View Full Version : I had a missed miscarriage, 4 months later the GP thinks i have retained the baby :(
Cinderella2006
04-07-2009, 08:31 AM
I am so sorry 2 have 2 put this here, this place really needs an agony aunt section, lol!
Just before Christmas i experienced a missed miscarriage. I didn't know i was pregnant, i experienced heavy bleeding for 2 wks, clots, sickness etc, generally not nice symptoms. I went to the Gp who gave me some tablets and was sent home to let nature take its cause. I have not had a period for 7 years so i knew something was wrong, i only bleed when i am pregnant.
I found this extremely upsetting, i got no support and i was very confused and hopeful that the baby was still there. With all of my children i have hemorrhaged throughout the pregnancy but still had healthy boys. I was not offered a scan and it still upsets me now but apparently its the procedure they follow.
This was in dec and i have been bleeding since, perhaps a wk or 2 break in between. For the past 2 wks i have been bleeding very heavy, generally not feeling well, weak, feeling sick. Been to the doctors on a number of occasions, just told my hormones are still settling. On sat i was having contractions and "gushes of blood" my thought was another miscarriage but its almost impossible as we use protection.
I went bk to the doctors again yesterday, the gp thinks i have retained the baby :( i am devastated and to make it worse he tells me a scan will take a month or two to determine this. Needless to say i have payed privately for a scan and i am due to have it tomorrow. Been sent away with more pain relief and more tablets whilst potentially carrying my unborn child who died in my womb nearly 4 months ago!? Surely this isn't right, how cruel. How can they expect me to wait 2 months!?
I am worried what i will find tomorrow :(
Anyone been in a similar situation, i would appreciate any advise/support.
Thanks for listening, my husband is supportive but he feels hopeless knowing that there is nothing he can do or say xxx
Jets fan
04-07-2009, 08:35 AM
OMG, I have no answers for you, having never been in your situation. I really hope that everything is OK as this is really awful care you have been given.:hug::hug:
Tina
Cinderella2006
04-07-2009, 08:42 AM
OMG, I have no answers for you, having never been in your situation. I really hope that everything is OK as this is really awful care you have been given.:hug::hug:
Tina
Thanks Tina, not long to wait now but i am feeling really emotional :hug:
not long to wait now but i am feeling really emotional :hug:
I'm not surpised - this is majorly upsetting without having hormones involved let alone what you have been through upto this point.
I really don't know what to say and, with no useful advice to give I just send you a :hug: and I'll be thinking of you tomorrow.
Let us know how you go ok x
Pinky166
04-07-2009, 09:07 AM
I have no experience or advise but it sounds as though you have been treated terribly by your gp. Big hugs to you & your husband. :hug:
Hope everything goes well tomorrow. x
natalielongstaff
04-07-2009, 09:17 AM
I have no advice either im afraid......we are hear for you if you need to vent :hug:
GlendaONeill
04-07-2009, 09:26 AM
:hug:I'm so sorry to hear about this. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.
MrsJobba1
04-07-2009, 09:31 AM
I too have had a miscarrage but I did not retain the baby.
We are here to support you. I have since found out I cannot have chn which is heartbreaking. I am so pleased you have chn.
I did not get much support from GP but found comfort talking on forums.
Feel free to vent, share cry whatever you need.
:grouphug:
CustardTart
04-07-2009, 09:50 AM
I am so sorry 2 have 2 put this here, this place really needs an agony aunt section, lol!
Just before Christmas i experienced a missed miscarriage. I didn't know i was pregnant, i experienced heavy bleeding for 2 wks, clots, sickness etc, generally not nice symptoms. I went to the Gp who gave me some tablets and was sent home to let nature take its cause. I have not had a period for 7 years so i knew something was wrong, i only bleed when i am pregnant.
I found this extremely upsetting, i got no support and i was very confused and hopeful that the baby was still there. With all of my children i have hemorrhaged throughout the pregnancy but still had healthy boys. I was not offered a scan and it still upsets me now but apparently its the procedure they follow.
This was in dec and i have been bleeding since, perhaps a wk or 2 break in between. For the past 2 wks i have been bleeding very heavy, generally not feeling well, weak, feeling sick. Been to the doctors on a number of occasions, just told my hormones are still settling. On sat i was having contractions and "gushes of blood" my thought was another miscarriage but its almost impossible as we use protection.
I went bk to the doctors again yesterday, the gp thinks i have retained the baby :( i am devastated and to make it worse he tells me a scan will take a month or two to determine this. Needless to say i have payed privately for a scan and i am due to have it tomorrow. Been sent away with more pain relief and more tablets whilst potentially carrying my unborn child who died in my womb nearly 4 months ago!? Surely this isn't right, how cruel. How can they expect me to wait 2 months!?
I am worried what i will find tomorrow :(
Anyone been in a similar situation, i would appreciate any advise/support.
Thanks for listening, my husband is supportive but he feels hopeless knowing that there is nothing he can do or say xxx
Oh Aimee! I'm so sorry, hun... :hug::hug::hug: Try not to worry about tomorrow - chances are it'll be a piece of placenta that has stuck where it shouldn't after the miscarriage which is causing you to bleed. Your body is trying to get rid but can't...
I experienced something similar tho' I found out the baby was dead when I went for a routine pregnancy scan at 16 weeks or something like that. Seems the baby had died much earlier but my body had carried on thinking it was pregnant. I was sent away with the advice to just let the miscarriage happen naturally - which it did about two weeks or so later on holiday in Spain... Nice... Anyway, once that was over with I kept bleeding every couple of weeks or so - very unlike my normal experience! It took a while but I was referred for a scan which wasn't what I was expecting as it was internal :eek: but it confirmed that part of the placenta was still in place. I was then referred for a D&C which was performed under anaesthetic and removed the post-miscarriage bits left behind... I think this happened a week or so later. It wasn't pleasant and, all in all, I guess it took 4 months to get sorted but once done, the physical issues were resolved.
The emotional issues of carrying a dead (and longed for) baby were tougher to cope with and never at any point was I offered any counselling - maybe I should've pushed for it but I hate going to the GPs at the best of time esp as mine loves to push Prozac so I gave it a miss...
I hope that helps a little, Aimee - like I said, try not to worry... :hug::hug::hug:
mandymouse
04-07-2009, 09:56 AM
:hug:Oh Aimee, I am so sorry to hear what you have been through these last few months. I wish I had some words of wisdom for you, but I can't imagine what you are going through
Like everyone says, we're here for you, if you need to vent or rant
:grouphug:I hope everything goes well tomorrow
Take care
jen_uk
04-07-2009, 10:07 AM
Aimee I am so, so sorry to hear this, I hope you can get it sorted tomorrow and then be finally able to move on and grieve for the lost baby. I've never had a miscarriage but I did have a son who was stillborn so I know what you are going through. The doctors were rubbish in my case as well, I was in hospital when the baby died and knew when it happended that something was very wrong but the doctors refused to listen to me and wouldn't check the heartbeat, it was 24 hours until they did and by then the baby had died. It is at times like these that you need all your friends and family for support, we are all here for you :hug::hug::hug:
BRobson
04-07-2009, 10:17 AM
I have have 3 missed miscarrages - each time at the 12 week scan they found no heartbeat but still I had to go through the weeks of morning sickness as they would not scan me early :sad2:
Each time I was offered tablets which would take their course or a D & C which I opted for as it was immediate
I think it is appalling that they will not scan you right away. A nurse friend of mine always suggests that you just go to A & E and get seen there ;)
I am so sorry you have to go through this - we are all here for you :hug:
T16GEM
04-07-2009, 11:02 AM
So sorry to hear that you are going through this, I think the way that they are treating you is awful. Hope everything goes as well as it can tomorrow.
:hug:
Cinderella2006
04-07-2009, 11:48 AM
I too have had a miscarrage but I did not retain the baby.
We are here to support you. I have since found out I cannot have chn which is heartbreaking. I am so pleased you have chn.
I did not get much support from GP but found comfort talking on forums.
Feel free to vent, share cry whatever you need.
:grouphug:
So sorry to hear that, i feel so fortunate after being told i would never had children. I have one ovary and my periods stopped altogether at 17 but i proved my consultant wrong.
Thx for sharing x
Oh Aimee! I'm so sorry, hun... :hug::hug::hug: Try not to worry about tomorrow - chances are it'll be a piece of placenta that has stuck where it shouldn't after the miscarriage which is causing you to bleed. Your body is trying to get rid but can't...
I experienced something similar tho' I found out the baby was dead when I went for a routine pregnancy scan at 16 weeks or something like that. Seems the baby had died much earlier but my body had carried on thinking it was pregnant. I was sent away with the advice to just let the miscarriage happen naturally - which it did about two weeks or so later on holiday in Spain... Nice... Anyway, once that was over with I kept bleeding every couple of weeks or so - very unlike my normal experience! It took a while but I was referred for a scan which wasn't what I was expecting as it was internal :eek: but it confirmed that part of the placenta was still in place. I was then referred for a D&C which was performed under anaesthetic and removed the post-miscarriage bits left behind... I think this happened a week or so later. It wasn't pleasant and, all in all, I guess it took 4 months to get sorted but once done, the physical issues were resolved.
The emotional issues of carrying a dead (and longed for) baby were tougher to cope with and never at any point was I offered any counselling - maybe I should've pushed for it but I hate going to the GPs at the best of time esp as mine loves to push Prozac so I gave it a miss...
I hope that helps a little, Aimee - like I said, try not to worry... :hug::hug::hug:
Its good to hear other peoples experiences, thank you so much. I am an emotional wreak at the moment and it helps to vent on here, i don't want to upset anyone else. I didnt know i was pregnant so i cant imagine how u felt going for a scan to be told such sad news.
Aimee I am so, so sorry to hear this, I hope you can get it sorted tomorrow and then be finally able to move on and grieve for the lost baby. I've never had a miscarriage but I did have a son who was stillborn so I know what you are going through. The doctors were rubbish in my case as well, I was in hospital when the baby died and knew when it happended that something was very wrong but the doctors refused to listen to me and wouldn't check the heartbeat, it was 24 hours until they did and by then the baby had died. It is at times like these that you need all your friends and family for support, we are all here for you :hug::hug::hug:
So sorry to hear that. I just wish doctors would have more empathy x
I have have 3 missed miscarrages - each time at the 12 week scan they found no heartbeat but still I had to go through the weeks of morning sickness as they would not scan me early :sad2:
Each time I was offered tablets which would take their course or a D & C which I opted for as it was immediate
I think it is appalling that they will not scan you right away. A nurse friend of mine always suggests that you just go to A & E and get seen there ;)
I am so sorry you have to go through this - we are all here for you :hug:
I don't understand why they wouldn't scan u early even though u went through all that trauma!? Its terrible. I wish i would of went to A & E on the weekend but i have a phobia of hospitals and knew i wouldn't get scanned on a w/e, how i regret that decision now!
Cinderella2006
04-07-2009, 11:50 AM
Thank you everyone, it has really helped! Now at least when my husband comes through the door he can have 5 mins knowing that i have already "vented". Will let u know how i get on tomorrow :hug:
florida sun
04-07-2009, 11:52 AM
Loads of hugs for you, Im so sorry for what your going through:hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:
joolz1910
04-07-2009, 12:43 PM
This is so awful for you. It is also so unnecessary as a scan, followed by a D&C would not only allow you to grieve for your lost child but to heal physically. Something similar happened to me. I was told that the baby had died at my 13 week scan and was given pessaries (v. painful) and told to let nature take its course. A later scan revealed that my womb was still growing as if I were still pregnant as I had the 'retained products of pregnancy'. I was devastated for a second time. A D&C was performed and I went on to have two more beautiful children.
The Miscarriage Association is a wonderful organisation and I can't recommend them highly enough. When I thought that I was losing my middle daughter, their advice was to go straight to A&E to get scanned. It saved me the stress of waiting and luckily the news was good. Perhaps you should go to your local A&E or women's health clinic and request a d&c - I don't think they would perform one without a scan. I was told that infections can occur if the 'products' are not removed - it might be worth querying this.
My heart goes out to you at this sad time.:hug:
:hug::hug::hug:for you xx
sending you some :hug::hug::hug::hug::hug: for tomorrow :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:
saratogagirl
04-07-2009, 01:45 PM
I am so sorry, I have no advice but what you are going through is awful, I just wanted to add my support and offer you a virtual hug
thelittlemermaid83
04-07-2009, 01:45 PM
Sending you a big hug :hug:
PoppyAnna
04-07-2009, 02:03 PM
Best wishes and good luck for tomorrow:hug: What an awful, long drawn out experience.
I am fortunate that I have never had a miscarriage, although I was told by my GP when I was pregnant the first time that I shouldn't go around telling everybody yet as first pregnancies often ended in miscarriage :scared1: you can imagine how that makes a woman feel who is elated that she is pregnant.
That was bad enough for me, I can't imagine what you are going through.
I have two healthy girls but I can't have anymore. I had C-sections with both my girls and the second time around my baby girl suffered a bad cut to her head when the incision was made, my uterus was so thin. I had wanted a natural birth, I am lucky the docs got their way, it could have gone horribly wrong for both of us. I overheard the theatre midwives discussing my situation in recovery.
When the consultant came a few days later to check me over to be discharged he told me in such a matter of fact way that I wouldn't be able to have any more children, I was alone with my baby, he didn't even bring a nurse or midwife with him when he told me and he didn't wait for my DH to be present either. In fact, I don't even think he looked up from my notes and made eye contact.
I think it's such a shame that there are so many doctors out there that just seem to be going through the motions, particularly when it's connected to obs/gyn - I know the NHS is stretched but I worked for it for twelve years and I know there are some very good doctors out there.
Thinking of you tomorrow:hug:
Sorry to hear other DIS friends sad experiences like this too. Hugs to you all.
tinks_1989
04-07-2009, 02:07 PM
I am very sorry to hear that and cant believe you have not recieved help from your GP that is very upsetting I hope it goes ok for you and you start feeling better in yourself and the situation
x x x PIXIE DUST your way x x x
Gaynor
04-07-2009, 02:27 PM
so sorry to hear this Aimee, hope everything goes well tomorrow.:hug:
tennisfan
04-07-2009, 02:35 PM
So sorry to hear what has happened to you:hug:
gemmybear83
04-07-2009, 02:40 PM
I am so sorry this has happened - I have no experience I can offer you but feel free to vent away! There are so many nice people on here :hug:
poppie123
04-07-2009, 03:15 PM
I'm so sorry for what you are going through, :hug::hug: I hope everything goes well tomorrow.:grouphug:
Deedee
04-07-2009, 03:47 PM
OMG i can't believe in this day and age they are making you go through this, i can't imagine what you are going through. My friend suffered a placenta abruption at almost 9 months and unfortunately her baby boy died i know they tried to get her to carry on for a few weeks and give birth naturally how cruel can they be. It was only after her husband threatened them they did a c section. I hope every thing goes ok for you tomorrow :hug::hug:
Cinderella2006
04-07-2009, 03:48 PM
I will wait and see what happens tomorrow but i have copied all my paperwork stating that the doctor believes i have "retained products". Made a note of all visits to the doctor and what had been said.
Luckily i have private medical cover but still have an £100 excess but what if this happened to someone who was not as fortunate as myself who couldnt afford private health care. I think its disgusting, vent over, lol. I need to laugh or ill cry!
Thanks everyone, i will keep you updated xxx
Ware Bears
04-07-2009, 03:51 PM
:grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: for you
Booknut
04-08-2009, 04:11 AM
I'm so sorry you've had to go through this :grouphug:
Natasha&Matt
04-08-2009, 04:48 AM
So sorry to hear this Aimee good luck for today we are all thinking of you :grouphug::grouphug:
madmumof2
04-08-2009, 05:37 AM
So sorry you're going through this. I hope you'e ok today. x
Trilli-magic
04-08-2009, 05:40 AM
I am so sorry to hear what you are going though :hug:
I think it's disgusting that you have to wait that long to get it sorted! surely it isn't legal to leave it that long, it can't be healthy!!!
Honestly! The way that these people just brush women aside when they are suffering not only physically but mentally too!! :mad:it sucks balls!
Sorry for the rant!! I truely feel for you.
DisneyB2B
04-08-2009, 07:46 AM
That's awful Amiee I would definately look at reporting this as my SIL had a misscarrige 2 months ago she was only 12 wks pregnant and they scanned her 3 times along with blood tests over a course of 2 wks. I hope today goes ok for you. x
Cinderella2006
04-08-2009, 09:14 AM
Thank you all, its been really nice to vent my emotions knowing that my feelings wont upset anyone else.
Went to the doctors this morning, they did bloods and swabs. Not nice as it bought the bleeding and pains on again :scared1:
I then went to the private hospital for a scan. What a different experience, whilst i was nervous they were lovely, really understanding, reassuring, asked lots of questions. They could not make sense of what has gone on since my miscarriage in December and she looked more confused than me!
I had an ultra sound and an internal probe which found that i had retained products from the miscarriage. She didn't say much more as they needed to have a detailed look at the images and compile a report. My GP is going to contact me with appropriate action as to what needs to happen next.
Its looks as though i may need a D and C.
Not a nice experience for anyone but at least i know for sure whats been happening and it concludes why i have been feeling the way i have for so long. I wish i had this option at the time of the miscarriage not 4 months down the line but theres no point sulking i cant undo the past.
Thank you again for your support and sharing your experiences :hug:
aaronandterri
04-08-2009, 09:26 AM
:hug: thinking of you x
mandymouse
04-08-2009, 09:50 AM
:grouphug:Thinking of you hun
natalielongstaff
04-08-2009, 10:27 AM
At least you got some answers today Aimee :hug:
good to hear things went OK today
least now things will get done
thelittlemermaid83
04-08-2009, 11:04 AM
:hug:
I'm sorry you've had such an unpleasant day but I hope now that they will act quickly so that your health, at least can get back towards normal :hug:
MrsJobba1
04-08-2009, 12:40 PM
Just wanted to say I've been thiniking about you all day - glad you got some answers
:grouphug:
Tinks1984
04-08-2009, 12:41 PM
I don't have much advice either, but I just wanted to say that I'm thinking of you and your family at this tough time. I do hope that you feel better very soon and that things get sorted for you through this distressing time.
I think venting on here will help also, as we'll all listen and help in any way we can. Good luck :hug:
Tillybud
04-09-2009, 09:22 AM
I am so sorry to hear what you've gone through, sending you big hugs, take care xxxx
T16GEM
04-10-2009, 03:35 PM
I'm glad that you had a better experience at the private clinic, sorry to say that is often the case, I had a lot of trouble with my 2nd pregnancy after a traumatic birth with my 1st DD, and I had some private consultation and it was a much better reassurance than through the NHS, I think another DISer hit the nail on the head when they said many NHS staff are just going through the motions and you are just another case, which is really sad I think.
I hope everything goes well from now on. :HuG:
wicket2005
04-11-2009, 07:24 AM
:hug::hug::hug::hug::hug
Cinderella2006
04-11-2009, 08:19 AM
Thank you all. Still not heard everything but being easter time i have been asked to make an appointment on tues to see the GP. Went to see the emergency doctor this morning, i cant eat or drink anything without my stomach expanding, i look 9 months pregnant! The pain is awful, i still have pv bleeding and cant keep anything down.
They are useless, bp was fine, temp slightly raised, pulse was fast but combined with the other symptoms he said i should be admitted ... The catch? As its easter i would be stuck on a bed until tuesday, they wont be able to do anything. He also couldn't access any of my records :confused3
All in all wasted trip, i would rather stay at home in my own surroundings until tues then let my own doctor make the decision.
Will let u all know how i get on Tuesday :grouphug:
wicket2005
04-11-2009, 01:23 PM
:hug: I wish you a relaxing weekend (if you can), better to be at home than hanging around in a hospital waiting to be seen. I hope everything gets sorted out quickly for you.:hug::hug::hug::hug:
Lizzybear
04-11-2009, 04:18 PM
Just found this thread.. Look after yourself and I really hope this ordeal ends for you soon, can't believe how you've been treated :hug:
Zeebs
04-11-2009, 04:40 PM
This is a terrible way to be treated. It clearly depends on where you live in this country to what type of treatment you get. Which is so wrong. With my first I had bleeding at about 6 weeks, I rang my doctors surgery, he arranged a scan at the early pregnancy unit that day, who luckily confirmed everything was ok and there was heart beat. I was convinced the wee tyke wasn't going to make it to 12 weeks, but he did and I could be a little bit more excited about it all.
I hope everything gets better for you.
Kirsten
Natasha&Matt
04-12-2009, 01:50 AM
Hope your feeling well soon Aimee :wizard::wizard::wizard:
Chilly
04-12-2009, 04:51 AM
Thinking of you :hug:
tennisfan
04-12-2009, 05:05 AM
Thinking of you:hug:
DisneyB2B
04-12-2009, 05:16 AM
Hope it all gets sorted out for you soon Amiee hope you are feeling better soon x
jackieleanne
04-13-2009, 01:34 PM
Thinking of you Aimee. :hug:
Cinderella2006
04-24-2009, 08:43 AM
Thought i would give u all an update and u were all so helpful and understanding. I went bk on the tues after the bank holiday and the doctor said they had not received anything and that it was in the admin tray but no one had seen it yet and if there was anything on there then i would be contacted. I explained that the person who did the both scans told me that she had found something and i needed to see the doctor! She continued to say basically that it would come bk clear and there is nothing wrong with me! I was still in pain so she gave me some antibiotics and off i went!
Didnt hear anything which i thought was strange and my sick note was up so i went bk to discuss what happens next ... The receptionist booked me to see the same woman :eek: so i asked to see a more senior doctor which i did.
He chased up the results and i went home. Within a couple of hours i received a phone call to say they received the results and they need to see me straight away.
I got referred to a gynecologist who i seen yesterday. They found small areas of where i had in fact retained part of the baby. Unfortunately they also found cancerous cells in the womb, she used lots of words i didn't understand but as soon as she said shadowing i knew exactly what she meant. She asked me if i wanted more children, which i do and lots of other awkward questions.
I am hoping on tuesday that they will be able to remove everything and no other treatment will be needed. I am having 5 different "procedures", not looking forward to it, never been put to sleep before. She says they will use a microscope to see what stage the cancer is at but i am worried as it is not normally seen on a scan. Obviously i am making myself worse by googling all the information she gave me :scared1: On a plus not my cervix and my right ovary look ok (i don't have a left ovary!)
wicket2005
04-24-2009, 08:51 AM
I do feel quite cross on your behalf with the medical people you have seen, however, I can do nothing about that. The main thing now is that you are going forward and getting the treatment you need.:thumbsup2 Try not to Google, the darker things you find always stick in your mind more than the lighter ones. Getting put to sleep is nothing to worry about, it is just like going to sleep.
Please keep us updated Aimee, and sending you lots of :hug: whilst you go through this stressful time.
natalielongstaff
04-24-2009, 08:55 AM
im pleased you are finally getting some Answers even though that raises more questions :hug:
Chilly
04-24-2009, 09:04 AM
I hope everything goes well :hug:
Cinderella2006
04-24-2009, 09:05 AM
I am definitely putting in a formal complaint, i am not happy about the way i have been treated. I just got a phone call to say that they cant fit me in on the 28th April as hoped and her next free slot was not until 22nd may!!! Got a bit upset but a lovely woman just called me bk with a date ... the 30th april but i will need a pre admission before then? Not sure what that is about but she will contact me later to arrange :thumbsup2
I am so glad i decided to go private but i am very annoyed at my doctor surgery and think it is time to look for another!
I am so glad they are seeing me so quickly :)
Chilly
04-24-2009, 09:12 AM
i will need a pre admission before then? Not sure what that is about but she will contact me later to arrange :thumbsup2
I think they check you over to check you are ok to go ahead with the op.
Cinderella2006
04-24-2009, 09:59 AM
I think they check you over to check you are ok to go ahead with the op.
Thats what i thought but i had all that done yesterday but guess they will need to check it closer to the op.
Thanks, anything i don' know about causes alarms bells at the moment!
mandymouse
04-24-2009, 10:08 AM
:hug:Oh Aimee, I'm so sorry to hear that you've got to have an op. I hope once the op is over, you are able to get back to some kind of normality
Take care hun
scottish mum
04-24-2009, 11:07 AM
:grouphug: Take care
Lizzybear
04-24-2009, 11:32 AM
Wow, so sad to hear this is still dragging on for you :guilty: Hope the op goes smoothly :hug:
joolz1910
04-24-2009, 12:11 PM
This must be so stressful for you. Try not to look up stuff on the internet as it's almost always scary and rarely reassuring. It sounds like you have been treated really badly and you should definitely complain, when you have the strength to do so. I hope everything goes well for you.:hug:
poppie123
04-24-2009, 12:17 PM
Sending you lots of :hug::hug:
jen_uk
04-24-2009, 12:55 PM
Sending you loads of hugs :hug::hug::hug:
Jets fan
04-24-2009, 01:59 PM
Hi Aimee
This must be awful for you. My thoughts are with you :grouphug:
Take care
Tina
wicket2005
04-28-2009, 05:54 AM
Just dropping by to send you a hug :hug::hug: and to say I am still thinking about you. At least you are in this week and then you will be on the way to recovery.
DisneyB2B
04-28-2009, 07:35 AM
Its disgusting how you have been treated, I hope all your future appointments go well and this all get resolved.:hug:
Netty
04-28-2009, 11:06 AM
Just read this thread, i'm so shocked- sending you :hug::hug::hug:
natalielongstaff
04-28-2009, 12:57 PM
:hug: hope you are soon able to put this behind you x
Cinderella2006
04-29-2009, 07:10 AM
Just dropping by to send you a hug :hug::hug: and to say I am still thinking about you. At least you are in this week and then you will be on the way to recovery.
Thank you, i am going in tomorrow lunch time, i am very nervous but hoping that everything will be dealt with and i can finally get bk to "normal". :hug:
wicket2005
04-29-2009, 07:12 AM
It is understandable to be nervous but it will be sorted. How long are you in for?:hug:
Cinderella2006
04-29-2009, 08:58 AM
It is understandable to be nervous but it will be sorted. How long are you in for?:hug:
If everything goes ok, just the night. I am worried as i have hemorrhaged quite a few times and it doesn't help having instruments where they shouldn't be ;)
Having to answer there standard questions doesn't help. "do i wish to be resuscitated if needed!?" :scared1: a full 12 page assessment!
See ... i am doing myself no favors, lol!
I hope it will be sorted, i don't want a full hysterectomy! :hug:
wicket2005
04-29-2009, 09:10 AM
:hug::hug::hug::hug::hug: The main thing, and I know you know this, is you are on the brink of getting everything sorted. It is worrying and it helps to express your worries here or with people who will listen, it is perfectly understandable and scary. There is nothing you can do now (except ban Googlying:)) people who know what they are doing will sort the problems out.
Please let me know how you get on, sending .pixiedust:pixiedust: for a speedy recovery.
wicket2005
05-02-2009, 07:02 AM
Hope everything is okay.:hug:
Minniespal
05-02-2009, 07:06 AM
Hope everything is well:hug:
jen_uk
05-02-2009, 07:26 AM
Hope ti all went well and you are on your way to recovery :wizard: Thinking of you :hug::hug::hug:
jockey
05-02-2009, 09:56 AM
Hope all is ok :hug:
Pinky166
05-02-2009, 10:30 AM
Hope it all went well. :hug:
Cinderella2006
05-02-2009, 12:23 PM
Had the operation on Thursday ... came out Friday. The staff were amazing! Food was lovely ... never thought i would say that of a hospital, couldn't eat much though mouth was dry from the gas and air!
Made an appointment to go bk and discuss the results in a few wks. The consultant did mention something but i had only just come around from the general anesthetic and was still in recovery so it didn't really sink in! Something to do with my womb lining but if it was that terrible i am sure she wouldn't let me wait anxiously for 3 wks until i see her :)
The good news is that is wasn't as bad as i expected! In a bit of pain and losing quite a lot of fluid but think thats expected.
Husband is looking after me well and cooked me a lovely £10 dine in meal from M & S last night ... delicious!
wicket2005
05-02-2009, 02:10 PM
So pleased everything has gone okay and you are being looked after beautifully. Here's to a speedy recovery.:hug:
Minniespal
05-02-2009, 02:13 PM
Really glad that everything went well:hug:
tennisfan
05-02-2009, 03:02 PM
Glad it went well:hug:
Gaynor
05-02-2009, 03:06 PM
Glad everything went well and your being looked after, take it easy :hug:
Good to hear it went all ok
try and take it easy for the next few days
jen_uk
05-02-2009, 08:01 PM
Glad it went ok, make sure you get lots of rest :hug:
Glad all went ok. take care :)
wicket2005
05-06-2009, 04:08 AM
How are you doing?:goodvibes
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