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[Skylarr29]

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[orangetiggs]

whjat date in spet? we are getting married then

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[IndyBride]

I'm sure it will all come together. Now you don't have to deal with all the waiting we do! You just get to have fun planning (fun... is that the right word??) and then get married! :) Good luck to you in all you have. And... Congratulations!

[PrincessBride010103]

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!! First off breathe, everything will come together I promise! yay for the 2 pink lines :banana:

totally let me know if you need help with anything or need to talk :goodvibes

[Chilly]

Congratulations. I'm sure Disney will help you sort everything out.

[feline figaro]

Take some deep breaths, try to relax, only then will you start to think straight:) . Disney im sure are use to couples changing plans all the time, as a WP im sure they ve been thrown every hurdle possible in their way. Its their job to help you so together you will sort everything out :thumbsup2 ;) .

You re just having one of those moments where everything seems impossible, things will fall in to place. You just need a little pixiedust: , wear a big :bitelip: & everything will work out perfectly

Cant wait for you to fully start your pj :thumbsup2

[linzwylie]

CONGRATULATIONS :cool1:

I'm sure your planner will be able to sort everything out for you, as has been said I'm sure they deal with things like this all the time.

Look forward to reading your journal.

You could be like me and get married after the baby is born ? Well actually, we kind of left it a bit later than that 12 years !!! :rotfl2:

Good luck with your plans

Linz xxx :)

[lov2b@disney]

CONGRATULATIONS! You know Disney will help make all your dreams come true! pixiedust: Everything will work out, try and relax! We are all here to help!

Our son is 2!...........better late than never I guess!

[WithDisneySpirit]

Congratulations to you and DF on your little alien :rotfl: :goodvibes JK, there will be silver linings and joy for you in this - mark my words :lovestruc I know I will enjoy your PJ so lets get started :moped:

[camara381]

AW how sweet congrats!!!! I would say don't worry and relax, I am sure everything will come together. If i remember correctly both Caryn and Amanda pulled it off in a few months and both of them turned out gorgeous!!!!

[DisneyBrideToni]

CONGRATS!!!! :cool1: :cool1:

I am sure everything will be fine. Your wedding planner will know exactly what to do. That is what they are paid for! :thumbsup2

We are all here to help you too!!!

[alissa2008]

popcorn::

:rotfl:

:hyper: Congrats! I'm so excited for you!! Not to worry, I'm sure everything will work out!! :goodvibes

[DisneyFairy19]

YEY Melissa we need a meet now with you and amanda....

[Keira1387]

Congrats!!! Just breathe, everything will work out!

[twiu]

Are you kidding? Why stress? This is amazing news!!! CONGRATULATIONS! and honey, it's Disney - they can make anything happen. You hang in there. I'm local, so if you need any help - let me know. Seriously!

[Cosi Bella]

oh my goodness what great news!!! Congratulations!

Like everyone else said, no worries, dont stress. Everything will be just fine! Just leave it to the pros to sort it out, and it will all be okay!

[faeriegrl]

First, congratulations! I know it is scary right now but it will be OK!

You did the right thing by choosing Disney. They are wonderful with all sorts of changes and requests and I am sure your wedding will be awesome.

Take a deep breath and try not to stress too much.

[Maggimus]

Congratulations!!http://i242.photobucket.com/albums/ff214/leoschild/EMTIONS%20SMILEY/prego.gifhttp://i132.photobucket.com/albums/q11/lalacreek/smiley/baby.gifhttp://i242.photobucket.com/albums/ff214/leoschild/EMTIONS%20SMILEY/Baby1.gifhttp://i42.photobucket.com/albums/e340/djchamkila/baby.gif

[disneychickforever]

It'll all be okay, and it'll all work out. Take a deep breath, and remember, Disney makes dreams come true. I'm sure they will be able to make yours come true also.

Have any updates for us?

[StitchBride]

Congratulations! Don't stress! You can do this and it will be amazing! September isn't that hot up there, certainly better than July or August and hurricanes (knock on wood) are usually later in the season! You'll be fine!

[Mocharilla]

Congrats! You'll do fine :)

Either way, it'll be awesome! I mean, look at Amanda! Hers, from the looks of it, went perfectly fine! She's like, a shining example :) Haha.

You could always do what we did. Have a baby but not change the wedding. But, if you'd rather do it earlier, then it'll still be awesome!!

Either way, you'll have an awesome wedding and you'll be a beautiful bride and you'll have an amazing little one! Just always remember that! :banana:

[Tabetha]

Hey! Congrats!
Welcome to the world of September brides! S'ok, the water's fine!

[Skylarr29]

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[lurkyloo]

We are having a 10am ceremony at WP, cocktails on the Whitehall Patio/ and then lunch in the Whitehall room. Then there will be a break (Which I am not too fond of) and then Illuminations in the French Upper.

Let me see if I can sell you on that break, now that I've gone from hating the idea to absolutely loving the experience :rotfl:

- Gives you a chance to nap and/or take a break from your dress

- Allows you to spend quiet time with your new DH in the middle of the day instead of when you're exhausted at the end

- Gives you something to look forward to after the reception

- DP has more of an impact as a stand-alone event than as the third in a series of spectacular events

- Lets guests take a break/nap/swim

- Gives you and your guests time to get hungry again so you can eat more desserts

:thumbsup2

[PrincessBride010103]

Thank you all SO much for the support. I am starting to feel a little better about the situation and I know soon I will start to get excited.


So far we have rescheduled for October 15th. Our photographer is available and I am still waiting to hear from the videographer.

They said we can keep our planning session for the same dates but we might get a new planner. We also had to change the time of our wedding but all things considered I think its working out pretty darn well... except for the heartburn lol.

We are having a 10am ceremony at WP, cocktails on the Whitehall Patio/ and then lunch in the Whitehall room. Then there will be a break (Which I am not too fond of) and then Illuminations in the French Upper.

Thanks again. I will try to add photos as soon as the dust settles.

You have plenty of time! Just breathe...you have 4 months! Your wedding will be beautiful! I only had 2 months to do mine :thumbsup2

[jnale]

Thank you all SO much for the support. I am starting to feel a little better about the situation and I know soon I will start to get excited.


So far we have rescheduled for October 15th. Our photographer is available and I am still waiting to hear from the videographer.

They said we can keep our planning session for the same dates but we might get a new planner. We also had to change the time of our wedding but all things considered I think its working out pretty darn well... except for the heartburn lol.

We are having a 10am ceremony at WP, cocktails on the Whitehall Patio/ and then lunch in the Whitehall room. Then there will be a break (Which I am not too fond of) and then Illuminations in the French Upper.

Thanks again. I will try to add photos as soon as the dust settles.


Awww....how sweet! Congratulations! Your wedding will now be just 3 days before mine! Everything will work out great - don't worry!

[Wazzo]

(Here was my thought process upon finding this thread):

http://www.thesmilies.com/smilies/happy/applause.gif Hooray a PJ from Skylarr29!!

:faint: Oh my, pink lines!!

:teacher: Hooray pink lines!! Congratulations!!!!

:eek: (Wait a minute, does this mean no Royal Asante Suite??)

:teacher: Hooray pink lines!! Congratulations!!!!

:woohoo: Again, congrats, and I can't wait to hear more!!

[GJLS10108]

Thank you all SO much for the support. I am starting to feel a little better about the situation and I know soon I will start to get excited.


So far we have rescheduled for October 15th. Our photographer is available and I am still waiting to hear from the videographer.

They said we can keep our planning session for the same dates but we might get a new planner. We also had to change the time of our wedding but all things considered I think its working out pretty darn well... except for the heartburn lol.

We are having a 10am ceremony at WP, cocktails on the Whitehall Patio/ and then lunch in the Whitehall room. Then there will be a break (Which I am not too fond of) and then Illuminations in the French Upper.

Thanks again. I will try to add photos as soon as the dust settles.


Hey you might be able to take October 1st if you want to move it up a little futher. I unfortunately am having to cancel our Disney wedding because of extenuating (sp??) circumstances. We were getting married at the Wedding Pavillion at 2:30 And then we had Living Seas and then France for Illuminations. We haven't officially cancelled yet because we are still working out some kinks. But hey it's just a thought!!

Oh and CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!:cutie:

[IndyBride]

I'm super happy you are able to make things work out! Of course, now you realize you have to keep us informed until the baby arrives right? Your trapped like Amanda is!

[Lynn5700]

OMG CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so happy for you and I'm glad everything is going to work out!!!!

[figmentcookie]

Thank you all SO much for the support. I am starting to feel a little better about the situation and I know soon I will start to get excited.


So far we have rescheduled for October 15th. Our photographer is available and I am still waiting to hear from the videographer.

They said we can keep our planning session for the same dates but we might get a new planner. We also had to change the time of our wedding but all things considered I think its working out pretty darn well... except for the heartburn lol.

We are having a 10am ceremony at WP, cocktails on the Whitehall Patio/ and then lunch in the Whitehall room. Then there will be a break (Which I am not too fond of) and then Illuminations in the French Upper.

Thanks again. I will try to add photos as soon as the dust settles.

Congratulations for your "new addition to the family" to be! :) Try not to worry, it will all come together. Your wedding will be two days after mine, so if you need to vent, I'll be here to listen.

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[WithDisneySpirit]

Hi Guys!!!!!!!!!!!!


We are at the Polynesian right now and I am so excited.

More of the plans are coming together. I was able to re book our hotels (the Royal Asante suite and Boardwalk garden suite) and make pretty similar wedding trip plans.

On Monday we have a floral appointment (we are using an outside vendor) and we are going to visit the Whitehall room and take some photos while we are here.

I will post the photos and a mini trip report as soon as I get back!


Thanks again girls! You all have been great at putting my mind at ease!


P.S. We are def pregnant because we have taken like 10 tests lol! And not jus the ones with the lines lol, the ones that actually spell it out for you.

PREGNANT! :banana:

Wow, who all will be staying in the Royal Assante suite; I know I missed this if you shared it before!! :faint: I can't wait to hear more of your plans!!

I was laughing to read that there is a test that spells it out for you! I would have wanted that when I was having my babies :rotfl2: :rotfl:

[jodeeluvsdisney]

Melissa-- YAY!!! Congratulations!

Let us know what we can help you with...I'm sure, knowing how organized you are, that it will all unfold perfectly!

[accountingbabe08]

Just Relax as everyone on here has said. Everything will be just fine. I'm on :cloud9: for you about your new baby.

[Skylarr29]

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[snow_white725]

Hi Guys!!!!!!!!!!!!


We are at the Polynesian right now and I am so excited.

More of the plans are coming together. I was able to re book our hotels (the Royal Asante suite and Boardwalk garden suite) and make pretty similar wedding trip plans.

On Monday we have a floral appointment (we are using an outside vendor) and we are going to visit the Whitehall room and take some photos while we are here.

I will post the photos and a mini trip report as soon as I get back!


Thanks again girls! You all have been great at putting my mind at ease!


P.S. We are def pregnant because we have taken like 10 tests lol! And not jus the ones with the lines lol, the ones that actually spell it out for you.

PREGNANT! :banana:

Congratulations on everything! :goodvibes

Also, while you are at the GF if you have time, could you pop into the Key West room and grab a few pictures there...I can't get the Disney virtual property tour to work on any computer I try...

[Skylarr29]

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[snow_white725]

I'll try to get some photos for you. We walked over today but they were having an event. I will try again tomorrow before we leave.


Off to Hollywood Studios to be hot and miserable lol.

Ohhh - You are such a sweetie. Don't stress about it if you don't have time...I want you to enjoy your trip! :lovestruc

[Wazzo]

More of the plans are coming together. I was able to re book our hotels (the Royal Asante suite and Boardwalk garden suite) and make pretty similar wedding trip plans.


Yay, I'm glad it's working out for you!! :goodvibes

Were you able to apply your 30% wedding discount to the suites this time??

[DecemberBride]

Congratulations on everything! :goodvibes

Also, while you are at the GF if you have time, could you pop into the Key West room and grab a few pictures there...I can't get the Disney virtual property tour to work on any computer I try...

Where is this virtual tour thingy? I'd love to see how it works!

[Skylarr29]

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[Skylarr29]

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[DisBride2007]

Just wanted to add my congratulations! And don't worry, you can definitely plan everything in this time. We didn't really start planning our wedding until about four months beforehand, just because we had been looking for a house for over a year and all of a sudden we're like, "aren't we getting married soon?" :rotfl:

[PrincessBride010103]

We want pics! popcorn::

[Wazzo]

We want pics! popcorn::

Yeah! I agree with Amanada!! ::yes::

[newyearsbride]

I just caught up! CONGRATS! That's amazing! Yay for pink lines! Everything will work out great! Can't wait for pics and trip updates.:cool1: :banana: :hug:

[Skylarr29]

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[Ticky Toria 78]

Congratulations!

[WithDisneySpirit]

Wow, I cannot wait to see pics of you and the girls getting ready for the wedding in that awesome suite!!!!!!! How beautiful :lovestruc

[Skylarr29]

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[DisneyFairy19]

yey for posting pics

[PixyDusted]

Congratulations! Honestly, I feel like it's better to have less months from when you start planning to the actual date! Get it over with. :rotfl:

CONGRATULATIONS!!!

[Skylarr29]

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[newyearsbride]

Aww, yay for pics! That baby is too cute. Let me tell you, I've been craving Disney's turkey legs like no one's business... and you just made it worse. Haha :rotfl: I definitely want one now. That bird looked like he was ready to take it from your FI/baby dady :lmao: ;)

[Skylarr29]

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[Keira1387]

Yum, 50's primetime looks so good! They have the best meatloaf!

[ElleBren]

Its so funny that you went to Ocala. I used to live there and nobody knows where it is. I was just there when we went for our PS on the 6th. I am so glad I moved from there, however it is fun to go back from time to time.

[PrincessBride010103]

You're so lucky you aren't sick and you can still eat things like turkey legs! Here's to hoping your pregnancy stays vomit free! :lmao:

[Skylarr29]

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[princessdisneybelle]

Melissa I can't believe I am just seeing this! I am so excited for you. Congrats. Please let me know if I can help in anyway.

[Skylarr29]

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[figmentcookie]

All the things you picked looked gorgeous :) Love it :)

BTW, you said you had the camera in your posession when you got your haircut. That's a good thing... DF likes to take pics of me in odd situations like that sometimes too :)

Thank you!

Ha ha ha! There has been some vomiting lol.... in the car on the way home lol! I was going to leave that out of the trip report! Let's just say I don't think I will ever eat at a Miami Subs for the rest of my life!

If it keeps up this way, maybe I will fit into my dress after all! :rotfl2:

I think every trip report has to have something like vomit in it. It won't seem real otherwise. ;)

[Skylarr29]

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[DecemberBride]

Oh Skylarr, words can't describe how sorry I am for you and DF. My thoughts are with you and you always have a place where you can talk, if you ever need to... sending a big hug your way... :hug:

[tlhbdm]

OMG! I am so sorry for your loss. :hug: Good luck in planning the wedding.

[PrincessBride010103]

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[irisbud]

:hug: :(

[disneychickforever]

I'm very sorry to hear about your loss :( My thoughts and prayers are with you.

[Princesskeyblade]

Hi Ladies,

I just wanted to let everyone know how much I appreciate the support and kind comments. Unfortunately we have lost the baby.We are hanging in there though. It was very early on.

We have decided to keep the new wedding date as it would be very hectic and stressful to try and change everything back.


Thanks again.

I am sooo sorry!!!:hug: My thoughts and prayers are with you!

[avasmomrn]

so sorry for your loss

[roseviolet]

I'm so sorry...

[WithDisneySpirit]

I am thinking of you both!!:worried:

[newyearsbride]

I am so sorry for you and your FI's loss. I will keep you in my prayers.

[Skylarr29]

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[Wazzo]

Oh Skylarr, I am so sorry to hear the news. My thoughts are with you and your family at this time. :hug:

[Lynn5700]

Aww I'm so so sorry :( hugs to you both....I wish I had better words to say but just know I will be keeping you and your family in my prayers. hang in there sweetie.xoxoxox

[PrincessBride010103]

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[WithDisneySpirit]

Hopefully, not for long since I reported the post right after she made it! :mad:

[Skylarr29]

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[PrincessBride010103]

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[disneychickforever]

I love the invitations. :thumbsup2 I hope you are okay about the miscarriage though....I'd be too depressed to do that right now with such a sudden loss.

To each his own though I guess....some just like to keep busy when something happens....:hug:

[Skylarr29]

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[disneychickforever]

I'm sorry if it seemed like I was questioning you. I wasn't at all. I know everyone deals with grief in different ways, and well, I'm a wimp and couldn't do what you are doing.

I applaud and admire you, because you are able to go on with your life, which is what you have to do in this situation. I was just saying that I don't think I'd have the strength to...

Sorry if there was a misunderstanding.... :hug:

[Skylarr29]

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[pink_tink8i8]

I'm so sorry for your loss. :hug: you'll be in my thoughts

your invitations really look fantastic

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[Lynn5700]

Oh I like the invitations,very pretty!!!!!!!!!

How long have you and your DF been together?? You guys look so much in love..thank you for sharing your TR,I love the Poly.

Are you guys having a custom?did you just go down for a floral session or did you do the tasting and everything too?

[faeriegrl]

First I want to say how sorry I am for what you're going through. I've been there and it just plain sucks.

I understand trying to focus energy on something else, that's what I did every time. And what better than a Disney wedding?

People have been really cruel in your PJ. They should really take it to PM instead of publicly treating you like that. It was yours to share and unless they've got something nice to say, I think they should keep their big mouths shut. How hurtful and unnecessary!

Hugs
Brittany

[Skylarr29]

Oh I like the invitations,very pretty!!!!!!!!!

How long have you and your DF been together?? You guys look so much in love..thank you for sharing your TR,I love the Poly.

Are you guys having a custom?did you just go down for a floral session or did you do the tasting and everything too?


We have been together since Nov 10th 06. We are having a custom. We were just there for a floral meeting as we are using an outside vendor. We are having our official Disney planning session with tasting and everything on August 1st. We had already booked our hotel and didn't want to change everything.

Thank you.

[Skylarr29]

First I want to say how sorry I am for what you're going through. I've been there and it just plain sucks.

I understand trying to focus energy on something else, that's what I did every time. And what better than a Disney wedding?

People have been really cruel in your PJ. They should really take it to PM instead of publicly treating you like that. It was yours to share and unless they've got something nice to say, I think they should keep their big mouths shut. How hurtful and unnecessary!

Hugs
Brittany

Thank you Brittany.

This is the end of my Pj.

Thank you all that had nice comments.

[Lynn5700]

We have been together since Nov 10th 06. We are having a custom. We were just there for a floral meeting as we are using an outside vendor. We are having our official Disney planning session with tasting and everything on August 1st. We had already booked our hotel and didn't want to change everything.

Thank you.

Oh duh LOL sorry I missed that...oh well at least you have that to look forward to!!! Can't wait to hear about it :)

[disneychickforever]

Thank you Brittany.

This is the end of my Pj.

Thank you all that had nice comments.

Please don't leave....we all want to hear more about your plans!

Don't let a few people ruin your planning journal, there are many of us who still support you, Melissa.

[camara381]

Seriously I must have missed something. I hope all goes well. :hug:

[Lynn5700]

Oh I'm sorry to hear that. I hope your wedding is everything you dreamed it would be.

[IndyBride]

:hug: So sorry for you loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Hope you have happy planning for the wedding.

[WithDisneySpirit]

I am sorry too...:worried: I also wish you would stay! I enjoyed your floral planning session TR very much!!

[BayouPrincess]

Skylar,
I must have missed something. I was able to catch your sad news and you and your DF are in my thoughts and prayers. I hate that you are leaving. I hope that you will find a space to come back to those of us here who care about you and your family. Sending you lots of :goodvibes and pixiedust: for your upcoming wedding.

[alissa2008]

:eek: I'm really confused!! What happened in Skylars PJ?? Who's as$ do I have to whoop??

[Wazzo]

:eek: I'm really confused!! What happened in Skylars PJ?? Who's as$ do I have to whoop??

Me too! I'm sorry bad things happened, and that you are not continuing your PJ... :(

Best wishes with your plans and on your big day! :goodvibes

[29apr00]

Skylarr, I'm so sorry for your loss. I've been there, and it's a horrible place to be. Don't let anyones cruel comments deter you from your dreams. Unfortunatly during times like this, some people tend to engage mouth before engaging brain and say things that are hurtful and completely wrong. I don't believe they say mean things on purpose, i think they really are just trying to help, but are unsure of what to say.

Please take the time you need to heal from your pain and loss, but do continue your PJ.

Jennifer

[Chilly]

I am so sorry for your and your DFs loss. You are both in my prayers. You do whatever is best for you both.

[DisneyBrideToni]

What happened??? I see the news about the baby which is so so sad and you and your DF will be in my prayers but why are you leaving????? :confused:

Please don't go!! :(

[Skylarr29]

What happened??? I see the news about the baby which is so so sad and you and your DF will be in my prayers but why are you leaving????? :confused:

Please don't go!! :(


I have received a lot of pm's so I will just post why I deleted my posts.

I deleted them because someone decided that I made up the miscarriage for attention.

I would never wish that misfortune on anyone and for someone to have the audacity of saying I made it up is just ridiculous. I know there are many nice people here but that is just too much for me to deal with on top of everything else.

Once again, thank you to all who have sent kind words of encouragement through pm.

And for those of you who have had mean things to say, I hope people extend the same courtesies you have extended to me, if ever you find yourself in such a horrible position.

[alissa2008]

I have received a lot of pm's so I will just post why I deleted my posts.

I deleted them because someone decided that I made up the miscarriage for attention.

I would never wish that misfortune on anyone and for someone to have the audacity of saying I made it up is just ridiculous. I know there are many nice people here but that is just too much for me to deal with on top of everything else.

Once again, thank you to all who have sent kind words of encouragement through pm.

And for those of you who have had mean things to say, I hope people extend the same courtesies you have extended to me, if you ever find yourself in such a horrible position.

I would not take those comments to heart - it was probably just some crazy knottie trying to make as many people feel like junk as they can. ... We're here to support you and help you talk through your time of need... :hug:

here's to those who wish us well -- and those who don't can go to (well you know where they can go)....

[29apr00]

OMG what a horrible hateful thing to do!! Why anyone would think you could make something like that up is beyond me! I'm so sorry someone would diminish your pain that way.

[DisneyBrideToni]

OMG!! What is wrong with people. Why would you ever say someone made up something like that!!! Some people make me sick.

That is so sad. We understand that you have to leave but if you do feel better and come back we are all still here for you! :hug:

[BayouPrincess]

Melissa,
I'm so sorry for your loss.

Lisa

[Lynn5700]

Skylar,I'm sorry,I can't speak for anybody,only myself so please forgive me for asking......What caught me of guard was that you said you were only pregnant for ten days,it sounded kind of like oh well no big deal it was only ten days. I know on a message board you can't tell if the person is joking or whatever.That just didn't sound right to me.

So you say you were only pregnant for 10 days..I think it was probably more than ten days..I'm no doctor but I do know that it takes a woman 2 weeks after conception to know if she is pregnant so you were most likely pregnant more than ten days. Here is something I found,it's hard to tell if you are pregnant with in the first couple days,most woman don't find out until they miss thier first period,then again some women are different.Some women go through the whole pregnancy and never know they are pregnant.

4 days before expected period= 51% accurate
3 days before expected period= 82% accurate
2 days before expected period= 90% accurate
1 day before expected period =95% accurate
the day of expected period =99% accurate

I'm sorry,but I think maybe that is why some people don't quite believe you. I will be honest the more I thought about it,it didn't make sense to me.

I would feel bad for the girls on here if you were just trying to get some type of attention because obviously they are really concerned about you and care for you. I felt terrible when I read that you lost the baby and it bothers me if you made all this up when we all were very concerned,my heart dropped to my stomach when I read it. I felt horrible,what a devestating thing to happen to a woman.

I'm sorry if this offends anybody,and I'm sorry Skylar but I just had to be honest with you,I don't put out an act on this board. We all have bulit relationships with each other on here,and I have a lot of friends on this board and I would never take advantage of them so it kind of upsets me if this was all made up and I see them on here showing you concern.

Again I can't tell you how sorry I am.If this did really happen to you please take care of yourself and I am VERY SORRY for this.

I'm trying to be very nice and again I hope this doesn't offend anybody. I'm just looking out for everybody.

Lynn

[Skylarr29]

Skylar,I'm sorry,I can't speak for anybody,only myself so please forgive me for asking......What caught me of guard was that you said you were only pregnant for ten days,it sounded kind of like oh well no big deal it was only ten days. I know on a message board you can't tell if the person is joking or whatever.That just didn't sound right to me.

So you say you were only pregnant for 10 days..I think it was probably more than ten days..I'm no doctor but I do know that it takes a woman 2 weeks after conception to know if she is pregnant so you were most likely pregnant more than ten days. Here is something I found,it's hard to tell if you are pregnant with in the first couple days,most woman don't find out until they miss thier first period,then again some women are different.Some women go through the whole pregnancy and never know they are pregnant.

4 days before expected period= 51% accurate
3 days before expected period= 82% accurate
2 days before expected period= 90% accurate
1 day before expected period =95% accurate
the day of expected period =99% accurate

I'm sorry,but I think maybe that is why some people don't quite believe you. I will be honest the more I thought about it,it didn't make sense to me.

I would feel bad for the girls on here if you were just trying to get some type of attention because obviously they are really concerned about you and care for you. I felt terrible when I read that you lost the baby and it bothers me if you made all this up when we all were very concerned,my heart dropped to my stomach when I read it. I felt horrible,what a devestating thing to happen to a woman.

I'm sorry if this offends anybody,and I'm sorry Skylar but I just had to be honest with you,I don't put out an act on this board. We all have bulit relationships with each other on here,and I have a lot of friends on this board and I would never take advantage of them so it kind of upsets me if this was all made up and I see them on here showing you concern.

Again I can't tell you how sorry I am.If this did really happen to you please take care of yourself and I am VERY SORRY for this.

I'm trying to be very nice and again I hope this doesn't offend anybody. I'm just looking out for everybody.

Lynn

I just want to say that I never said I was only pregnant for 10 days... we only KNEW for 10 days. We found out on Wednesday the 4th and had the miscarriage late Saturday night into the morning on the 15th. SO about 10 days. In those 10 days we rearranged our whole entire wedding and many other things in our life trying to get ready for a baby. Our first doctors appointment was for this Monday coming up. I am still going for a check up but obviously not for the same reason the appointment was made.

I am sorry some people have taken anything I have said out of context. You guys only knew such a small part of the story as this is a message board. Seriously, why in the world would anyone make something like that up. This is just so absurd. I can't even believe it. I wish I had never told anyone so I wouldn't have to be dealing with this already terrible situation and then to have people question it and say mean things is just horrible.


Oh and we took 5 pregnancy tests and they were all after my period was due. I was on birth control and we never even thought we were pregnant because of that so when we finally got around to taking a test (thinking it would be negative) it was already after a missed period making it's accuracy at the 99% ALSO, when a pregnancy test is not accurate it is because you get a FALSE NEGATIVE, not because you get a FALSE POSITIVE. You can't really get a false positive as the test has to detect the HCG in your urine... no pregnancy means no HCG and no positive test. You can frequently get a false negative because you tested too early or have low levels of HCG that are not being detected by the test. - FYI

[Tabetha]

I wish you didn't feel like you owe anyone an explanation.

I'm sorry that a bad situation was made worse.

[disneychickforever]

just as a scientific fact, it is possible to get a false positive if you are on birth control; most (I believe all) birth control contains HCG, which is what usually prevents pregnancy. It tricks your body into thinking your pregnant so you can't get pregnant. However, no form of birth control is 100% safe. It is still possible to ger pregnant on birth control, though the chances are between 1% and 5%.

Just a Switzerland comment (Switzerland as in neutral)

[Skylarr29]

just as a scientific fact, it is possible to get a false positive if you are on birth control; most (I believe all) birth control contains HCG, which is what usually prevents pregnancy. It tricks your body into thinking your pregnant so you can't get pregnant. However, no form of birth control is 100% safe. It is still possible to ger pregnant on birth control, though the chances are between 1% and 5%.

Just a Switzerland comment (Switzerland as in neutral)


I just wanted to add that when I said that I was using birth control I should have said "we were using 'protection'" we were using only condoms so I truley do not believe that I had a false positive as I also had other symptoms as well.



Anyways, I have unsubscribed from this thread and I hope it dies and I never have to see it again.

For those of you who have sent your support through pm and email :hug: and thank you.

Take care girls.

[SBPbride]

I'm posting in disguise because I don't want to deal with any drama. She has trolled several private Disney websites on top of this one over the past years and for some reason all her stories are ignored. She's been engaged several different times with many different stories.

She also posted, "Well since I had cervical cancer as a teenager I was told that I might have a difficult time conceiving so we are currently not using anything and if we get pregnant before the wedding we will just change our plans... of course I hope we get pregnant right after the wedding but we just want children and will take them whenever we can get them." yet she said she got pregnant on birth control and it was a complete surprise!

I don't want anyone to waste any time feeling sorry for her...she hasn't said anything truthful in the four years she's posted here. She'll just be back under another user name. Here is the proof of the lies:

Here her posts through the years on the DIS, dating as far back as 2004.


Actively planning what appears to be a booked wedding in 2004:

http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=596515&referrerid=93883

Ordered (past tense!) a special dessert for her anniversary in 2004
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?p=6350326#post6350326&highlight=


2005 various plans
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?p=9472594#post9472594&highlight=
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?p=9544396#post9544396&highlight=
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?p=9668984#post9668984&highlight=
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=880886&page=0&highlight=
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=815466&page=1&highlight=


A quoted post announcing the engagement of her and john which appears to have happened within a week of meeting one another on line.
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1044270&page=43

make sure and read the thread to post 680
http://www.disboards.com/showpost.php?p=12...2&postcount=680


688
http://www.disboards.com/showpost.php?p=12238278&postcount=688
It appears that she just disappears off of the thread after being called out.


Been going to disney with her fiance since she was SIXTEEN!!
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?p=10189295#post10189295&highlight=fiance

How is that possible when you just meet and get engaged to a guy you supposedly met online within a week in 2006? Or is it 2005? 2004? All of the above? Please stop feeling sorry for her....I feel so bad for the innocent ladies on here who have such big hearts and are hurting for her.

[SBPbride]

You just said you were on birth control....that's not the same thing as using condoms...more lies....

[Skylarr29]

She also posted, "Well since I had cervical cancer as a teenager I was told that I might have a difficult time conceiving so we are currently not using anything and if we get pregnant before the wedding we will just change our plans... of course I hope we get pregnant right after the wedding but we just want children and will take them whenever we can get them." yet she said she got pregnant on birth control and it was a complete surprise!

That was true for a period of time and then we decided to stop and wait until after the wedding. If it's any of your business the personal decisions we make regarding our family.

Here her posts through the years on the DIS, dating as far back as 2004.


Actively planning what appears to be a booked wedding in 2004:

http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=...eferrerid=93883

Ordered (past tense!) a special dessert for her anniversary in 2004
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?p=...0326&highlight=

Yes, a dating anniversary, not a wedding anniversary. We were together almost 6 years (throughout HIGHSCHOOL) until we broke up when I was 22.


2005 various plans
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?p=...2594&highlight=
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?p=...4396&highlight=
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?p=...8984&highlight=
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=...ge=0&highlight=
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=...ge=1&highlight=


I was engaged ONE time prior to this... those were our plans. I am sure that I am not the first girl to have dumped a loser cheater and been engaged OMG... twice. I must be such a horrible person.
A quoted post announcing the engagement of her and john which appears to have happened within a week of meeting one another on line.
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1044270&page=43

make sure and read the thread to post 680
http://www.disboards.com/showpost.php?p=12...2&postcount=680

Ok, now that was just a joke between me and John, whom I know and have visited Disney with. Lighten up.

688
http://www.disboards.com/showpost.php?p=12...8&postcount=688

It appears that she just disappears off of the thread after being called out.

Been going to disney with her fiance since she was SIXTEEN!! How is that possible when you just meet and get engaged to a guy you supposedly met online within a week in 2006? Or is it 2005? 2004? All of the above? Please stop feeling sorry for her....I feel so bad for the innocent ladies on here who have such big hearts and are hurting for her.

Ummm... we met in November of 2006. We did not get engaged after a week. We got engaged after dating for over a year.

I am glad you know so much about my life. I personally think you have way too much ****ing time on your hands. Really, get a life, and stop being a *****

...

[29apr00]

:confused3 :confused3 :confused3

:worried:

[SBPbride]

Melissa, face it, you have issues and you need to deal with them. The biggest is that you've repeatedly lied to everyone on here and on the other boards you made fake names up on. You have a lot of people that actually care what happens to their fellow brides and for some reason the attention HAS to be on you, negative or positive. There's a lot more that can be dug up with just a little bit of research. I thought you were unsubscribing to this thread...it's probably best that you do.

[disneychickforever]

okay, I think everyone needs to cut it out, act like adults, and stop this.

There is no need to attack each other....no need for lies, for finger pointing, or anything of the sort.

Whatever is the truth, is the truth. No matter which it was, someone in this thread did lie. I'm not going to say who I believe and who I don't, because, well, I don't want to be attacked next.

Everyone is going to end up getting in trouble if this doesn't stop. Please, either take this to PM, or just drop it.

[JonetteA]

I agree with Disneychickforever. If you can not be nice to one another you need to find someplace else to go. We will not tolerate any more of this behavior on the board.