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J Marley
08-11-2008, 10:02 AM
What is it with some folk???

When I came back from our first visit to DLP I was talking to my SIL ...her boys are the same age as my pair.I said to her our trip was brilliant and that she should take her boys at some stage...Her reply was I don't want to go there.I want to go to the REAL Disney in Florida???

I bit my tongue....

Well today i was on the phone with her and said we had booked to go back to DLP and this time she said

"What do you want to go back there again for.We are planning to go to the REAL Disney in Florida in 2012"

Well good for you I hope you have a brilliant time but stop putting our holidays in DLP down.It is a real disney park,my boys have a fantastic time and we love it :love:

So what is it with some folk?
Does anyone else have the same negative feelings from friends and family?

Bolanette87
08-11-2008, 10:05 AM
I have friends like that. It's okay with me though- If they're going be pompous they can have a long haul flight, hours in burning heat, hours and hours queuing for rides, and not being able to go anywhere unless they've booked it.... Fine by me! I'll have the lovely, picturesque Disneyland Paris, which is just as awesome, if not moreso!! I'm sure 'real' Disney is very nice, but DLRP has a special place in all of our hearts..... :goodvibes

Bob xoxox

cap'njack.
08-11-2008, 10:05 AM
All the time. When I told my work friends that I was going to DLRP in October the response was one of 'Well he can't afford to go to the real Disney so he has to make do with the cheap version'

Many a time I've had to put up with DLRP bashing, including one nightmare journey on the Eurostar to DLRP sat next to a family from the USA who slated DLRP the whole way there.

Leave them to it I say and leave DLRP to the ones who really want to be there.

ukstitch
08-11-2008, 10:05 AM
Think of it this way:

The more people who think DLRP isn't a real Disney park, the less people there are in DLRP and therefore the shorter queues.

Anyway, if DLRP isn't a real Disney park, then neither is Florida - they're both based upon the original in California, so technically only California is a "real" disney.
:hug:

mommy2ash
08-11-2008, 10:06 AM
i dont get that. thats fine if you want to go to america but as is proved by this board plenty of people have a great time in paris and go again and again. personally i wouldnt like to go to america *** it would be too big for me kwim i get flustered when there is too much choice.dlrp will do me and my lo fine. but in saying that if someone said they were going to dl in america i would say i hope you have a good time

tennisfan
08-11-2008, 10:11 AM
Think of it this way:

The more people who think DLRP isn't a real Disney park, the less people there are in DLRP and therefore the shorter queues.

Anyway, if DLRP isn't a real Disney park, then neither is Florida - they're both based upon the original in California, so technically only California is a "real" disney.
:hug:

That is exactly what I was going to say:thumbsup2

Everyone has their preferences, I choose to ignore people who say DLRP is not the real thing. Most of the time they are jealous as they have never been to any of them. Also you can be at Disney in a couple of hours & have a weekend away there unlike Florida.

Yes I would love to go to other Disney parks but don't have the time or really the funds to go at the moment so I take what I can get.

J Marley
08-11-2008, 10:16 AM
I am glad folks here understand my rant..I just had to get it off my chest.



Anyway, if DLRP isn't a real Disney park, then neither is Florida - they're both based upon the original in California, so technically only California is a "real" disney.
:hug:

Rob I did actually remind her of this but to be honest I don't even think she knows there a park in Toyoko or Hong Kong either.

The first time she said it I put it down to jealously...now I put it down to naivety

davewasbaloo
08-11-2008, 10:20 AM
It's funny when I hear this. As many have said, the "real" Disney park, if there is such a thing is in California. And as much as I like Epcot and DAK, I would much rather be at DLP or DL anytime.

I wrote a blog recently talking about how much of a bargain DLP is compared to Florida, and man, did I get quite a hammering from people.

It's a shame. DLP is the most beautiful MK style parks with the best e-tickets compared to it's siblings. Now if we could have shows and entertainment on the scale of DL, then I would call it the perfect park.

Her loss. FWIW - I think the Magic Kingdom in florida is a poor relation.

thelittlemermaid83
08-11-2008, 10:35 AM
I know how you feel, i have been to WDW twice and i really do love it there so when i said i wanted to take DD DLRP i had many friends say "why do you want to go there its rubbish" "Oh its just like thorpe park" "Eurodisney is rubbish compared to WDW after one day your hate it"

But i never listened to them, half of them had never been WDW so how could they compare and my other friends had been DLRP like 5 years ago before the studios opened. So i booked my trip and everyone was very suprised when i came back singing its praises and saying that i prefered it to WDW, they was even more astonished when i started booking more trips and even started to say "It cant be that bad if Emma keeps going back" lol.

Funny thing now the people who dissed DLRP so badly to me want to go there now and that really gets my goat.

ukstitch
08-11-2008, 10:38 AM
The best cure for this thinking is to just go to DLRP.

I have to admit, we used to think like that after we went to florida, but one summer we decided to go to DLRP anyway and now we've been there once or twice every year since.

Natasha&Matt
08-11-2008, 10:41 AM
I hate people like that! Everytime we say to our friends we are going to DLP they say why are you doing that for it will ruin yout memories from your Florida trip??!! i think not! nothing could ruin that and goin to Paris would only give me more great memories =)

thelittlemermaid83
08-11-2008, 10:41 AM
I love WDW, it was my first Disney experience and one day i really hope i can take Kyra.

I remember when i got home from my 1st DLP trip and i got into bed and cried, i just had such a magical time i really was so sad to be home which of course has led to me booking lots more impulsive trips lol.

SandraVB79
08-11-2008, 10:42 AM
the "real" Disney is in California, there is the one that Walt built.
And IMHO, DLP is Disney-er than WDW.

J Marley
08-11-2008, 10:50 AM
I can imagine what will happen..........

They will go off to Florida and get bitten by the Disney bug.When they return home they will look into booking DLP so they don't have to save for another 4 years to get another Disney fix.....

I will have a small snigortle :rotfl2:

MJ_always
08-11-2008, 11:13 AM
Argh yeah thats really annoying! The ammount of people that just dont seem to understand that DLP IS a 'real' Disney Park and is just as amazing and as magical! Some of my family have been like that.
We've been to WDW and DLP and i love them both! Plus DLP is closer and cheaper too which is great.

Ashleigh x

hildasmuriel
08-11-2008, 11:21 AM
What is really sad to me is that she is missing 4 years of her children's life saving to take them to the 'real' Disney. Who knows what will happen between now and then - she could be missing 4 wonderful holidays to DLRP and may even find that after 4 years of scrimping that the 'moment' has passed and it is not the big thrill she hoped for.

thelittlemermaid83
08-11-2008, 11:24 AM
What is really sad to me is that she is missing 4 years of her children's life saving to take them to the 'real' Disney. Who knows what will happen between now and then - she could be missing 4 wonderful holidays to DLRP and may even find that after 4 years of scrimping that the 'moment' has passed and it is not the big thrill she hoped for.

Completely argee with that :thumbsup2

Tillybud
08-11-2008, 11:34 AM
What is really sad to me is that she is missing 4 years of her children's life saving to take them to the 'real' Disney. Who knows what will happen between now and then - she could be missing 4 wonderful holidays to DLRP and may even find that after 4 years of scrimping that the 'moment' has passed and it is not the big thrill she hoped for.

agree with this fully !!

My sister took her kids to DLP in 2005 and promised them afterwards that they would go to the 'real' Disney, we've had 3 trips to DLP since then and each time her kids have asked when they are going again ... poor little things haven't had either DLP or the real Disney (using her words) since their first and last trip in November 2005 ... my sister can't understand why we love it so much and why we keep going back but for us it's a wonderful, safe holiday and the memories it gives us are priceless. Perhaps one day when dd is older we may venture further to experience the magic but right now we just love DLP and I'd go again tomorrow if I could. Our son is 16 and we thought perhaps this would be his last year of wanting to come with us and even though we're booked again for October he's already asking when we're going next year ... we love it :love:

J Marley
08-11-2008, 11:44 AM
What is really sad to me is that she is missing 4 years of her children's life saving to take them to the 'real' Disney. Who knows what will happen between now and then - she could be missing 4 wonderful holidays to DLRP and may even find that after 4 years of scrimping that the 'moment' has passed and it is not the big thrill she hoped for.


That is very true

J Marley
08-11-2008, 11:51 AM
My sister took her kids to DLP in 2005 and promised them afterwards that they would go to the 'real' Disney, we've had 3 trips to DLP since then and each time her kids have asked when they are going again ... poor little things haven't had either DLP or the real Disney (using her words) since their first and last trip in November 2005 ... my sister can't understand why we love it so much and why we keep going back but for us it's a wonderful, safe holiday and the memories it gives us are priceless. Perhaps one day when dd is older we may venture further to experience the magic but right now we just love DLP and I'd go again tomorrow if I could. Our son is 16 and we thought perhaps this would be his last year of wanting to come with us and even though we're booked again for October he's already asking when we're going next year ... we love it :love:

When we came back I was showing the pictures to my 2 nephews and they said ..In a couple of years we are going too.

What a long time to wait and neither of them had any concept of what park it was ....To them it was simply a Disney park. They couldn't care less where in the world it was.I honestly dread to see their wee faces when my 2 tell them we are going again:sad2:

Tillybud
08-11-2008, 12:02 PM
When we came back I was showing the pictures to my 2 nephews and they said ..In a couple of years we are going too.

What a long time to wait and neither of them had any concept of what park it was ....To them it was simply a Disney park. They couldn't care less where in the world it was.I honestly dread to see their wee faces when my 2 tell them we are going again:sad2:

poor little things and like you say it doesn't matter where it is it's the fact it's Disney !! I've tried explaining this to both my sister and my brother whose never taken his 2 and I just think it's sad. If I won the lottery I'd take all my neices and nephews tomorrow !!!

I <3 DLP
08-11-2008, 12:54 PM
when i tell people in work i'm goin back to dlp again they think its quite sad and make a laugh out of it they call it the "fake disney".. it really winds me up i think they say it on purpose at this stage... :furious: :furious: :furious: :furious: :furious: i would love for them to go so they could experience it themselves i know for sure it wouldn't be the only time they'd go! :cloud9:

Pinkradleygirl
08-11-2008, 01:01 PM
I too have a friend who's been to the 'real disneyland':rolleyes1. She thinks I'm depriving my DD and DS by not taking them to the 'real disneyland' :mad: .

I just remind her that while she's done 1 trip to the 'real disney' in 4 years we're now on our 6th trip with a 7th planned in the same amount of time and for far less money!!

I know where I want to be and thats DLP!!!!:woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:

DCLMan
08-11-2008, 01:14 PM
While I enjoy DLRP I much prefer WDW.

Florida has so much more to offer than Paris, better weather (in general), better CMs and I find Orlando more of an experience. You also have a greater choice of theme parks, USF, IOA, SeaWorld and many water parks.

DLRP is more manageable, some of the rides are better, BTMR, SM, POTC and Cinemagic is the best show of either Worlds. DLRP has a limited amount of restaurants but you can stock up on cheap beer and cigarettes.

While not knocking DLRP I would rather go to WDW.

davewasbaloo
08-11-2008, 01:19 PM
Each to their own. However I hate the Florida weather (not too keen on Southern and Midwestern Americans either), and i prefer the West Coast versions of Sea World and Universal, so truth be told, I'd rather be in California than any of the resorts.

However, DLP is beautiful and near, and much cheaper to get to as a family of 4. So we are happy to frequent DLP.

But each to their own - it's your time and money.

rhysd2
08-11-2008, 01:34 PM
I must admit I was guilty of this view in the past. However I didnt slate it publicly I just always felt in my head DLP was lacking a little(plus I was never a huge fan of the french, long story for another day).

However after going there in January my opinions changed. While I love the florida parks it was so nice at DLP. everything felt better planned and laid out. It was wonderful having the 2 parks close together. And everything was just great

We'd go into EMH and ride space mountain a ton of times then flit over to studios giggling like a school boy to ride tower of terror the second it opened. doesnt get much better than that!

So now I'm a convert and intend to go back a bunch. I'll still go to florida now n then but with DLP closer to home its that bit more convenient and easier for short trips etc as well as long ones

its also a great taster for the younger children to test if they are upto themeparks yet as being a little smaller and closer together its less likely to tire them out and make them miserable

oh toodles!!!
08-11-2008, 01:57 PM
Pity they'll have to wait til 2012 :tongue: !!

I'd love to take mine to Disney Florida too but it'll be a different type of holiday and cost sooooo much more. This trip we can do now & imo theres nothing 'fake' about it. Can't wait for our 1st trip to DLRP!

hildasmuriel
08-11-2008, 02:53 PM
DLRP has a limited amount of restaurants but you can stock up on cheap beer and cigarettes.



:rotfl2: I can think of lots of reasons for choosing one holiday over another, but honestly this one has never entered my head!

What I really really can't understand is how people can openly badmouth another person's holiday. Many the time a colleague or neighbour has told me that they have booked a holiday to Florida/Thailand/Mexico/Kenya/Skegness ...........none of these destinations appeal to me but I always respond with "Oh fantastic. You'll have such a lovely time at the theme parks/sex shows/tequila bars/safari/Butlins......." or whatever. I am pleased for them that they have booked the holiday of their choice. I would NEVER DREAM of questioning why they are spending their money in that way. :confused3

gemmybear83
08-11-2008, 03:07 PM
It's funny when I hear this. As many have said, the "real" Disney park, if there is such a thing is in California. And as much as I like Epcot and DAK, I would much rather be at DLP or DL anytime.

I wrote a blog recently talking about how much of a bargain DLP is compared to Florida, and man, did I get quite a hammering from people.

It's a shame. DLP is the most beautiful MK style parks with the best e-tickets compared to it's siblings. Now if we could have shows and entertainment on the scale of DL, then I would call it the perfect park.

Her loss. FWIW - I think the Magic Kingdom in florida is a poor relation.

I totally agree! I went to WDW in Jan (having not been for 10 years) and I wasdisapointed with Magic Kingdom :scared1: :scared1: (well as disapointed with a disney theme park as you can be - lets be honest its still great!). The theming and the rides were no where near as good as DLRP, and I think the food in DLRP is much better with its "european" flair. We struggled to eat at MK (although I will say the other theme parks at WDW were much better).

I think there both great overall but totally different places and experiences. What I really like about DLRP is the price, short flight and PARIS!!!!!!!!!!! Although I greatly value the cultural experience that is disney :rotfl: I love going to a "real place" and a very attractive real place at that .... I'm afraid Orlando and its shopping malls don't have the same affect on me.........

Ok rant over:)

PJackson
08-11-2008, 03:32 PM
What an interesting post. I've not been to either (tbh it's not somewhere I'd wanted to go pre kids - we prefered more 'exotic' destinations lol) BUT having read this site and the Veness guidebook I'm really wished we'd gone as a couple pre kiddies - we are going on our first ever Disney trip to DLP in about 7 weeks or so and I can't wait. I'm just sorry (in a way) that we will be tied with the littlies but then I wouldn't change the picture (and the memory it will give) that will be on my DD1's face for the world! That is priceless and let's face it she'll appreciate the shorter journey (as will we travelling with two youngsters) and smaller park more than she would in Florida - in fact at 3.5 years she won't know the difference! It's Disney to her and us!

I'm sure at some point we'll take them to Florida but not for a few good years yet because of the flight/journey/cost but in the meantime Paris is on our doorstep (almost) and seems ab fab to me :lovestruc

tigger300686
08-11-2008, 03:57 PM
Well WE all know what the dlrp bashers are missing and its def their loss :rolleyes1

Emergency Kitten
08-11-2008, 04:44 PM
What an interesting thread and also what a terribly sad thread when you think how people who have closed their minds to possibility end up depriving themselves and (more to the point) their children of a magical experience on their doorstep. Snobbery has a lot to answer for. The phrase 'real' Disney gets me too. What does she think DLRP is made of - cheese?

However, the world would be boring if we were all the same, and the cynical viewpoint (expressed many times already) is that if people turn their noses up and choose not to go, then all the more room for those of us that do go!

I have to say from a personal perspective I am so overwhelmed by the sheer size and options and choice involved in any trip to either of the US parks that I am quite likely to never choose to go there at all. There's plenty of other places in the world that I want to go to, so if I can get a manageable amount of disney in a convenient and affordable package, then that's enough for me - will probably never go to a US disney park. I don't see them as being the 'bigger brother' or 'better' in some way; I'd probably hate it, in truth, so big and crowded and with six million choices of where to go and what to do....I'd be overcome.

And with a limited amount of holiday, 3 or 4 days at DLRP is sufficient, then I spend the rest of my annual leave doing other stuff, like camping, theatre trips, lying on a beach in Turkey (3 weeks to go! Yay!) - makes sense to me anyway.

Give me my bitesized DLRP any day.

Bexx
08-11-2008, 05:48 PM
I love the fact that I can get away for a quick Disney fix so easily - and the price for travel, room, passes and half board comes to about the same as the flight to Florida!! As you know, Davewasbaloo, I agree with you! ;)


What I really really can't understand is how people can openly badmouth another person's holiday. Many the time a colleague or neighbour has told me that they have booked a holiday to Florida/Thailand/Mexico/Kenya/Skegness ...........none of these destinations appeal to me but I always respond with "Oh fantastic. You'll have such a lovely time at the theme parks/sex shows/tequila bars/safari/Butlins......." or whatever. I am pleased for them that they have booked the holiday of their choice. I would NEVER DREAM of questioning why they are spending their money in that way. :confused3

A very, very good point ::yes::

cookie334
08-12-2008, 04:10 AM
Like someone else admitted on here, I was guilty of having this opinion at one point, although not as extreme. We took 2 of our kids to WDW a few years ago and loved it. We are planning on taking them back in about 5 years, but we decided we couldn't go without Disney for that long, so booked DLP for June.

As soon as we got home from that trip, we were looking into booking again, for so many practical reasons, price, convenience, flight times etc.

Also personal preference because DLP just seems much more magical, I think, because it's all together, you can get from one park to the furthest away hotel (obv excluding DCR) on foot. The whole place just feels like it's own little world to me. You're there in this small space with sooooo much to see and do and although you are so close to the "real world" you don't feel it at all. I think it's very difficult to get that feeling in WDW, it's very hard to park hop without removing yourself from the world of Disney to do so.

WDW yes it's fun and there's so much to do and see and we will go back for a long holiday in a few years time, but DLP we love it and will be back loads more before.

LorraineH
08-12-2008, 05:23 AM
I have to say that I prefer WDW - its more of a "holiday" when you're away for 2 weeks, as opposed to a "short break" to DLP. I love the other theme parks, the weather, the water parks and its cheaper out there.

But I cannot afford to go every year so again like many of you I need my Disney Fix and am loving the two parks in DLRP.

One of my friends was taking her boys to WDW last year and she was so excited. I helped her plan it and was getting such a buzz out of it all (although I have to admit I was slightly jealous...!!!). I couldnt wait for her to come home and show me the pics and tell me EVERYTHING she did and saw.

She did not like it out there!! She said she walked into MK expecting to get the same feeling that she had when she went to DLP and didnt get it. She said she didnt feel the "magic" in the States like she did in Paris.

She said it was a waste of money going all that way to be so hot all the time, queuing all the time and spending one whole day in the bathroom of her hotel room as there was the possibility of a hurricane hitting.

She had taken her boys to DLRP when they were little, then spent the next 3 years without a holiday saving for her "trip of a lifetime" and didnt enjoy it!!

I would like to go back to WDW but its at least 2010 before I can go, and that means forfeiting a holiday next year. I just dont know whether its worth it, when like this year I have 2 DLRP breaks away, rather than one "main" holiday.

GlendaONeill
08-12-2008, 05:51 AM
I can imagine what will happen..........

They will go off to Florida and get bitten by the Disney bug.When they return home they will look into booking DLP so they don't have to save for another 4 years to get another Disney fix.....

I will have a small snigortle :rotfl2:

We did that!!!!! :lmao: :lmao:

And I love them both. We had a different experience in France and to me you can't really compare the two parks. You can't go to DLRP thinking it's Florida. We would have had a shock as it was February and FREEZING!!! But it made it fantastic as there was frost in park and all the cast members wore great outfits. I'd have killed for one of their big cloaky overcoats some days.

Well a friend of mine was trying to distill to me the virtues of going to Blackpool instead of Disney as it has equally good attractions but not at there price!!!! I did say my DS is dying to get back to Seaworld too but she said 'There is a Sealife centre in Blackpool'.
Don't get me wrong I loved it when I went there but it just doesn't do it now..........:rotfl:

Just going to save, Save, SAVE.

DCLMan
08-12-2008, 10:22 AM
Well a friend of mine was trying to distil to me the virtues of going to Blackpool instead of Disney as it has equally good attractions


Blackpool instead of DLRP, that's like comparing camping to a 5* hotel.

:rotfl:

davewasbaloo
08-12-2008, 10:29 AM
Blackpool instead of DLRP, that's like comparing camping to a 5* hotel.

:rotfl:

:rotfl2: Lol, that's the truth. I wish we did have something that compared with DLP. Legoland is the closest thing, but again that's Holiday Inn Express in comparison - though the bonfire fireworks at Legoland are awesome (beating even the US parks)