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buzz for boys
11-11-2009, 11:48 AM
Hi guys ,
First thanks for all the kind messages on monday i really do appreciate it !!
Now an update and what is fast becoming one of the worst weeks of my life !!
Yesterday we spent all day at the hospital with cam while they decided what the best course of treatment was after much ohhh and ahhhing we were told they were upping the steriods and that would hopefully see us through xmas into January :banana::banana:
We came home very excited and talk of putting a xmas tree up was abandoned with positive thoughts a plenty.
We had been in the house less than 15 minutes when the school phoned to say that my youngest son had collapsed in agony and was on his way to hospital and they had tried everything to get hold of us but failed so he had a teacher with him !! my heart just sank and we raced off to find my little man sitting up and laughing with cams senco the hospital had drew a blank as to what was wrong and we came home :confused: he is going for blood tests tomorrow so hopefully it wont be anything too bad :confused3
Now this morning i decided i was havinga lazy day but oh no once again the school phone and cams eye was bleeding and they couldnt get it to stop so to cut a long story short we spent another long day in childrens hospital and now the decision is that if he doesnt have this op he wont make it to see xmas and its been scheduled for 14th december. The worst part is that the op is so risky that they have only ever done it once before and it comes with no guarantees that this will be the end but now with an infection raging and fears for it travelling to his brain we are on high dose steriods and antibiotics till 14th december !! We need to start believing in miracles because for the op to work the infection needs to be under control as we are going to be back and forth to the hospital a lot i will update as and when i get chance just cant believe what a differnce 24 hours make. :sad2:

Dimplenose
11-11-2009, 11:58 AM
:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:Oh, my goodness! I was wondering how you were all getting on. I really don't know what to say except that I do believe in miracles and am sending you lots of hugs.:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:

disney_princess_85
11-11-2009, 12:02 PM
I'm so sorry to hear about everything you're going through. :hug: Best wishes, good luck and keep us posted. :goodvibes

mikki.young
11-11-2009, 12:08 PM
Wishing you all the best of luck and hope everything works out well in the end. :grouphug: for you all!

mandymouse
11-11-2009, 12:20 PM
:hug: So sorry to hear your news Louise. I'm thinking of you all at this difficult time, I cannot imagine the stress you're all going through :hug:

scottish mum
11-11-2009, 12:24 PM
:hug::hug::hug: good luck with everything :wizard::wizard::wizard:.

natalielongstaff
11-11-2009, 12:26 PM
:grouphug: Hope things improve soon hun xx

The Fetherstons
11-11-2009, 12:47 PM
Sending you all:hug::hug::hug::wizard::wizard:
Take care:hug:

saratogagirl
11-11-2009, 01:01 PM
I am so so sorry, and thinking of you at this awful time x

Tillybud
11-11-2009, 01:33 PM
I'm so sorry to hear your news, sending you all big hugs and lots of good luck wishes :grouphug: take care xx

jjk
11-11-2009, 02:08 PM
thinking of you and your family :hug::hug:x

Jets fan
11-11-2009, 02:20 PM
So sorry to hear this news. I cannot even begin to understand what you must be going through. Sending you lots of :grouphug::grouphug:

Can you drop me a pm with your address on as I'd like to send him a card - if this is OK

Tina

eeyorefanuk
11-11-2009, 02:41 PM
Just read this and I am so sorry and send my love in huge amounts to your son and your family - what a brave little soldier he is.:hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:

suzycute
11-11-2009, 02:42 PM
Really sorry to hear what you've all been going through :sad1: Thinking of you all.

Pinky166
11-11-2009, 02:43 PM
Oh Louise so sorry to hear this. :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

You are in my thoughts, sending you all lots of love, hugs & pixie dust. :grouphug: :wizard: :wizard: :wizard: :wizard: :wizard: :grouphug:

joolz1910
11-11-2009, 03:29 PM
Oh Louise, you really are due some good luck. What you're going through is so unfair. I really hope everything is ok. Sending you :hug::hug:

karentan
11-11-2009, 03:45 PM
so sorry to hear about all this, hope it all works out well :hug:

CHEK
11-11-2009, 04:06 PM
Oh Louise what a nightmare for you all :grouphug:

Just to let you know that your all in my thoughts and I sincerely hope things turn around for all of you :hug:

kristieuk
11-11-2009, 05:02 PM
Oh gosh, you are going through so much. Miracles absolutely do happen, and you deserve them more than anyone. I sincerely all the love and support we can send helps even a little bit. My hopes and prayers are with you :wizard::wizard:

Chilly
11-11-2009, 05:12 PM
Sending you lots of love.

Tinks1984
11-11-2009, 05:34 PM
Oh Louise, what a week :sad1:

Love and my thoughts to you all at this highly stressful time :hug: :hug:

I know your little one will respond, from reading your blog, he's a wonderful little boy who knows how to fight things - truly amazing! :wizard: :wizard:

Netty
11-11-2009, 05:43 PM
Louise :hug::hug::hug::hug: I'm so sorry to hear this, blimey you have been through the mill more than enough, fingers and toes are crossed that this infection clears up very quickly :wizard::hug::wizard:

Tammy Stringer
11-11-2009, 06:06 PM
Everything crossed that things start getting better for you soon.

Really hoping the infection gets better and the op goes to plan.

Keep strong

Tammy

Muscateer
11-11-2009, 11:34 PM
Oh no just when you thought you had a bit of good news, it all came crashing down again.

You and your family are in my thoughts. Take care:hug:

strawberry blonde
11-12-2009, 02:40 AM
Sending you all :grouphug:. I hope everything works out for you.

wideeyes
11-12-2009, 01:24 PM
:grouphug: for you and your little boy.

wils
11-12-2009, 03:20 PM
oh my goodness you never get more than a week 'off' do you.

Thinking of you all and sending hugs

jackieleanne
11-12-2009, 04:17 PM
So sorry to hear of your sad news. Sending big hugs :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: to you and your family. Hope everything works out.

buzz for boys
11-12-2009, 04:42 PM
Thank you so much everyone an i want to send a :hug: back to everyone of you. I have had an influx of messages to my inbox and I am working my way through them all so please be patient with me !!

Today the other 3 children had to go and see play specialists and be prepared for whats going to happen to Cam and how he will look whenhe gets out of theatre and the hardest part was hearing them tell my 3 yr old all about heaven and how people in heaven still look after and watch over us she just smiled at them and said ok can i play with your barbie house and rambled on about ho ho ho.
The strangest part for me is that normally i cry a river every hospital trip but the last 2 days ive not cried at all and I just cant give up on him !!!
We asked for the percentages today of the op going to plan an cam coming back out of theatre and the consultant said 50/50 well thats quite good for us we are long overdue a change in luck and im just holding onto the hope that we are in the good 50%
Forgive me for lowering the mood of this forum but im shocked at how lovely some of the pms are and I hope one day to meet you all face to face
Louise x

Tinks1984
11-12-2009, 04:47 PM
Oh Louise, you're a brave, brave lady :hug: And as for your little boy, well there are no words to describe the courage he has.

I hope and prey that the 50% you describe is on your sides with regards to Cameron's operation :hug:

Take care you guys :flower3:

Pegasus928
11-12-2009, 05:16 PM
Louise you have so much courage :hug: I doubt I would even have the strength to post if I had to deal with what you are going through.

Sending much love and best wishes to all of your family :grouphug::grouphug::wizard::wizard:

Mrs Pegasus

buzz for boys
11-12-2009, 05:38 PM
Louise you have so much courage :hug: I doubt I would even have the strength to post if I had to deal with what you are going through.

Sending much love and best wishes to all of your family :grouphug::grouphug::wizard::wizard:

Mrs Pegasus

Im so not courageous !!
Posting on here as just kind of become theraputic i can type all the things that I cant actually say to family or friends and if any of them ever saw my posts they would be shocked by just how honest I am about my feelings and how my brave face diminishes on here !!!
All hugs gratefully received !!
Louise x

CustardTart
11-12-2009, 06:10 PM
I don't know what to say, Louise - any words seem so inadequate. I am just so sorry for what you and your family are going thro' - all I can do is send you pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: and :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug:... Hun, I hope and pray Cam gets through this...

Karen xxxx

Ware Bears
11-12-2009, 06:15 PM
I don't know what to say either but I'll send you loads of :hug: :hug: :hug: and :wizard: :wizard: :wizard:

jen_uk
11-12-2009, 06:20 PM
I can't imagine what you must be going through :hug: Like everyone else I just don't know what to say, I will be keeping you all in my thoughts and sending lots of luck and hugs to you :wizard: :wizard: :hug: :hug:

buzz for boys
11-13-2009, 07:19 AM
Cam has a day offf from the hospital today and I was astounded when he asked to go into school :scared1: He has toddled off into school today and they are giving him his eyedrops every 2 hours instead of me and Im a little bit lost !! The kid is amazing only thing is with him at school i have no exciuse for not doing my housework :laundy:

wideeyes
11-13-2009, 07:25 AM
:wizard::wizard: you are very brave, hugs to you & your family.

mandymouse
11-13-2009, 07:39 AM
Cam has a day offf from the hospital today and I was astounded when he asked to go into school :scared1: He has toddled off into school today and they are giving him his eyedrops every 2 hours instead of me and Im a little bit lost !! The kid is amazing only thing is with him at school i have no exciuse for not doing my housework :laundy:

:hug: Aww bless him, he is amazing

Try and enjoy a day of normality hun :thumbsup2

higgy66
11-13-2009, 11:19 AM
Just catching up - Can't believe what a dreadful time you're having.

I'm a bit speachless as to what to so but I believe in miracles and I'm praying for you all and hope everything improves so that the op can go ahead and Cam comes out of it Ok.

:hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:

wicket2005
11-13-2009, 12:29 PM
Louise sending you and yours lots of hugs and pixie dust. Hope everything goes well and thinking of you.

thelittlemermaid83
11-13-2009, 12:58 PM
:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

scottish mum
11-13-2009, 02:16 PM
I'm another one that doesn't know what to say but I will be praying that everything goes well for your little boy. He seems a fighter. :wizard::wizard::wizard::wizard: good luck to you all in the coming weeks

tennisfan
11-13-2009, 02:23 PM
I can't even imagine what you are going through. I really hope that everything works out for you all:hug:

Pegasus928
11-13-2009, 08:35 PM
Cam is such a trooper - what a star :)

Mrs Pegasus

joolz1910
11-14-2009, 05:25 AM
You are in my thoughts.:hug:

buzz for boys
11-14-2009, 05:29 AM
I have to share the good news with you guys !! Cam has been re asssessed and we believe that the infection is becoming under control and we are going to just continue wth eye drops now !!! Its still swoleen an sore an a little bit gunky but its such fantastic news for me that we can put just eye drops in at HOME until the 14th !!
It feels a bit weird this morning to now we are counting down the days to the op but that in the meantime we can carry on as normal !!!
Messes with your head but we are going to enjoy the weekend now and hope and pray that it stays like this until 14th x
Maybe all the :wizard: is paying off after all now all we need is the miracle that means he doesnt have to have this op after all !!
I always want something more dont I ??

Tammy Stringer
11-14-2009, 05:40 AM
I always want something more dont I ??

I'm so pleased for you Buzzy!

As for wanting more - I think you deserve more A lot more.

Kev

Muscateer
11-14-2009, 05:41 AM
Maybe all the :wizard: is paying off after all now all we need is the miracle that means he doesnt have to have this op after all !!
I always want something more dont I ??

Well if there is any family that can ask for more its you and yours. Some good news for you at last.

Enjoy your weekend after an awful stressful and upsetting week.

Kevin Stringer
11-14-2009, 05:42 AM
Rats! Posted as Tam again. Never mind, I'm sure she echoes my sentiments.

Kev

buzz for boys
11-14-2009, 05:52 AM
Rats! Posted as Tam again. Never mind, I'm sure she echoes my sentiments.

Kev

you always make me chuckle Kev :rotfl:

Pinky166
11-14-2009, 05:56 AM
:cool1: Thats fab news Louise!


We will all continue....I was going to say spreading the pixie dust over you but in your case I think we need to dump it by the lorry load. ;)


pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust:

natalielongstaff
11-14-2009, 06:01 AM
Great news Louise :cool1: so pleased

Tinks1984
11-14-2009, 06:21 AM
Yey...I'm so pleased that maybe the pixie dust is paying off for you all...

Have a lovely weekend together :hug:
:wizard: :wizard: :wizard: :wizard: :wizard: :wizard:

buzz for boys
11-14-2009, 06:24 AM
:cool1: Thats fab news Louise!


We will all continue....I was going to say spreading the pixie dust over you but in your case I think we need to dump it by the lorry load. ;)


pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust: pixiedust:

:rotfl2::rotfl2::rotfl2:
Thank you x x x

jackieleanne
11-14-2009, 07:00 AM
So pleased that things seem to be looking up for you. :hug: and more :wizard::wizard::wizard::wizard::wizard: for you all.

Pinky166
11-14-2009, 07:41 AM
:rotfl2::rotfl2::rotfl2:
Thank you x x x

Glad you're still smiling hun. You are amazing! :worship:

florida sun
11-14-2009, 07:46 AM
Great news Louise, so pleased for you all:goodvibes:goodvibes

strawberry blonde
11-14-2009, 08:01 AM
Fantastic news. :wizard: :hug:

Cam certainly is a little fighter. Keeping fingers and everything else crossed for you.

pixiedust:pixiedust:pixiedust:

wicket2005
11-14-2009, 09:19 AM
The power of positive thought.

pixiedust:pixiedust:pixiedust:pixiedust:pixiedust: pixiedust:pixiedust:pixiedust:

Sending you lots of pixiedust and hope things continue to improve. Remember miracles can happen.

:hug:

tennisfan
11-14-2009, 09:28 AM
Great news Louise:woohoo::wizard:

poppie123
11-14-2009, 10:46 AM
Fantastic news, i am so pleased :goodvibes

joolz1910
11-14-2009, 01:31 PM
That is such good news. :goodvibes

wideeyes
11-14-2009, 01:53 PM
That is such great news, more:wizard::wizard::wizard:

CHEK
11-14-2009, 02:51 PM
Great news, hope your having a great weekend pixiedust:pixiedust:pixiedust:pixiedust:pixiedust: pixiedust:pixiedust:pixiedust:pixiedust:pixiedust: pixiedust:pixiedust:pixiedust:pixiedust:pixiedust: pixiedust:pixiedust: