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STOPxmickeytime
06-05-2008, 06:10 PM
So, what are you most self-concious about?

Disneylover 2
06-05-2008, 06:13 PM
How I look, I mean, have you seen me???????

But sometime, I feel OKAY about myself, I feel pretty!!

KidGoofy
06-05-2008, 06:17 PM
My voice...I just think it sounds annoying

Hollister
06-05-2008, 06:18 PM
When I laugh really hard my mouth looks weird, so I cover it

acesupercoolme
06-05-2008, 06:24 PM
My nose, it's big and has a huge bump on it.

StitchfansJr
06-05-2008, 06:27 PM
My voice

reminisce
06-05-2008, 06:28 PM
i think my nose, mostly, but only when im looking 2-dimensional. in a 180 mirror, i love it

also, my neck looks funny when i have bad posture, but i think that goes for everyone

DisGirlAllie
06-05-2008, 06:36 PM
My appearance.

HSMndLKfan92
06-05-2008, 06:39 PM
My stomach.

BAMBIFOREVER
06-05-2008, 06:41 PM
my skin sometimes

PigletGurl
06-05-2008, 06:58 PM
my skin, my eyebrows, my chest.

Cinderelli16
06-05-2008, 07:24 PM
my legs they're so muscular, i feel like i have thunder thighs sometimes, i really hate it

AbsoluteAwesome1
06-05-2008, 07:26 PM
My stomach.
I always look really hard to find shirts that make it look good.
I don't like wearing swimsuits.

minniesBFF
06-05-2008, 07:38 PM
my looks and my stomach. I've always been insecure about them.

Thumbs18
06-05-2008, 07:57 PM
My Scar on my chest. I had open heart surgery when I was 4 so I have about a 10 inch scar that will always be there running from my breast bone to the bottom of my rib cage. ppl always point it out to me.

chisnpeke
06-05-2008, 08:02 PM
My Scar on my chest. I had open heart surgery when I was 4 so I have about a 10 inch scar that will always be there running from my breast bone to the bottom of my rib cage. ppl always point it out to me.

Aww :hug:

chisnpeke
06-05-2008, 08:03 PM
I'm most insecure about my nose I think. I don't like how it looks when I smile. It looks kind of big I guess but not really.

I also hate my stretch marks and cellulite.

takeabreathx3
06-05-2008, 08:15 PM
my acne/chicken pox scars. i had really bad acne and that caused a damper on my self-confidence and i even went into a somewhat depression because whatever i tried they never went away - but now its MUCH better. and my chicken pox and acne scars. i NEVER recall picking at my chicken pox scars but apparently i did..hah.


but next it doesn't affect me AS much as the scars do - my lips are really small and my nose is somewhat dominant and stretch marks/cellulite on my thighs.

Tinkerbell424
06-05-2008, 08:21 PM
My eyebrows and my thighs.

katrina3542
06-05-2008, 08:33 PM
my stomach... sometimes its fine but at other times i'm not so comfortable with it. also, stretch marks and cellulite on my thighs :(

Jasmine45
06-05-2008, 08:58 PM
My voice...I just think it sounds annoying

SAME!!

I think my voice is SOO Anoying and whiny.
But I have the Buffalo Nasely voice.
:goodvibes

::Snow_White::
06-05-2008, 09:37 PM
My voice.
My smile (Not really my teeth, but the way I smile is awkward and looks unnatural...if that makes sense.)
My acne, that's slowly going away though...

PurpleDucky
06-05-2008, 09:41 PM
My stomach.
I always look really hard to find shirts that make it look good.
I don't like wearing swimsuits.

Yeah, I never wear bikinis. Too embarrassing for me
Alllso, my paleness, hence the reason I never wear shorts. I only wear dresses when I have to.

Sparx
06-05-2008, 09:42 PM
i'm pretty secure about myself. i wish i had a thinner waist though. i'm not super curvey, but i dont really mind.

PurpleDucky
06-05-2008, 09:42 PM
When I laugh really hard my mouth looks weird, so I cover it

Same, every time I laugh, I automatically cover my mouth

RaggedyAnnPrincess
06-05-2008, 09:49 PM
My stomach and jaw. I feel like my lips are too small for the jaw I have. But I still feel like I'm "pretty". Which is good, hopefully I can keep a hold of that feeling XD

Cassidy
06-05-2008, 09:53 PM
Voice..

STOPxmickeytime
06-05-2008, 10:20 PM
Probably my skin for me.
But its starting to get a lot better recently :]

DramaQueen
06-05-2008, 10:31 PM
Right now the thing I'm insecure about is my arms!!
I'm trying to get them more toned because since I stopped swimming they're getting kinda flabby. :headache:

I'm not the skinniest girl out there, but I'm not insecure about my curves, i love them actually! i've got some hips and i've got some 'lovely lady lumps' that i don't want to lose, so i'd never want to lose weight..because i hear those are the first to go. lol :cool2:

angelcake170
06-06-2008, 12:15 AM
My Weight, I'm Always Called Anorexic.
My Skin Tone, It's Pretty Pale.
My Laugh, When I Laugh Too Much I Have To Gasp For Air.

GxBarbie
06-06-2008, 07:58 AM
number one thing is my height, i don't know if im tall for my age, but thats usually the reason i don't where heels unless its on a speecial occassion like a wedding or something. sometimes people tell me they would kill for my height or my legs.

then other stuff like my feet and my eyes. like when i smile my eyes become small.

princesskelz
06-06-2008, 08:16 AM
the big thing is my Weight:headache:

Ampris
06-16-2008, 11:30 AM
My teeth. They look awful. :\

MrsSparrow..
06-16-2008, 12:11 PM
My appearance and my height.

CrazyChik
06-16-2008, 12:13 PM
My voice, weight, nose, stomach, face, legs, chest, hair, skintone and smile.

Surprisingly i'm comfortable with standing at a mere 5ft though ;)

BandGeek911
06-16-2008, 12:49 PM
My body.
I'm ok with my weight, I grew to accept that by now. It's just, the shape of my body. Some people have hourglass curves, or no curves at all...I...on the other hand, am pear shaped.

I absolutley hate it.

And my voice. I hate the sound of it, it's so irritating! I don't know how people stand it when I'm talking to them.

daddysgirl12
06-16-2008, 01:01 PM
my chest i haven't fully devoloped:worried:

AmandaSparks730
06-16-2008, 02:18 PM
Face is hideous.

And I'm really short for my age. Awkward with very tall friends. Who use you as an armrest.

Babyjustrun
06-16-2008, 02:23 PM
My voice, weight, nose, stomach, face, legs, chest, hair, skintone and smile.

Surprisingly i'm comfortable with standing at a mere 5ft though ;)

I love being short.
I love being teased by guys about how short I am.
I think it's cute to be short.
Besides, being short, every guy you meet his pretty much gonna be taller than you.

CrazyChik
06-16-2008, 02:27 PM
I love being short.
I love being teased by guys about how short I am.
I think it's cute to be short.
Besides, being short, every guy you meet his pretty much gonna be taller than you.

Totally ;)
It used to annoy me because i was always one of the taller in juniors. Now i don't mind.

MrsSparrow..
06-16-2008, 02:30 PM
The whole "your boyfriend will always be taller" is kind of a bonus. But for me, I don't like it because some of my friends are tall and yet continue to wear heels around me. I just feel like shouting "YOUR TALL. WHY MAKE YOURSELF ANY TALLER?!" thats why I feel short :) Lmao.

STOPxmickeytime
06-16-2008, 02:34 PM
I like being tallish.
I mean, at 5'6"-5'7" I'm no giant, but I like that my legs look long.
I wouldn't wanna be short, it seems like super short people are always at like armpit level with everyone else.
Seems like it would make walking through a crowded, sweaty highschool hall rather unpleasant...

imabrat
06-16-2008, 02:41 PM
This sucker.
http://i112.photobucket.com/albums/n180/browneyedbrunette23/103_0002.jpg
http://i112.photobucket.com/albums/n180/browneyedbrunette23/103_0001.jpg

Sorry their big. But yep, that's my scar. I know it's shallow to be insecure about something that saved my life, but I'm glad I have it.

I also have this mole right southeastern of my right ear. It really bothers me. I really really want it removed, but my mom says no because it's not suspicious.

Babyjustrun
06-16-2008, 02:46 PM
The whole "your boyfriend will always be taller" is kind of a bonus. But for me, I don't like it because some of my friends are tall and yet continue to wear heels around me. I just feel like shouting "YOUR TALL. WHY MAKE YOURSELF ANY TALLER?!" thats why I feel short :) Lmao.

Lol, yeah.
When I'm at school and they have things that the whole school participate in, like Student Council elections, I'm surrounded by a huge sea of people taller than me.
I totally can't see anything.


I am a little insecure about this extra piece of gum I have. Like, the gum in the middle above my two top front teeth, there is excess and it's kind of gross looking. It's like the piece of gum that connects the gum to your lip? Well a bit of it sticks out and it's gross.
When my braces come off the dentist wants me to get it lazered off.

imabrat
06-16-2008, 02:59 PM
Lol, yeah.
When I'm at school and they have things that the whole school participate in, like Student Council elections, I'm surrounded by a huge sea of people taller than me.
I totally can't see anything.


I am a little insecure about this extra piece of gum I have. Like, the gum in the middle above my two top front teeth, there is excess and it's kind of gross looking. It's like the piece of gum that connects the gum to your lip? Well a bit of it sticks out and it's gross.
When my braces come off the dentist wants me to get it lazered off.

A neighbor's grandson had that. He ended up getting that little tissue that connects your gum and lip snipped. Without numbing. :eek:

Babyjustrun
06-16-2008, 03:02 PM
A neighbor's grandson had that. He ended up getting that little tissue that connects your gum and lip snipped. Without numbing. :eek:

:worried:

That doesn't sound pleasent.
My friends brother had the bottom one done, for no reason.
They said they'd just laser the thing off, because it's not the the part that's actually attached to the lip, there's just some normal gum around the teeth that's excess.
I can't explain real good, I tried getting a picture of it, but it didn't turn out.

Babyjustrun
06-16-2008, 03:09 PM
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v79/Hilly_beans/DSCF5579-1.jpg

What I have circled is it.
It's hard to see and almost looks like just my plain gum, but it sticks out a little.

HannahBanana
06-16-2008, 03:29 PM
Well i dont like my ears, they are too pointy and i hate wearing ponytails bc of them. The last is my skin. sometimes i wake up in the morning and i look at my face and say " where did that zit come from? " lol

Ampris
06-16-2008, 04:23 PM
Well i dont like my ears, they are too pointy and i hate wearing ponytails bc of them. The last is my skin. sometimes i wake up in the morning and i look at my face and say " where did that zit come from? " lol

Oh gosh, yes. Sometimes I wish I could wear hats to work (or that I'd remember to by makeup once in a while, hur) because it keeps happening that the night before I'll be looking in the mirror and notice huge zits where there weren't any the day before, and I can't do anything about it. Argh. :headache:


... And I just noticed that the headache smiley looks like he has a radioactive pimple on his head. Haha.

mikeyandscoobyx2
06-16-2008, 04:51 PM
my body. - my arms the most!!! I hate how they're so skinny, BONE skinny. Why can't they just be average?!?!?!?!

I think mostly everyone hates their physical appearance.

iluvmickey4lyfe
06-16-2008, 04:55 PM
i really actually dont like a lot about myself. i suppose i should complain so much, im skinny and short, so weight isnt a problem, but i hate my face and everything else pretty much. my legs arent muscly at all, no part of me is. and i hate my hair. dont like the color or the style.

arabians207
06-16-2008, 05:10 PM
I hate my weight/stomach. I also hate on like the back of my shoulder it looks really weird and people always are like.. woah thats weird or say something to that effect.. and go and touch my shoulder LOL. Its really weird.. it has bugged me for forever.

I don't really mind my height. I'm 5' and 17 so im not growing anymore.. I've gotten used to it though and sometimes kind of like being short, but i also wouldn't mind having a few more inches!

HDD
06-16-2008, 05:12 PM
I'm insecure about my body sometimes.
Sometimes when people look at me and smile I think they are laughing at me.

I'm insecure about my voice sometimes and the slight lisp I have when I say certain things.

3mtn-kate
06-16-2008, 05:14 PM
I'm not really insecure about too much...

My face somtimes when I get a break out and stuff. But I'm pretty happy at the moment actually about my body and stuff.

I'm pretty proud, I haven't been content with myself in soooooooooo long. :cool1:

DramaQueen
06-16-2008, 05:39 PM
I have an eye infection and I'm not allowed to wear makeup for a week.

I usually wear very minimal makeup, but wearing non at all makes me feel veeeeerrryyy self conscious!!! :eek:

I feel like I look really disguting. And I know I shouldn't, because I shouldn't have to wear makeup to feel pretty....but i can't help it!

disneychick2721
06-16-2008, 06:13 PM
My Acne.
My Weight.
My Legs.
My Teeth.
I think my arms are really long....

KitKat_Tink
06-16-2008, 07:40 PM
Lol, yeah.
When I'm at school and they have things that the whole school participate in, like Student Council elections, I'm surrounded by a huge sea of people taller than me.
I totally can't see anything.


I am a little insecure about this extra piece of gum I have. Like, the gum in the middle above my two top front teeth, there is excess and it's kind of gross looking. It's like the piece of gum that connects the gum to your lip? Well a bit of it sticks out and it's gross.
When my braces come off the dentist wants me to get it lazered off.

ee mine got ripped out when i was 5...while putting a tee shirt on backwards...

But i'm self concious about my stomach...Its almost to the point i'll be ok with it...I told myself to get to a 7 then stop critizing myself...But my guy friends tell me that my little bit of chubbyness is nice casue they can't feel my ribs when they hug me...

Cali_Sparrow
06-16-2008, 08:01 PM
My body. I am average weight and height but I always feel short and I'm really curvy and pear-shaped, so clothes almost never fit very well. I'm really muscular for a girl too, it's unfortunate but it makes me pretty strong too.

Would love to have longer hair too.
And maybe just a bit more self esteem and a louder voice.

BabyPiglet
06-16-2008, 08:03 PM
My HIPS! I don't mind being curvy, but I feel like a damn pear. At work we sometimes have to tuck our shirts in, and I look like an idiot. I hate them, I wish I would just squeeze them in a couple inches.

My teeth. They are not yellow or gross by any means, I just wish they were pearly white like all those people on TV. My bottom teeth kinda need braces, which I hope to be getting sometime...

My fingers are too chubby.

I have one of those stomach pouches. When I suck in I look pretty good, but I can't go around sucking it in now can I?

My thighs are bigger than I'd like them to be.

My nose is sorta wide.

I can't smile and show my teeth at the same time, I don't know why. And when I laugh I feel like I look like a 2 year old.

My arms are too flabby.

I have to wear glasses, which I HATE.

My hair is kinda frizzy and I wish I could do more with it.

My weight. The number freaks me out to the point that I just can't make myself step on a scale.

(I'm 5'3" but I love it. I actually wish I wear shorter!)

But mostly I am insecure about my personality. Whenever people are laughing, I feel like their laughing at me. I feel like I don't know how to socialize correctly.

Ya know what though? Other times I'm completely happy with my appearence, and I'm really confident. Maybe I'm bipolar....;)

inlalaland
06-16-2008, 08:44 PM
I used to have this little dermoid thingy in my eye...pretty nasty, I highly suggest you don't google it [it was just a small white growth type thing]. Anyway, I had a surgery to get it removed about 5 months ago...and I don't thing I've ever been happier with my physical appearance! I mean I guess I would be a little happier with a smaller nose, but I've pretty much learned to accept it. Everyone tells me I'll grow into it. And my braces, but those will come off [hopefully this year!!]...hey, nobodies perfect. ;) I actually have learned to love my imperfections!

TinkerTracy
06-16-2008, 10:33 PM
Sure there are things about myself I don't like...but I try really hard not to dwell on them and not be insecure.
You have to love your imperfections!

DollfieDreams
06-17-2008, 02:07 AM
i was once described as an ugly tinker bell.

yeah.

i have big, curvy hips, i booty-tooch when i stand, ive got ginormous eyelashes and blue eyes that sortasorta slant at the ends, plus, my thighs arent even an adjective of "small".

i used to love all this about myself.

but in order to accomplish my goal in life (which i cant say without being so emberrassed right now) i have to drop my weight to atleast 95-100 pounds and develop some hardcore upper body strength. which im willing to sacrfice anything for it. juding by my frame, im supposed to be small, but it never has worked out that way for me.

sometimes i wish my hair were shorter (its to my butt), and i know i want to fix my teeth (i have a slightly turned canine), ive recently thought my nose was too big, and i know im way over my "healthy weight". i hate seeing all my friends smaller than me. their costumes for the stuff we make just look so much better than mine ever could, no matter how much time or money i could possibly put into it.

everyones insecure and its a sad thing.
we shouldnt have to feel or need to change the way we are just to impress others or to get the job or carreer we've always dreamed of. but in todays world, being healthy and looking good are no longer for personal gain it seems.

CrazyChik
06-17-2008, 08:59 AM
Lol, yeah.
When I'm at school and they have things that the whole school participate in, like Student Council elections, I'm surrounded by a huge sea of people taller than me.
I totally can't see anything.


I am a little insecure about this extra piece of gum I have. Like, the gum in the middle above my two top front teeth, there is excess and it's kind of gross looking. It's like the piece of gum that connects the gum to your lip? Well a bit of it sticks out and it's gross.
When my braces come off the dentist wants me to get it lazered off.

I used to have an extra bit of gum by there. I think i played with it so much it just came out.

Babyjustrun
06-17-2008, 09:04 AM
I can't touch my gum right now.
My braces are in the way.