I'm sorry to ask..but I need your prayers again

[auntie]

I am at the hospital with Bob. He is in emergency. He had surgery about 10 mos ago for a para esphogeal hiatal hernia. Sorry sp.? don't have time to check. hospital has computer,and when I was calling family and church, I thought of you guys as well.
Apparently the laproscopic surgery didn't hold..where they put his stomach back where it belongs ....out of his chest. He's been violently ill since yesterday..and we wound up in the ER. Tests are being run,and a course of treatment discussed...CT in a little bit.They are talking a throasic surgeon this time around.
Please keep my husband in your thoughts and prayers for those of you so inclined. Wiill know more tonight. You guys came through for my son..and I'm sorry to bother you alll again so soon wth my problems again. Only I am reaching out to everyone..be it virtual or family or friends or church. I love him...and I need him. Thanks.

[2goofycampers]

Bob has our prayers and thoughts. :grouphug:

It is never a bother to help out a friend in need of a prayer. :hug:

[ftwildernessguy]

Man, Phyllis, you have had your share of troubles recently. Here's to a quick recovery for Bob and some peace for you. (I'll talk to the "boys" again and see what Donald can do).

[VACAMPER]

prayers:hug:

[mrsscooter]

My thoughts and prayers for you and your family.:flower3:

[Whipperwhirl]

you got em - Im pulling for you - Whip

[LORNADUCK]

My prayers are with you. My DH just went thru his 3rd hernia surgery. He has no stomach mucles left. They had to put in a huge piece of mesh and hope it holds. The 2nd one he came out of surgery with this one, but all the nurses said it was just swelling. He is doing good, so I know there is hope. Now they found a spot on his Kidney and we are going to Moffit Cancer Center on April 3rd, so pray for us also, I am hoping everything is OK, but I am sure like you feel, I get all upset every time I think about it.
I feel for you, like me you can't seem to catch a break. It will be OK.

[loveDmouse]

You're in our thoughts and prayers. :grouphug:

[AuburnJen92]

Thoughts and prayers to you and hubby phyllis...:grouphug:

[LONE-STAR]

:flower3: I hope he is ok.

[We4mickey]

Prayers to your family Phyllis. :grouphug:

[fldisneyfamily]

Thoughts and prayers your way...added to the church prayer list.:grouphug:

[ntsammy5]

Phyllis our prayers are with you. You deserve a break from all of this.

[BRDof3]

Never apologize, Phyllis. They're on the way! :grouphug:

[DisneyBishops]

Thoughts and prayers to you Phyllis and you hubby. Also Lorna hope your hubby gets ok fast. We meet at the fort last christmas. We were all in the 800 loop.

No one deserves all this but remember, God only gives you what you can handle.

Just seems like some of us get more than we can handle. Phyllis you are close to that but don't give up. Everything will be better with daybreak

[Just Beachy]

Phyllis, your family is in my prayers now, as you always are. Do NOT be sorry about asking your friends for their prayers and good wishes. That's what friends do for each other. Please let us know how Bob is doing. :hug:

[Tigger0624]

Phyllis and Lorna- you and your families are in our thoughts and prayers... hope everything gets better for you both:grouphug:

[vick]

Phyllis, never be sorry to ask for prayers. Bob, you and all your family will be in my prayers. Lorna, you and your DH will be in my prayers also.

[seabee]

Phyllis please don't feel like it is a bother to ask for a prayer. Our thoughts are with you and your family, and we will definately send up prayers. Aleise says she will mention it in her intentions tomorrow at school too.(Goes to catholic school-they do prayers in the morning) Hang in there Phyllis.:goodvibes:goodvibes:grouphug:

[TheFlame]

Phyllis-

I am praying for you and your husband. God bless you.

[DaveInTN]

The power of prayer is an amazing thing! God bless you, Bob, and your entire family. I am praying that he recovers quickly...

[auntie]

Just got in. It's near 12:00...but wanted to say thank you, and I hope God listens to all of you tonight. the CT scan came back..his stomach has moved back up and it's twisted. Not good. As thought the laproscopic surgery he had last year..didn't hold up. I should have know. He has lost so much weight..and has had no appetite to speak of. He kept thinking it was nothing..stress..but it wasn't. He's in telemetry now..they have a tube down his nose to keep draining out his stomach (lovely..sorry about that). He was in agony when they had to put the contrast in for the CT. I did leave him feeling better a while ago..of course the morphine helped. We'll meet again with his Dr.'s in the morning. It's looking more like the thorasic surgeon will be getting the job this time around..since it didn't work the other way. He goes in through the ribs..(that's got to hurt). We'll know more tomorrow. Insult to injury..his primary care, who he's gone to for 22 years, is away on vacation, so we are really having to trust people we don't know as to the right thing to do. Thank you for keeping him in your thoughts and prayers. Again..I appreciate it very much. I seem to be bringing the board down lately..thanks for putting up with me.

[des1954]

Phyllis- You're under duress, and the man you love is in the hospital under very frightening conditions. When you (or anyone for that matter) needs prayer, you are not bringing us down. To me, it is another sign of love that you feel comfortable turning to us for prayer in your time of need. It's an honor and a priviledge to take your concerns to the Lord on your behalf. 2009 is only 1/4 over, and you've had more in 3 months than anyone should have to bear. So...

Father God, your dear child, Bob, is in need of Your healing hand. We entrust Bob to your care. Guide the surgical team, the nurses, and all who care for him from beginning to end. We ask that You give a full measure of peace to Phyllis and their children and comfort them as well. Strengthen Bob's body as he undergoes this surgery and grant him full and complete healing, if it be Your will. We can look only to You for health and healing, and for our day to day needs, and thank You for the many blessings You do bestow upon us. We ask this in the name of Your Son, Jesus Christ, and thank and praise You for your unconditional love and care. Amen.

We are always here for you, Phyllis. :hug:

[RvUsa]

Phyllis, I don't know if my prayers carry much weight anymore, but you have them. I hope everything works out great and Bob flies through this with no problems. I think you may been hanging around me too long and some of my luck has rubbed off on your family. :(

Lorna, hope everything works out perfectly for you too. :)

[Born 2 Fish]

Phyllis, you and Bob both have our prayers.

I swear,sometimes it seems like the reason men have testicles is for place to be kicked by lousy luck.
Keep the faith Phyllis, prayers are happen'n.:)

[Born 2 Fish]

John, seems like your kick'n place is take'n a beat'n too,,
still sending prayers for you too.

[3gr8kids]

Wow, Phyllis, I just saw this. I'm so sorry to hear. I'm hoping everything will turn out fine, and Bob will be on the road to recovery in no time. You, Bob, and your family are in our prayers. :hug:
Please keep us posted.

[Gatordad]

Keep the faith Phyllis!

[ntsammy5]

Phyllis, you are really having a tough time right now. Don't forget to take care of yourself. My solution is to have another beer - always works for me.

You and your family remain in our prayers. Everything will work out

[PolynesianPixie]

Phyllis, NEVER apologize for coming to us in a time of need! That is what friends are for! And don't you worry for a second about bringing the boards down! You are not bringing anyone down! We are just waiting to celebrate your good news.......again! Prayer is the most powerful force ever to be reckoned with! Count me in on the list of those lifting you up right now!

[JCJRSmith]

I don't get on as much as I would like and I just saw your thread, Phyllis. Hopes and prayers heading your way...

[Shan-man]

I was going to drop in and offer up one last God-honoring prayer for Phyllis and Bob, before it gets out-lawed (see the Sticky) (http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=2126062), but am glad to see that Deb beat me to the punch. Lovely prayer, and may God be glorified in the cries of his children, in the response of his people when faced with adversity, and by the surprise these things create in the unbeliever who witnesses them. May the testimony of His faithfulness be magnified in your time of trial.

I don't want to hijack this thread, but I want to make sure everyone knows that this aspect of our community is seemingly about to be robbed from us. I would just ask that you consider how these new "no religion, no politics" policies are going to impact the genuineness of our community, and write to Pete and John expressing your concerns. I think the existing guidelines, where insulting, negative, and argumentative posts result in deletion, points or locks is sufficient and that there is no reason to censor these topics outright. I find this kind of censorship destructive to community, and I will be writing them to make my concerns known. I hope I got this in before the thread gets locked :guilty:

[TheFlame]

I was going to drop in and offer up one last God-honoring prayer for Phyllis and Bob, before it gets out-lawed (see the Sticky) (http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=2126062), but am glad to see that Deb beat me to the punch. Lovely prayer, and may God be glorified in the cries of his children, in the response of his people when faced with adversity, and by the surprise these things create in the unbeliever who witnesses them. May the testimony of His faithfulness be magnified in your time of trial.

Amen!

I don't want to hijack this thread, but I want to make sure everyone knows that this aspect of our community is seemingly about to be robbed from us. I would just ask that you consider how these new "no religion, no politics" policies are going to impact the genuineness of our community, and write to Pete and John expressing your concerns. I think the existing guidelines, where insulting, negative, and argumentative posts result in deletion, points or locks is sufficient and that there is no reason to censor these topics outright. I find this kind of censorship destructive to community, and I will be writing them to make my concerns known. I hope I got this in before the thread gets locked :guilty:


I agree 1,000% and look at this as a sign of the times. Nothing better than silencing the dissenters and those who have differing opinions. I may not always agree with what some people say or do, but they have just as much right to say and do as they feel as I do and that is what makes this country so great. Maybe these rights don't hold up on public internet forums?:confused3

I could go on, but don't want to continue to be :offtopic: :blush:

Still praying Phyllis!:hug:

[ntsammy5]

I don't think prayer is prohibited, I think the reason they did this was because the political threads on the CB were getting way out of hand - considering this is primarily a Disney site. I think as long as it doesn't get into a debate it's fine.

Scott??????

[stacktester]

I don't think prayer is prohibited, I think the reason they did this was because the political threads on the CB were getting way out of hand - considering this is primarily a Disney site. I think as long as it doesn't get into a debate it's fine.

Scott??????

I was just fixing to say the same thing. I think it's the Obama threads that got this going. America voted him in and we have 4 years of it, period. Vote the way you want next time, everybody else did lol.

[des1954]

Bottom line, the owners of this board can place whatever restrictions they see fit. It's a free service that is provided to advertize their services and promote their business. We benefit from their generosity in creating this forum. So, if they set parameters, that's their business.

After reading some of the stuff that has gone on over on the CB, I don't blame the moderators. They moderate these boards for free (they don't get paid to do so), and I imagine they get sick of baby-sitting. Unfortunately some adults (myself included) need a slap on the wrist every once in awhile.

I appreciate what Scott does, and what Rhonda did when she served as a mod. Although we stay pretty mild on the camping forum, some of the other forums are not so nice.

If you look at the other forums, the same sticky about religion and politics have been posted on them. When they make a rule for one, it has to apply to all or we'd have people from the other forums running amok over here so they could carry on with their "nasty-ness".

I'm not trying to be controversial, just stating the facts as I see them.

ETA: I "assumed" the warning sticky was on all the other boards, but I had only looked on the CB. It is NOT on all the other boards, but just the CB and the camping sub-forum. It's not even on the main camping forum. Wazzup with that?

[ntsammy5]

and what Rhonda did when she served as a mod.

You mean Roz?

http://i181.photobucket.com/albums/x95/*******DSC01493.jpg

[3gr8kids]

You mean Roz?

http://i181.photobucket.com/albums/x95/*******DSC01493.jpg



Didn't she turn in her paperwork???

[ntsammy5]

Evidently not.

She forgot to turn this in too

http://i181.photobucket.com/albums/x95/*******Moderator2.jpg

[lisa8200]

phyllis, My thoughts and prayers are with you as well.

[ftwildernessguy]

phyllis, My thoughts and prayers are with you as well.

Hey - I saw you a few months ago vandalizing a trailer. What they do - let you out of juvie?

[auntie]

Back home. Surgery is likely Thurs. morning unless for some reason decide to move it up during the night. Nurse said she'd call if that's the case. Dr's were gonna do it tomorrow...but it will be quite lengthy, and they don't want to be fitting him in between scheduled surgeries if they don't have to. They said to figure on four to five hours..but again, they also said don't hold them to that. They are anticpating they will have some difficulties. Bob had some surgery on his lung some 22 years ago. We were kids. He had a cyst removed. They are anticipating a fair amount of scar tissue as well. They will be entering his chest cavity in the same area. This is in addition to removing the mesh from the laproscopic procedure that didn't work..they said it will be a while. The surgeons are optimistic..but at the same time..they turn around and are cautious..if that makes sense. I love(not) the phrase..."it just makes it more challenging". Sent him for some more tests today to make sure he's in otherwise good health. Jeeze..if this is good health..what's bad?. These doctors and nurses look so young. I wanted to ask one of the surgeons if his mother knew he played with knives?

Debbie...your prayer brought tears to my eyes. It was exactly what I needed to hear. I plan to print it and carrry it with me.
I do hope this thread is not closed, as I find it very comforting to return here after a long day..and know that so many are keeping Bob in their thoughts..and if they are of faith, in their prayers.
Many gather around this campfire..believers and non believers a like. Those who are spiritual, Those with words of comfort. I appreciate very much all of your kindness.

[Gatordad]

i don't think it's prayer that is outlawed, just the God that you are praying to, that you can't mention.

[vick]

Thanks for the update Phyllis. I will continue to keep You and Bob in my prayers.

[LORNADUCK]

Just keep thinking good thoughts, it will be over soon. I know everything will be OK, the 5 hrs will be the hardest, I will be thinking about you. Please keep your head up and think about the Fort.

[ftwildernessguy]

Always keep your faith, Phyllis. Nobody can ban that.

[Born 2 Fish]

I was going to drop in and offer up one last God-honoring prayer for Phyllis and Bob, before it gets out-lawed (see the Sticky) (http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=2126062), but am glad to see that Deb beat me to the punch. Lovely prayer, and may God be glorified in the cries of his children, in the response of his people when faced with adversity, and by the surprise these things create in the unbeliever who witnesses them. May the testimony of His faithfulness be magnified in your time of trial.

I don't want to hijack this thread, but I want to make sure everyone knows that this aspect of our community is seemingly about to be robbed from us. I would just ask that you consider how these new "no religion, no politics" policies are going to impact the genuineness of our community, and write to Pete and John expressing your concerns. I think the existing guidelines, where insulting, negative, and argumentative posts result in deletion, points or locks is sufficient and that there is no reason to censor these topics outright. I find this kind of censorship destructive to community, and I will be writing them to make my concerns known. I hope I got this in before the thread gets locked :guilty:

I think if it hadn't been mentioned to start off with, that no one would have given it a second thought.

Giving a prayer or well wishes is no more a religion than making sure you say Good Morning everyday to people.

Good morning ya'll !!

[Donna]

Phyllis,
I am so sorry to hear about your husband's condition. I know there are better days ahead for both of you once he pulls through this and HE WILL pull through this!

Keep that faith going; even on a faithless-based board, there IS faith! I understand it, but don't necessarily agree with it. It's acts like this that we can blame on the world being the way it is.

[Gatordad]

I was going to drop in and offer up one last God-honoring prayer for Phyllis and Bob, before it gets out-lawed (see the Sticky) (http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=2126062), but am glad to see that Deb beat me to the punch. Lovely prayer, and may God be glorified in the cries of his children, in the response of his people when faced with adversity, and by the surprise these things create in the unbeliever who witnesses them. May the testimony of His faithfulness be magnified in your time of trial.

I don't want to hijack this thread, but I want to make sure everyone knows that this aspect of our community is seemingly about to be robbed from us. I would just ask that you consider how these new "no religion, no politics" policies are going to impact the genuineness of our community, and write to Pete and John expressing your concerns. I think the existing guidelines, where insulting, negative, and argumentative posts result in deletion, points or locks is sufficient and that there is no reason to censor these topics outright. I find this kind of censorship destructive to community, and I will be writing them to make my concerns known. I hope I got this in before the thread gets locked :guilty:

writing to me will do you no good. I've lost my self appointed unnofficial moderator privliges.........

[Just Beachy]

Phyllis, thanks for the update. Remember, God doesn't give us what we can handle, He helps us handle what we are given. He is with you and Bob and He wants you to lean on Him. We're all praying for Bob and you and the family. Hey, we're the Dis Camping Community - we can do some prayin' here!! Seriously, we ARE pretty good at it! Don't you worry about anything... we got the prayers covered, you guys have God with you, Bob has great Drs and nurses.... everything is going to be fine!! Bob is going to pull through this no problem!! And after he's feeling better, take a vacation at the Fort!!! :hug:

[clkelley]

Actually, if you read the full wording of the policy, asking for and giving prayers and pixie dust is not prohibited!!

[Born 2 Fish]

and neither is saying, Good Morning Ya'LL ! :goodvibes

[Eeyore'sthebest]

Phyllis - good thoughts and prayers are going out to you and your DH. :grouphug:

[Shan-man]

Phyllis, I hope you will forgive me for continuing to hijack your thread... I am still praying for you and Bob (in the incomparable name of Jesus [for Gatordad ;) ]). I feel I need to respond to this statement:

Actually, if you read the full wording of the policy, asking for and giving prayers and pixie dust is not prohibited!!

I guess the words forbidding "posts and threads of a political or religious nature" is wide open to interpretation. I think for many people there is a world of difference between "warm wishes" and intercessory prayer. In the first instance, the person in need is the object, in the latter the object is a third party who is able to affect change over the situation. For others, there isn't an ounce of difference between "I pray" and "here's hoping" and "I'm sending pixie dust".

For the record, I do not think these boards are a suitable place for political debate, religious debate, proselytizing, and certainly not for personal attacks, or hateful rants against worldviews. But forcing people to deny who they are is a sure-fire way to undermine the sense of community we have all come to cherish around here. Frankly, if I had a need like Phyllis' and knew that the only support I could get around here were "warm wishes" and "pixie dust" y'all would never know about my need. This feels like a "don't ask, don't tell" for Christians (and Muslims, and Jews, and wiccan's, and witnesses, and Mormans, and ...), and it already feels oppressive, even though I've not been issued a point (yet!) :sad2:

[Escape Artist]

Phyllis --

I know I've been out of touch for awhile, but wanted to send you my best thoughts and wishes getting for thru this trial with Bob. I hope it's all smooth sailing and they get it right this time. One of Ryan's surgeries was 6 hours, and it kind of blew my mind that it could take longer than open heart surgery for what he had, but it takes time to get things done right.

Hang on to thoughts of happier times you've had together, and the ones that are still coming your way. Your anniversary trip last Fall was so romantic...you'll need another trip to celebrate when this is all behind you.

Take care, hang in there and we'll all keep supporting you thru this. :flower3:

[ftwildernessguy]

Sometimes I feel like I live in Russia.

[ntsammy5]

I can see Russia from my porch! :lmao:

[Just Beachy]

I can see Russia on my globe. ::yes::

[3gr8kids]

I like Russian vodka



and turtles

[djblu883]

sorry I haven't been on much but I'd like to add my prayers to the others as well! God wil take care of you both in more ways than you even know.. Be strong and keep the faith! He is the GREAT Physician! Janet

[auntie]

Back home. Long day..waiting is awful. Only now...morning will come very quickly. Surgery is scheduled for 7:30 am. Our pastor came to the hospital to see Bob today. While he knew that our church family was praying for him. He was surprised to see the pastor....but pleasantly.
At this point he's nervous, but he's also in enough discomfort to want to just get in there and get the job done. I will keep you posted..as to how he's doing. Again.."thank you" seems so inadequate. I feel as if I've got the entire country covered, by asking you guys to pray for him.

[Gatordad]

He will be fine! I decided it.

[des1954]

Back home. Long day..waiting is awful. Only now...morning will come very quickly. Surgery is scheduled for 7:30 am. Our pastor came to the hospital to see Bob today. While he knew that our church family was praying for him. He was surprised to see the pastor....but pleasantly.
At this point he's nervous, but he's also in enough discomfort to want to just get in there and get the job done. I will keep you posted..as to how he's doing. Again.."thank you" seems so inadequate. I feel as if I've got the entire country covered, by asking you guys to pray for him.
You have a good Pastor! That's what he/she should do. After the surgery's over, call and let your Pastor know the outcome. I'll be saying special prayers at 7:30. Hold on to your sanity, Phyl!!

[Eeyore'sthebest]

:hug: Saying a prayer for Bob and you right now. :hug:

[auntie]

It's "go time". The surgical waiting room has computer and internet. Thought I'd check in here. I was surprised to see that you guys were up early and posting already...prayer is a powerful thing. I don't imagine we will hear much for at least four hours. Although the surgeon said if there are problems I'll hear that too. These are scary times. Had a good cry last night when I was alone,but I am strong. I know as old as my kids are..they still take their cue from mom. I have people all over this country praying for Bob. Today I will draw strength from that..and turn to God.
I will keep you posted, and thank you for starting your day, with thoughts and prayers for my husband.

[ntsammy5]

You will all be my thoughts and prayers today.......

[mrsscooter]

My thoughts and prayers are with you.....we are sisters in Christ and we hold eachother up, especially during these times. I am sure that I, along with many people on here, will be checking throughout the day....so post as often as you need to. Peace be with you and your family right now.....

[PolynesianPixie]

Phyllis, I am keeping you and Bob with me today. I am Praying to God, Jesus, the Holy Spirit! I am lifting him up for healing and lifting you up for peace. I pray that you will be warmed by love today and you will rest easy tonight.

Oh, btw.....when this is all done and Bob is home. MAKE him rest this time! No mowing or working on cars or whatever else he feels needs to be done! I'd hate for him to pull something!

[LORNADUCK]

You will be in my thoughts today, I know what is like to wait in the Hospital waiting room with my DH in the OR. Try to keep calm it will be over soon and if he is like my DH when they drug him up, he is really funny, I just always feel sorry for the other person in his room, becuase he can get crude on drugs.

[Just Beachy]

I'm praying for Bob and you. And sending you lots of :hug:. Gatordad decided it will be fine. I'm with him! :goodvibes

[Gatordad]

Keep us posted Phyllis.

[vick]

Still praying. Keep us posted!

[des1954]

Just checking in for a progress report. Been keeping Bob in my thoughts and prayers all day.:thumbsup2

[3gr8kids]

Same here ~ just checking in to hear that Bob made it through the surgery and everything is and will be fine. (Pete said so).

Thoughts and prayers with you Phyllis, hope to hear good news soon. :hug:

[Just Beachy]

Just checking in for a progress report. Been keeping Bob in my thoughts and prayers all day.:thumbsup2

Same here. I would have lit a candle today, but they frown on fire at the office. :rolleyes1 I'll light one when I get home. Hopefully by then it will be official that Bob came through surgery with flying colors and is resting comfortably in his room. Then Phyllis can go get a martini and take a deep breath. ;)

[3gr8kids]

Same here. I would have lit a candle today, but they frown on fire at the office. :rolleyes1 I'll light one when I get home. Hopefully by then it will be official that Bob came through surgery with flying colors and is resting comfortably in his room. Then Phyllis can go get a martini and take a deep breath. ;)

First round's on me!

[auntie]

Saw Bob this evening. I have to say..he looks much more comfortable and he also has a pump for pain that he controls. The anesthesiologist that was in on the actual surgery was in the PACU and managing his pain. Came to his bedside told us he knows what the situation is. There was confusion in recovery as to why he had pain on the opposite side of his chest from where they operated. He told Bob nothing is going to take away the pain entirely, but he should be able to make him comfortable enough. That's all we ask. So..it looks as if everyone is on the same page as far as what was done and why the other side of his chest would be in need of pain management as well. A nursing supervisor took me aside and apologized for not getting us in earlier to see him. I don't really care about that as much as his being in discomfort in an area they didn't figure on.. and them not having a handle on why that would be. I know they would have figured it out..they had a call into his surgeon, and were ordering chest x-rays. Only he was in terrible pain, while it got worked out, and it could have been avoided. I'm glad I got in there when I did, and told them what the surgeon had told us..it got the ball rolling. Let's just say, I wasn't a happy camper when the nurse told me to come back at 7:30 tonight..after having waited since 7:00 in the morning! I DON"T THINK SO.
Sorry about freaking a bit earlier today. Poor Debbie..got that phone call.
I was starting to feel that things were falling apart. So..after I called the surgeon. I was hitting the rest of the buttons in my phone calling those who I know pray, and asking them to start sending up extra's. Deb was first on the list. She know's how to get things movin'!
His surgery was as difficult and extensive as they thought it would be. The mesh from the laproscopic procedure that he had last year was everywhere in his chest cavity. They had to clean up all of that in addition to putting his stomach where a stomach is supposed to be. They said his stomach is now smaller. He won't be able to eat as much as he did before. (oh great...I wanted to get him home and fatten him up!:rolleyes1)
He will be in this PACU area for the night..and God willing, he does well and will be moved to a step down type unit...possibly tomorrow. I won't know until after 8 am tomorrow morning after his doctors come in and evaluate the situation.
So..he got through the surgery fine..and his pain is now under control.
I don't have to beat up any doctors..and the nurses think I'm a PITA.
Life is good.

[vick]

I'm glad he came through the surgery and has his pain under control! Keep us updated as often as you can. I will keep you and Bob in my prayers.

[PolynesianPixie]

Still Praying!!!!!!! :goodvibes

[2goofycampers]

For you and Bob. :hug: :hug:

[Eeyore'sthebest]

Still praying. I hope he's feeling better today. :hug:

[Just Beachy]

Sounds like things are looking good!! Still keeping you all in my prayers. :hug:

[des1954]

Whew!!! I hope the worst is behind you now!!

That's so unfair about him not being to eat as much!!! Poor John is begging for this surgery & may not be able to have it. Bob didn't want or need this, and he got it!!! Unfair, I tell ya!!! UNFAIR!!!

Now, Phyllis - you have an open invitation to call me whenever you need to (or want to). It's okay with me, and I'm only too glad to offer a shoulder when needed.

I hope you were able to get some rest last night. You soooooo deserve a good night's sleep, girl.

Let us do the worrying and praying for you!:thumbsup2

[disney4dan]

Sorry to post so late Phyllis, been a tough week all around and I did not get to the boards like I wanted.

We are praying for you, hope all is well.

[BRDof3]

Phyllis, as a nurse who has spent a lot of years in just about very hospital area there is, and 15 years coordinating medical care with the patient's real life, I encourage you to be a PITA to no end. I'm certain the nursing and medical staff were doing their best, but remember that you know your overall situation better than they do.

I know my patients better than a hospital nurse ever will, due to the nature of my work. Even so, there is no way that I can focus on every detail of the patient's life like they can. I have too many lives to coordinate, while they are focused on their specific situation. A good nurse may complain about a PITA family member, but will understand why. They also know that you improved the situation and saved them a lot of time trying to figure out what you already knew.

And don't feel bad about calling. That's what we're here for. :hug:

[ntsammy5]

I'm good at being a PITA

[Gatordad]

i like mine with grilled chicken.

[3gr8kids]

I'm good at being a PITA

i like mine with grilled chicken.

Aren't they opposed to eating meat? :lmao:

[auntie]

Hello guys..I'm back. I've tried to post a couple of times, but been having trouble with posting, and then didn't have the time to try to repost..so let's hope this goes though
Bob is in a room on a floor. Out of the ICU. We were off to a rough start, however, he is making progress. The night of his surgery..I called every three hours. By morning, they told me not to wait for the visiting time, to just come to the door of the ICU and come in and see him. His surgeons had been in and cleared him to go to a floor. He was much more comfortable. Pain meds had been adjusted, and everyone was on the same page as to his procedure and pain management. His nurse told my son and I, to leave for a bit while they got him ready to transfer. She said "Mr. Parker, you're movin' on up"..and she kind of smiled. I remember thinking of the old Jeffersons's TV show.She told me he'd be on the 9th floor in half an hour. You know me..twenty minutes later, Timmy and I were in the elevator headed up. When we reached the 9th floor and the doors opened, we figured we were missinformed. As it appeared to us as some type of administrative flloor. A huge floral arragement in a foyer area. To our right a glass enclosed bridge led to another tower, and to our left a set of double doors. We went through the doors..but we didn't see any signs about patient rooms. We immediately noticed the floor was newly carpeted..and the lighting was not flourescent. The walls were nicely painted in a subdued color and the doors to what we thought were offices were very wide..and in fact were patient rooms. We reached what appeared more like a reception area, but is in fact a nurses statation. Everyone we passed, said "hello". (hey..it's NY..you dont get that alot:rolleyes1). We reached what was to be Bob's room..and they were still getting him in, and taking his vitals, hooking up the chest tube, and NG ..when his nurse turned, and said "Who is this we have here?" My husband said it was his wife. She turned and replied. "why..she is lovely, Mr. Parker, you are a lucky man". Now..I tell you this because..in all candor..I hadn't showered in 5 days at that point, and let's say I looked like it. Even my son looked at me with that "Who the heck is she talkin' about" look on his face. :eek: She introduced herself, and went over what was going on with Bob..and where we were at. At right about the same time, I received a call on my cell from his surgeon who was asking if we had reached the room. Wanting to let me know he had already seen him but was in the office "if I needed anything" to just call. Okay...frankly, at this point I'm thinking MOTHER OF GOD..they LEFT SOMETHING IN HIM. :scared1:
Turns out this is a floor that is used for VIP's. Private rooms for those who have the bucks to pay for more than their insurance covers. The rooms and that matter the entire floor has more the feel of a hotel than a hospital. Nothing hangs in back of the bed on a wall..it's all in beautiful cabinetry. The bathroom is nicer than the one I have at home (okay..that's not hard to do..but you get my drift. He's got a large flat screened TV on the wall. You press a button for a nurse...and they ANSWER you. There is a cart that comes around with get this...FRESH FRUIT and COOKIES!. I tell ya..it's kind of like a twilight zone experience. I'm there about 12-14 hours a day. While the staff is attentive, I feel better being there myself. I've spent quite a bit of time in hospitals the last twelve years with my parents. You really need someone to be an advocate for you in situations like this. Even when the decor is better than it is on the other floors.

Yesterday Bob had a test where he drank dye and had an x-ray that determined that his stomach is where it's supposed to be..and nothing is leaking. So they removed the tube that went through his nose and down to his stomach. He is SO much more comfortable without it. They also removed his cathetar..so of course he was thrilled with that too. Two things he wanted most in the world..to drink something..and a pair of underwear! :laundy: The underwear fairy is back in business! He seems to be doing well with the clear liquids. They hope to start him on pureed foods tomorrow.
He's still got a chest tube, and they still have him on the epidural for pain..which he can press as need. We have him walking a bit. Although I have to say, he is exhausted when he's through. VERY shakey..and he's aggravated about that, because he feels good..and then wants to walk around, only to feel like he was hit by a mack truck when he does. I keep telling him..." a little bit at a time". We are light years ahead of where we thought we'd be last week at this time. He's had major throasic surgery...and a not so wanted stomach reduction. Yet..he's here, and let's be thankful for blessings we've received this week. Our pastor was by again..and prayed with us, after Bob had his test with the dye and x-ray. We have definetly felt the hand of God this week. I pray that he continues to progress, and we are able to get him home soon. I know he's got quite a recovery ahead of him. As long as we're together..we'll handle it. We have received prayers and good wishes from so many people. He is such a good man..and he's touched so many lives, he hadn't realized how many people cared about him. Like a lot of husbands, he sells himself short..thinking he's just a regular hardworkin' Joe. Only he's not...He's a V.I.P. !.

[2goofycampers]

Thanks for the update we been waiting popcorn::, you know us. :surfweb: Glad all is headed in the right direction, we will continue to keep you and Bob in our thoughts and prayers.
Now go :laundy:Bob's underwear. :lmao:

[des1954]

I'm glad you posted, Phyllis. I was getting a tad concerned & started to call you a few times, but held off because I didn't want to risk the chance of waking you if you were getting a few winks.

I'm so happy they removed the NG tube. Rick had one of those & NEVER wants another one!!! Tell Mr. Bob to be patient. His body has been through a LOT of trauma, and that doesn't go away overnight. One little step at a time.

Okay....now our prayers are turning into thanksgiving and healing prayers!! Thank you, Jesus!!:thumbsup2

[disney4dan]

I am glad to hear that things are looking better Phyllis, hope you both are out and going for walks in the fresh spring air soon.

[Just Beachy]

Phyllis, this is GREAT news!!!! I'm so happy things are going well!!! :hug: to you and the family. Like Deb said, I'll be praying for a quick healing and recovery and prayers of thanks!! :goodvibes

[vick]

Glad to hear Bob is doing better! I'll continue to pray for a speedy recovery.

[Born 2 Fish]

Phyllis that is so good to hear about Bob,,get him a Mickey Mouse balloon and he'll think he's at the Grand Floridian ! :thumbsup2

[ntsammy5]

Great news Phyllis. Can he drink beer yet? If he can I'll send one! :drinking1

[Eeyore'sthebest]

Glad things are looking up. :thumbsup2

[auntie]

Great news Phyllis. Can he drink beer yet? If he can I'll send one! :drinking1


:laughing: Funny you should mention this because today he wondered if when he went home he'd be able to drink his nightly couple of glasses of wine. I told him why wait... I'll just hang a bottle of Chianti from his IV pole!
What's one more tube?...

Speaking of tubes..well, sort of...last one taken out today. The chest tube is gone. :banana: The epidural is out as well. He's got percoset for pain. He's started eating soft FOOD. So far..so good. We'll see what tomorrow brings but it looks as if he may be head home soon. :woohoo:

We are light years ahead of where we were last week at this time. He's got a bit of a recovery, but it sure will be nice to have him home. I am eternally grateful for the many, many, thoughts and prayers that came from all of you. I appreciate more than I can say how so many of you took time out of your day to pray for the husband of a woman most of you have never met. Your support has meant a great deal to me. Thank you all very much.:grouphug:

[BRDof3]

So good to keep hearing this news getting better and better. Keep the pace, everyone! :wizard:

[RvUsa]

Phyllis, so glad to hear things are getting better! Bet you can't wait till he's home and everything is back to normal!

Keep us up to date, and keeping up the good thoughts and prayers for ya!

[travelprincess]

Looks like he is on the road to a full recovery. Faith can take you so far, I know there are people who dont even know how wonderfully powerful it is!
I will send up prayers.

[mrsscooter]

Praise God! I am so happy to hear that Bob is doing better, Phyllis. Keep all of the updates coming, no matter how small or large they are!!!! You are both still in our thoughts and prayers for a successful recovery!!

[3gr8kids]

Great news Phyllis, so good to hear!
Still keeping you and Bob and your fam in my prayers. :hug:

[We4mickey]

Great to hear he is doing so much better. Continued positive thoughts for your husband and your son as well.

[JCJRSmith]

Glad to hear he is doing better. Now get some rest. :thumbsup2

[auntie]

Thought I'd update with some GOOD news..Bob's home! :dance3:

He's exhausted..and feeling the pain a bit. He'll nod off while you're talking to him. Wait..he did that before the surgery too (just kidding..:laughing:) They removed the epidural two days ago, now he's taking Percoset (sorry sp?). He's shakey on his feet, a walk to the bathroom tires him out. Other than that he feels pretty good if he's just sitting around, it's when he's got to move that there's a problem..oh well, that's what the pain killers are for I guess!:laughing:

Just figured I'd keep you guys updated...been crazy busy, catching up with housework, laundry, grocery shopping and taking care of the hubby. I sure am happy to have some ordinary things to think about. :cutie:

[ftwildernessguy]

That is great news, Phyllis!

[RvUsa]

Awesome Phyllis, tell Bob we said hi!

[2goofycampers]

Funny how we think our life is a boring rut till something happens and we are glad to be back to the rut. Welcome back to the rut.:banana:

[VACAMPER]

good news phyllis:thumbsup2

[vick]

Thanks for the good news update!

[AuburnJen92]

:grouphug:phyllis

great news

[disney92]

So glad to hear your husband is home with you!!!!

[mrsscooter]

This is wonderful news!!! Just remember that no matter how high the laundry piles are, or how big the dust bunnies got while you were away, the important thing your home together to sit and complain about them!!!! Congratulations on the beginning of a successful recovery!

[Donna]

Thought I'd update with some GOOD news..Bob's home! :dance3:

He's exhausted..and feeling the pain a bit. He'll nod off while you're talking to him. Wait..he did that before the surgery too (just kidding..:laughing:) They removed the epidural two days ago, now he's taking Percoset (sorry sp?). He's shakey on his feet, a walk to the bathroom tires him out. Other than that he feels pretty good if he's just sitting around, it's when he's got to move that there's a problem..oh well, that's what the pain killers are for I guess!:laughing:

Just figured I'd keep you guys updated...been crazy busy, catching up with housework, laundry, grocery shopping and taking care of the hubby. I sure am happy to have some ordinary things to think about. :cutie:


WONDERFUL! Glad to hear the good news, Phyllis! Ordinary is great!

[ntsammy5]

Good for Bob. How long will he be laid up now?

[Just Beachy]

Great news, Phyllis!!! Here's to a speedy recovery!!! :drinking1

[3gr8kids]

Great news, Phyllis!!! Here's to a speedy recovery!!! :drinking1

I'll second that!!!! :thumbsup2

[auntie]

Good for Bob. How long will he be laid up now?

We're not sure exactly. We've been told it's similar in recovery to that of a cardiac surgery.
Had visiting nurse yesterday, and physical therapy today. He was slightly agitated that I had them come.(luckily not strong enough to argue though:rolleyes1) I figured insurance is paying for it..why not take advantage and see what help they can offer. It's another set of eyes that knows what they're looking at...as far as his incision, and that type of thing. PT said they'd be back probably twice a week, for at least a couple of weeks. They left a set of exercises for him to do. They were reassuring as to his feeling as tired as he does..but it's normal at this point.
They both seem to feel he's exactly where they expected he'd be given his surgery. PT also reassured him that he will reach a turning point in his recovery where he starts to feel like his old self again..just to give his body the time it needs. In the meatime he has exercises that will facilitate his recovery. He follows up with primary care next week and the surgeon the week after that.
He got a good look at the incision yesterday when he showered, and frankly, I think he was surprised by it's appearance. It's got that "Frankenstein" look to it at this point. He was kind of quiet after that. I think as he starts to regain his strength, his good nature will return as well. It's been a lot to handle, in a relatively short period of time. It's just gonna take a little time.

Out of the goodness of my heart..I figure 5 or 6 days, then I'll have him digging up the backyard and putting in that new walk way I wanted. :eek: I mean..I had to wait for the ground to thaw anyway.:rotfl2:

[ntsammy5]

PT said they'd be back probably twice a week, for at least a couple of weeks.

My daughter's a PT - she's in Glens Falls if he wants to recuperate in your trailer up there!

[auntie]

How nice would that be. Just one problem...camper is sitting in my driveway. :mad: We gave up the seasonal site near Glens Falls for this year. (kicking myself in the butt for that now :sad2:) Would have been nice to relax in the camper.

[LONE-STAR]

Glad all is going ok.:)