Looks or Personality

[MonorailMan]

One of the other threads got me to thinking about making a poll. So here it is.......

What do you find more attractive in a potential partner/mate/hook-up, etc.--Looks or personality?


And don't lie. I'm not here to judge you.
Okay......maybe a little. :rolleyes1

[zeitzeuge]

Initially? I would have to say looks. Go ahead, judge. :) I'm initially attracted to someone based upon their looks. Something catches my eye, like well, a host of things I won't get into here. :rolleyes1

What keeps me around and hold my interest other then a hairy chest and facial hair ;), is their personality. If they can make me laugh, hold an inteligent conversation, not take life to seriously all the time, can be a kid when they need to, etc.....THEN I feel like I've got the whole package.

That really doesn't answer your question does it.....

[jlewisinsyr]

I think anyone who doesn't say looks matter at least on initial impressions are full of themselves. However looks rarely will keep anyone's interest on the long term. I've dated some really hot guys, but they were dumb as rocks (or played the part very well) or just emotionally absent and I just couldn't deal.

[MonorailMan]

I was just curious because whenever someone I'm dating starts the "What was the first thing you noticed about me?" game, and it's their turn, it neeeeeeeever has anything to do with my looks, which makes me feel lousy.....but I guess it shouldn't. I think it's just because I've always wanted to be hot because I'm usually considered the "weird, artsy nerd".

[TuckandStuiesMom]

Pretty doesn't last: Smart and Kind usually do...

But on the other hand , there are folks out there like Kevin McKidd -- not classically handsome but... YOWZA!!!!!

http://images.eonline.com/eol_images/Entire_Site/20081201/425.rome.mckidd.kevin.lc.120108.jpg

[Sphyrna]

It depends on the guy. Some guy's personality makes them so adorable. Others it's their looks. Ultimately I'd like someone with both. Of course beauty is in the eye of the beholder so what I consider good looks might be different from someone else. Same thing with personality. It's really about what you find attractive. However, I'd rather be with someone with OK looks that has the personality than a model with no personality. Also, some guys you might not consider good looking but by getting to know them and their personality they become attractive to you. Problem is no one normally wants to get to know someone. They all want love at first sight.

[Jeff90]

For me, its both! It has to all come together into a nice little package! Just like I met, Jon....I knew he was the one. I'm attrached to his dark features and on our 1st date, I was imediately fell in love with his personality.....(June this year, will be 6 years) Thank God for the 18 year olds that I worked with at the time that "fixed" us up....

[MAF]

Eh I'd probably go for someone not too attractive w/ no personality, but what can I say, I'm desperate...:laughing:

[DVCajun]

Hey, you didn't include chemistry. :confused3 That's super important, and can supersede both looks *and* personality!

Monorailman, I think the fact that your dates mention that they noticed something other than your looks first is a compliment. Even if you have the cutest face and bod on the planet, if you have *presence* you can draw people to you based on that alone. And I can say, having a most hot wife, that I went out of my way to appreciate her other qualities when we were getting to know one another. She has heard all of her life how beautiful she is -- I wanted her to know that I looked deeper than that and loved her for who she is. :lovestruc Ironically, I went a bit too far with that, and she ended up thinking I wasn't particularly impressed with her appearance. :confused3 Women. ;)

[unfreshdiva1]

Looks for a hook up, personality for the long haul (fortunately I lucked out with both with my guy). He makes me laugh and just thinking about him puts a smile on my face. Funny thing is that I am 6'2 and he is 5'7. I don't notice the height difference, but in photos I look like a giant! Oh well, my brother is 6'1 and his wife is 5' and they are a cute couple.:goodvibes

[Tony-NJ]

I would have to say both initially - but then looks just do not matter when your in love - or at least they shouldn;t matter ;) I know love is blind cause Chris picked me!!! :)

On another note - I've dated some real hot guys in my younger days - its funny - most of the real hot guys turned real ugly.

[Sphyrna]

Eh I'd probably go for someone not too attractive w/ no personality, but what can I say, I'm desperate...:laughing:

Hi, do you come here often? :lmao::rotfl::thumbsup2

[MonorailMan]

Pretty doesn't last: Smart and Kind usually do...


Looks never seem to "stay put". Having said that, some people (not all) look a lot better once they reach their 40s than they did in their 20s.

And then there's Joan Rivers........ :rolleyes:


Hey, you didn't include chemistry. :confused3 That's super important, and can supersede both looks *and* personality!

Monorailman, I think the fact that your dates mention that they noticed something other than your looks first is a compliment. Even if you have the cutest face and bod on the planet, if you have *presence* you can draw people to you based on that alone. And I can say, having a most hot wife, that I went out of my way to appreciate her other qualities when we were getting to know one another. She has heard all of her life how beautiful she is -- I wanted her to know that I looked deeper than that and loved her for who she is. :lovestruc Ironically, I went a bit too far with that, and she ended up thinking I wasn't particularly impressed with her appearance. :confused3 Women. ;)

Chemistry isn't usually reached until date 2 or 3. :lmao:

Thanks for mentioning this. I just want to be able to walk into a bar and have a bunch of guys look at me.....just once......just to see how nice it feels.

Hi, do you come here often? :lmao::rotfl::thumbsup2

Should I change the name of this thread into "DIS dating"? :rolleyes1

[OrlandoMike]

Looks for a date.

Personality for marriage!

Shrek and I are still amazed when we go out to eat! Many times we are the only couple talking to each other in the restaurant.....sad.

(Now granted, half of that conversation is making fun of the other people in the place!) :lmao:

[Damian]

Funny thing is that I am 6'2 and he is 5'7.

I know that feeling - I'm 5'8 and my other half's 6'3 and built like a rugby player!

[wallyb]

What about the other "thing" that counts...
What's in their pants.
Not not that ...the cash in their wallet. :lovestruc

Oh :rolleyes1 and that other thing too. ;)

[soulmates]

I've got mixed feelings. When I first "saw" (we met online) my wife, it was her eyes that caught me. However, NOT because they were so beautiful, which they are...but because of the depth and honesty, I saw in them. We really and truely fell in love, long distance, and yup, over the phones..THOUSANDS of hours later, we met, in person. I knew more about her, over the phone, than I did my ex husband, of 10 years! Very sad to me when I realized that. There were sparks, as I'd seen pics of her..but by then, I was already hooked! So you tell me...was it looks or personality? ;) Either way, we celebrate 3 years June 6th! :yay:

[soulmates]

What about the other "thing" that counts...
What's in their pants.
Not not that ...the cash in their wallet. :lovestruc

Oh :rolleyes1 and that other thing too. ;)


Your SO naughty!! When we first met, neither one of us made alot of money. It wasn't until we got together and decided for her to move here and start a life together...that we started making money. We now own a beautiful home, travel all the time and yes, we earn great livings. I say it's because we FOUND our destiny, eachother. Now, life is amazing!! And BTW, what's in her pants, that's an added bonus!! :rotfl:

[wallyb]

BTW, what's in her pants, that's an added bonus!! :rotfl:

I love sassy girls! :lovestruc

[soulmates]

Me too!!!!! ;)

[wallyb]

Me too!!!!! ;)

I'm thinking - in entirely different ways.

[rpmdfw]

Looks for a date.

Personality for marriage!

Shrek and I are still amazed when we go out to eat! Many times we are the only couple talking to each other in the restaurant.....sad.

(Now granted, half of that conversation is making fun of the other people in the place!) :lmao:

Hey, don't knock the fun of mocking the other diners! It's the most fun part of eating out! :rotfl2:

I'd say that looks don't matter at all, but take one look at my handsome husband with his gorgeous blue eyes, and you'd all call me a liar. :rotfl2:

Eyes are a biggie for me. So is a sense of humor.

I think that it's got to be a combination of looks, personality, and chemistry. When they all match what you're looking for, WATCH OUT! It's awesome.

Which isn't to say that there is anything wrong with checking out the hotties like MonorailMan or Zeitzuege. :rolleyes1

[zeitzeuge]

Hey, don't knock the fun of mocking the other diners! It's the most fun part of eating out! :rotfl2:

I'd say that looks don't matter at all, but take one look at my handsome husband with his gorgeous blue eyes, and you'd all call me a liar. :rotfl2:

Eyes are a biggie for me. So is a sense of humor.

I think that it's got to be a combination of looks, personality, and chemistry. When they all match what you're looking for, WATCH OUT! It's awesome.

Which isn't to say that there is anything wrong with checking out the hotties like MonorailMan or Zeitzuege. :rolleyes1

I'm blushing now. Thanks sweetie. :)

[rpmdfw]

I'm blushing now. Thanks sweetie. :)

ANYtime, stud! Woof!

[OrlandoMike]

OK guys, this isn't the Parliment house! Geesh! :sad2:

Now can we talk about that cable TV I have at work? :lmao:

[wallyb]

ANYtime, stud! Woof!

Really!?! :sad2:
http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f241/wallyb3/800px-Garden_hose.jpg
The Hose - AGAIN!
:sad2:

[Disney_Villain]

I know that feeling - I'm 5'8 and my other half's 6'3 and built like a rugby player!

Hah! I'm 5' 7" with a wrestler's build and DH is 6' 2" with a swimmer's build. We make a very odd couple. I like tall guys and he likes wrestlers. This works for us.

We went for looks!

We found that having a very strong physical passion for each other - and a big love of Disney - did the trick of bonding us over the years. 15 years later (we met quite young) we're married, on our 2nd home and pouring all (er, most) of our energies and resources into DVC so that we can go visit The Happiest Places on Earth together as often as we can!

Our personalities were VERY different and over the years we've learned to adapt to each other - and to improve on our respective bad points. Personalities can be changed a bit, if a person is willing and motivated.

http://photoshare.shaw.ca/image/e/a/d/70593/preview_copyofdsc023640.jpg

[soulmates]

I'm thinking - in entirely different ways.

I know!! *wink*...you just crack me up!!:rotfl:

[wallyb]

I know!! *wink*...you just crack me up!!:rotfl:

Now if it'd only work on the Boyz.:rolleyes:
Maybe I could get a little sumpin' sumpin' going.

[SanFranciscan]

I think that we can tell a lot about a person by their looks. Have you ever noticed that some people just look friendly? They have sweet faces and look like they are just delighted to meet you, even though they haven't yet. I find that there is also a softness about people who care about other people.

[rosiep]

Pretty doesn't last: Smart and Kind usually do...

But on the other hand , there are folks out there like Kevin McKidd -- not classically handsome but... YOWZA!!!!!

http://images.eonline.com/eol_images/Entire_Site/20081201/425.rome.mckidd.kevin.lc.120108.jpg

This is too funny. Have you seen Kevin in a movie called Bedrooms and Hallways? It's a gay romp with James Purefoy who played Marc Anthony...They're both so cute.

As to MM's question....Looks. Yup, It wasn't James' big heart that first attracted me to him.....:rolleyes1

[rpmdfw]

I have to say, I'm a Kevin McKidd fan myself. Something about him is very appealing. I watched Journeyman last season, pretty much just because of him, and I'm loving his work in Grey's Anatomy this season.

[mikelan6]

I want someone with good looks AND personality ... oh and after what I just went through ... someone HONEST!!

[soulmates]

Now if it'd only work on the Boyz.:rolleyes:
Maybe I could get a little sumpin' sumpin' going.


I'm QUITE certain, your charms works on Boyz!!;)

[NHdisneylover]

I was just curious because whenever someone I'm dating starts the "What was the first thing you noticed about me?" game, and it's their turn, it neeeeeeeever has anything to do with my looks, which makes me feel lousy.....but I guess it shouldn't. I think it's just because I've always wanted to be hot because I'm usually considered the "weird, artsy nerd".

Maybe they are just afraid of seeming shallow if they admit your looks atracted them:confused3 I often found the "artsy nerd" look attractive (yes really):goodvibes
Looks for a hook up, personality for the long haul (fortunately I lucked out with both with my guy). He makes me laugh and just thinking about him puts a smile on my face. Funny thing is that I am 6'2 and he is 5'7. I don't notice the height difference, but in photos I look like a giant! Oh well, my brother is 6'1 and his wife is 5' and they are a cute couple.:goodvibes

Yeah my DH is 6'5" and I am 5'5" I KNOW there is a huge difference but I never really noticed much. Now, DD12 is an inch taller than I am and I see how short she looks next to DH and it really hits me that i look even tinier next to him--we must look ridiculous:rotfl:

Hey, don't knock the fun of mocking the other diners! It's the most fun part of eating out! :rotfl2:

I'd say that looks don't matter at all, but take one look at my handsome husband with his gorgeous blue eyes, and you'd all call me a liar. :rotfl2:

Eyes are a biggie for me. So is a sense of humor.

I think that it's got to be a combination of looks, personality, and chemistry. When they all match what you're looking for, WATCH OUT! It's awesome.

Which isn't to say that there is anything wrong with checking out the hotties like MonorailMan or Zeitzuege. :rolleyes1

You said it Rob:thumbsup2 (on both counts, but especially the latter of the bolded remarks;))

[wallyb]

I'm QUITE certain, your charms works on Boyz!!;)

Let's make a wish on that :thumbsup2
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-LLCpM27WE&feature=related

[NHdisneylover]

Soulmates--this is just barely on topic for this thread but I wanted to tell you I love it when you post becuase I like to see your sig pic. You two just radiate love for each other in that photo (I can tell by looking--see that is how it is sorta kinda barely not really on topic:rotfl:) and I think it is very cool:thumbsup2

[zeitzeuge]

I've always LOVED the "artsy, nerdy, weird, strange, crazy" types. Especially nerdy. I call them........

A-dork-able

Feel free to use it....

Especially if they're a hairy, tattooed, goateed nerdy dork. Like my partner. :)

[MonorailMan]

I've always LOVED the "artsy, nerdy, weird, strange, crazy" types. Especially nerdy. I call them........

A-dork-able

Feel free to use it....

Especially if they're a hairy, tattooed, goateed nerdy dork. Like my partner. :)

A-dork-able?? :lmao::lmao:
I kinda like that.

[Sphyrna]

I call them........A-dork-able

Feel free to use it....

I love it! I just may have to start using that. One of the types I'm attracted to are the geeky/nerdy type. Adorkable sounds much better! :thumbsup2

[zeitzeuge]

A-dork-able?? :lmao::lmao:
I kinda like that.

My friends were trying to figure out my type one night while sitting around at a bar. My type is pretty easy. Dark hair, hairy, goatee. Then I got into specifics that make it even better like tattoo's, stocky build, etc. They pointed out that I really like nerds and dorks. I find those qualities SO endearing. So I came up with adorkable.

Seems to fit. :)

[zulemara]

It certainly takes a good degree of both IMO. I met my bf on the internet. I had a picture on my profile of me and scooby doo at Universal. We met, I became ::well:: aquainted with his room, he became ::well:: aquainted with my basement, and now we're going on 4 years together.

Obviously physical attraction sparked things and that's the way I feel it should be. I mean I can't be with someone if there's no physical attraction.

Then again, I can't stand certain personality types either. We have both had to alter a few things or simply learn to accept the other's personality traits, but we have done pretty good.

I put up with him being wwwaayyy off the gaydar scale when he is around his girlfriends and he puts up with me shouting at the TV during the Packer game:lmao:

He is one of those people who like to "see" multiple people at the same time before picking one. The other people he was seeing were hotter than I am(especially at the time...I had braces!) but he stuck with me cuz of personality because he has a good heart.

Ok I have to stop before I start crying. He has been in Italy since Jan 13th and I won't see him until early July.

http://photos-b.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-sf2p/v296/187/27/73408709/n73408709_34082553_6295.jpg

[NHdisneylover]

I've always LOVED the "artsy, nerdy, weird, strange, crazy" types. Especially nerdy. I call them........

A-dork-able

Feel free to use it....

Especially if they're a hairy, tattooed, goateed nerdy dork. Like my partner. :)

Adorlable--how sweet. I must steal that one:love:
[QUOTE=zulemara;31473009].

Ok I have to stop before I start crying. He has been in Italy since Jan 13th and I won't see him until early July.
QUOTE]


Damn that is a long time:sad2:What on earth is pulling you apart for so long??? And here I have been feeling sorry for myself because my guy is gone every weekday for a month (but I still get him on weekends). You deserve a hug for the sappy post and the long time missing your love:hug:

[Crashdown]

.............Looks.....and no personality and then project whatever personality you want....

---------and they must love Disney....

[MonorailMan]

.............Looks.....and no personality and then project whatever personality you want....

---------and they must love Disney....

:scratchin
That second part would take an awful lot of work.

[Sphyrna]

Money! Lots and lots of money! LoL J/K :lmao:

[MAF]

.............Looks.....and no personality and then project whatever personality you want........

I hope this is a joke...:scared:

[soulmates]

Soulmates--this is just barely on topic for this thread but I wanted to tell you I love it when you post becuase I like to see your sig pic. You two just radiate love for each other in that photo (I can tell by looking--see that is how it is sorta kinda barely not really on topic:rotfl:) and I think it is very cool:thumbsup2


Not only is that the SWEETEST thing anyone has ever said...it's yet again, confirmation that we were meant to be together! Thank you SO very much! :hug:

[Crashdown]

I hope this is a joke...:scared:

Right... I was kidding.... Just kidding really. I would go for Looks and Money... Personality optional.

[OrlandoMike]

Especially if they're a hairy, tattooed, goateed nerdy dork. Like my partner. :)

I have a thing for "Body by Natulus...Brains by Mattel"! :lmao:

[zeitzeuge]

I have a thing for "Body by Natulus...Brains by Mattel"! :lmao:

In my early years *cough* I had a thing for big football player types, with brians of mush. I'm not really sure how all of that happened.....

Thank goodness I changed. :lmao:

[wallyb]

I have a thing for "Body by Natulus...Brains by Mattel"! :lmao:

Big.
Stupid.
Blue-collar types -
Yummy!:banana:

[NHdisneylover]

Not only is that the SWEETEST thing anyone has ever said...it's yet again, confirmation that we were meant to be together! Thank you SO very much! :hug:

Thanks for not raking me across the coals for being so sappy;) I jsut really wanted to tell you that because it is so true. Your photo makes me smile every time I see it, even when I am having a really bad day. Isn't it wonderful when you find hte one you are meant to be with:love:

[sirJeffrey90]

Money! Lots and lots of money! LoL J/K :lmao:

Well who cares about how someone looks or acts when when they're driving a Bentley? HAHA!

But for me (as with mostly everybody else here) looks spark interest in the person, but a good personality keep everything together.

[MonorailMan]

I've dated (albeit briefly) a few guys with boatloads of cash, and they were either:

A) Pompous
B) So absorbed in their work that it was amazing to see they actually found the time to go on a date
C) Extremely lonely and desperate to give their affection to just about anyone willing

I must admit one of those guy's houses was gorgeous. It was designed by Frank Lloyd Wright himself, and he had no problem mentioning that over and over again. Apparently some people use money to replace character. :scratchin
I know I would! :woohoo:

[rosiep]

Right... I was kidding.... Just kidding really. I would go for Looks and Money... Personality optional.

You're funny!
I like you :laughing:

[wallyb]

I must admit one of those guy's houses was gorgeous. It was designed by Frank Lloyd Wright himself, and he had no problem mentioning that over and over again.

Cashtastic! :thumbsup2
Do you still have his number? :banana:
I'll give it a go!

[MonorailMan]

Cashtastic! :thumbsup2
Do you still have his number? :banana:
I'll give it a go!

I had no idea you were the "Falling Waters" type.

It's 1-800-SNGL-4VR. :rolleyes1

[wallyb]

I had no idea you were the "Falling Waters" type.

It's 1-800-SNGL-4VR. :rolleyes1

I'm into Rich.

[MonorailMan]

I'm into Rich.

Simple......straight to the point......

I feel a tag coming on! :banana:

[zeitzeuge]

I kind of had the opposite experience with two guys who were rich.

When I lived in Kansas City, my best friend was part of the Mafia, which basically runs/owns half the restaurants and bars around there in the downtown area. Never knew there was such a huge Mafia presence there until I lived there for four years. Her two Uncles ran the city.

I dated one of her "cousins" for a short time and because of that, ended up getting to know some of the family. This guy showered me with gifts. We never paid for a drink at a bar or food at a restaurant since the "family" were everywhere. We bypassed lines to get into the clubs, etc. Great life until he thought he had me wrapped around his little.........um, finger.

Then I found out that you couldn't swing a dead cat without hitting someone he was ALSO currently sleeping with.

That was the bad one.

Then, I ended up meeting a brother of an uncle of hers. He was cute, sweet, down to earth. He kept offering to buy a car and a house for me. I knew I was in trouble when he bought me a diamond ring on our 3rd date and a gold tie clasp. He kept saying there were no attachments with the ring, just wanted to give it to me "because". But what the heck...a tie clasp?

He scared the Be-Jebus out me and because I was young and stupid and wanted to be carefree and not answer to anyone, I broke up with him after a couple months.

Would I do that today? ;)

[MonorailMan]

I kind of had the opposite experience with two guys who were rich.

When I lived in Kansas City, my best friend was part of the Mafia, which basically runs/owns half the restaurants and bars around there in the downtown area. Never knew there was such a huge Mafia presence there until I lived there for four years. Her two Uncles ran the city.

I dated one of her "cousins" for a short time and because of that, ended up getting to know some of the family. This guy showered me with gifts. We never paid for a drink at a bar or food at a restaurant since the "family" were everywhere. We bypassed lines to get into the clubs, etc. Great life until he thought he had me wrapped around his little.........um, finger.

Then I found out that you couldn't swing a dead cat without hitting someone he was ALSO currently sleeping with.

That was the bad one.

Then, I ended up meeting a brother of an uncle of hers. He was cute, sweet, down to earth. He kept offering to buy a car and a house for me. I knew I was in trouble when he bought me a diamond ring on our 3rd date and a gold tie clasp. He kept saying there were no attachments with the ring, just wanted to give it to me "because". But what the heck...a tie clasp?

He scared the Be-Jebus out me and because I was young and stupid and wanted to be carefree and not answer to anyone, I broke up with him after a couple months.

Would I do that today? ;)

Today you would wait for a few more of those rings before breaking up with him, wouldn't you? :lmao:

[Sphyrna]

I'm into Rich.

Rich Little?? :lmao:

[zeitzeuge]

Today you would wait for a few more of those rings before breaking up with him, wouldn't you? :lmao:

Exactly! :rotfl:

Ah, I say that but when it comes down to it, I really have to be attracted to them and really love them to stay in the relationship. I'd rather be barely making ends meet and be madly in love :love:, then to be filthy rich and wanting to put a paper bag over their head, just to be intimate.

[MonorailMan]

Exactly! :rotfl:

Ah, I say that but when it comes down to it, I really have to be attracted to them and really love them to stay in the relationship. I'd rather be barely making ends meet and be madly in love :love:, then to be filthy rich and wanting to put a paper bag over their head, just to be intimate.

So long as you don't mimic the mafia characteristics and put a plastic bag over their head. :rolleyes:

[zeitzeuge]

So long as you don't mimic the mafia characteristics and put a plastic bag over their head. :rolleyes:

Don't think I didn't want to with some of my previous boyfriends.:rotfl:

[wallyb]

OMG!
I dated a Mafia Guy too.
But here in Boston.

And yes ... Great gifts! :thumbsup2

[MonorailMan]

Jeez! What is it what the gay mafia thing? I didn't even know they existed until a few years ago when I was informed that there's also one here. Apparently nobody opens a bar or restaurant in this area (the gallery/shopping/bar district) without getting their permission.

Now let's hear about some of these gifts, Wally. popcorn::

[wallyb]

Jeez! What is it what the gay mafia thing? I didn't even know they existed until a few years ago when I was informed that there's also one here. Apparently nobody opens a bar or restaurant in this area (the gallery/shopping/bar district) without getting their permission.

Now let's hear about some of these gifts, Wally. popcorn::

Schamncy dinners.
Designer apparel
An gold watch
A few trips.
Never paid for a thing while Ray was around.
He had great cars too.
:cloud9:

[MonorailMan]

Schamncy dinners.
Designer apparel
An gold watch
A few trips.
Never paid for a thing while Ray was around.
He had great cars too.
:cloud9:



I've never dated a guy for his credit cards.....but I guess it couldn't hurt to try it for a week or two. :thumbsup2

[PghLybrt]

Attitude. You have to know your it for me to be interested.
I also like a nice smile.
My girl has both. (She is also charming and caring, gorgeous, financial independent, artistic….you get the picture)

Ok now this is the guy part of me (how sexist is that!) :rolleyes1
Attitude and looks for a hookup. I really do not need that much between the ears. I cannot believe I said that! ;) I am so innocent, really.:rolleyes:

[pixierella]

Back in the day when it was a hookup it was all about the looks. Who needs intelligence or a personality when by the end of the night you're leaving anyway.

But when I met my husband it was all about him. Yes, he was handsome but there was a whole lot more I was interested in.

[TuckandStuiesMom]

Cashtastic! :thumbsup2
Do you still have his number? :banana:
I'll give it a go!

Come on, Wally -- you are SO married -- you know it. :goodvibes

[TuckandStuiesMom]

I've never dated a gut for his credit cards.....

I'd hope not -- talk about objectifyin' somebody...:rotfl2:

[MonorailMan]

I'd hope not -- talk about objectifyin' somebody...:rotfl2:

Hmph! I'm sorry. It was a typo. :snooty:
Although tummies can be fun too. :thumbsup2

[sirJeffrey90]

Schamncy dinners.
Designer apparel
An gold watch
A few trips.
Never paid for a thing while Ray was around.
He had great cars too.
:cloud9:


Yep. All Italian guys are gay!


Even Robert De Niro.

[TuckandStuiesMom]

Although tummies can be fun too. :thumbsup2

I like'em too, MM. ;)

[wallyb]

Come on, Wally -- you are SO married -- you know it. :goodvibes

Oh :rolleyes: Yeah :rolleyes: That. :rolleyes1

:cloud9:

[wallyb]

Yep. All Italian guys are gay!


Wow! They are! Great news!
Now I'm clear to peruse Roberto Bolle!
http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f241/wallyb3/cusl58_yearinphotos0812.jpg

[DVCajun]

Wow! They are! Great news!
Now I'm clear to peruse Roberto Bolle!
http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f241/wallyb3/cusl58_yearinphotos0812.jpg

he wants you. go for it!

[wallyb]

he wants you. go for it!

Wonder how much money he has? :scratchin

[jamieandben]

Wonder how much money he has? :scratchin

Gold Digger!

[wallyb]

Gold Digger!

Do you think he has gold some where!?! :banana:

[jamieandben]

If he does I'm sure you'll find it.

[soulmates]

Thanks for not raking me across the coals for being so sappy;) I jsut really wanted to tell you that because it is so true. Your photo makes me smile every time I see it, even when I am having a really bad day. Isn't it wonderful when you find hte one you are meant to be with:love:


Good Lawd, I'd never rake someone over the coals after they gave us the ULTIMATE compliment! It IS the best thing, to FINALLY find the RIGHT person, just for you. I'd been married twice :confused3 and both times, miserable. I had actually dated several great guys, after I was seperated, and it really was destiny, that I met Christy. Almost at 3 years, and it keeps getting better. For the 1st time in my life, I wake up happy EVERY day...and look forward to going home after work. Every trip we take is amazing....I really could go on...and yes, the happiness we share, is very evident on our faces. Thank you again, for your sweet words. BTW, lived in Germany as a child! Wie geht's? ;)

Chris

[TuckandStuiesMom]

Wow! They are! Great news!
Now I'm clear to peruse Roberto Bolle!
http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f241/wallyb3/cusl58_yearinphotos0812.jpg

OMG! I almost had a stroke opening up the PC first thing in the morning to THIS:rotfl2:

[wallyb]

OMG! I almost had a stroke opening up the PC first thing in the morning to THIS:rotfl2:

He is kinda "Yowza!!" right? :thumbsup2

[TuckandStuiesMom]

He is kinda "Yowza!!" right? :thumbsup2

That would be the word...::yes::

[DVC~OKW~96]

Or not. ;)

I find the hyper musculature quite errrrmmmm icky. :snooty:

[wallyb]

He can rub his "icky" on me all he wants.

[PghLybrt]

Or not. ;)

I find the hyper musculature quite errrrmmmm icky. :snooty:
I so agree!!!!
He can rub his "icky" on me all he wants.

EWWWWWWWW!!!!!!:sick:





:)

[rosiep]

Or not. ;)

I find the hyper musculature quite errrrmmmm icky. :snooty:

I agree...he does nothing for me.

[DVC~OKW~96]

Well, he probably doesn't much wanna'. ;):upsidedow

But it is pretty deformed looking. :confused3

I like muscle definition, by all means but that's too overboard for me. Not that he would give a flying leap WHAT I thought!!! :rotfl::rotfl: His body. His time to devote to the workouts, eh? T'evah.

[rosiep]

Well, he probably doesn't much wanna'. ;):upsidedow

.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA
:headache:

[DVC~OKW~96]

Rosie!!! I was talking to WALLY! LOLOL. Silly woman!!!

[rosiep]

Rosie!!! I was talking to WALLY! LOLOL. Silly woman!!!

(sniff, sniff) Really? Does that mean you still love me???? :hug:

[wallyb]

Well, he probably doesn't much wanna'. ;):upsidedow

But it is pretty deformed looking. :confused3

I like muscle definition, by all means but that's too overboard for me. Not that he would give a flying leap WHAT I thought!!! :rotfl::rotfl: His body. His time to devote to the workouts, eh? T'evah.

He's a ballet dancer in Italy.
And fine :snooty: more for me.

[Crashdown]

You're funny!
I like you :laughing:

or I'll just take a rosie...


(u do remember this is cybertheo.... it's been a while)

[rosiep]

or I'll just take a rosie...


(u do remember this is cybertheo.... it's been a while)

I know who you are :cloud9:

[MonorailMan]

I know who you are :cloud9:

Rosie has that psychic ability to know WHO and WHERE you are. :scared:

[DVC~OKW~96]

Rosie, how could I NOT love you? Sheesh!!!

Wally, be that as it may, but the boy is no Nureyev or Baryshnikov, or even a Godunov, eh?

But, I will give him more room for the ripples given his profession. And yes, much more for you. ::yes:: See? Nice how that works out, eh? :teeth:

[MAF]

Or not. ;)

I find the hyper musculature quite errrrmmmm icky. :snooty:

I agree, he looks, yeah, gross. :sick:

[rosiep]

Rosie has that psychic ability to know WHO and WHERE you are. :scared:

Right! Now take off my bra and high heels this instant! Those are only for special occasions.

[OrlandoMike]

Ya went back and looked at the pic, not my type at all!

That boy needs a few trips to the buffet! popcorn::

[MemoToMe]

Ya went back and looked at the pic, not my type at all!

That boy needs a few trips to the buffet! popcorn::

Agreed. And a few less trips to the spa for his waxing.

[sirJeffrey90]

. And a few less trips to the spa for his waxing.


UGH! Waxing! The very word just sounds painful! Then the sound of it followed by the glass-shattering screams...

*sigh* The things people do for "beauty"

[DVC~OKW~96]

Ok, ok, OK! Did a little research on your Roberto, Wally and I'm impressed. ::yes:: He is a very talented danseur and that is not something to simply dismiss, eh? He's won any number of accolades and awards for his performances.

One still that turned up in the search had him in full pose mid air a la Nureyev, who "discovered" him by the way. ::yes::

I'll not say that any of my new found information makes him any more attractive (but that would be expected! LOL) but it does put him into context. Very nice context. :teeth:

Now then, you have my permission to pursue. :lmao:;)

[wallyb]

Ok, ok, OK! Did a little research on your Roberto, Wally and I'm impressed. ::yes:: He is a very talented danseur and that is not something to simply dismiss, eh? He's won any number of accolades and awards for his performances.

One still that turned up in the search had him in full pose mid air a la Nureyev, who "discovered" him by the way. ::yes::

I'll not say that any of my new found information makes him any more attractive (but that would be expected! LOL) but it does put him into context. Very nice context. :teeth:

Now then, you have my permission to pursue. :lmao:;)

Phewww. Thanks! ;)
* sharpening fangs*

[rpmdfw]

I agree that Roberto Bolle is HAWT!

If he were out, he'd be on "the list" :rotfl2:

google his name and check out other pictures of him. I think he's just gorgeous. And he appears to be a brilliant dancer. (Primo ballerino? Is that even a term? :lmao:)

And Wally, you don't get him all to yourself. You have to share.

You sharpen your fangs, but I'm getting a wooden stake ready to take you out in order to get to him! :cool2:

[wallyb]

I agree that Roberto Bolle is HAWT!

If he were out, he'd be on "the list" :rotfl2:

google his name and check out other pictures of him. I think he's just gorgeous. And he appears to be a brilliant dancer. (Primo ballerino? Is that even a term? :lmao:)

And Wally, you don't get him all to yourself. You have to share.

You sharpen your fangs, but I'm getting a wooden stake ready to take you out in order to get to him! :cool2:

Looks like Roberto has enough to share;)
Abbondanza!:cloud9:

[ConcKahuna]

Eh I'd probably go for someone not too attractive w/ no personality, but what can I say, I'm desperate...:laughing:

How :confused3

You're a sweet kid and good looking. Don't rush it, you'll get a good one. It's like fishing. Cheap bait will catch lots of little fish, but the good bait catches the whoppers!

Yep. All Italian guys are gay!


Even Robert De Niro.

I have proof!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bQKrgi2PMz8

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nLNPdZPSII0&feature=PlayList&p=250B2F24DBFA75FE&playnext=1&playnext_from=PL&index=41

[zulemara]

Adorlable--how sweet. I must steal that one:love:
[QUOTE=zulemara;31473009].

Ok I have to stop before I start crying. He has been in Italy since Jan 13th and I won't see him until early July.
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Damn that is a long time:sad2:What on earth is pulling you apart for so long??? And here I have been feeling sorry for myself because my guy is gone every weekday for a month (but I still get him on weekends). You deserve a hug for the sappy post and the long time missing your love:hug:

He is studying abroad and I moved from WI to FL, so even when he gets back, he has another year of school. I'll be happy when I get to see him once a month! I'm gonna get well acquainted with airports, that's for sure