our loss.. july 31 08

[msgrimm23]

I was thinking of putting up here but for the past week i have been an emotional wreck. We found out on july 2 that we where going to have a baby. it would have been the first grand baby in both family's. I was having spotting the wednesday before and called the dr. They said it looks fine it is old blood. then they did the ultrasound. the dr kept looking around and then i saw my hubbies face. i knew. the dr said how many weeks are you. i said 11 she said i can not see a heart beat and the baby looks to still be 7 weeks. they confrumed it with another dr. that day at 3 i went to the hospital for a dnc. i have never cryed so much in my life. I decided to write my feelings down and it has helped.

[annie1995]

I am so terribly sorry for your loss:hug: . If you are interested, I know of a wonderful pregnancy loss site where you might find comfort with others who have lost a baby. My prayers are with you:hug:

[mommasita]

I am so sorry. We are going through this now with my SIL. She was 11 weeks as well, and it sounds identical to what you are going through.

There are no words I am sure, but we are all here for you anytime you need.:grouphug:

[WebmasterKathy]

I'm so sorry.

[frdeb1999]

So very sorry. :hug:

[Mackey Mouse]

Oh, I am so sorry......I can only imagine how you, your husband and the grandparents are all feeling.. Please take care of yourself. Just a sharing thing, my daughter had two miscarriages before our first grandson was born, he was a preemie, but he is now 15 months and my husband and I are incredibly in love with him..he is perfect and makes each day a smiling one for us.

I will keep you in my thoughts, hugs.

[kimis]

You are in my prayers.

[diz8297]

I am so sorry for your loss. There aren't words that are adequate.

[matt&jakesmom]

Very sorry for your loss. :grouphug:

I will keep you and yours in my prayers.

[Mrs. M. Mouse]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers.

[MissMichelle]

I was thinking of putting up here but for the past week i have been an emotional wreck. We found out on july 2 that we where going to have a baby. it would have been the first grand baby in both family's. I was having spotting the wednesday before and called the dr. They said it looks fine it is old blood. then they did the ultrasound. the dr kept looking around and then i saw my hubbies face. i knew. the dr said how many weeks are you. i said 11 she said i can not see a heart beat and the baby looks to still be 7 weeks. they confrumed it with another dr. that day at 3 i went to the hospital for a dnc. i have never cryed so much in my life. I decided to write my feelings down and it has helped.

I am so sorry for your loss...Your story is identical to mine...I could have written it almost word for word. I know that awful feeling when they inform you the baby stopped growing and *living* weeks prior.
The only thing that helped me was to think that it was meant to be. The baby may have had something wrong that would have had life long problems. There is nothing YOU could have done differently. Please know that.
I hope you can find some peace with this.

[buckeyebill1995]

My heart goes out to you! :hug:

[disvaclub92]

My prayers to you and your family. Your situation is so similar to mine, so heartbreaking. I agree with MissMichelle, what helped me was to think that it was meant to be. :hug:

[safetymom]

I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers.

[msgrimm23]

thank you all.. we are doing ok. im starting to stop being so upset with it. all my friends have told me it was meant to be.. so we will try again when we go to disney

[lookingforward]

My thoughts and best wishes are with you. I am glad you are starting to feel a bit better. It takes a while. I lost a baby at 15 weeks in very much similar circumstances (the baby died at about 12 weeks) and it was really sad time. If you see the little girl's picture underneath this post you will see what came to us AFTER that sad time, less than a year after my miscarriage. She is almost 10 now!

All the best to you!:grouphug:

[sunlver]

I am so sorry for your loss. I know how hard it is. I have 3 kids, but I had 4 miscarriages in a row before my last baby was born. With one of miscarriages, I was 15 weeks, but baby died at around 12 and we didn't know.
I believe we all need a little "Faith" in our life(that is what I named my youngest child);)

If you ever want to chat more about this, please feel free to PM me, I understand all too well about pregnancy loss.

[msgrimm23]

I went to the dr yesterday for the follow up. It went well. everything look good. they did do fetal testing for abnormal things but found nothing. so there are no anwers. we can start trying in 2 months but we have decide to wait till disney. I have become more expecting of what happened after hearing that it happens alot. thank you all

[matt&jakesmom]

Thanks for posting your update. I will continue to think of you. :grouphug:

[cinderellakh20]

You are in our prayers!!!!! :grouphug:

[Takodacaleb]

Sorry to hear but that is actully my sisters birthday

[magicmouse2]

:hug: I know your pain. That happened to me to. It got easier when I got pregnant again.

[ktwoof29]

I have experienced a loss at 33 weeks(placental abruption) and at 10 weeks(blighted ovium)...it is never easy but you have to know things do happen the way they are supposed to. After my first loss I had a healthy girl one year and 3 days later...she is now 4-1/2. After the blighted ovium I had a boy almost a year later who is now 2. While I always think of my other babies I cant imagine my life without these two! You are not alone, unfortunately many women know what you are going through but have faith you will treasure your next one evn more.

[msgrimm23]

thank you all.. i am doing much better no more crying no more not wanting to go out. i am looking foward to disney and my husband and i are going to try after or durning the trip.