Is This A Crazy Idea????

[scanne]

I was thinking of doing something that I think might be viewed as crazy. First of all, I'm pregnant and due in August.

Here's my idea:

My DH and I have been horribly missing WDW and not a day goes by where we say we wish we were at WDW. Now of course $$$ is going to be tight with a new baby, but I want to surprise my DH with a long weekend to WDW over Halloween for MNSSHP. We already have plane tickets from last year that we didn't use due to 9/11. (I was too freaked out). Now we wouldn't have AP's, so I'd either buy park hoppers with my DC discount or get a package. I was thinking of staying at Caribbean Beach or even an All Star (even though I don't like the All Stars that much), but since $$$ might be an issue, and the whole point is to just be in WDW, then I thought the All Stars might just be ok. Will Pop Century be opening anytime soon?

Now here's my question........is it crazy to bring a 2 month old to WDW??? I have heard that infants are easy because all they do is eat and sleep, but is it safe??? I guess I just want to make my DH happy and nothing would make him happier than WDW at Halloween. It's his favorite place and favorite holiday.

I don't know, what do you all think? And which resort would you recommend? Caribbean Beach?? All Stars??? Port Orleans, even???

Thanks for the input!

[zulaya]

Never having taken my children as new infants to Disney, you might want to take this with a grain of salt, but it might not be as easy as it sounds. Infants are "easy" in they can't walk yet so keeping him in a stroller will make it "easy" in that you don't have to worry whether he's walking around in the crowd. Yes, they do sleep, eat and poop. It's the eating and changing that will make your day a little choppy so to speak with having to stop for feedings and changings. So if you don't mind that you might not get to everything you want and just want to soak up a little WDW vibes, then you might be fine.

Not having used them, and not knowing if you plan to breast feed or bottle feed, I have heard that WDW has the most wonderful baby changing and nursing areas you could imagine at the parks.

The only thing too to ask your doctor about is flying. I never flew with infants so I don't know how well a 2 month old will adjust to the pressures of flight and the doctor will probably have more info.

Only you can decide if it will work for you. Maybe wait for codes to comeout for Halloween and see what can work for you in terms of resorts. You never know, with a code you might be able to swing a better resort than the All Stars

[sharoncity]

If you really want to try it, I think I would spring for at least a moderate. Baby probably won't be sleeping thru the night yet. They say the noise from surronding rooms is a consideration in the value resorts. Also you will probably spend more time at your resort than normal, so the extra amenities and space would be welcome. Of course if you could somehow swing deluxe, a monorail resort would be PERFECT with a little one. Plus a balcony to sit on while baby is sleeping/napping.
You just need to go with a very laid back approach. No, you are not going to see and do a lot. But yes, you can certainly soak up the Disney atmosphere. The changing rooms are lovely and very relaxing. We took our DS when he was 8 mos. He was pretty much along for the ride, although he truly enjoyed interacting with the characters. How about waiting a couple more months? It would certainly be easier to travel with an infant who has a schedule and is past the first 6 months. (Those are definitely the toughest!) But if you really want to go for Halloween, only you can decide if it is "doable"! Have fun and happy planning!

[CarolMN]

First of all, congratulations on the upcoming addition to your family.

I also think you should discuss this with your family doctor - for his/her opinion on both pros/cons for both of you (Mom and baby). Remember, it can take 6 - 8 weeks for YOU to recover - regain your energy and stamina. Your baby may not be sleeping through the night by then, either. Have you thought about how you will handle all the "extra" things your little one will need - recliner stroller with shade, car seat, etc.?

October can still be hot, so you will need to plan carefully. You may be spending more time in your room than you think. Will you be content to just relax around the resort? Can you swing a 1 bedroom in one of the DVC resorts?

My advice is to postpone the decision (if you can) until after the baby arrives. Is there a way to make plans for your trip without really commiting $$$ until after your child is born? Maybe by then you will have a better idea if you'll be able to (or even want to) do it. (Not sure I'd want to do it for just a long weekend).

I also think babies are easier than toddlers, but they are still a lot of work and this trip will be very different from your previous trips.

Best wishes & good luck with your decision.

[bethie]

Now my daughter was 9 months old for her first trip. It was "easy" to travel with her. We drove from Virginia-no problem. She was a bottle baby. I brought her formula from home and kept in a fridge at the hotel. I just packed formula and juice, some cheerios, whatever, and off we went. Disney's restrooms were great for changing. Caroline rode alot of rides with us. She was no trouble whatsoever. Also, the characters always fawned over her. Like the above poster, ask your doc about the child and a trip. Get their opinion on it.:)

[LKS]

I went with my youngest son when he was 2 months old. I have two older children and we traveled with my mother and mother-in-law. Husband had to work, but I was on maternity leave. It was a breeze. I was nursing, plus had plenty of experience by then. I don't know if I could have managed it with the first that soon, because getting started nursing was tough, I was much more sore from the delivery and just more nervous about hauling him around. I can remember just getting to church on Sunday seemed like a big deal. Now that seems laughable, but at the time, I'd get him all dressed then he'd spit up as we backed down the driveway and we'd all go back in to clean up and start over.

So, it's not crazy, but it would be better if you could leave your options open until you see how you're doing.

[jmkst58]

I, too, agree that it will depend on a lot of factors and how you both are doing still so soon after the birth. I, myself, remember those first 2 months as a blur and had a hard time finding time to shower...let alone visit ANYONE OR ANYWHERE, but that is not everyone's experience and I TOTALLY agree that only you can make that decision. There's a chance that it could be REALLY rough going though.


CONGRATS!!!!! Talking about it is getting me anxious to have another little one.

[zulaya]

Another reason to postpone until after he's born...and really not trying to scare you or anything...but sometimes labor and delivery and everything just isn't smooth sailing. If you or your baby have any difficulty and need prolonged recovery from the birth, It would be such a shame to have you make plans and commit $ and have to cancel.

[Praise2Him]

We took our 2 DS's when they were 3yrs. and 3 mos. I agree with most that the 3 mo. old was very easy! I breastfed him which made it simple to feed him. We stayed at the CBR which was very nice, but we've stayed at the AS since then and liked them too. However, some people brought up some good points that I hadn't thought of. Our baby was sleeping throught the night then, but if yours isn't, it might make it more difficult. Also, it was our 2nd child, so we were more experienced with babies, but if it had been the 1st one, it might have been more challenging, just because everything's so new. However, I know how you feel - we are already planning to go in December, but I just called this week to make ressies for Oct. and the MNSSHP! I guess the sensible advice would be to wait and see how you feel after the baby's born, but if it was me, I'd probably do it! Good Luck with your decision!

[allykat]

I have not taken one of mine to WDW at that age but did want to comment on flying with an infant. I did it when my daughter was nearly 3 months old and she did okay. She cried a bit at take-off, but giving her a bottle or pacifier helped with that. All in all, she did really well. Actually, she probably did better than I think my 3 year old would do right now! LOL!

[musicfan]

I don't want to sound opinionated, but this is experience rather than opinion. I could NEVER have taken my DS anywhere at 2 months. He cried nearly constantly and didn't sleep through the night -- he could barely make it four hours. I was nursing, but that wasn't much help at that point. I was completely and utterly exhausted and can barely remember anything from that time frame. I would highly recommend that you wait until after your baby is born and is at least a month old before you start making financial plans you aren't happy to cancel.

It turned out great, though, so I don't want to bum you out! He's 15 now and a complete dream of a son -- so sweet tempered and thoughful, well behaved and responsible. We got our difficulties up front!

[princess angel]

Hi Anne!
I knew you couldnt wait 2 1/2 yrs to go back!!! :)
now, I dont have the experince with children in WDW, but I think that if you can financially swing it, then by all means go for it!

whether or not it is easy with a 2 month old, well, that is each ones personal opinion, but as far as safe... I cant see how it wouldnt be safe!
you and your dh love WDW so much, that I cant think of a better way to celebrate the birth of Princess Julia!!!

I think you should do it!
and, if you can go for the moderate, I would think that it would make for a better time, especially w/the baby! my choice would be caribbean beach, riverside in the mansions.

Laura :)

[CaliforniaDreaming]

Originally posted by princess angel
whether or not it is easy with a 2 month old, well, that is each ones personal opinion, but as far as safe... I cant see how it wouldnt be safe!
you and your dh love WDW so much, that I cant think of a better way to celebrate the birth of Princess Julia!!!

Laura, didn't you see? It's gonna be a PRINCE not a princess!!! :D

Anne, if you and your DH really want to go to WDW, then do it! ;) I'm sure you'd have a great trip! I'd go for either CBR or POFQ! :)

[DisneyLisa]

Just my personal opinion, but as a mother of 3, I wouldn't do it. It could be OK or it could be horrible & I wouldn't risk it.

I'm not trying to sound pessimistic, but WDW with a 2 month old collicky baby would be a nightmare. I'd rather stay home & adjust to my new baby and routine and plan a trip at a later date (JMHO). You may want to wait & see how everything is going: what type of delivery you have (easy or complicated), what type of mother you are (nervous or relaxed) and what "type" of baby you have (I was lucky but I had friends with collicky babies who cried for months & I can't imagine being anywhere but at home with one).

Whatever you decide, congratulations and all the best to you on the birth of your little one...enjoy every moment - they grow up much too fast.

Lisa

[amw5g]

Sun and heat! Wee 'uns can cook faster than red hots in the Floridian sun, even in October. Much less tasty too, and ths smell! Hoooweeee....
-Andrew

[eeyore0062]

I have heard that small babies are easier, but just hope if they cry in the middle of the night, it isn't keeping other guests in the resort awake. We didn't take our DD until she was 6, but we went ourselves, leaving her when she was 4, with my parents at the beach house.

As for choice of resort, I would bite the bullet pay a little extra and stay at CBR. No sense not liking where you are staying.

At least in October, the weather isn't as hot, and if you keep a light sheet over junior, the hood up on the carriage and a hat on His/her head, not to mention tour in early morning, and later afternoon, you should be fine. Go with the baby's schedule. The baby stations are great, too!

Since you can cancel up to 5 days prior at the resorts, then you will have a chance to see if your baby is up to this. If he/she is croupy or has reflux, though, it may not be the best of ideas. You don't want the baby to be miserable. Unfortunately, babies are unpredictable creatures, so it is kind of iffy to be making these plans before he/she is even born.

Good luck, and I hope you will be able to go!

[scanne]

Wow! I never thought I'd get so many replies. Thanks to everyone for the advice, stories, comments and opinions. I actually mentioned the idea to DH and although he'd LOVE to do it, he thinks 2 months is a bit young. BUT, he said we could plan a trip for October 2003. The baby will be 1 year and 2 months. We both (DH and I) are sooooooooooooooooooo anxious to get back to WDW. BUT, we're even MORE anxious for our baby to arrive. And a lot of you brought up points I wouldn't have thought of; collicky babies, not sleeping through the night, feeding times (I plan to breastfeed), etc. SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO with everyone's input and advice, I think I will hold off until October 2003, but you never know.......we might end up in WDW before then. But I'll wait a while to get to know my baby and his temperment!

Thanks everyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[amw5g]

How does hubby feel about you whippin' your goods out in public for meal times? Personally, I'd dissuade the missus from doing that (yes it's natural, yes it's a beautiful thing but doesn't mean I feel it should be shared with Joe Six-pack). Perhaps you can make treks back to your hotel or casually hide it (stuff the bugger into a giant Mad-Hatter hat or something), but I do feel it's a bit controversial for public display. Just another issue to consider for your final decision.....

[jel0511]

We took our DS to WDW fir the first time when he was 4 months old. He was GREAT!!!! I wouldn't have taken him before that though, I wanted him sleeping through the night before we went. We made the ressies about 2 months before, when he started sleeping through the night. I know how much you want to go... We're leaving VERY soon and I'm getting depressed because we're not planning going back until Dec 2003!!! I think 2 months is too young and you're best to wait. I say this because with my daughter, I had a c-section and there would have been NO WAY I culd have gone on vacation 2 months after that!!!! Trust me, once the baby arrives, you won't mind waiting, you'll be enjoying the new prince too much!!!!!!

[Bichon Barb]

My husband and I took our 2 month old -- although it was only for two days. We were visiting my in laws in southwestern FL and wanted to sneak away.

Flight went well. Only problem was that they couldn't seat me with my DH and Son No. 1. I was so worried I was going to get stuck between two men in those cramped seats. (I was nursing.) I told them about my dilemma and was seated with woman. (Whew!) Pacifiers are great for air trips too.

Only problem was at the dinner show at O'Hana's (?) at the Pol.
Little one had just fallen asleep when the drums started
:( . Needless to say, he freaked out. Had to bring him to the ladies room and feed him.

Now my biggest fear would be bring toddler. Exhausting!

May you be blessed with an angelic little one. :o And good luck.

[princess angel]

whoaaaaaaa!
hey, how did I miss that! A Prince!!!!!!
thanks Cali, for always keeping me informed!!! :)

Laura

[CaliforniaDreaming]

Originally posted by princess angel
whoaaaaaaa!
hey, how did I miss that! A Prince!!!!!!
thanks Cali, for always keeping me informed!!! :)

Laura

Well, Laura, I try my best!!!

And, Anne, for your August 2004 trip - I'd definetly do the Contemporary Tower! That little prince will love it!!!

[Jaypd]

I took my son for his first time at 3 months old. We asked the Dr first he said not a problem. We were told to try and keep the baby out of the sun as much as possible by using a hat and UV protector over the stroller. Also said going in the pool is fine but not for more then 10 mins at a time.

His best advise was take his number with us and know where the nearest Hospital is just in case.

The trip went great and we have some great pics to remember it :)

[susy]

Are your plane tickets good for Thanksgiving??? It is value season (October is regular)and you will get a great rate at AS or mods. We just came back from CBR and it has just been refurbished. I've stayed in 4 star Marriotts that were not as pretty on the inside! I would request the closest building to food court possible. The rooms are as large as delxue rooms and lots of storage for all that baby stuff! In November the baby would be about 3 months and maybe even sleeping through the night. It will be cooler and you can probably just go all day if the baby will fall asleep in the stroller. The best stroller to bring would probably be one of those snap and go (about $50 brand new- look in consigment stores for cheaper). You just snap the infant car seat on it - you need the seat for the plane anyway! It has a basket on the bottom and the car seat hood serves as the shade. It would come in handy getting on and off the bus- lightweight and you don't have to take the baby out. I know it's off topic, but if I were having another baby I would NEVER buy one of those full size strollers again! I would just use the snap and go and when my baby could sit with support I would invest in a really nice lightweight travel stroller (like Mac
Claren). We have wasted so much money on strollers!!!! Oh Well, that's another story!!!Another pro for Thanskgiving is that Laura will be there to babysit (he he)!

[susy]

Lori also has a good point. I also had a c-section and it was a major ordeal! I could not have traveled afterwards and you have to be careful of hernias. I never in amillion years thought I was going to have a c-section. I always skipped over that part in all the books. Bad idea.

[Pkdcoastrs]

It's your life...It's your money....do it...enjoy yourself...you only live once..

Mike

[Kermit]

If I were you, I'd go in December or January (before or after the holiday season, of course). It will be cooler, you can make the ressies after the baby is here, and it's more likely that he'll be settled into a sleeping/eating routine.

With a toddler, you're going to have to drag bottles of baby food and deal with a child who may be afraid on some rides and who is more opinionated than a baby. He may also want to do a lot of walking on his own at that point, which of course is hard to do in the crowds and since he'll be so slow.

And I have to comment on the nursing in public thing. Do it and don't feel a tiny bit uncomfortable with it. Nursing women have every right to feed their babies any where that a baby can have a bottle. You won't be "whipping our your goods" as someone else stated. There are clothes that make nursing very discreet, and even if someone does catch a glance of something intimate, it won't kill them.

[torismom]

Hi, I took my ds when he turned 3 months old to the day and we had a great time. We stayed at the All Stars and it was awesome. We stayed at Music in the farthest building at the very end and it was so quiet. I was nursing and it was very easy to do
in the world. The baby care centers are wonderful. Connor was not sleeping through the night but I was adjusted and that was a part of my life. He slept with me and my dd slept with my husband. It worked well.

My suggestion book your vacation and only buy tickets for the MNSSHP. (we are doing this for a long weekend this october)Play the rest by ear. relax, enjoy and do some things you normally wouldnt do. Have a couple of character meals. Take strolls, shop and connect in your favorite place on earth as a family.

If you are up to it buy a one day ticket to the park of your choice. I really wouldnt buy a package especially if money is an issue.


Let me know what you do!! Have a great time

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[jldriscoll]

Originally posted by Kermit
And I have to comment on the nursing in public thing. Do it and don't feel a tiny bit uncomfortable with it. Nursing women have every right to feed their babies any where that a baby can have a bottle. You won't be "whipping our your goods" as someone else stated. There are clothes that make nursing very discreet, and even if someone does catch a glance of something intimate, it won't kill them.

AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[AmyA]

Originally posted by Kermit

And I have to comment on the nursing in public thing. Do it and don't feel a tiny bit uncomfortable with it. Nursing women have every right to feed their babies any where that a baby can have a bottle. You won't be "whipping our your goods" as someone else stated. There are clothes that make nursing very discreet, and even if someone does catch a glance of something intimate, it won't kill them.
Veering OT for a second or two...
I agree w/ Kermit. Also, once you get the hang of nursing (may take a few weeks, esp. w/ your first) it's really not an issue. Along w/ nursing shirts, there are shawls and carriers, etc. where no one else can see the baby, much less your "goods". Besides, it seems like it's only in the U.S. where nursing in public seems to cause such a controversy. We're military and all the military families we've met that have members from other countries say nursing in public is no big deal!

Back on topic now...
I think it's a good idea that you have decided to wait a while to take your little one. I know I was so overwhelmed w/ my first that traveling 2 blocks to the grocery store was exhausting! Maybe once you get done nursing, you and DH can slip away for a couple of days to WDW w/o the baby. My parents took my oldest DD for 3 days when she was 9 mos and it was great to have that little break to reconnect with DH, sleep through the night, drink some wine, etc. I can't think of a better place to have a short break than WDW!

Congrats on the impending arrival of your new little boy :)

[MinnieGi]

Scanne, I think you are making a smart decision to hold off on your plans and see how you and baby are doing. You just never know!

Also an October 2003 trip when baby is 14 months would be perfect! That's the age we took DD on her first trip this past Nov. She had a blast and so did we!

[2boys'mom]

We flew with my 1st ds to show him to family and he did ok at 3 weeks. Just make sure that you nurse or bottle feed him or use a pacifier on take-off and landing to equalize air pressure in his ears. I on the other hand was a zombie. He actually did better on the trip than he had been doing at home. He had the colic. I was a complete zombie for about the first 6 months due to no continuous sleep. I would extract a promise from my husband that he will help and let you get some rest. Mine didn't and by the 2nd one, I had a good sitter to help me get some rest.

Consider this, you will want him to nap 2-3 times a day for about 2-3 hours at that age. If you are lucky, he will sleep in his stroller. If not you will be in the room. Make sure you at least have a balcony so you won't be in the dark. Take a reading light. Consider renting 2 rooms if you can get a discount at the All Starss so you will have a place to go while he is asleep or for you or your husband while the other of you rock him to sleep--could last for hours. I would have loved the one bedroom at VWL if money is no object--pefect location and enough room. If your trip will focus on MK, try to get a discount on the monorail or at WL. so you can go back and forth between naps.

Let me put it this way, last year with a 2yo, my husband toured all of his things while I stayed in the room while the kids were napping. I tried to switch off this year.

If your husband will help with the baby, I would go on and go. It will be better than staying home alone with the baby and no help. Remember if the going gets rough, go back to the room and put him down for a nap.

The Mk had a great room near the Crystal Palace for nursing and diaper changing this year.

I would plan to eat at buffets as you can get the food and eat it before the kids get wild.

Good luck on your decision and your new baby

[Kallison]

I don't think a 2month old babies comfort zone is to be hauled around an amusement park. But that is just my opinion. I would rather have been home and had them napping in their cribs at that age. I would also be worried about all the germs on the planes and in the parks.

[TigrLvsPooh]

We took our first child (a boy also :)) to WDW when he was 4 months old. It was a breeze. :) He did great on the plane, loved the parks, slept great, and we had a blast! :) Our second child (also a boy :)) went to WDW for the first time when he was 5 months old. Also a great trip with no problems. :)

What about planning a trip for Dec. or Jan.???? ;) I think it's a great age. By that time he'll be sleeping through the night, and your routine will be well established. :) It's easy because they don't mind a bit to ride in the stroller... and those backpack carriers are great too! :) Surprisingly, both our boys loved the rides and the characters. You would think they'd be too young, but they really enjoyed themselves. :)

The baby changing areas in the parks are great. They have a private room for breastfeeding, plenty of changing tables, high chairs, and all kinds of baby products (in case you run out). :)

Actually, I think you'd be fine to take him even at 2 months. We took our first son to Boston for a week when he was about 9 weeks old and he did great. Also, we took our second son to Boston for 2 weeks when he was about 6 weeks old, and had no problems. The younger they are the easier it is to take them on a plane. I even changed a diaper right on the empty seat next to me! :)

Whatever you decide you'll have a great time. ;) Some people get too uptight about taking babies on trips... YOU have to decide for yourself what you are comfortable with. ;)

Congratulations again!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)

[pooh6890]

Geez, I didn't take my kids to Disney World until they were 5 years old and able to walk around all day....so, I am way off on this one. The last place a 2 month old should be is an amusement park in the Florida humidity and heat with germs floating around.....so I guess my answer to your question is no way. As one of the posters said "keep the doctor's number handy and the hospital's number handy"....that about says it right there. So glad you decided to wait till 2003.....good job!

[DisneyPoly]

GO FOR IT!!!! I've been there twice with a 2 month old, the first time was first week of December (DS-2 months, DD-16 months and DS 5 yrs.). The second time was in the month of June, (DD 2 months, DS-4 yrs, DD-5 yrs. and DS 8 yrs.) Stress is all what you make of it. If you go with a positive attitude, you will do fine.

I find that the infants make it easier to travel with as they usually sleep through meals and are content in carriers. The toddlers are definitely more active.

The only problem I would foresee is if you had to have an unexpected C-section, you may not be interested in traveling at 8 weeks. My first was a C, at which time I did not travel. The two deliveries that I did travel were not.

Best wishes on whatever your plans and much happiness with your new little one.

[MrsPete]

I understand that you really want to go to Disney, but I would not go under the circumstances you describe. Consider:

1. I had my first daughter THREE WEEKS LATE (and then she had to be induced). Not many people go this late, but I do have SEVERAL friends who went two weeks late -- even one who had major surgery mid-pregnancy and was told that she would definately deliver early. So, you could easily find yourself with a SIX-WEEK OLD at Halloween. That would make a difference.

2. You cannot know ahead of time what kind of delivery you're going to have. My first was difficult, and I wasn't "right" for almost six months. Walking around Disney at the two-month mark would not have been a fun activity. On the other hand, my second daughter was a super-easy delivery (no drugs, no episiotomy, 16 minutes total), and I could easily have walked home an hour later. If you need a c-section, you certainly won't enjoy the exercise at Disney. You just can't know what condition you're going to find yourself in after delivery -- but don't ever underestimate recovery time -- you'll need it.

3. A two-month old isn't going to be sleeping through the night reliably. As a result, you're going to be sleep deprived, grouchy . . . in short, you won't be at your best.

My advice: You said that money is tight anyway, so save until NEXT Halloween. You'll be in good shape again, the baby will likely be walking a little, and you'll enjoy yourself much more.

[princess angel]

scanne,
I think you should listen to TgrlvsPooh, sounds like she knows her stuff when it comes to little ones! :)
I think you should break the Prince in early, get him used to flying, being on vacation, ya know... enjoying the good life!
this way he knows how to adjust right from the beginning, and when he is 2 - 3 yrs old, he'll already be a disney pro, and you'll have it easy.
sounds good anyway!
Laura :)

[polyfan]

I can tell you from experience of taking my first son at 7 weeks and my second son at 4 weeks was wonderful. You will have a great time. We had no problems at all, and my first son had reflux and was on medication, had been crying every night-all night until we went to Disney. It actually relaxed me and having my husband with me 24hours a day helped me in dealing with my son. I don't regret taking the trips one bit, and I have great pictures with characters, along with wonderful memories. You will have a terrific time.

[CaliforniaDreaming]

I also think that going maybe in January might be good!!! It isn't very warm, so the baby wouldn't get overheated or anything (be sure to take lots of blankets! It does get cold at night!). You can also get great rates in January, I'm sure you could get Wilderness Lodge or Contemporary-Wing for the price of a moderate. :)

[reveric]

I agree with the people who say go for it. I flew from Buffalo to Southern California with my 6 week old daughter. I hadn't fully recovered from childbirth (an emergency c-section after over 24 hours of labor) and she was very colicky. BUT...she slept the ENTIRE way on the plane (I think the noise of the engine lulled her to sleep). The 2 months after she was born were a blur. I see now that I did have some post-partum and I was having a really hard time adjusting to no sleep and a crying baby who refused to sleep anywhere but my arms. The trip was a wonderful escape for me.

Most 2 month old babies could care less where they are as long as they are with you. So you might as well be somewhere you can relax and be happy! Getting out of the house after 2 months and going to WDW would be such a treat!

Some recommendations:

-Stay at a nice hotel. You may spend more time relaxing in the room than you expect. Pick someplace where you can sit on the balcony and enjoy yourself even if the baby is asleep.

-Experiment with baby carriers...either the sling ones or the front pack ones. My babies both would sleep for hours in the sling. If you've never seen one it is a cloth sling that you wear across one shoulder and under the other arm. The baby snuggles into it and once you get used to it you can move around with both arms free. Most babies can sit happily in a sling for hours. If they're awake they just peer over the edge and watch the world but they usually fall asleep pretty quick. I think the rhythm of their mom (or dads) walking lulls them to sleep. They love it because they are right there with you and that makes them feel very secure and safe. I preferred the sling but my husband preferred the front carry pack. Either way my kids both did much better in either of these than they ever did with a stroller.

Congratulations and enjoy yourself! The best advice anyone can give you is to take all advice with a grain of salt! Do what works for YOU and your hubby and your baby. There are NO hard and fast rules regarding babies and ignore anyone who tries to tell you otherwise! You're going to be a great mom!

[Belle5]

My first child was a cryer/not good sleeper type. Looking back, I think that was a lot more about me and my inexperience than him. We did take a 3,000 mile away trip with him to visit realtives for 2 weeks when he was six weeks old. I had to have a room with a crib where I could let him "wear himself out" crying to get to sleep. (Hint, I have since learned to let them do that from the very first--I don't wait until they're six weeks. They quickly learn that they are "responsible" for pacifying themselves so they can get to sleep.)

My second son took the same trip at 5 days old and because I started the "let him get himself to sleep" routine with him early, he was far easier.

Third son was a true breeze.

Fourth son loved to sleep and would beg for naps and put himself in bed.

Fifth son I put on the routine right away and was able to take all five boys ages 3 months through 11 years to WDW/ Universal/ Seaworld by myself for 10 days and it was a blast!

I realize that the things I did may seem radical to some, but I took the advice of people that had lots of kids and were very experienced at getting their households back to "normal" as quickly as possible after a baby. I think you should let the baby fit in with your lifestyle quickly.

If you have a C-section as I did on my fifth--you'll notice I didn't go to WDW until 3 months (honestly, he was scooting close to 4 months). Obviously, your child could have some kind of health difficulty that would make following my advice crazy.

All this to say it can be done if you and the baby are healthy, adjusting well and still desire to go. Remember--you can always cancel up to five days before...