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alebisi
01-10-2009, 08:51 AM
so here's the deal today is my 20th birthday..... and my closest friends are going out with other friends and not with me....some have said they are busy today... and I'm really feeling sad... I mean it's my birthday.. thank god my cousin came from Rome... I don't know... are this true friends??? I knew here on the boards I could vent, thanks guys for reading :).

Whipperwhirl
01-10-2009, 09:00 AM
Im sorry you are feeling sad - Why not go out by yourself - see where your Birthday takes you - do something you enjoy like photography or dancing. Friends arent the end of the universe - they let you down from time to time - enjoy yourself anyway! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! WHIP

mybabesuz
01-10-2009, 09:04 AM
so here's the deal today is my 20th birthday..... and my closest friends are going out with other friends and not with me....some have said they are busy today... and I'm really feeling sad... I mean it's my birthday.. thank god my cousin came from Rome... I don't know... are this true friends??? I knew here on the boards I could vent, thanks guys for reading :).

Sounds a little suspicious to me...:rolleyes:
Maybe they are planning a Surprise Party party: or something...:thumbsup2
Anyways... HAPPY BIRTHDAY...
:bday:

kab407
01-10-2009, 09:09 AM
Sounds a little suspicious to me...:rolleyes:
Maybe they are planning a Surprise Party party: or something...:thumbsup2
Anyways... HAPPY BIRTHDAY...
:bday:

Suz is on to something....If I were you, I'd make sure I was dressed to go out tonight.

Happy Birthday!!!

simonkodousek
01-10-2009, 09:23 AM
Sounds to me like they are up to something... ;)

Happy Birthday! :)

dpuck1998
01-10-2009, 09:24 AM
Hmm...maybe they are all just....sneaky....good luck...

wishspirit
01-10-2009, 09:27 AM
Happy Birthday!

Another 20 year old!:hug:

I have had quite a few parties where some of the people I asked didn't show. Why not plan something on another day? I had my 20th Birthday party a week before, because i wanted to celebrate with people from Uni rather than home. Just do it on a day they can do! :goodvibes

mikelan6
01-10-2009, 09:37 AM
Happy Birthday !!! Forget your friends and go have a great time on your own.

klam_chowder
01-10-2009, 09:47 AM
:bday:

Don't get your hopes up for a surprise - it's your special day get off of this board and go have a blast with your cousin :dance3:

Enjoy! Enjoy! Enjoy! :grouphug:

cheers,
:flower3:

halliesmommy01
01-10-2009, 10:10 AM
I hope you have a happy birthday. When I was reading your post I was thinking the same as the others. Whatever happens I hope you have a great day!

Becky

jcb
01-10-2009, 11:11 AM
Happy Birthday.

pixiedust:

No matter what, remember we are all happy to have birthday cake with you - whether it is your birthday or not!

eeyorethegreat
01-10-2009, 11:37 AM
:bday:

Don't get your hopes up for a surprise - it's your special day get off of this board and go have a blast with your cousin :dance3:

Enjoy! Enjoy! Enjoy! :grouphug:

cheers,
:flower3:

Yes indeed your cousin came to see you enjoy your time together! :cheer2: If there is a surprise party enjoy it if there isn't enjoy what ever you decide to do!! Don't depend on your friends to make fun for you make some for yourself and if your friends do come through for you you can be happy about that if they don;t you will already be having too much fun to worry about it.:bday:

DLBDS
01-10-2009, 11:55 AM
Happy Birthday!

Wouldn't it be funny if the previous posters were right?! And if they're not, well, ENJOY THE DAY ANYWAY!! You're 20!!!

LilGMom
01-10-2009, 12:51 PM
:bday: :cake:

Happy Birthday!!!

NC Belle
01-10-2009, 12:52 PM
Buon compleanno!
:tinker:party::bday::rockband:



Congratulazioni sul giro dei 20! Goda del vostro giorno e mangi una parte della torta per me.



I hope Babel fish was right.

Annette_VA
01-10-2009, 01:11 PM
Sorry you're feeling down. Hopefully, the other posters are right & your friends are planning a surprise party or something.

Regardless, enjoy your day! Happy 20th! You're not a teenager anymore! :)

ericafny
01-10-2009, 01:47 PM
Happy Birthday!! I am sure it will all work out with your friends...I am with the rest of the posters who think they are up to something. Regardless, go out and celebrate! Your 20's are going to be so much fun! I am sad that in just a little over 2 weeks I am turning 30 and leaving my 20's behind..enjoy!

:bday: party:

tinkbutt
01-10-2009, 01:50 PM
I agree that you shouldn't harp on the bad stuff!! try and make it a great day this isn't how you wanna remember your birthday!

WLfan
01-10-2009, 10:51 PM
Have a happy birthday! Plan something with your friends for a different night. Have fun with your cousin.

disneym2m
01-10-2009, 11:28 PM
Unfortunately in life sometimes you may not get to celebrate the day on the day. I don't know how many anniversaries my husband and I have had to celebrate on a different day because of whatever.

Have a great time with your cousin and just enjoy being with yourself. Hopefully you and your friends' schedule will work out better tomorrow.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

alebisi
01-11-2009, 09:03 AM
hey guys...!! thanks for the support... at the end my friends were buying my presents... so you were sort of right :)... I spent a wonderful evening with my friends and specially with my cousin...she is crazy:)
Thanks for the support again I know I can always count on you guys :goodvibes

Becx N Gav
01-11-2009, 09:29 AM
I'm so glad it was better than what you first thought :goodvibes

A belated Happy Birthday :cheer2: :cheer2: :cheer2:

MerMom60_94
01-11-2009, 09:36 AM
Sounds a little suspicious to me...:rolleyes:
Maybe they are planning a Surprise Party party: or something...:thumbsup2
Anyways... HAPPY BIRTHDAY...
:bday:

Funny, that is the first thing I thought too. Happy Birthday Allessandra.

ericafny
01-11-2009, 08:37 PM
hey guys...!! thanks for the support... at the end my friends were buying my presents... so you were sort of right :)... I spent a wonderful evening with my friends and specially with my cousin...she is crazy:)
Thanks for the support again I know I can always count on you guys :goodvibes

So glad your birthday turned out to be great! From one January birthday to another - HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! :wizard: