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KitKat_Tink
07-11-2008, 09:08 PM
Does being stressed out make anyone else sick?

I'm really stressed/worried and lately i've been getting like stomach aches and stuff.

ComfyinNautica
07-11-2008, 09:10 PM
Yeah...I'm in the same boat as you right now. :\

KitKat_Tink
07-11-2008, 09:11 PM
well at least now we know we both aren't alone...

KidGoofy
07-11-2008, 09:11 PM
I am probably one of the most stressed kids outside of Disboards. Thats why all my pictures I have long hair. My hairline is actually receding. Please don't make fun for that.

KitKat_Tink
07-11-2008, 09:14 PM
you don't even know...

If good hair wasn't in my family i deffiently would be out of it by now

Wayyyy to much stuff going on...GAH

AmandaSparks730
07-11-2008, 09:16 PM
Stress? Me?

Always.

Freshman year was seriously the worst, hardest, most confusing year of my LIFE.

So many tears, drama, fights, etc. I didn't cry much in 7/8 grade. But this year? I practically drowned in my tears :/

ComfyinNautica
07-11-2008, 09:17 PM
I was stressed out allll year during school. Then when summer came I was fine. But recently something else has come up. Well a few things actually.

KidGoofy
07-11-2008, 09:18 PM
Stress? Me?

Always.

Freshman year was seriously the worst, hardest, most confusing year of my LIFE.

So many tears, drama, fights, etc. I didn't cry much in 7/8 grade. But this year? I practically drowned in my tears :/

Well at my school all the Drama ends freshman year. Sophomore on its more stress about grades.

AmandaSparks730
07-11-2008, 09:20 PM
Well at my school all the Drama ends freshman year. Sophomore on its more stress about grades.
'Tis good to know!

We had such petty arguements this year. We started dividing, almost. I was stuggling with my sexual orientation. I lost a lover due to a silly mistake and cried for days. I lost a best friend to a move, and haven't stopped crying since. I did poorly in Alg. 2 Honors (mind you, it's technically a Junior year course, and I'm going into Sophomore year).

KitKat_Tink
07-11-2008, 09:26 PM
yeah the drama for the most part does end...Unless your best friend starts dating the guy who told you he liked you...then you have a whole different kinda drama...

I have alot of family stuff going on. Courts making me do stuff i don't want to and other stuff. My parents having been going through a divorce for 4 years now. My dad won't sign anything...And he calls me crazy and puts me down. I have the stress of that on top of school and social stress.

not like any of you proboly wnated to know that...but it feels good to let it out

AmandaSparks730
07-11-2008, 09:29 PM
yeah the drama for the most part does end...Unless your best friend starts dating the guy who told you he liked you...then you have a whole different kinda drama...

I have alot of family stuff going on. Courts making me do stuff i don't want to and other stuff. My parents having been going through a divorce for 4 years now. My dad won't sign anything...And he calls me crazy and puts me down. I have the stress of that on top of school and social stress.

not like any of you proboly wnated to know that...but it feels good to let it out
*hugs you*

Aww I'm sorry :(

KitKat_Tink
07-11-2008, 09:31 PM
*hugs you*

Aww I'm sorry :(

thanks.
its pretty tought right now.
My dad thinks because i don't want to see him my mom must be brainwashing me. He doesn't understand what he does mentaly destroys me. Its weird. He thinks that i can't think for myself and when i do he calls me a disrespectful and a word i can't say on here... He doesn't understand that i'm a junior in high school and can think for myself

AmandaSparks730
07-11-2008, 09:33 PM
thanks.
its pretty tought right now.
My dad thinks because i don't want to see him my mom must be brainwashing me. He doesn't understand what he does mentaly destroys me. Its weird. He thinks that i can't think for myself and when i do he calls me a disrespectful and a word i can't say on here... He doesn't understand that i'm a junior in high school and can think for myself
:(

'Tis sad.

That's hard to go through at such a big time in your life.

disneychick2721
07-11-2008, 09:44 PM
KitKat_Tink(sorry not quite sure of your name. :goodvibes) I hope things turn out well.
:hug:



Luckily Im very mellow, so I dont get that stressed out often, or over stupid petty things, I dont keep up with Drama or anything that goes on at my school, its stupid when were older when is it going to matter who dated who or whatever its about, its stupid.

But when I do get stressed out its over school or growing up or the future.
Im going into high school next year, which im not looking forward too but because I dont want to get lost or make an idiot out of myself, not for drama or any of those things. And then theres always so much pressure on what your going to do with the rest of your life. I hate it. I just either want to grow up and not deal with everything along the way or be a kid again and everything be innocent.



Wow hello I just rambled on....

KidGoofy
07-11-2008, 09:48 PM
KitKat_Tink(sorry not quite sure of your name. :goodvibes) I hope things turn out well.
:hug:



Luckily Im very mellow, so I dont get that stressed out often, or over stupid petty things, I dont keep up with Drama or anything that goes on at my school, its stupid when were older when is it going to matter who dated who or whatever its about, its stupid.

But when I do get stressed out its over school or growing up or the future.
Im going into high school next year, which im not looking forward too but because I dont want to get lost or make an idiot out of myself, not for drama or any of those things. And then theres always so much pressure on what your going to do with the rest of your life. I hate it. I just either want to grow up and not deal with everything along the way or be a kid again and everything be innocent.



Wow hello I just rambled on....

If you are going to be a freshman you really don't need to worry about that now...I just figured out like 3 months ago what I want to be and I am going to be Junior.

Sparx
07-11-2008, 09:52 PM
im a pretty relaxed person.

but if im seriously stressed out (doesnt happen often) i usually get migraines. i mean, i get them anyway, but i'll get one if im stressed.

SplshMtnLvr28
07-11-2008, 10:10 PM
I'm already stressed about school, and it's a month and a half away. I need to memorize 50+ equations over the summer for AP Chem, and so far I've only memorized 10... my fault for procrastinating but it has me doubting myself... and then i start thinking about taking the act, scoring well, applying to college, my future, and then i really freak out, lol...

DollfieDreams
07-11-2008, 10:46 PM
when i get stressed....it gets bad.
ive failed tests and exams, gotten fevers, thrown up, had mirgaines, tooth aches, nose bleeds. yep.

minniemouse440044
07-11-2008, 10:54 PM
when i get stressed
all my worrieness, scareness, and just my freakingout ness
turns to laughter.
my dad is in the hospital and when i saw him i started to laugh,
my mom said that i look as if i was about to cry.

Cinderelli16
07-11-2008, 10:55 PM
I always get myself worked up on things, and then I get really stressed, and eventually making myself sick.
My freshman year wasn't bad at all, except for stupid boy drama, and stuff like that, but the grades part didn't stress me out at all. I maintained a 4.0 throughout my entire year.
This past year, my sophomore year, was by far the most stressful. My classes seemed more tough, and I literally had to work my butt off to get an A, which I wasn't use to. There were other things I had to deal with like friend drama, rumors, and BOYS. Also I had some very serious family issues (which I'm not allowed to say), but it all got brought up this year for the first time. So I became really stressed with school, and found it really difficult to focus. I cried alot, and there were times when I would break down in the middle of class. My friends started telling me that they were worried about me, and that I wasn't the same bouncy, smiley, funny Kayla that they use to know. I didn't know it then, but I was in depression. So my parents finally made me go see a counsler, because they knew it was best for me. And they were right, now I'm beginning to be myself again. So yeah, I would say it was a pretty stressful year. lol

life of the party
07-11-2008, 11:55 PM
when im stressed i get violent and agressive .

i got into my first fist fight with one of my FRIENDS because i was stressed and over whelmed and i got angry.. FAST

and another time i punched this kid in the face because i was ANGRY and going off on someone and i turned around and he was going "UNCE UNCE UNCE" and like dancing on me (NO IT WAS NOT AT A DANCE IT WAS IN THE MIDDLE OF A HALLWAY WHEN I WAS LATE FOR CLASS ! XD)

and then stormed off to my class xD


yeaah that is probably a BIG problem..

KidGoofy
07-12-2008, 12:04 AM
when im stressed i get violent and agressive .

i got into my first fist fight with one of my FRIENDS because i was stressed and over whelmed and i got angry.. FAST

and another time i punched this kid in the face because i was ANGRY and going off on someone and i turned around and he was going "UNCE UNCE UNCE" and like dancing on me (NO IT WAS NOT AT A DANCE IT WAS IN THE MIDDLE OF A HALLWAY WHEN I WAS LATE FOR CLASS ! XD)

and then stormed off to my class xD


yeaah that is probably a BIG problem..

lol...you got party-boyed. It is from the show *******. Sorry but I do that all the time.

life of the party
07-12-2008, 12:21 AM
you do it all the time.. randomly.. to girls you met three months ago then never talked to again.. in the middle of school.. on a girl who just turned around after flipping out on someone.

if you do that..
you need to be slapped
xD

Cinderelli16
07-12-2008, 12:21 AM
when im stressed i get violent and agressive .

i got into my first fist fight with one of my FRIENDS because i was stressed and over whelmed and i got angry.. FAST

and another time i punched this kid in the face because i was ANGRY and going off on someone and i turned around and he was going "UNCE UNCE UNCE" and like dancing on me (NO IT WAS NOT AT A DANCE IT WAS IN THE MIDDLE OF A HALLWAY WHEN I WAS LATE FOR CLASS ! XD)

and then stormed off to my class xD


yeaah that is probably a BIG problem..

Lmao :lmao:

At homecoming boys do that to me all the time.
I don't mind it though. Or boys come up behind me, and grab my hips, then that kinda freaks me out. lol because half the time I don't even know them, so I just push them away. Freaks I swear lol

KidGoofy
07-12-2008, 12:24 AM
Lmao :lmao:

At homecoming boys do that to me all the time.
I don't mind it though. Or boys come up behind me, and grab my hips, then that kinda freaks me out. lol because half the time I don't even know them, so I just push them away. Freaks I swear lol

I hate the hip grabbing(actually its more poking for me) because girls would do that to me because they know I am ticklish and see me flinch.

Tinkerbell424
07-12-2008, 12:28 AM
yeah the drama for the most part does end...Unless your best friend starts dating the guy who told you he liked you...then you have a whole different kinda drama...
I have alot of family stuff going on. Courts making me do stuff i don't want to and other stuff. My parents having been going through a divorce for 4 years now. My dad won't sign anything...And he calls me crazy and puts me down. I have the stress of that on top of school and social stress.

not like any of you proboly wnated to know that...but it feels good to let it out

First, :hug: :hug: :hug:
Second, I went through the bolded part this year. I definitely know how you feel. But I'm over that jerk, and I'm done with her aswell.

I have a ton of stress, it never ends. During school, it's all from homework, and lack of sleep and friend issues. During summer, it's family stuff.

Something happened early in 9th grade that changed my family and me. In April, it came back and now we're dealing with the consequences. So it doesn't help in the least when my mom constantly reminds me of it.
It doesn't help either when I have a brother who's constantly putting me down...=/

KidGoofy
07-12-2008, 12:29 AM
you do it all the time.. randomly.. to girls you met three months ago then never talked to again.. in the middle of school.. on a girl who just turned around after flipping out on someone.

if you do that..
you need to be slapped
xD

oh you caught me.lol

life of the party
07-12-2008, 12:31 AM
hahah!

doing that at a dance , and doing that in school when i am in a rage.. IS DIFFERENT !

ahah !

grinding on my at a dance.. is different then doing it at school !

and it is even different if he would have done it when i was in a good mood ! ahah

Cinderelli16
07-12-2008, 12:34 AM
I hate the hip grabbing(actually its more poking for me) because girls would do that to me because they know I am ticklish and see me flinch.

Haha I do that to boys all the time. This kid in my 4th hr use to poke me all the time just to watch me flinch, and giggle lol

life of the party
07-12-2008, 12:42 AM
Haha I do that to boys all the time. This kid in my 4th hr use to poke me all the time just to watch me flinch, and giggle lol


hhaha same !

i am SO tickilish so the boys target me >:( haha .

they get me like on my sides and i yelp like a puppy haha !

MrsSparrow..
07-12-2008, 08:05 AM
Stress. Stress, Stress..

My stress usually builds up over-time and then one day, I basically sit in my room, feel depressed and cry for ages :rotfl:. I get huge headaches when I am stressed, but I usually try to work through it.

Whatever your stressed about will all blow over soon.

CrazyChik
07-12-2008, 08:12 AM
When i get stressed i make endless amounts of lists to get myself out of what ever situation is stressing me, i talk to myself about it, i think it through whenever my mind isn't occupied, i tell my friends the game plan. I work out what to do depending on which way the situation swings. I pace the house constantly. I eat about 300 times my body weight. I start picking fights for no reason and i generally treat people like dirt. I listen to sad and angry songs and sit in my room looking out my bedroom window in self pity. I'm very woe betide me. I also have a habit of scratching at my wrists.

Yeh i'm not stressed that often thankfully.

Babyjustrun
07-12-2008, 08:52 AM
When I'm stressed, I just feel angry.
And sad.
That's all really.
And I tend to rant about everything I need to do and then someone will say 'Well I need to get that done too, but you don't hear me complaining every five seconds' and then I pretty much explode.
I hate it when people tell me I complain too much. I'm aware of that, and if you can't deal with it, don't talk to me.

Whitleigh
07-12-2008, 10:34 AM
I stress a lot. When I was in high school(all those many years ago!! :)- I just graduated.) I used to have to give speeches. I like freaked out about them. I would worry so much that I would make myself sick. Then, I took a leadership position in Key Club where I had to go somewhere every couple of months with people that I did not know at all and I had to speak in front of them. I think that that really helped me, I still get pretty nervous, but not as nervous now.

Currently, I am stressing over going to college. I went to high school with my roomate, we were bffs in middle school but then we just grew apart I guess. I am scared out of my mind to go to college. Just thinking about it make my stomach turn.

KitKat_Tink
07-12-2008, 11:07 AM
KitKat_Tink(sorry not quite sure of your name. :goodvibes) I hope things turn out well.
:hug:



Luckily Im very mellow, so I dont get that stressed out often, or over stupid petty things, I dont keep up with Drama or anything that goes on at my school, its stupid when were older when is it going to matter who dated who or whatever its about, its stupid.

But when I do get stressed out its over school or growing up or the future.
Im going into high school next year, which im not looking forward too but because I dont want to get lost or make an idiot out of myself, not for drama or any of those things. And then theres always so much pressure on what your going to do with the rest of your life. I hate it. I just either want to grow up and not deal with everything along the way or be a kid again and everything be innocent.



Wow hello I just rambled on....


my name is katie :goodvibes and thank you!
Don't worry about what you want to be! I still don't know and i'm going into junior year! I really wanna be a mechanical engenier but everyone is like NO so maybe interior design.

ears4all!
07-12-2008, 12:23 PM
Me? Stress? Naw....



how far is that from the truth.

I stress over little things.

I stress over big things.

I stress over my worries.

I actually worried today that the stock market was going to crash. It scared me.

Don't get me goin.

imabrat
07-12-2008, 12:29 PM
Yes, it makes me sick all the time. I worry myself sick too much.


Please don't make fun, but in this past year, I worried myself so sick I had to go to a phsycologist to help me get over that.

::Snow_White::
07-12-2008, 12:32 PM
I'm basically stressed 90% of the time.
I don't think I've ever gotton physically sick because of it though...

Usually it's not bad, but whenever I'm freaking out because of stress I'm really bossy, rude, and cranky.
I feel like throwing things and screaming.
So yeah, I'd stay away from me if I'm too stressed. =D

imabrat
07-12-2008, 12:45 PM
Lmao :lmao:

At homecoming boys do that to me all the time.
I don't mind it though. Or boys come up behind me, and grab my hips, then that kinda freaks me out. lol because half the time I don't even know them, so I just push them away. Freaks I swear lol

I hate the hip grabbing(actually its more poking for me) because girls would do that to me because they know I am ticklish and see me flinch.


I HATE that! With a passion. It wasn't cool because that phase was around 7th grade, and I admit I had some extra fat I could afford to lose. Not obese, not even overweight (says BMI) but larger than the skinnies in my school.
Boys would come up, poke me in the sides from behind, and I would sqeak (sp?) and jump.

VolleyballQt07
07-12-2008, 03:06 PM
Usually if I'm really stressed out I get a headache. But I don't get sick, sick.

life of the party
07-12-2008, 05:34 PM
my name is katie :goodvibes and thank you!
Don't worry about what you want to be! I still don't know and i'm going into junior year! I really wanna be a mechanical engenier but everyone is like NO so maybe interior design.

:offtopic:
okay off topic but ..
OMG MY NAMES KATIE TOO (:

okay yeaah continue to talk about stress.. and poking.. and party-boying
xD

AmandaSparks730
07-12-2008, 05:40 PM
I get so stressed that I have breakdowns in front of my friends from holding it all in. And then I start crying. And then they comfort me, which makes me cry even MORE and I feel totally weak.