Travelling with Chicken Pox

[cap'njack.]

Anyone had any experience of policy for Chicken Pox on ferry's?

Kacee has come out in them, 6 days before we go to DLRP!!!

[DLPdaft]

:scared1: I have no experience with ferries, hope someone can reassure you it'll be okay.

Welcome back - I've missed you posting :)

[mommy2ash]

oh no thats awful jon sorry ash hasnt had them yet so i dont know. im sure there was a discussion before about chicken pox on a plane. would the rules be the same. check the period of time they are contagious you should be ok after that and maybe get a note off your doctor

[britchic4]

I don't know about ferry policy but they are contagious until the spots scab over, so if they were still contagious when you go to DLRP it might not be the best place to be. I would say if he has them now they will likely be scabbed over in 6 days but I'm not sure. Bear in mind though that his brother may well get them....hope not, as he's so little.

[Tillybud]

oh no, what a nightmare ! I know planes have rules but I'm not sure about ferries ? Sorry I can't give any advice although I can offer a chicken pox tip, having a bath in bicarb of soda can take the heat out of them and help with the itching (as well as all the usuals like calamine lotion, etc) get well soon little fella

[cap'njack.]

Welcome back - I've missed you posting :)

Thanks :goodvibes

I don't know about ferry policy but they are contagious until the spots scab over, so if they were still contagious when you go to DLRP it might not be the best place to be. I would say if he has them now they will likely be scabbed over in 6 days but I'm not sure. Bear in mind though that his brother may well get them....hope not, as he's so little.

That's really what we are worried about is Macklyn getting them too.

I wonder if DLRP would stop kids going in if they had chicken pox? I think Kacee will be ok but I'm guessing that Macklyn will get it too

[scald]

If you are worried about the small fella, have a word with your GP. they can prescribe Zovirax liquid, which greatly diminishes the outbreak. When my son got them last year, he was prescribed this and it really sped up the healing process, although I feel they will be sufficiently scabbed over not to cause you a problem. We had a prescription for myself and my daughter also, so as soon as we showed signs we took it and our infections were very mild as a result.

Oh yes, and try to get Eurax cream or lotion, this is excellent for stopping teh itch.

[britchic4]

The infectious period is generally from a week before the spots till about 5 days after or until they scab over. My son's school has a policy of 7 days absence from when the spots appear. But of course they've been in school contagious for a week beforehand, nothing anyone can do about that.
My experience, and that of most families I know, is that the second child gets it within about 2 weeks of the first one. I hope Macklyn doesn't get it, but I do know young babies who have had it and actually it has been OK.
Don't know if you already have some but Piriton Syrup is great for easing the itching.

[thelittlemermaid83]

Have you rung the ferry company to enquire?

[cap'njack.]

Have you rung the ferry company to enquire?

Nope, I'm worried what they will say :lmao:

[thelittlemermaid83]

Nope, I'm worried what they will say :lmao:

:rotfl2:


You could always travel by Eurotunnel instead?

[cap'njack.]

:rotfl2:


You could always travel by Eurotunnel instead?

That's one of our backup plans, along with changing the ferry to the evening and using lots of foundation :rotfl:

[thelittlemermaid83]

That's one of our backup plans, along with changing the ferry to the evening and using lots of foundation :rotfl:

:rotfl2::rotfl2:

I really want Kyra to catch it so can you bring Kacee round for a few hours :lmao:

[Tillybud]

:rotfl2::rotfl2:

I really want Kyra to catch it so can you bring Kacee round for a few hours :lmao:

:rotfl: lol !! although I know what you mean, dd has not had it yet and I think the sooner she has it, the sooner its gone and done with !!!!!!!!!

[karengr]

just to let you know if you buy Aqueous cream that has calamine lotion already in it then it doesnt make the spots so itchy.Calamine lotion on its own is good but makes the skin tight around the spots causing even more itchness also the aqueous will not give you so many scars afterwards.

He should be alright for travelling as it is a few days off yet and the younger one may be unwell but probably not for another 10-14 days.

My daughter is home with me today as she has the viral infection from the chicken pox that is going round the school both my kids had chicken pox 4 years ago my son first then 2 weeks later my daughter then 2 weeks after that we flew to florida.
hope he is feeling better soon:love:

[Cyrano]

Nice to see you back Capn although shame it is not under better circumstances.

Chicken Pox is transmitted through an airborne virus but as others have stated once the scabs crust over Kacee should no longer be contagious. Travel carriers might not accept this so it may be wise to arrange to have a GP letter should you have a problem.

Macklyn may show signs of catching chicken pox 9 - 21 days after Kacee was at the infectious stage. So think that he may be your greatest worry.

Hope everyone and everything turns out okay :grouphug:

[Lisa_C]

I've rushed on here as I'm a little in the know due to my preschool teaching......so here goes :-)

First off C.P is infectious 10 days before the spots come out so in theroy anyone that has had contact with Kacee and not had them can get them. They are contagious until the LAST spot has scabbed over, then it's ok for them to mix with others. Piriton is good for relieving the itch, as it MEDISED which is paracetamol based (so no mixing with any other type of paracetamol suspension, but Nurofen is fine) and also contains an ingredient to help them sleep and is often recommended for C.P.

As for your little one, he is very young and while it's not uncommon for small babies to get it, rarely those under six months actually do. Exposure can help build up a natural immunity and children in a family with C.P very rarely develop shingles in latter life too.

My daughter had C.P and only came out in four spots! I breast fed her for the first year which helped :-) But when Kacee has not had a spot appear for two days on the trot then it is showing signs of clearing up. As long as all the spots showing appear to have scabs then you can't infect anyone. It's usually around ten days after the first spot has surfaced, but eowyn was "clear" after 5.

Pregnant women at certain stages of pregnancy can develop, shingles but all pregnant women will tell you they stay away from anything remotely looking like a "disease" lol.

So fingers crossed you will be ok, I very much doubt that anyone will check to see if your child has spots when you board the ferry, but as you say, you just want peace of mind.

I wouldn't worry as it's a common childhood thing and I bet you there are a few more kids on the ferry with far nastier germs (lol)

Lisa x

And as Cyrano pointed out, siblings will show signs around two-three weeks later. My daughter however took six weeks to show up!!

[charlottek1980]

Sorry can't really give you any advice with what to do, but just wanted to say that my daughter got chickenpox at 4 weeks old! My eldest daughter came out with chickenpox the day after my youngest was born, then 2 weeks later all 3 boys within 3 days, then 2 weeks later my little baby got them! She also had shingles last november at 16 months.

As others have said, they are contagious until the last spot has crusted over, my lot varied from 3 days to a week after the first spot appeared that they were tcrusted over, but they took up to a month for all the scabs to disappear so be prepared for funny looks from people for taking your 'ill' child out, lol.

Also, I definately recommend the aqueous calomine cream, so much better than the lotion.

[britchic4]

The rules on Medised have changed and they now won't sell it for a child under 6. lots of medication rules have recently. I was recently recommended by the GP to get Sudafed for my 4 yr old daughter only for the pharmacist to refuse to sell it to me. But it's the antihistamine which helps in the itching, which is why the hayfever medication available in syrup form is useful for chickenpox.

[Lisa_C]

Hmmm, no one told me about the updated info on Medised :confused3 I wonder why not as usually we have monthly updates as to what we can and can not give the children, though we usually recommend a parent administers pain relief etc as we have to make sure we've got adequate insurance to give a child any meds????

I better check this out! Thank s :thumbsup2

QUICK UPDATE : The "rule" changes are here :
http://www.nhs.uk/news/2009/02February/Pages/Childcoldflumedicines.aspx

[nightrider68]

We travelled on a ferry a few years ago with one of three having chicken pox (not to DLRP though) - we made her wear a hooded jacket and kept it up
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Also spent a lot of the journey on the outside deck !
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Not sure whether DLRP have any procedure for spotty children.

[thelittlemermaid83]

The rules on Medised have changed and they now won't sell it for a child under 6. lots of medication rules have recently. I was recently recommended by the GP to get Sudafed for my 4 yr old daughter only for the pharmacist to refuse to sell it to me. But it's the antihistamine which helps in the itching, which is why the hayfever medication available in syrup form is useful for chickenpox.

Really? I was recently able to buy this is boots for DD when she wasnt very well.

[britchic4]

Really? I was recently able to buy this is boots for DD when she wasnt very well.

It was effective some time in April I think, so the pharmacist should have asked how old the child was and refused when you told her/him. Lots of the cold/cough medicines have changed too, in fact there are very few cough medicines left for an under 6 yr old. Calpol and Nurofen are still fine though.

[petentaz]

May I suggest that you do a few things.

Firstly speak to the Ferry Company (as others suggested) stress that he should be over the period where it is contagious.

Secondly visit the doctor to obtain a letter to state that they are now not contagious. This may smooth your passage when if stopped and questions. It is always better to have it with you and not use it, rather than be stopped.

Thirdly taking Calpol (or any paracetamol based medicine) along with a Brufen based medicine may help. Try giving them at slightly different times will have a longer effect.

However on a slightly lighter note, my son had Chicken Pox when he was young. He was covered in spots apart from an area on his check. This was then known as his "kissing spot" as it was the only spot we could kiss him goodnight with out hurting him.

A few days later his sister came out in spots, but she only had 7 spots on her whole body.

By the way I might have this wrong but bicarbinate of soda in the bath helps heal the spots and stop some of the pain and itching. (Its an old wifes tale but it seemed to work for us)

Pete n Taz

[PoppyAnna]

You might just get away with it. Although it's likely your youngest child will be contageous but not show the signs. This may seems a silly question, but is your child well enough to go? my two were pretty poorly with it when we had it all over christmas 2005, youngest DD was just three months old:sick: luckily they didn't get loads of spots like you see some children and I was offended at the time by unintelligent family members (themselves with small children) that wouldn't come around even two weeks after. Be warned that if your youngest is under one and doesn't get it badly then they can get it again in the future. Are you still noticing new spots each day? It's usually 5-7 days after you notice that there are no new spots.

Prepare yourself for some questions and enquiring looks though, although you may know your child is okay, if my girls hadn't had it, I'd be pretty peeved if I thought somebody had taken their contageous child to DLRP. It's one souvenir I wouldn't want to go back home (and to school) with. What if you come into contact with pregnant women?

As for treatment, we found calomine lotion made the itching worse (I also remember this from when I had CP in my 20's) we stuck to Oilatum in the bath and the occasional dose of Piriton (eldest child only).

Best of luck to you:thumbsup2

[PJackson]

Oh no!

My DDs have just had this in Feb & March this year. And what most say is pretty right - it took 5 days for DD's spots to stop appearing and then another 2 days or so for them to completely scab over. He will have lots of scabs by the time you go - my DDs still had scabs (partic the baby) 5-6 weeks later in places!

Defo correct about Medised and I have to be honest and say I'm surprised any preschool would administer a medicine as strong as Medised to little ones - I would have thought Calpol would be the norm? Medised is very strong stuff (and yes I have used it on my DD1 before the rules were changed but would be cautious now) - it can easily knock out children/almost drug them and cause hallucinations - one of the reasons it was stopped for under 6s....

Also, just a watch out, if Macklyn does get it you are v limited to what you can give him - he can only have Calpol (if over 3 months) on a regular basis I believe - no piriton (antihistamine) under 1 years so he may be pretty off with it tbh. My DD2 was 9 months when she got it (exactly 2 weeks after DD1) and tbh she was v uncomfortable when she itched - we had nights of hardly any sleep as she just couldn't sleep with being uncomfortable :( In the end the out of hours Doctor said to give her a half dose of piriton but only because she is a big baby (more like 15/16 months at the time!).

I don't mean to scare you Jon, CP is really not always that bad, but I've just had a friend whose DD was hospitalised with it (she is 2.5 yrs) - her spots got infected and it turned v v nasty indeed. My DDs both also got infected spots - had to have antibiotic cream from GP to help - fortunately I caught it quickly.

They are looking to possibly vaccinate against CP in this country - maybe try your HV and see if they could vaccinate Macklyn - I know you can pay and have this done privately but I believe it doesn't give 100% protection (Bit like single MMR jabs)... may lessen any CP if he does get it.

As a Mum, I was honestly never too worried about CP but having had both my DDs get it earlier this year and having experienced what we went through, I honestly would not have put my child through a trip abroad at the time unless they were well over it - I found day 4/5 the worst with both girls....

What awful timing for you - I guess you'll just have to see how it goes :( I would have thought you could cancel on your insurance though if need be. Not what you want to do I'm sure, but if Macklyn does get it when you are away and he turns out to be quite ill..... You really can never tell.

PS - I was told by my GP and lots of other people that DD2 probably wouldn't get it as she was breastfed and under 1's tend not to get it - she still got it and quite badly (was told it would be mild!)....

Good luck with it all! It's an awful decision to make! :confused:

[Rachie B]

Sorry can't really give you any advice with what to do, but just wanted to say that my daughter got chickenpox at 4 weeks old! My eldest daughter came out with chickenpox the day after my youngest was born, then 2 weeks later all 3 boys within 3 days, then 2 weeks later my little baby got them! She also had shingles last november at 16 months.
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oh poor thing ! :(
that it quite rare for so young

Jon :( I hope you can still get to go & hope the baby doesn't suffer too much if / when he gets them

x

[cap'njack.]

Thanks for all of your advice everyone :lovestruc

I've spoken to the ferry company and they say that Kacee will be fine to travel however they aren't sure about Mackyln because he could/is contagious.

I'm really in two minds as to weather or not to cancel the holiday. Our insurance would be next to useless as the ferry cost was £38 and the holiday was a Sun £9.50 offer so that was only £38 too.

I'm currently thinking of going, but giving DLRP a miss if Macklyn does come out in spots.

If Kacee has scabbed over and Macklyn isn't showing any signs of CP then it would be no different than going to DLRP at anyother time, literally hundereds of the kids at DLRP could be contagious, just not showing.

It's kind of a moral dilemma. Do I take Macklyn knowing that he may be infectious, or do I not take him just incase he is??????

[mommy2ash]

that is such a tough call i honestly cant say what i would do. i wouldnt want to pass on the chicken pox to anyone but i wouldnt want to ruin my holiday and then turn out that he didnt have them at all

[dixonsontour]

We were in Florida when my DD then 23months got chickenpox!

She came out in spots the friday when we were supposed to fly home the saturday. Airline said she couldn't fly for 7 days after spots appeared and we needed a fit to fly letter. (oh the hardship another 7 days in Florida!)

She was poorly for a few days but then we did start venturing out, when she was fully scabbed over(not infectious)

I think the problem is the risk of your younger child getting it.

My MIL/FIL took my twin nieces to Gran canaria a few years ago. First niece got it so they were delayed a week, second niece got it another week then FIL got shingles another week unable to fly - I think a weeks hol ended up 5 weeks! We thought it was hilarious until it happened to us...

Obviously we had been in Florida with Anna infectious - we just didn't know it until the spots appeared.

As long as Kacee is scabbed over (not infectious) and the baby is not showing any signs I would go.

[thelittlemermaid83]

It was effective some time in April I think, so the pharmacist should have asked how old the child was and refused when you told her/him. Lots of the cold/cough medicines have changed too, in fact there are very few cough medicines left for an under 6 yr old. Calpol and Nurofen are still fine though.

No-one asked anything...weird. You would of thought Boots would of been on the ball.

[dixonsontour]

Just to add if you do go with a 'scabby' child be prepared for stares! Obviously most people see the spots and think they are infectious...

People can be very rude we found - demanding th know if DD had chickenpox...I was like a stuck record she is not infectious...

I think it was worse in USA as they vaccinate against it so they are not used to it.

DD had picked hers up from nursery the fri before we left so it had taken a full 14 days to show up...

[PJackson]

Gosh that is a hard one - I suppose at least it hasn't cost you 100s for the trip. It's really Macklyn that is the issue now.

Jon, imho, if it were me and knowing how ill my DD2 was (she was 9 mths as I said earlier) because we couldn't give her anything, make her comfortable, I personally wouldn't go - there is a risk because Macklyn is so small, if he does come out with it over there he could be v poorly, however, on the reverse he could be just fine and just get one or two spots? :confused3 Having said that, before my two actually had, had the pox I probably would have thought we'd be fine!!

I had to use the emergency (out of hours) GP service twice in the night when DD2 was ill and also the GP during the day for trearment for the infected spots - she said they got infected because they were on the underside of her arms and everytime we lifted her (tried all ways to avoid!) they kept getting 'disturbed' so got infected :( They were quite nasty and obviously sore/v hot etc.

It really is a tough call but with a baby so young it is a big risk. Watch, he'll probably not even get it tho and if you did cancel it could be for nothing - you need to get your crystal ball out ! ;)

[britchic4]

It is a hard one. I felt awful sending my DS to school when DD got it, as I knew he might come down with it too, but I couldn't keep him off school just in case he got it. He'd been in contact with it at nursery twice before and not got it so I sent him. He did get it and after him a big portion of the class got it.
DD was mostly OK but DS was really quite poorly and I certainly wouldn't have wanted to be in DLRP. He really couldn't do much but lie on the sofa. So with that experience in mind I probably wouldn't go, but that doesn't mean Macklyn is going to get it badly of course, or even at all!

[ToastedTeapot]

I think you're right, it's a moral dilemma. We're off on Friday, taking my 20m old son who hasn't had CP, and I'm pregnant again. You're right, there could be scores of children at DLP whilst we're there who are infectious but their parents don't know, but I'd be furious if a parent knowingly took their child during the incubation period and infected us (although, who would admit to doing this? realistically I'd never know)

A friend's twins had CP a few months ago. The first one had had them a week (all scabbed over) by the time they were due to go on holiday, but because the second was in the incubation period they didn't go (they claimed on TI). As it was, the second twin came out with his first spot on the day they'd been due to come home (3w after the first twin's first spot) which means they wouldn't have had questions or anything on the plane, but I think it's a conscience thing.

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[Lisa_C]

It is a very hard decision on what to do for the best. Did the parent of the child who had the original case warn you they had CP? Or do you know where they picked it up from at all?? To be honest, I wouldn't be angry if my child came back from DLP after being infected, I'd be more angry if they got it just before (as you have) and ruined my break for me!

I would be, as other posters have said, more worried about Macklyn. I know others have mentioned that they have known babies to catch CP but it also works the other way. It's the high temperature etc before the spots come out that I think is the most worrying.

Maybe you should consult your TI as I know mine states that if you knowingly travel with a sick person in your party then you are responsible for any medical costs incurred etc. Just make sure you are covered.

[ToastedTeapot]

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[cap'njack.]

Kacee caught it from Nursery and I knew he would do as there was a child there three weeks ago who obviously had CP but the parents kept saying that it was just a viral infection.

I've called my insurance company and as Macklyn shows no sign of any infection then we would be ok to travel if Kacee has scabbed over as we have no way of knowing if Macklyn actually has CP or not, so we are covered in that respect.

I think it'll be a wait until Saturday night and then make the decision from there as to how the boys both are.

I'm also not adverse to going on the holiday but staying away from DLRP. Maybe we could do that instead and visit Paris and Versailles???

[britchic4]

While of course you shouldn't take your child where there are other children or pregnant women when you know they are infectious, ie when they have the spots whichaven't yet scabbed, nobody should feel guilty that they carried on a normal life in the period before the spots come out, when you have no idea they are infectious. It wasn't inevitable Kacee would get it, both my children and I'm sure lots of others here have 'survived' outbreaks at nursery without getting it.
As long as Macklyn doesn't show signs of having it before you go, the main issue really is would you want to be away from home - and presumably in a small caravan? - if he did get it?

[PoppyAnna]

Kacee caught it from Nursery and I knew he would do as there was a child there three weeks ago who obviously had CP but the parents kept saying that it was just a viral infection.


:headache::headache: That makes me cross.

I hope everything pans out for you - fingers crossed:)

[cap'njack.]

Indeed no-one should feel guilty about living life before they know about it. That statement is the one which is almost convincing me that if Kacee has healed over and Macklyn isn't showing signs then we should take our holiday as planned as neither child will have anything obvioulsy wrong with them.

I got a little dissapointed by the parents reluctance to take the child out of nursery once the CP was confirmed, infact Kacee went in while having a few spots that looked like heat rash, but as soon as they were obviously CP he was straight out of there.

[Lisa_C]

Indeed no-one should feel guilty about living life before they know about it. That statement is the one which is almost convincing me that if Kacee has healed over and Macklyn isn't showing signs then we should take our holiday as planned as neither child will have anything obvioulsy wrong with them.

I got a little dissapointed by the parents reluctance to take the child out of nursery once the CP was confirmed, infact Kacee went in while having a few spots that looked like heat rash, but as soon as they were obviously CP he was straight out of there.


Once CP is confirmed the nursery should've stopped the child going - that's terrible!! And I seriously think that if Macklyn shows no signs and Kacee is comfortable then I personally would go.....and do DLP. Sure bab could come out with it, but as your TI have already said if he shows no signs then it's ok then I'd take that as a :thumbsup2

If anyone gives Kacee a bad stare teach him to smile politely. And you can give an evil grin and think "tag, you're it" :rotfl2:

CP is common, it's not something we like to get but it happens. Please don't let it stop your enjoyment of your trip. Anyway, my son (who's 13) laughs when he remembers how his hair was itching his face......then took a pair of scissors to it and er, restyled it. I say it's best to get it while you are young.

[scampbunny]

oooh john, it is hard to decide, but think ur doing the best.
no one can guarantee u anything, so, if kacee is ok and scabbed, then u shud continue.....
with my 2, fin got it just before christmas and only had a few spots, and they healed quick, it took cay nearly 3 wks to come out properly, he wud get one spot, then nothing more for 2 days, then he errupted!!! that was his 1st birthday - full chicken pox!!!
BUT, neither were off colour, or seemed bother by the spots, i did give pirton, and occ calamine, but tbh it was almost a waste!!! they were fine.

it really is hit n miss, i wud be inclined to think macklyn will not come out (if at all) until after ur back, and sumtimes there is a poss he is still carrying immunity from ellie - so he might not even get it!!!

keep us posted & will be sending lots of healing and drying up spots thoughts ur way!

[ToastedTeapot]

I do understand what you're saying, and don't want to ruin your holiday, but this link says that as one of your children has it, and the other hasn't, there's a 90% chance of passing it on

(sorry I don't have enough posts to add a link, it's the Sanofi Pasteur MD site, search for CP)

Therefore you ARE in the incubation period, and a danger to pregnant women, immunosupressed people and children who haven't had the disease. Yes, he might not get it, but 90% v 10% is pretty poor odds.

[ScottishThistle]

I do understand what you're saying, and don't want to ruin your holiday, but this link says that as one of your children has it, and the other hasn't, there's a 90% chance of passing it on

(sorry I don't have enough posts to add a link, it's the Sanofi Pasteur MD site, search for CP)

Therefore you ARE in the incubation period, and a danger to pregnant women, immunosupressed people and children who haven't had the disease. Yes, he might not get it, but 90% v 10% is pretty poor odds.

I agree totally, I'm afraid. Yes, there could be plenty of people out there who are in the incubation period without knowing but I couldn't knowingly go somewhere with the knowledge that I could potentially cause a child to become ill or endanger a pregnant woman and her child. You were understandably upset that the child who passed it on continued to go to nursery despite knowing they had chickenpox but you'd potentially be doing the same to someone else.

I know it's a rotten thought to have to cancel your holiday but for me, I wouldn't risk anything other than that option. At the very least your little 'un will be ill and miserable which isn't fair on him or any of the family as you won't be able to enjoy your holiday. At the worst, someone who has a weakened immune system or is pregnant becomes seriously ill. I just couldn't settle and enjoy my holiday knowing that risk is there.

I know it's probably not what you want to hear and that you'll probably go anyway but just my tuppence worth :)

[Dianetigger]

Good luck with your decision John, I'd be inclined to go if Kacee's spots have all scabbed over and Macklyn doesn't show any signs. My middle daughter actually went through two outbreaks of this at school (including her older sister getting it) and didn't come down with it. Then three months after the last outbreak she started with it! My older daughter suffered very badly with it but my other two had very mild cases, so mild in fact that last year DD2 came down with it again.

[cap'njack.]

I am really thankfull for everyone's input on this.

I'm still 50-50 on going. I'm going to go to the doctors on Saturday and see what he says about the chance of Macklyn getting it as that's what it rests on.

I understand what people are saying about knowingly infecting others but does that mean that we should stay indoors for the next 4 weeks incase he is infectious?

I just wish that there were signs before the actual chicken pox!!

[Jeccaboos]

My daughter has been through 3 really bad rounds of Chickenpox - twice at nursery and once at school - and has still not caught them. Her best friend - who she holds hands with, shares drinks with and all the child stuff - got them really badly but she didn't at all and neither did she catch them when my son got them. I would say though that she did show signs of having the infection - the runny nose, headaches, aches and pains - but just no spots.

It's not a foregone conclusion that just because Kacee has them, Macklyn will automatically get them. And it is sods law - you know if you cancel your holiday that Macklyn won't get them, and if you go he will.

[charlottek1980]

oh poor thing ! :(
that it quite rare for so young


x

I know! Luckily the chickenpox was only mild, about 10 spots, but as she was born 4.5 weeks early it was worrying as she was still quite tiny. The shingles was a total shock, i took her to the doctors thinking it was excema as my other daughter suffers from it, only to be told by a very shocked doctor that it was shingles!

[tttessa]

Hiya -
the way I see it, it is Chickenpox "season" here in the UK, so anyone who has not had CP who goes anywhere there are kids could potentially be infectious right now....
I work in a school and the class I am in (5/6 yrs old) has had 3 off in the last 2 weeks, we expect more.... I don't think you can stop life because someone might be infectious. If they feel ill or get spots then don't go , if not I don't think it is unreasonable to go.

Tessa

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I haven't read through the whole post, so sorry if I'm repeating what's already been said, but if you remember, we had this problem in January (but we were flying). The airline told me that if we could get a letter from the doctor to say that she wasn't contagious we'd be fine to travel. Unfortunately for us we couldn't get one as it was over New Year hols (but we did get there).

I was also told that scabbing over takes around 5-6 days, although it depends on the number and severity of spots. If he's not got many you might be lucky, but I'd definitely get a docs appointment and contact your insurance company just to let them know what's going on. Mine were extremely helpful and told us that if we couldn't get on the plane just to get a note from the airline and we would be covered ;)

Good luck, I know what a nightmare and a worry it is, so I hope you get it sorted either so you get there or you get your money back.

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I agree totally, I'm afraid. Yes, there could be plenty of people out there who are in the incubation period without knowing but I couldn't knowingly go somewhere with the knowledge that I could potentially cause a child to become ill or endanger a pregnant woman and her child. You were understandably upset that the child who passed it on continued to go to nursery despite knowing they had chickenpox but you'd potentially be doing the same to someone else.

I know it's a rotten thought to have to cancel your holiday but for me, I wouldn't risk anything other than that option. At the very least your little 'un will be ill and miserable which isn't fair on him or any of the family as you won't be able to enjoy your holiday. At the worst, someone who has a weakened immune system or is pregnant becomes seriously ill. I just couldn't settle and enjoy my holiday knowing that risk is there.

I know it's probably not what you want to hear and that you'll probably go anyway but just my tuppence worth :)

I tend to agree with this, but moreover when ours had the first stages of the chicken pox neither was up to running around the house, never mind a theme park.

Check with your GP, if you haven't already. And bear in mind that severe (i.e. hospitalising) chicken pox is rare but that if you head over with an already infected child/children then your holiday insurance will not cover any medical treatment.