What's a solo trip like?

[biscuitgirl]

I just recently stumbled upon this board. I originally thought it was just for singles, then I realized it said "adults", so I guess dinks fit in here too!

I'm fascinated by the idea of a solo trip. For anyone who has been on one, what are they like? Do you ever get lonely? Are these kind of trips better for outgoing people who like to meet others or can shy people have fun on these as well? Do you eat all of your meals alone? I'm curious! ;)

[acm563]

I just did my first solo trip in March of this year.. I am single...45 years old...outgoing most would think but at heart shy(Ok...for those who know me they would never believe it but I really am) I hate going anywhere alone and I didnt plan this vacation as a solo it just happened that way... Now when I say I am shy I dont mean I cannot start a conversation with strangers...that is VERY easy for me...but I do not like dining alone( Itravel for business all the time and use room service or curb side service...) I do not like to vacation alone etc etc... so I was VERY apprehensive about this and very upset that my vacation buddy had backed out on me....but one thing i know is I LOVE DISNEY:):) so away I went.. My only regret is that since I had inteded to have a travel partner I had booked a condo so I was not onsite...My advice is if you go solo book onsite.... I amazed myself by LOVING my solo vacation.. I never felt alone or isolated....The CMs seemed to cater to me ...(heheh I wonder if they are trained to look for solo travelers and be extra nice) At my dinners the servers always stood around and chatted with me...it was nice to go at my pace...see things I dont get to see or do when I am with others, take pictures I was never able to slow down and take etc etc...I was able to stop and take group pictures for other travelers so everyone could be in the shot...I helped a few elderly ppl push wheelchairs, I helped mothers with full hands push strollers and their dinner trays I bought ice cream for little kids...IT WAS A WONDERFUL AND VERY FULLFILLING VACATION:):) and I will do it again in a heartbeat...My next solo is scheduled over Labor Day weekend but due to some wonderful friends I have made it looks like it will not be solo after all:):)
I say go for a 3 day weekend and test the waters....you may just love it :):)

[spiceycat]

you don't know until you try one.

some people love solo trips.

others try it once and say never again.

everyone is different go for it!!!

[travelin' tigger]

For anyone who has been on one, what are they like?
I love my solo trips! You're on YOUR own schedule which means total freedom. Early riser? Then head to the parks and ride your fav rides over and over if you like. Late sleeper? Then head to the parks at your leisure. What it boils down to is it's all about YOU!!
Do you ever get lonely? Are these kind of trips better for outgoing people who like to meet others or can shy people have fun on these as well?
IF I get lonely, I just call home to talk to friends and family. But most of the time there's plenty to keep me busy.
Do you eat all of your meals alone?
I tend to do more counter service than table service, although I think character meals are great solo. The CMs tend to give more attention to us, as do the characters interaction.

As spiceycat said, GO FOR IT!!! :goodvibes

[*Emily*]

I'll let you know in 62 days!

[biscuitgirl]

Well, I'm not really considering going on a solo trip, actually. My DH would freak out if I took a trip without him. However, if the opportunity ever arises, I won't hesitate!

[bennyb98]

Solo trips are so much fun, you can do whatever you want whenever you want!! I would try one sometime if you get the chance.

[worldtraveller]

you don't know until you try one.

some people love solo trips.

others try it once and say never again.

everyone is different go for it!!!


100% AGREE!

[Lenc324]

Took my first solo trip last Jan, and it was great. I did what I wanted when I wanted. I met people, always had someone to chat with at dinner. Did the tours I wanted to do that no one else in my family ever wanted to do.
I slept later if I felt like and I made new friends that I will see again next solo trip this coming Jan.:banana:

[Bill Brown]

you don't know until you try one.

some people love solo trips.

others try it once and say never again.

everyone is different go for it!!!
I agree.
I'm 54 and thoroughly enjoy solo visits to WDW and DLR. I like doing what I want, when I want and changing my mind at the last moment without causing any problems. Sharing visits to WDW and DLR with family and friends have been nice, too. However, I've found solo visits to be more fun and relaxing for me.:goodvibes
...oh, and you can use the single-rider lines which are usually faster than FP lines.

[MomofCKJ]

My first solo trip is in 34 days! I am leaving DH and the 3 kids behind. Moms need a break too you know! :goodvibes

I'm excited to see the things I want, at my pace, when I want. I am doing the KTTW and having a few TS meals. I am meeting 2 friends on different days and that will be nice too.

I can't wait! I have wanted to do this for a long time!

Allyson :)

[dalepool]

Yes I get lonely when going to disney without my family. But then again I like not having to eat when everyone else does or for that matter what they are eatting. I get to go to bed and get up when I want. I can stay for the parade and not the fireworks. I do not mind eatting alone.

when we go as a family I do what they want --eat what they eat -- and sleep when they sleep, But I always get up early to make sure things are done that need done so we can get to park on time.

Oh, best part of all I ONLY NEED PACK FOR ONE PERSON ME AND I KNOW WHAT I LIKE TO WEAR AND HAVE ON VACATION.

Take a chance and try it once for a weekend -- depending on where you live and what coast you are going to-- you might find you will do just fine.

Patty

[fakereadhed]

For anyone who has been on one, what are they like?

Like heaven! :cloud9: It's like a trip to the spa every day. :banana:

I didn't really go to meet people although I did meet some really cool DISers. I went to get away from it all and immerse myself in the magic. It's a time to check out all the stuff you've always wanted to do and see at your own pace. I didn't mind eating alone. Most of the CS have great people watching and the TS has great ambiance to enjoy. I got to browse all the shops, do the afternoon tea at the Grand Floridian, and do all of my favorite rides as many times as I wanted. I finally got to see Walt One Man's Dream and other attractions the kids and DH deemed boring without trying them. I highly recommend it!!!

[charj71]

I'm 36 and single and have gone solo many times, mainly because I am a Florida resident (West Palm Beach) and want to get the most out of my annual pass! I have been going solo since around 2000 with the millenium celebration. I also go with other folks from time to time, but find if you go with more than just one other person, that it gets annoying and is not as fun because you don't get to do what you want to do. It seems that I always plan to bring other people but they end up not being able to go in the end. My family is not as enthusiastic about Disney as I am, though I did convince my mom to go a couple of Christmas's ago. She had a nice time but all the walking got to her.

You are never not around people at the parks so you don't have to worry about loneliness unless you are terribly shy. There is ample time in line to meet new people and chat if you wish. Most people are friendly but some look at you strangely when they find out you came by yourself - not something you want to over advertise for safety reasons - you can usually say the rest of your party or friends just decided not to go to that park that day. Usually I stay on property, but this time I am going in early August for nine days and was able to find cheaper accomodations off property. (Anyone going 8/1-8/10 - let me know if you want to meet for lunch/dinner?)

The key is to occupy your time. Going solo is a good time to do some of the tours and see all the shows and attractions you don't normally get to see.

Good luck and have a safe and happy trip!!!

[SoloFriendly]

I love traveling solo, though I've only been to WDW once solo. Like my other solo travels, it was nice to only have to plan for ME. I didn't have to spend time doing what someone else wanted to do. The more people you bring with you, the more you have to negotiate about what to do and when to do it. When you're alone, there's no waiting for other people to use the bathroom or being on different eating schedules or anything. And it is far less stressful than traveling with people whose travel styles are very different from yours. It's pretty wonderful, and I highly recommend it. :thumbsup2

[Noramar]

I'm 58 and have been going solo to WDW since 1986. I highly recommend it! I go when I want, and come back to the hotel when I feel like it. I prefer sit-down restaurants to counter service, but I'll do counter service too.

The second time I went solo I felt a little lonely, but that's never happened again. I'm used to it now, and wouldn't have it any other way.

Try it; you'll like it! :)

Nora

[zackiedawg]

Soloing at Disney is fantastic! I've been soloing a few times a year at Disney since 2000. It's actually the only place I ever vacation to alone - most of the time I travel with friends or family...and most of the time at Disney too. But a few times a year, opportunity presents itself to use up some of my DVC points for the year when noone else is able or willing to go - because I am so close to the parks it's an easy decision for me to take 1 or 2 days off of work and make a 4-day weekend.

I'm not hugely outgoing - I can enjoy good conversation and respond to others' outgoing personalities, but generally am not the one to 'start' the conversation with someone. Disney is a special place for solo travelers, because it is very easy to spend all the time you want by yourself...yet if it ever gets lonely or boring, you can strike up a conversation or meet friends in minutes without effort. You meet a surprising number of other people traveling solo - or at least in the parks for the day solo (they come with family, but split away with them for part of the day to do their own thing)...and just about any bench, bar, or casual service restaurant is the place you'll find yourself chatting with others.

I've actually become so accustomed to it that whenever I go to Disney WITH family or friends, I tend to find at least parts of a few days when I'll split up with them and go off to do my own thing, then meet up later. Solo trips to Disney can be addictive!

[Just Beachy]

I admire all of you solo DISers! My DH hates WDW so I have to BEG him to go about every 9 or 10 years. Most of my friends have younger children and would never consider going away without their husbands or kids. The friends I do have that would/could go, don't have the $! I can't win. I have been seriously considering doing a solo trip. I'm just afraid I would be lonely, missing my DH, missing sharing the whole WDW experience with loved ones, that I would be too sad and not have much fun. I can start a conversation with just about anybody, but I can also be a little shy. I guess I'm just scared!

[acm563]

I admire all of you solo DISers! My DH hates WDW so I have to BEG him to go about every 9 or 10 years. Most of my friends have younger children and would never consider going away without their husbands or kids. The friends I do have that would/could go, don't have the $! I can't win. I have been seriously considering doing a solo trip. I'm just afraid I would be lonely, missing my DH, missing sharing the whole WDW experience with loved ones, that I would be too sad and not have much fun. I can start a conversation with just about anybody, but I can also be a little shy. I guess I'm just scared!

:goodvibes No one that knows me would ever believe that I have a shy bone in my body but when it comes to vacationing alone I truly do...or I guess I should say I did. I went on my first solo trip in March of this year and I loved it and I didnt meet up with any disboard friends to break the solitude. If you havent planned your time yet plan it around the time a lot of people from the boards are going and then make plans to meet up with them for a drink, or dinner or whatever. I had a blast when I went alone. I had a few melancholy moments when I missed my son, but they were not overwhelming. I loved being able to do Disney at MY pace, being able to sit down and relax and ppl watch , I love watching little kids expressions, it is just so awesome to see the wonder in their eyes:):
The cast members went out of their way to make me feel comfortable when I was solo, I never felt alone even at dinner. I was "singled" out at the Laugh Floor and that was kind of neat:):) and silly.... It was just a really enjoyable relaxing vacation. I would not want to go solo every vacation but I have every intention of going solo at least once every year from now on....
So I say try it for 2-3 days, then you will know if it is something that fits you:) If nothing else you can spend 3 days by the pool reading a good book and just relaxing, but my guess is you will hit the parks and enjoy every moment of it:):)

[DisneyTN]

I took a solo trip to WDW back in 2006 for three days during the first week of March.

Really had no problem with being a "lone wolf". I spent one day at Magic Kingdom park, and another at Downtown Disney area. I never felt lonely, and had time to take it all in and enjoy the nice break from day-to-day life...at my own pace.

[MEK]

Here's what I liked about going alone:

1. My actions were totally spontaneous. I did whatever I wanted to do when I wanted to do it.

2. I got lots of great pictures because I could stop and focus whenever I wanted.

3. I went on the KTTK tour because I could never do this when I went with my kids.

4. I got myself set up at a table well in advance of Wishes and I got lots of great pictures. My family would never take the time to wait out a parade or the fireworks.

5. I got to the parks earlier than I would with my family. They always slow me down.

Here's what I didn't like:

1. I really don't like to eat alone in a restaurant, so I didn't do any table service dining. I missed that. I tend to eat fast, so I thought if I went alone I would be shoveling the food in even faster.

2. I sort of missed talking to my family when I was standing in line. But I took lots of pics and sent my kids picture messages so they would know what I was doing.

WDW is a great place to go alone. No one really cares, or notices, that you are alone. There are always lots of people to stike up a conversation with.

[ILuvCrush]

This is a GREAT thread!!
I have my first solo coming up in October... It was always a SOLO trip...but it became a WDW Solo trip! I decided that after 14yrs of happy marriage:lovestruc , 3 beautiful and BUSY kiddos, a couple of cats, a dog, full time job (need I go on?) that this Mom needed a ME break.

October is my Bday...good excuse and DH won't deny me anything on my bday if it's possible:flower3:

Originally I was going to go shopping to mall of america or something like that...but at some point it dawned on me that I have an AP for WDW that was wasted (had 2 trips planned so got the AP in Feb, but then the June trip tanked)... and I figured WHY NOT? I can't imagine NOT feeling comfortable/safe there...I feel like I know it so well. Besides..it seemed like so many DISers were doing it...so I took the plunge and booked it (THEN I told DH!)

I'm excited :banana: but at the same time a little nervous:scared: too!
I hope that I don't end up crying like a baby watching wishes, cause I miss the kids...I hope that I'm crying at wishes because its WISHES and it always makes me teary eyed!!

Well keep the posts coming....all of your stories are helping boost my confidence:worship: :worship:

Paula

[Bill Brown]

This is a GREAT thread!!
I have my first solo coming up in October... It was always a SOLO trip...but it became a WDW Solo trip! I decided that after 14yrs of happy marriage:lovestruc , 3 beautiful and BUSY kiddos, a couple of cats, a dog, full time job (need I go on?) that this Mom needed a ME break.
Sounds like an excellent reason to make a solo trip to the World.:thumbsup2 I think you'll enjoy a well deserved breather from wife life, motherhood and work.

[nurse.darcy]

Okay so I am probably not the best person to ask cause my "solo" turned into the best DIS meet up ever. . .had a blast. . .and drank too much. . .but that is another story. . .anyway, I went to parks until noon, then hung out with friends. . .had a FABULOUS TIME. . .

I am going Solo in September and just looking forward to peace. . .

[Candice30]

like another poster said...you'll never know until you try it. i went solo for the 1st time over easter 2006 (see my report below). i was nervous about it and my family didn't understand why i would want to but convincing family members who really don't want to be there and hearing them complain all week is not my idea of fun. i loved being able to do what i wanted...when i wanted. i took things slow. i am an EXTREMELY SHY person! if you don't speak to me first, then i spend days without talking. i wasn't ready to do table service alone so i ate at only counter service places. i also didn't schedule any dismeets. i spent lots of time riding my favorites over and over again and if i wanted, hey...i stayed in the room and watched a movie. i took the KTTK tour. the point is that it is your vacation. i did get a little lonely here and there but it usually occurred when i wanted to share something special with my family like wishes fireworks.

like i said, start slow. next time, i think that i am ready to be a little more adventurous and am planning to schedule some meets with other disers and eat at table service places alone on my next solo trip. solo trips are the most relaxing vacation ever.

[Condorman]

I only solo'd once, but for anyone hesitant to do TS meals for fear of sitting by yourself and staring into the lonely void of the restaurant, let me assure you of something: when I went, I ate at over 15 TS locations, and I never received better service in my life. The CMs were nicer to me than to the tables of 2-4-6-8-10 all around. I can't explain why; maybe it was the fact that I wasn't running them ragged. Whatever.

You make your own schedule, your own pace. Come and go whenever and wherever you want. Go back to your hotel or don't. It is the greatest freedom. Plus, don't forget as a single rider you can skip ahead of many lines to fill in that extra seat.

I don't recommend going solo to many places in the world, but I'd do the World again in a heartbeat. Enjoy.

[cruisindisney]

I'm so glad to read these positive responses. I too am planning a solo trip in January 09. It's half solo. My dh has a trade show in Orlando and I have to take advantage of free hotel, right? He asked me if I would be bored without him at the parks. I think he forgot who he was talking to. I tried not to laugh.

I think it will be amazing to look at parts of dw that I never get to see with the family dragging me around. I always feel like I'm holding someone up as I shop.

[dalepool]

I totally love going to Disney Solo. Once a year I go with family. I take care of everyone. I get to do a few things I want but it is all about them. Then about 5-6 months later I take a mom solo trip. I have a great time both trips. When going single I do eat at different restaurants then the family trips. So much cheaper to eat at say Blue Bayou at Disnelyland then adding 3 other adults.

Tips:

1. Take a tour-- they are fun and you can talk to other travelers.

2. Go to a restaurant and don't take a book ask to sit near a window and watch the guests go by ----Chefs de France

3. Go to all the shows at MGM. Open setting so never know who will be your next door neighbor.

4. Get up late. Have room service --remember it is only one person not such a bad deal, right

5. Parades -- ya find a place early get a dole whip, or other favorite drink and enjoy.

6. Ride the train 5 times around with out gettting off.

7. Best of all in middle of day watch the show at Americas Adventure and take a bit of nap to refresh then when they let out go back and watch next show wide awake.

8. Tour the other resorts. That in itself takes over a day -Unless you have a car.

Anyway try it, if it is not for you then you will know and never go solo again.

Patty

[UrsulasShadow]

For the past 3 years (counting this one coming up) I've gone solo during the Mousefest festivities and the DisUnplugged meet. This gave me the option of being with other people when I wanted to be, and going it alone when I wanted to do my own thing.

[rebecca06261]

First, I'm the type of person who does many things solo- restaurants, conventions, mini-trips. However, I don't like doing WDW solo, at all. I find myself feeling pittiful, lonely, and feeling sorry for myself. To me, alot of the magic of Disney is being able to share it with someone. That being said, I would do WDW "solo" if I was planning a bunch of DIS-meets or planned on being there for Mousefest. That way, it takes away the one thing that makes solo-trips miserable for me. Also, just to add, I love doing USO solo.

[pixiedustforever]

heavenly! .... for all the positive reasons mentioned by PP!!

I'm leaving for one tomorrow morning! :dance3:

Pixiedustforever pixiedust:

[roselark]

I am taking my first Solo trip in November. I am very, very shy, but I also LOVE WDW and DH refuses to go more than once every 3-4 years. It is solo or nothing!

Since I have been shy my entire life, I am very comfortable being by myself, so that won't be a problem. I am a little nervous about being paired up with strangers on some of the rides (TSM in particular is freaking me out a bit...I may skip it) Otherwise, I am really looking forward to this trip! Like others have stated, I will be able to do all the things that DH never wants to...like ALL the shows! I only have one ADR, and that is for Tusker House breakfast. This will be my first Character meal and I am doing it solo! :eek: Primarily, I am doing it so I can hit the Safari ASAP after park opening (my ADR is for 8:10am), but I think it could be fun :) We will see how I do. I am willing to eat at other TS places solo, I am just trying to keep this trip to a budget since I am going again in May taking my DM.

[wonderlanne]

Hi...I went on a solo trip a little over a year ago. I was concerned whether or not I'd have a good trip, because I'm pretty shy too, but I just HAD to see what the flower and garden festival was like.

I had a great time...I discovered being there by myself gave me a tremendous amount of freedom...no compromising on anything, 'cause it was just me. I'm not really comfortable sitting in a restaurant alone, although I did have tea at the Grand Floridian and a couple of lunches or dinners, but it is sooooo easy to snack one's way through the parks that sit-down meals are rarely necessary (delicious finger foods to walk with!).

When it comes to riding alone, it really didn't matter. Once the ride starts, nobody is paying attention to the person next to them anyway (what's TSM?).

The only thing that started to bug me was riding on the buses and having people look shocked or give me that "how pathetic for you" look when they asked if I was there alone.

I'll just bet you will have a wonderful, magical time!

[mef78]

The only thing that started to bug me was riding on the buses and having people look shocked or give me that "how pathetic for you" look when they asked if I was there alone.


Yep. Very annoying! :laughing:

I remember a few great solo trip reports over on mouseplanet; not sure if they're still there, but they're fun to read.

[wonderlanne]

heh heh...yeah, it was sort of annoying. 'course, they were dealing with tired, crying children, and i was completely relaxed, so go figure.

i'm trying to plan another solo trip this winter (end of december) in d'land paris...being there alone will be interesting.

[LittleFlounder]

I am a little nervous about being paired up with strangers on some of the rides (TSM in particular is freaking me out a bit...I may skip it)

I'm not sure when you're going in November, but I went solo last November, and since when I went wasn't busy, I got to ride most of the rides I went on in a car/bench all by myself(aka.. didn't have to sit next to anyone!) Now I didn't go on some of the 'big' rides, like Space Mountain, RnRC, TOT, MS, or EE, but just about all other rides I got to ride alone... Buzz, Small World, Dumbo, Safaris, HM, Splash (had a log all to myself!).

[roselark]

When it comes to riding alone, it really didn't matter. Once the ride starts, nobody is paying attention to the person next to them anyway (what's TSM?).

Toy Story mania. It is the one that has me concerned because it is a more interactive ride...the coasters don't concern me at all since I will get caught up in the thrill and all...

What about Haunted Mansion? It is my favorite...I will get to ride it during KTTK, but I want to ride it a bunch afterwards. Will I be forced to ride with a stranger on that one too if it is busy? That would make me a little nervous too, with it being so dark and all...

[roselark]

I'm not sure when you're going in November, but I went solo last November, and since when I went wasn't busy, I got to ride most of the rides I went on in a car/bench all by myself(aka.. didn't have to sit next to anyone!) Now I didn't go on some of the 'big' rides, like Space Mountain, RnRC, TOT, MS, or EE, but just about all other rides I got to ride alone... Buzz, Small World, Dumbo, Safaris, HM, Splash (had a log all to myself!).

Now that must have been a sight, coming down that hill all by yourself in a great big log! :)

[LittleFlounder]

Now that must have been a sight, coming down that hill all by yourself in a great big log! :)

It was fun! I rode in the front and didn't even get wet! :)

If its busy, I'm not sure if you'll have to share a doom buggy on HM. I rode it 3 times alone last November and there was never a line up. Some one else will know for sure.

[NOVATraveler]

I went solo this past July. Even though it was very busy, I never had to share a car/buggy/seat with anybody.

I'm very, very shy and am comfy being by myself, but found myself visiting and chit-chatting in line with wonderful people. In fact, I asked some ladies what Soarin' was like whilst waiting at rope drop. As soon as the rope dropped, they each grabbed one of my hands and started running me to Soarin'. Everybody turns in to a kid at recess when they're in WDW.

[wonderlanne]

I didn't have to share a car with anybody ever, except on roller coasters when i stood in the single rider line. i was there last november with a friend, and actually requested that we sit separately 'cause i wanted to hear everything and my friend chatters over EVERYTHING! (november 8 through 16). you'll probably get your own car on the haunted manse.

[wonderlanne]

this is so true! doesn't matter if you're alone, everybody is happy about sharing the disney experience, and they all chat. kids LOVE to tell people about their favorite things, how wet they got on rides, which adults were screaming, etc.

[wonderlanne]

:rotfl: :confused3 princess: this is so true! doesn't matter if you're alone, everybody is happy about sharing the disney experience, and they all chat. kids LOVE to tell people about their favorite things, how wet they got on rides, which adults were screaming, etc.


oops...posted twice. what a blog hog.

[StageTek]

I did my first solo trip in September 2007.

Never once did I have anyone look shocked or give me that “how
pathetic for you” look. I found most people were so into their own
families and experience they didn’t give me a second glance or
spend a moment of their time thinking about me.

But maybe they did. Maybe people did look at me in shock. I never
noticed because I was having so much fun. Even on the busses. And
I’m quite shy.

[ChasRN]

I've been on trips with family and trips as a solo, and I enjoy them both. But they are very different experiences. When I go with others, I'm the "Disney Expert", so I feel some pressure in doing alot of the planning and making sure that everyone is having fun. When I go solo, it's all about ME! I only do the things that I enjoy. I might run into a park fo ride a single ride and then leasve. Or I might go on Spaceship Earth 10 times in a row. :) And being a single guy, I can splurge on things that others might not be able to because of their budget. I want to do an Epcot tour and the Dine with an Imagineer on my upcoming trip.

I've done several trips solo, and have never had a negative experience. People ride alone all the time even when traveling with others since not everyone is into the certain rides. Plus, on rides like TSM, you would end up riding with a stranger anyways if there were an odd number of people in your party. Don't miss out on the fun! Go solo and enjoy it!

[mthrash]

Count me in! I love Disney, love WDW, love traveling, and SOLO?- that really is a vacation for me. My first solo WDW trip was semi-accidental as I was meeting my Bestie for a quick pre-Christmas/early December weekend. I literally planned and executed the trip in less than 72 hours. Not my usual planning fest. Due to some scheduling disasters, we were only able to meet up for half of a Saturday. The first Saturday in December. At MK. Also known to be the day they film the Christmas Parade for ABC. We had a blast as usual- even with the insane crowds in MK that day, but I had been in Disney since the evening before, had the rest of Saturday, and all day Sunday alone too. I was aprehensive, but I ended up having the best time ever. That night I managed to see the Obsorne Lights in DHS(then MGM), Candlelight Processional in Epcot AND the late showing of Holiday Wishes in MK. It was a practical footrace, but I would have never attempted dragging anyone else along with me! After that, I planned my very own solo trip during Food and Wine. The best vacation I have ever experienced. And that is saying a lot. It was relaxing, exciting, spontaneous, and unexpected. I don't really like eating at TS alone, mostly because I'm too social to sit quietly. I recommend eating at one of the great bar/lounges or asking for counter seating where available (Flying Fish, Jiko, California Grill, come to mind...). There were always chatty guests or CMs in these areas. I do like my me time during my park touring frenzy, so I usually grabbed some CS meal and found a great spot to eat, review the digital pics, write in my travel journal- a great idea for soloers, or even catch up with my calls. Even in Disney I can't completely escape.
My advice is if you are even thinking about solo- do it! Once you are there and on your own, you won't even remember what it's like trying to coordinate between all of your family members, friends, the bathroom breaks, appetites, foot pain, boredom, etc.

[wonderlanne]

I did my first solo trip in September 2007.

Never once did I have anyone look shocked or give me that “how
pathetic for you” look. I found most people were so into their own
families and experience they didn’t give me a second glance or
spend a moment of their time thinking about me.

But maybe they did. Maybe people did look at me in shock. I never
noticed because I was having so much fun. Even on the busses. And
I’m quite shy.

the look of dismay usually followed the question, "are you here with your children?" i think it is sort of sad that it wouldn't occur to them that being there alone might just be fab.

[StageTek]

the look of dismay usually followed the question, "are you here with your children?" i think it is sort of sad that it wouldn't occur to them that being there alone might just be fab.

I guess each experience is different. I’m glad I never got any
shocked or “how pathetic” looks. Most people never even noticed
me and the few conversations I got into the people were curious
and very envious. Everyone I spoke to thought a solo trip was a
courageous choice and a great idea.

I loved going solo and will be back in December!

[rer1972]

I've done several solo trips since 2006. Sure, you feel a bit odd at first with all the families and kids around. After a while though you just start enjoying everything. Especially the fact that you can do whatever you want when you want it. :thumbsup2

Here are a list of some of the good things about going solo...
*The top thing is you make your own schedule. You don't have to get anyones approval. You can wander around doing nothing if you want. Who's going to tell you not to? :thumbsup2
*SINGLE RIDER LINES!!!!!!!!!! I still remember riding Expedition like 4-5 times in a row while the same groups were still going through the lines. Even FP can't beat it!:thumbsup2
*You're the only one using your hotel room restroom (at least I hope I am:scared1: ). Makes getting out the door faster.
*Getting a seat on transportation is easy. I don't mind sitting next to strangers; using public transportation does that to you.;)
*Dining is easier. The wait staff doesn't usually mess up single orders, and the restaurants always have 2 seat tables or a bar to sit at.
*More space in the hotel room. I get to use the other bed to store stuff!

As far as doubts on going solo...
*If you get lonely just look around; there's always someone to chat with. You'd be surprised how much people love to tell you about themselves :teeth:
*Want a picture of yourself? Ask a castmember or a friendly traveler. Haven't been turned down yet. It's also fun to volunteer to take pictures for families.
*Don't like eating by yourself? Find a restaurant that's busy, or sit outside if you can. Gives you lots to look at. You can always chat with the wait staff if they aren't too busy, or the bartender if you're at a bar.
*Worried that people might stare at you? They're to busy enjoying themselves or fighting to get through their 'vacation' to worry about you.

Well, that's all I got. Not sure if that helps, but hope it does.:thumbsup2

[okaybye]

For anyone curious... I'm thinking about Twitter-ing my way through my next trip solo (twitter.com is a mini-blog that you can submit through your cell phone-- watch the video for a heads up:)) So... If you can wait til October, you can read along as I go!!!

H:hippie:

[rer1972]

For anyone curious... I'm thinking about Twitter-ing my way through my next trip solo (twitter.com is a mini-blog that you can submit through your cell phone-- watch the video for a heads up:)) So... If you can wait til October, you can read along as I go!!!

H:hippie:

That does sound interesting:thumbsup2

[GailandBasil]

it was nice to go at my pace...see things I dont get to see or do when I am with others, take pictures I was never able to slow down and take etc etc...I was able to stop and take group pictures for other travelers so everyone could be in the shot...I helped a few elderly ppl push wheelchairs, I helped mothers with full hands push strollers and their dinner trays I bought ice cream for little kids...IT WAS A WONDERFUL AND VERY FULLFILLING VACATION:):)

I loved reading this!
I firmly believe in Random Acts of Kindness, have been on both the receiving end and the giving end--not sure which brings the most happiness!
Will be going solo for a week mid September... I think I'll have no problem with it except for sharing the fun of the rides! Have always loved treating myself to a special meal in a restaurant alone! It's very true that unless you're overly demanding the staff will treat you very well

G.

[LittleFlounder]

I loved reading this!
I firmly believe in Random Acts of Kindness, have been on both the receiving end and the giving end--not sure which brings the most happiness!

I'm glad you brought up Random Acts of Kindness... until now I had forgotten all about my favorite(and cutest) one from my solo trip last November. On the last day of my trip, I was on the bus from POP to Epcot. The bus was quite busy. I sat at the front and a family (mom, dad, 2 little girls- probably 2 and 4 yrs) sat in the 2 seats next to me. Each parent had a kid of their lap since they couldn't find 3 or 4 empty seats. Since I'm a small person and I had the edge seat, squished over a bit I asked the older girl if she wanted to share my seat with me. She was very happy to get off her mom's lap and sit next to me. Her and I chatted the whole way to Epcot about Disney and all kinds of things, including her baby sister. She noticed my lanyard covered in pins and wanted me to tell her about each one. She saw my Soarin' pin and said she hasn't been on the ride. I told if she was really brave, maybe mommy and daddy would take her on it! :) It was such a fun bus ride... I hope my little bus friend had a wonderful day at Epcot and liked Soarin'.

[rocker123]

isn't it scary? i wanna try in hongkong. but i think i'll bring along my friend :yay:

[LauraAnn630]

I dont know if I could do a whole trip solo. I went to Epcot once alone. We were 6 days into our vacation and my family didnt want to get out of bed! I warned them the night before that I was leaving early and anyone that got up could go with me. No one got up!

I felt funny standing outside of Epcot all alone. Everyone was talking to there family and friends. I talked to the family behind me a little. Then they formed a circle and turned there backs to me. I didnt talk to anyone all morning.
I did get to ride Soarin' and get fastpasses!

[Bill Brown]

...I talked to the family behind me a little. Then they formed a circle and turned there backs to me...Dang! That sounds kinda cold. Have to admit that I tend to get into my own little world when wandering around the World. However, I'm receptive to chatting with about anyone that shares a word or 2 with me.:listen:

[Seewhatimesdone]

I don't know how I would do at WDW but I did a day at Disneyland alone one day and it was one of the most depressing days of my life XD I felt like everyone was staring at me in the lines for rides. I didn't have anyone to share the magic with! I ended up coming home early. I suggest you go with someone

[newholidayx2]

OMG! I love it! I have met up with so many other Off Kilter fans that I am Never alone!

[MEK]

I only solo'd once, but for anyone hesitant to do TS meals for fear of sitting by yourself and staring into the lonely void of the restaurant, let me assure you of something: when I went, I ate at over 15 TS locations, and I never received better service in my life. The CMs were nicer to me than to the tables of 2-4-6-8-10 all around. I can't explain why; maybe it was the fact that I wasn't running them ragged. Whatever.

You make your own schedule, your own pace. Come and go whenever and wherever you want. Go back to your hotel or don't. It is the greatest freedom. Plus, don't forget as a single rider you can skip ahead of many lines to fill in that extra seat.

I don't recommend going solo to many places in the world, but I'd do the World again in a heartbeat. Enjoy.


That's good to know, because if I ever go solo again (and I might now that I have DVC and an AP), I will definately plan some TS meals. I just couldn't handle it my first solo trip and I really wasn't going for the food, but for the experience of having so much freedom.

[marynpaul]

When is the best time of year in your opinion to go it alone. I never tried it, but after reading everyone's posts.. I am very interested.:idea:

[Bill Brown]

When is the best time of year in your opinion to go it alone. I never tried it, but after reading everyone's posts.. I am very interested.:idea:Can't say it has anything to do with going solo or not, but I'm partial to early through mid-December because its the best time of year to be a kid again.pirate: However, late December when the official school holidays are in effect its too crowded with unpleasant and unhappy type folks (families with tired kids, parents on a short fuse, crying babies, etc.). I'm an empathizer so unhappy or unpleasant folks wreck my carefree kid-again experience. Did the Christmas and New Years holidays once, but never again.:sad2:

[PaulaSB12]

Solo travel is wonderfull I did it in 2005, 2006, 2007 and will be doing it again in 2009. I have to agree its best to be onsite (keep being asked why not hire a villa, what do I need with a villa? I don't want to cook and like a hotel). I have been to Victoria and Albert's twice and was made to feel very comfortableand welcome. On the second trip I got used to people talking to me, and when I took my sister this year she finally admitted she could see why I came back.

[PaulaSB12]

I've done several solo trips since 2006. Sure, you feel a bit odd at first with all the families and kids around. After a while though you just start enjoying everything. Especially the fact that you can do whatever you want when you want it. :thumbsup2

Here are a list of some of the good things about going solo...
*The top thing is you make your own schedule. You don't have to get anyones approval. You can wander around doing nothing if you want. Who's going to tell you not to? :thumbsup2
*SINGLE RIDER LINES!!!!!!!!!! I still remember riding Expedition like 4-5 times in a row while the same groups were still going through the lines. Even FP can't beat it!:thumbsup2
*You're the only one using your hotel room restroom (at least I hope I am:scared1: ). Makes getting out the door faster.
*Getting a seat on transportation is easy. I don't mind sitting next to strangers; using public transportation does that to you.;)
*Dining is easier. The wait staff doesn't usually mess up single orders, and the restaurants always have 2 seat tables or a bar to sit at.
*More space in the hotel room. I get to use the other bed to store stuff!

As far as doubts on going solo...
*If you get lonely just look around; there's always someone to chat with. You'd be surprised how much people love to tell you about themselves :teeth:
*Want a picture of yourself? Ask a castmember or a friendly traveler. Haven't been turned down yet. It's also fun to volunteer to take pictures for families.
*Don't like eating by yourself? Find a restaurant that's busy, or sit outside if you can. Gives you lots to look at. You can always chat with the wait staff if they aren't too busy, or the bartender if you're at a bar.
*Worried that people might stare at you? They're to busy enjoying themselves or fighting to get through their 'vacation' to worry about you.

Well, that's all I got. Not sure if that helps, but hope it does.:thumbsup2


I will do EE with the single rider lines when I can trust myself not to a scream like a little girl or b swear my way round it!!!!!!!! How come I can travell from the UK to USA solo go on the orange side of mission space but totally wimp out on roller coasters?

[If U Had Wings]

I've really been enjoying this thread. I recently got back from a family trip in which I scheduled a few solo days so I could see how I felt about an entire solo trip. I loved my solo days so much that I'm starting to plan a solo trip for next December!

Was wondering how other solos felt about eating at some of the higher end restaurants? I was thinking that I might like to have dinner one night at the California Grill, but was afraid I might feel a bit too out of place there. Has anyone done this?


I have been to Victoria and Albert's twice and was made to feel very comfortableand welcome. On the second trip I got used to people talking to me, and when I took my sister this year she finally admitted she could see why I came back.

V&A's...hmmm I hadn't even thought of trying that on my solo trip. I've always wanted to eat there, but no one else in my family is that daring. Did you feel uncomfortable at all eating there? I'd be afraid that I'd feel out of place among other couples.

[Clifton]

I might plan a 1 day solo trip and stay at POP in early Oct. This will be added to my St. Augustine trip for that week. Was gonna go to the smokies in TN but don't have enough funding on that :)

[UrsulasShadow]

I've really been enjoying this thread. I recently got back from a family trip in which I scheduled a few solo days so I could see how I felt about an entire solo trip. I loved my solo days so much that I'm starting to plan a solo trip for next December!

Was wondering how other solos felt about eating at some of the higher end restaurants? I was thinking that I might like to have dinner one night at the California Grill, but was afraid I might feel a bit too out of place there. Has anyone done this?


.
I have eaten at both Artist Point and Jiko solo. Both times I was seated at a lovely table, and treated very well by the staff. I'm just as comfortable eating at a high-end restaurant as I am in a more casual place...more so, in fact. I feel like I drew fewer strange looks from the other guests in the higher end places...maybe because I didn't use my glow-ey end pen to write in my journal in the fancier places...;)

[PaulaSB12]

I've really been enjoying this thread. I recently got back from a family trip in which I scheduled a few solo days so I could see how I felt about an entire solo trip. I loved my solo days so much that I'm starting to plan a solo trip for next December!

Was wondering how other solos felt about eating at some of the higher end restaurants? I was thinking that I might like to have dinner one night at the California Grill, but was afraid I might feel a bit too out of place there. Has anyone done this?




V&A's...hmmm I hadn't even thought of trying that on my solo trip. I've always wanted to eat there, but no one else in my family is that daring. Did you feel uncomfortable at all eating there? I'd be afraid that I'd feel out of place among other couples.

No I felt very comfortable, and had 2 wonderful meals one with the regular menu and the second with the chief's menu. I am going back solo next year (go with family again NEVER :scared1: ) so its all my favourites and that is one of them, and I'll get to have a grey goose slushie missed that this year. So its Beach Club 21st september for 14 days!!!!!!!!!!

[SweaterInJune]

I will do EE with the single rider lines when I can trust myself not to a scream like a little girl or b swear my way round it!!!!!!!! How come I can travell from the UK to USA solo go on the orange side of mission space but totally wimp out on roller coasters?

Disney roller coasters rid me of my "fear" :)

I hold Disney Parks to a higher safety standard than any other park(at least I expect a higher standard--not that I accept unsafe practices elsewhere). Knowing this and knowing the theming is something I can focus on really made me enjoy the experience. I am no longer afraid of Roller Coasters. Give it a try...hold off on RnRC for a while. If you can do MS and Big Thunder, you'll have no problem on Everest. It's fast, so I do feel a bit shaky after, but it's a lot of fun. The theming is great and the queue is also one of the best anywhere...

As for solo trips, I went down for my CP in Jan '07. I had a free day before check-in and I couldn't stand being that close to WDW and not going to a park, so I bought a 1-day pass for MK. I had a blast. I hadn't been there in 15 years, so everything was magical! The first Disney ride I ever went on was HM, so I beelined for it when the park opened. I was the first one on it that day! Everything was great...it's so easy to experience the magic when you aren't trying to experience the DAILY AGENDA and please a group of people. I was able to take that day and relive all the great memories of my trip with my father when I was 7...PRICELESS!

Eating isn't that big of a deal. If people are staring, they have the problem, not me! It's just like going to the movies solo...who cares?! I don't go to talk to someone. I go to watch a movie. Maybe it's just me...

My final verdict is that the perks far outweigh any negatives! I love going with people, but enjoying WDW solo is fine by me too... :thumbsup2

[Bill Brown]

...I am no longer afraid of Roller Coasters. Give it a try...hold off on RnRC for a while. If you can do MS and Big Thunder, you'll have no problem on Everest. It's fast, so I do feel a bit shaky after, but it's a lot of fun. The theming is great and the queue is also one of the best anywhere...Disney is absolutely tops when it comes to queue theming. RnRC's queue theming and "peel out" is about all I remember. That is one fast ride, either that or I black out :upsidedow and only remember getting out of the car at the end. Anyway, I suggest waiting in the rollercoaster queues to enjoy the theming, then whimping out before boarding if necessary.

[Friendly Frog]

I wish I was brave enough to go solo. I just got the discount pin code but I have no one to go with. Husband and friends can make it. I am not so concerned about things once I am at Disney as I am about finding my plane and the airport transportation. I am very shy and I have never traveled alone! :scared:

Plus I have to admit that the trip seems so much more reasonably priced when it is two people sharing the room cost!

[SweaterInJune]

I wish I was brave enough to go solo. I just got the discount pin code but I have no one to go with. Husband and friends can make it. I am not so concerned about things once I am at Disney as I am about finding my plane and the airport transportation. I am very shy and I have never traveled alone! :scared:

Plus I have to admit that the trip seems so much more reasonably priced when it is two people sharing the room cost!

That's for sure!!!

I've traveled around places where I don't even speak the language, SOLO...if I can do that...I think you can make it to WDW :) I'm quite shy in person, but I put up a good front and a lot of people don't believe me...

Airports are easy...just follow the signs. If you get lost, there is always a gate or shop nearby and anyone working there can point you in the right direction. Besides...it's almost impossible to get on the wrong plane...

:) Give it a try sometime! Maybe not right now, but I think you will surprise yourself!

I'll be back in Orlando and working at WDW again in January, so if you do plan a solo trip after that...let me know. I'd be more than willing to check in on you once you're there and help to ensure you have a pleasant trip. I know solo trips can cause anxiety at times...

[Friendly Frog]

That's for sure!!!

I've traveled around places where I don't even speak the language, SOLO...if I can do that...I think you can make it to WDW :) I'm quite shy in person, but I put up a good front and a lot of people don't believe me...

Airports are easy...just follow the signs. If you get lost, there is always a gate or shop nearby and anyone working there can point you in the right direction. Besides...it's almost impossible to get on the wrong plane...

:) Give it a try sometime! Maybe not right now, but I think you will surprise yourself!

I'll be back in Orlando and working at WDW again in January, so if you do plan a solo trip after that...let me know. I'd be more than willing to check in on you once you're there and help to ensure you have a pleasant trip. I know solo trips can cause anxiety at times...

You are so kind. (and brave!) I am really, really trying to convince myself to give it a try.

[SweaterInJune]

You are so kind. (and brave!) I am really, really trying to convince myself to give it a try.

Thanks...:blush:

I just think...the world could end tomorrow(at least for me). I don't want to have any regrets if that happens, so if I sit around, waiting for others to get their lives in sync with mine, for this or that, any time I want to do something,...I'd have a lot of regrets. Don't get me wrong, I do love having travel companions, but once in a while...I enjoy a trip with some me time...

The parks are quite an amazing solo experience too...

If I can be of any assistance, let me know :)

[DisneyTN]

I took a good friend down to Disney World this past March. This was her very first time visiting "the world". First day at MK was fine. Second day we went to Epcot. Epcot is my favorite park; she was not so impressed. As well as the "thrill" rides at the park, I also love Spaceship Earth, Gran Fiesta Tour, Maelstrom...she tended to yawn at such attractions. (And we were verbally informed again & again).:confused3 You could tell the entire time she was dying to leave. I never leave Epcot until after closing, but was a good sport & sacrificed for the sake of her sanity (and mine). I usually like to stick around & soak up the atmosphere in Future World after dark. (I know, I know, it's not all about what I want). :rolleyes1
We did have an enjoyable time overall. But it's more fun (imo) to fly solo when visiting WDW, or go with a fanatic as obsessed with Disney as you are.
Solo trips rule!

[SweaterInJune]

Second day we went to Epcot...she tended to yawn at such attractions. (And we were verbally informed again & again).:confused3 You could tell the entire time she was dying to leave... I never leave Epcot until after closing, but was a good sport & sacrificed for the sake of her sanity (and mine). I usually like to stick around & soak up the atmosphere in Future World after dark.

Ditto about Epcot and staying until after close. I can't say anything except: :eek:

[Bill Brown]

...Epcot is my favorite park; she was not so impressed...Some years back I thought it'd be cool to take my dad back to DL to revisit where my love of Disney parks began at the age of 6. The return to DL with my dad was my most unpleasant Disney park experience, ever. In a nutshell it was like trying to convince someone to enjoy visiting a dentist for a root canal. After several hours of what appeared to be sheer torture for my dad:sad1: we left. Seems I'm the only Disney-parkaholic in my family. My sister, brother-in-law and their kids visited WDW planning to spend a week there. After 3 days they felt too bored to stay any longer and left never to return (my niece and nephew are now adults). Solo is the best way to really enjoy Disney parks.:mickeyjum

[GailandBasil]

I wish I was brave enough to go solo. I just got the discount pin code but I have no one to go with. Husband and friends can make it. I am not so concerned about things once I am at Disney as I am about finding my plane and the airport transportation. I am very shy and I have never traveled alone! :scared:

Plus I have to admit that the trip seems so much more reasonably priced when it is two people sharing the room cost!
Friendly Frog! You can do it!
The ones who stare might be the ones who don't know that ONE IS A WHOLE NUMBER.
Or maybe they're the ones who are thinking "wow, just look at her/him.... what a confident and graceful person! That's how I want my children to be when they grow up. Not afraid to step out of the circle. How I admire that person!"

Nobody else will know that you're nervous or shy! Airports are full of solo travellers, and how many of those do you actually notice in a condescending way of any sort? Very few I bet! And how many are wandering looking lost? Not many because of all the signs and directions everywhere in the airport!
And restaurants? Sometimes they're the ones reading, or writing, and sometimes they're the ones who look the most relaxed, enjoying the meal the most.. and quite often, they're the ones the wait staff enjoy the most!
But the ones who are miserable are either the ones who have been brainwashed into thinking its wrong to enjoy one's own company, or who would really rather be surrounded by their crowd and might not be there alone out of choice.

And quite often it's the solo person that notices more things! And even sometimes, becomes--get this--- the leader!
All it takes is a start! And you get to set your own pace, to decide how friendly or chatty to be, to decide if you want to change direction.

Oops! Sorry! That was lengthy! I just think if you have a hankering to try it, you can and should. Listen to the positive talk, not the negative talk--remember what puts a smile on your face puts a smile on others!!

Think of a solo trip as a luxury present you're giving yourself because you're worth it! (that's my logic!)

[DisneyTN]

The return to DL with my dad was my most unpleasant Disney park experience, ever. In a nutshell it was like trying to convince someone to enjoy visiting a dentist for a root canal. After several hours of what appeared to be sheer torture for my dad:sad1: we left.
It's a shame that he's missing out on all the fun. Not very opened-minded of me, but I usually jaw-drop when I hear someone who can't stand WDW or Orlando.
To each his/her own.

[getit623]

Just to throw in my two cents, I was in Ft Myers working and got rained out for three days. I thought about renting a car and going to disney for a couple of those and I never did. I felt guilty because I have two young children that had never been, and I thought that I may look silly as a single there. My children and I went later that year and let me tell you we had a blast, but after that trip I realized that I should have went solo for some "me time" and that there were lots of people there as solo travelers. So you can bet if I ever get that chance again I WILL take it. Life is too short, make the most of it.

[MickeyMaz]

We decided I would do this last Thursday. Since then I have booked all except park tickets and will be down 9/15-9/20. This is the fastest decision and smallest wait time for me ever.

First solo trip to WDW. Already booked the Keys to the Kingdom tour and have decided on one TS but not sure yet. I'm counting on all I have read here about solo travellers getting into TS's without a reservation.

My other thought is with this opportunity I need to go to the Adventure's Club one night.

[If U Had Wings]

I wish I was brave enough to go solo. I just got the discount pin code but I have no one to go with. Husband and friends can make it. I am not so concerned about things once I am at Disney as I am about finding my plane and the airport transportation. I am very shy and I have never traveled alone! :scared:

Plus I have to admit that the trip seems so much more reasonably priced when it is two people sharing the room cost!

It may help to try a smaller solo trip first. I've gone to a few more local places solo. I'm really looking forward to a real solo trip now. A good friend of mine only likes traveling solo. She goes everywhere.

Some years back I thought it'd be cool to take my dad back to DL to revisit where my love of Disney parks began at the age of 6. The return to DL with my dad was my most unpleasant Disney park experience, ever. In a nutshell it was like trying to convince someone to enjoy visiting a dentist for a root canal. After several hours of what appeared to be sheer torture for my dad:sad1: we left. Seems I'm the only Disney-parkaholic in my family. My sister, brother-in-law and their kids visited WDW planning to spend a week there. After 3 days they felt too bored to stay any longer and left never to return (my niece and nephew are now adults). Solo is the best way to really enjoy Disney parks.:mickeyjum

I just don't understand how you can be bored at Disney. I actually have the opposite problem. My whole family is Disney fanatics it's hard to go without someone else wanting to tag along.

[newholidayx2]

sometimes during our family trips i would often go over to EpCot myself while husband/son relaxed in the BCV room.
It was then that I thought "you know sometimes ppl are alone at that time because others just arent with them" and if thats ok "then why not do a solo trip!"
On my first solo trip I met other Off Kilter fanatics and my solo trips have never again been solo! I meet up with locals and theres a girl from IL (Hi Nancy) that I room share with.
Works quite well - when I want to go to the parks solo I do but midafternoon/night you can always find me at OK along with other OK fans

[wonderlanne]

bill brown! you are the only other central valley dweller i see on disboards...i live in modesto.

[Bill Brown]

bill brown! you are the only other central valley dweller i see on disboards...i live in modesto.Ate lunch at a movie-themed restaurant in Modesto a few years ago. It was kind of like a mini-Disney TS restaurant experience.::MickeyMo

[wonderlanne]

Ate lunch at a movie-themed restaurant in Modesto a few years ago. It was kind of like a mini-Disney TS restaurant experience.::MickeyMo

perhaps that was the place near the theater? i like clovis for all the many supercalifragilisticexpialidocious vintage and antique shops. not much happening in motown (sounds more hip than modesto, no?)
princess:

[Bill Brown]

perhaps that was the place near the theater? i like clovis for all the many supercalifragilisticexpialidocious vintage and antique shops. not much happening in motown (sounds more hip than modesto, no?)
princess:I only ate there once, because I only visited Motown once, several years ago. Can't recall if the restaurant was near a theater. However, I do recall booth displays featured set pieces from various films.:3dglasses Nope, it was not a Planet Hollywood. I agree that downtown Clovis has more than an ample number of antique and collectibles shops. Our newest strip mall on Herndon Ave. just got a brand new Best Buy, where I enjoy checkin' out the latest hi-tech goodies on the market. Before that store opened had to travel 7 miles to the nearest Best Buy in Fresno.:laughing:

[Friendly Frog]

Just wanted to let ya know, with your encouragement I have booked my first ever solo trip...ANYWHERE. So off I go for 7 nights in November! Wish me luck!!!

[SweaterInJune]

Just wanted to let ya know, with your encouragement I have booked my first ever solo trip...ANYWHERE. So off I go for 7 nights in November! Wish me luck!!!

Hurrah! Long trip :) I hope you have a lovely time!!! I'm sure it will be great...

[wonderlanne]

hi friendly frog! :wave: congratulations on your upcoming november trip. what are the dates that you'll be there?

i was there last november from 11/8 though 11/16..it was divine! caught the tail end of the food and wine festival and the beginning of xmas. was surprised at how cold it got at night!

hooray for your solo trip!
:ccat:

[Bill Brown]

Just wanted to let ya know, with your encouragement I have booked my first ever solo trip...ANYWHERE. So off I go for 7 nights in November! Wish me luck!!!Woohoo!:yay: I'm sure you'll enjoy a fun trip. Bring chilly weather clothing in addition to standard tropical weather shorts and stuff. Actually wore a knit cap, thick fur lined leather gloves, and parka with hood up for a couple really cold nights at WDW in December some years ago. Those same days I had been comfortable wearing shorts and a t-shirt before nightfall.

[bettyann29]

I love reading all the responses here..

Ive been toying with the idea of a solo trip.. DH doesnt mind although he has gotten to love going to WDW but he understands that this is the one thing I really want to do..

Im currently thinking of doing January or February for maybe 4-5 days.. A solo trip sounds like so much fun!

[Friendly Frog]

Thanks guys, I will be traveling the middle of November.

Also thanks for the clothing tips!! I hope it is not too chilly. I am NOT a cold weather gal. Then on the other hand having gone the last two trips in September, I had decided that it was way too hot for me anymore. I guess I am never happy. :confused3

It will be interesting with the new baggage rules, to pack for a wide variety of temperatures and also get my coffee pot smuggled in . :cool1:

[Bigbearsg]

I go solo to DL and WDW on all my trips. I don't have anyone to speed me up I like taking in the Parks slowly and at my speed. Love taking breaks all the time just to people watch. The best is to sit down below the Noodle station by the water with a Pop Corn and Diet Coke and feed Donald's family and watch all the people. When I want to eat I don't have to wait on everyone else to want to I just go.

I think I get more rides done during the day because I just take my time if it a long line I can just come back to it.

Any time I want to go back to the hotel I can.

[wonderlanne]

I go solo to DL and WDW on all my trips. I don't have anyone to speed me up I like taking in the Parks slowly and at my speed. Love taking breaks all the time just to people watch. The best is to sit down below the Noodle station by the water with a Pop Corn and Diet Coke and feed Donald's family and watch all the people. When I want to eat I don't have to wait on everyone else to want to I just go.

I think I get more rides done during the day because I just take my time if it a long line I can just come back to it.

Any time I want to go back to the hotel I can.

lots and lots of freedom on solo trips. i like not feeling guilty for ducking into every shop.

[segpm08060]

Thanks for all the tips and the words of encouragement. I am making my first solo trip in mid-November. I look forward to enjoying me.

[PaulaSB12]

I usually go solo, this august I went with family. It was going to be my last visit for a few years so it was going to be a good one. Ha! It was such a good trip I am going back for 14 day trip with the deluxe dining plan at the Beach Club! I was told that I really should give myself a nice holiday some where else, didn't feel like saying I was already booked. My family know and I have said that I might go next year (might, got more chance of winning the lotto than cancelling)

:cool1: :cloud9: :cloud9: :cloud9: :hippie:

[If U Had Wings]

Just wanted to thank everyone for all the posts here. Last night I finally did it, and booked my first solo trip for December 2009!

Sure it's a little early, but it will give me something to really look forward to over the next year. I'm still hoping to be able to upgrade to the Boardwalk resort, as it's my dream resort, but am still happy with where I will be. Boardwalk is unfortunately a bit out of my budget, especially for a solo trip.

[BellTinkR]

I've been on many solo trips, both to Disney and to other destinations (most notably, Sanibel Island). Most all of my friends are married with children, and it is typically very difficult for them to get away. I figured out long ago that I should not wait for someone to be able to go with me, or I would never go!

The thing I like best about solo trips is that I can do what I want, when I want, and I don't have to negotiate or compromise. I just follow my muse, take my time or hurry, stick to my plan or change my mind, and the only person who is affected is MOI. I like standing in front of a statue and photographing it 6 ways from Sunday without people waiting for me impatiently. I like going to Epcot three times and Studios none, if that's what I want this time around.

In short, it is total hedonistic freedom :lol:

You will love it! :thumbsup2

[Carys]

Just back from 8 nights solo - had a fabulous time. After 2 day of hard paced park hopping I completely changed plans and eased back the throttle. This time I also did more of the less visited attractions, stuff that others might find boring. Maybe it was something in my chocolate milk, but this year the other guests seemed to be having more fun than they did last year - I saw exactly one meltdown the whole time, no line hopping, shouting or anything - just lots of people having a great time.

[wildfan1473]

What a great thread! I just started contemplating a solo trip in the last few days. DH always lets me take a solo trip once a year, typically I've been going to his parents 2nd home in Fort Myers, but it just didn't work out this year. I thought, hmm, how about going to WDW to see the Christmas decorations? It's not going to work this year, and we're taking the boys next year at Halloween, so I think I will start planning a solo trip for Christmas 2010. Never too soon to start planning! ;)

[BellTinkR]

What a great thread! I just started contemplating a solo trip in the last few days. DH always lets me take a solo trip once a year, typically I've been going to his parents 2nd home in Fort Myers, but it just didn't work out this year. I thought, hmm, how about going to WDW to see the Christmas decorations? It's not going to work this year, and we're taking the boys next year at Halloween, so I think I will start planning a solo trip for Christmas 2010. Never too soon to start planning! ;)

You could combine trips if you wanted to. Fly to Orlando, spend 4 days or so, drive or fly to Fort Myers, spend the rest of your time there to relax after touring the parks. By car, it's 3 hours or so, by plane, you are 22 minutes in the air.

I live in the Fort Myers area and do it this way when I import my nieces from NY for some fun. It's nice to have a few days of down time on the beach after the hustle and bustle and excitement of the parks.

[BellTinkR]

Oops, forgot to say that the 22 minute flight I speak of is on Southwest

[wildfan1473]

You could combine trips if you wanted to. Fly to Orlando, spend 4 days or so, drive or fly to Fort Myers, spend the rest of your time there to relax after touring the parks. By car, it's 3 hours or so, by plane, you are 22 minutes in the air.

A whole week? To myself? :lmao:

Actually, I have thought this exact thing. The last 2 times I've gotten him to Fort Myers I've broached driving to Disney for a day or 2 with the kids, but he's vetoed that idea, couldn't justify the cost of the tickets. Honestly, I don't think I could be away from my family more than 4 or 5 days, and with travel time I don't think it would be worth it. That, and my in-laws place is rented out at the time of year I want to go (between Thanksgiving and Christmas). But it is a good thought!

[jenjolt]

I too am going solo to WDW! I will be going in January and as soon as I get home I will be booking for my second solo trip to View the World at Christmas. The fun thing about this trip for me is that I get to eat where I want. I'm finally going to get to go on the KTTK tour that I have always wanted to do. I'm so so so excited!!!

[BellTinkR]

A whole week? To myself? :lmao:

Actually, I have thought this exact thing. The last 2 times I've gotten him to Fort Myers I've broached driving to Disney for a day or 2 with the kids, but he's vetoed that idea, couldn't justify the cost of the tickets. Honestly, I don't think I could be away from my family more than 4 or 5 days, and with travel time I don't think it would be worth it. That, and my in-laws place is rented out at the time of year I want to go (between Thanksgiving and Christmas). But it is a good thought!

Aw, bummer that you can't make this work. One of my brothers has done this with his family a few times since I moved down here - flies into one airport, leaves from another. That way they can hit multiple vacation destinations at the same time.

Hey, maybe you could come with the family into Orlando, but then leave them there for a couple of days while you go find yourself a nice beach resort with a spa in Tampa or Clearwater. Do you think your DH would be ok with touring the parks with the kids by himself for a couple of days?

[Jamie77]

I go solo to DL and WDW on all my trips. I don't have anyone to speed me up I like taking in the Parks slowly and at my speed. Love taking breaks all the time just to people watch. The best is to sit down below the Noodle station by the water with a Pop Corn and Diet Coke and feed Donald's family and watch all the people. When I want to eat I don't have to wait on everyone else to want to I just go.

I think I get more rides done during the day because I just take my time if it a long line I can just come back to it.

Any time I want to go back to the hotel I can.


Another solo traveller going to MouseFest! Woohoo!