said, if he thinks I've been extra good and deserve more...tell him I want an upgrade to Wilderness Lodge :lmao:

I think although the market has been slammed with job losses, those just graduating are in the worst place, I feel for your daughter. If she was on the East Coast in upstate NY, I'm sure I could get her face time with different finance companies, but cannot give you much outside of that. I wish her the best of luck and encourage her to stay positive!

[wallyb]

Not as good as Jefferson!

Then there was George and those wooden teeth - ouch - splinters!

[rosiep]

Then there was George and those wooden teeth - ouch - splinters!

And he had a weird fascination with cherries.....

[wallyb]

And he had a weird fascination with cherries.....

So why ta hell was he hanging with you? :confused3

[rosiep]

So why ta hell was he hanging with you? :confused3

I was younger back then.....

[wallyb]

I was younger back then.....

And fruited?

[rosiep]

And fruited?

Fully Fruited.

[hematite153]

What's your daughter's field?

[rosiep]

What's your daughter's field?

Child and Family Studies. She's also capable of doing event planning and general office work. She's still volunteering like mad..but mostly for non-profits and they just aren't hiring.

[jenn&nelsonrego]

Hope she finds something real soon Rosie! :flower3:

I am thankful everyday to have such a great job. Even if I get insanely annoyed and want to start picking off little old ladies... I still have an awesome job!

[DVC~OKW~96]

:hug: Sending good wishes to your daughter. Hopefully, Santa is paying attention.

[hematite153]

Some left field ideas...

http://egov.oregon.gov//ODE/jobs/LEED9027.shtml
http://www.ndvh.org/about-support/employment/
http://jobview.usajobs.gov/getjob.aspx?JobID=84128109
http://jobview.usajobs.gov/getjob.aspx?JobID=84408844
http://www.hhs.gov/careers/jobs/findjob.html
http://www.rhyttac.ou.edu/
https://www5.recruitingcenter.net/Clients/casey/PublicJobs/controller.cfm?jbaction=JobProfile&Job_Id=10128&esid=az

Since she's already volunteering with a bunch of non-profits, there might be something in one of these grant programs (http://ncfy.acf.hhs.gov/ask/) that she could apply for (under the auspices of one of them -- grants can usually include paying for the salary of a person to run a program and it would allow her to do something that she designs herself.


I hope she finds something soon and if I run into Santa I'll mention her need.

[rosiep]

Thanks everyone. Keep the Mama in your prayers if you would..it it hard seeing her so unnerved.

[Hydani]

I hope your DD gets a job soon... I just got a job, and I've been seriously looking for months and months. I understand her position, and I wish her luck. :goodvibes

[DVC~OKW~96]

It is hardest on Mama, I believe. Your daughter is young and resilient and will find something. It's you who want as much perfect in her life as can be that will ache for her. :hug:

Take care Rosie. This world has to turn around... could she maybe become a nanny for a bit? Or perhaps do child care in her home? I know those aren't the best ideas but with her credentials she would be great at it...

[rosiep]

It is hardest on Mama, I believe. Your daughter is young and resilient and will find something. It's you who want as much perfect in her life as can be that will ache for her. :hug:

Take care Rosie. This world has to turn around... could she maybe become a nanny for a bit? Or perhaps do child care in her home? I know those aren't the best ideas but with her credentials she would be great at it...

I don't think she is opposed to doing either of those...in fact she nannied for quite a bit when she was younger.
We talked a bit last night and it's not just not working that has her thrown, it's that her whole life was at the university and now it's all gone. She's starting from scratch. Yes, the young are resiliant..but I know depression when I see it and she's in deep.

She's talking with a counselor..but until she has a chance to start rebuilding...it's going to be rough going.


Thanks for all your words of encouragement. I consider myself to be an optimistic person and can hold on for dear life with a smile....but ....well...I'm beginning to lag....

[wallyb]

I don't think she is opposed to doing either of those...in fact she nannied for quite a bit when she was younger.
We talked a bit last night and it's not just not working that has her thrown, it's that her whole life was at the university and now it's all gone. She's starting from scratch. Yes, the young are resiliant..but I know depression when I see it and she's in deep.

She's talking with a counselor..but until she has a chance to start rebuilding...it's going to be rough going.


Thanks for all your words of encouragement. I consider myself to be an optimistic person and can hold on for dear life with a smile....but ....well...I'm beginning to lag....

Well she still has some tethers.
You being an important one.
School ends and one must move on.

Unless your like a cousin of mine who seems to be making
college his occupation. :rolleyes:

[Mathfailure]

Rosie:
I waited to reply to this because I had hoped I would know someone in my denomination in your area, and as fate would have it the leader of the state of Oregon was the minister that officiated at my wedding. Small world.

I am sure I could get your daughter an interview, and her skill set sounds like a good fit. But one sticking point, some in my denomination are Not forward thinking (not my friends, they are wonderful) and she might object to the conservative atmosphere. I really would not expect a problem, but better for her to know going in.

If your daughter would like, I could e mail you more info. I never have used the pm on here, if you would walk me through it I am sure I could do it.

I am about to put on my Mommy hat (kids home in 15 min. and afternoon appointments) but I should be able to check back @ 7:30pm or so. I am in the Eastern time zone, so keep that in mind.

Also, I feel certain you understand how strongly depression can grip you. If your daughter really turns inward, trust your instincts on how serious it is.

Kathleen

[ChrizJen]

Rosie, I'll keep you and your DD in my thoughts.
It's so tough all over. Tell her to keep on chugging. She'll find something. Has she checked with state or local government agencies for jobs in social work, like child welfare?

[Saxton]

My nephew is going through the same thing - good kid, smart, 2 degrees and can't get anything. I'm sure things will turn around for her soon. Just keep being a Mom and she'll do ok.

[jackskellingtonsgirl]

High paying nanny jobs are in VERY short supply these days. The type of people who employ nannies are the type of people who are being laid off in droves. Both of my bosses have had layoffs in their companies, but luckily they have been spared. The girls in my local nanny group typically post jobs they hear about on a fairly regular basis, and lately there just haven't been any.

Hoping your DD is able to find something soon!! :wizard:

[rosiep]

Well folks not only did Zena get a job, but she got one that she can really sink her teeth into.

She'll be teaching classes for an after school program. Grades K-8. Everything from math to drama.

It's only half time at this point, but it's a foot in the door. Zena never does anything half baked and one of the reasons she got the job is they are hoping she helps to implement other programs for the school.

Thank you to each and every one of you who hoped and prayed with me.

Now I can go to Disney with a happy heart!!!

[SandrA9810]

well it's only what, two weeks past christmas. Still an acceptable timing.

I'm still waiting for my gifts from my aunt... that bought the stuff long before the holidays.

[jackskellingtonsgirl]

Rosie, that is WONDERFUL news!! Congrats to Zena! I hope she loves her new job! :goodvibes

[2GirlsMama]

Great news! It sounds like a really interesting opportunity. I know that will be a great relief for you, too! I'm glad.

[Mathfailure]

Rosie:

Sounds perfect! Creativity and getting paid for it! Yeah:yay:

Kathleen

[hematite153]

Congratulations to Zena! Good jobs at schools can be particularly hard to come by and they usually involve starting part-time. So, it sounds like a fabulous opportunity.

Way to go!

[OrlandoMike]

WOW!

That sounds like a wonderful job!

Congratulations! :cool1: