View Full Version : Question for the guys...and the girls.
BabyPiglet
05-05-2008, 04:25 PM
So guys, what do you look for in a girl?
I mean, most girls know what they'd love in a guy but we rarely hear from you. I'm sure not ALL guys are going after what's portrayed on TV. So c'mon. I'm curious. What's your ideal lady?
And girls, what do you look for in a guy?
Since guys are gonna be on this thread anyways, I thought I'd help them out a little too.
Sparx
05-05-2008, 04:28 PM
i want someone who can make me laugh. humor is so huge for me.
i want someone who isn't going to be all shy and delicate with me. i'm not made of porcelain, i won't get broken. i can play with the boys.
i want someone who will talk to me. i text a lot, so someone who i can have conversations with.
i want someone who will talk about our problems. someone who isn't afraid to hurt my feelings, if it means saving our relationship.
i want someone who can eat in a 5 star french restaurant on a date. but i also wants someone who can stay in and order pizza and play guitar hero.
i want someone who will make me happy, and someone i can make happy.
Ms.Squeakers
05-05-2008, 04:33 PM
Hmph.
This is odd, and its going to sound odd but here it goes.
I look for personality.
I look for friendship.
I look for no money to be spent on me, but just the suggestion
I look for laughs.
I look for an honor roll student, but not a goody goody.
I look for maturity.
I look for semi-flirt with me and only me- even if we ARE going out.
I look for smiles.
I look for compliments, yet, the truth.
I look for honesty.
Yet...
I don't look.
Not at all.
In fact its more of a stumble.
AmandaSparks730
05-05-2008, 04:34 PM
I have some similarities and differences. Since I'm bi, you could say I get the best of both!
Girls: Dark hair (find it damn sexxy), pretty eyes, nice hips (don't ask), great smile, confident, funny, smart, loves to laugh, likes (or at least TOLERATES) musicals, loves me for me, protective (without being overly so), comforting, up for some serious snuggling, talks to me whenever I need her, listens to me, can trust me, it goes on and on.
Guys: Pretty much the same as girls (minus the hips, naturally!). And let's see...athletic, I guess. But not too much.
And for both, they'd be my lover AND my best friend :)
BabyPiglet
05-05-2008, 04:38 PM
Well mostly, I want someone who wants me back.
Other than that...
Protective (I just have a thing for it I guess)
Loving
Intense
Funny
Uhm, in that order I think.
jbcheerchick93
05-05-2008, 04:57 PM
i want someone who:
makes me smile at everything.
protects me
cuddles
has inside jokes with me
wants to be with me as much as i want to be with him
someone strong
athletic
tells me why we are together
can just hang out or eat out at a fancy place
gets along with my parents
respects my wishes
gets all of my stupid jokes
doesnt act different just because hes around his, or my, friends
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i guess the most important thing to me is that he always makes me smile. wether its just getting a text from him, or us joking, or him smiling at me first.
i don't know. those are the important things. if i think of other stuff i'll add that too.
cindys_castle2011
05-05-2008, 05:02 PM
Well, me and my crush was actually talking about this the other day.
I want a guy that is:
smart
athletic
funny
crazy
sweet
flirty
and he actaully has all the qualities. ;) He is a super smart, honor roll student.
He plays football, track and tennis. Im a sucker for football players. He is absolutely hilarious, he can make me laugh by just sitting there and looking at me. He is extremely crazy, he's up for anything at anytime. It kinda scares me that hes not scared of anything. Sweet?? mmhmm definitely. And he's the flirtiest boy I've ever liked. :lovestruc. I went to the fair with him yesterday, and he kept trying to trip me, and tickle me, he would put his arm around me when we was walking.
When we was talking about this he said that guys look for a girl who:
they can have fun with
is smart
someone that believes them and not everyone else.
a girl who is confident in herself.
He said this word for word, im reading it in a text.
"A lot of people think guys want a slutty girl that they can do "it" with. Well some guys do, but they always end up falling for the sweet confident girl that believes in herself, and doesn't try to impress everyone else, someone who isnt afraid to be themselves."
reminisce
05-05-2008, 05:18 PM
i want someone who:
-will be completely honest with me
-has a sense of humor *but doesnt go overboard with it!*
-is extremely protective
-is empathetic
-is understanding
-likes my quirks, and has a few of his own
-slightly athletic
-understands my love for music
-has eyes you could stare into forever
-doesnt get all romantic
-flirts outrageously, but not obscenely
-wants me for my personality, not appearance
-does okay in school (otherwise i cant go anywhere with him because of my mom)
-acts around me the same, always; with or without his friends around
-will confide in me and listen to my confidences
there are more, of course, but those are the most important ones to me
::Snow_White::
05-05-2008, 05:29 PM
Someone who won't mind me going coupon crazy saving money. (I hate spending money that you don't have to!)
Someone who is fine with my different taste in music.
Someone who's fine with ordering out and playing video games all night.
Someone who is funny, smart, nice/kind/sweet.
Someone who is respectful and honest and trusts me as well.
Someone who can laugh at themselves.
Someone who is laidback but serious when he needs to be.
Someone who doesn't ask me if I'm ok when I'm not smiling.
Someone who understands my thinking face from my worried face.
Someone who when I say they can pick the movie, they pick it or when I say they can pick the resturant, they pick it.
Someone who would give me flowers randomly instead of on valentines day or other holiday.
Someone who will talk to me and listen to me at the same time.
Someone who isn't too attached and gives me space. I need time alone with girl friends as I would believe they would too.
Someone who supports my dreams and will compromise if they disagree.
Someone who is pretty calm in conversations or when angry.
Someone who doesn't mind going on walks in the park, beach, or going to museums.
Someone who understands I have many things to take care of along with a relationship and will forgive me for being pushy, uncaring, or irritable and try to help me in anyway possible as I tend to be all 3 every so often even if I don't notice it and really don't mean to be.
And of course, someone who shares my love of disney or at least is OK with it. :p
ETA:
Someone who loves or at least ok with kids. I love kids and I tend to be around them alot.
Someone who is mature and respects their family and friends and just has fun. I'm a very family and friend person.
StitchfansJr
05-05-2008, 05:37 PM
Someone who's funny
Someone who isn't shy
Someone who would like me because of my personality
Someone who would stick up for me no matter what
Someone who is confident
Someone who likes the type of music that I like
Someone who will talk to me and give me advice when I need it
I want:
Somebody who can go from a discussion about the French Revolution to last night's baseball game without blinking.
Somebody who can tell me I'm beautiful but still point out my flaws when I'm being a *****.
Somebody who isn't afraid to break me. Like Shelby said, I'm not a porcelain doll.
Somebody who will hold me and let me ruin their favorite shirt by crying on it because I had a bad day.
Somebody who enjoys Disney and thrill rides.
Somebody who isn't afraid to try new things.
Somebody who doesn't mind traveling.
Somebody who can eat at a place like Shula's one night and then grab hot dogs at Casey's Corner the next.
Somebody who doesn't think they have to explain the rules of every sport to me just because I'm a girl.
Somebody who will laugh at me when I do something stupid instead of trying to make it seem normal.
Somebody who can laugh at themselves when they do something stupid.
Somebody willing to stand up for me even if I'm not around.
Somebody who gives good hugs and isn't afraid to do so in public.
Somebody who throws random WWE trivia into daily conversation just to see if I catch it.
Somebody who respects that I don't drink and that I never will.
Somebody who won't look down on my for self-harming in my past.
Somebody who understands why I don't like my parents.
Somebody who won't badmouth my teams so long as I don't badmouth theirs.
Somebody with good taste in music.
Somebody I can have an intelligent conversation with.
Somebody who understands my love for all things Canadian.
Somebody who gets the fact that when I wear faery wings to school, it usually means I was really depressed the night before.
Somebody who knows that I have a huge perfume addiction and doesn't mind.
Somebody who knows I have a huge weakness for expensive things, but only when I buy them for myself. I hate it when people give me expensive gifts.
Somebody who doesn't mind that I'm bi.
Somebody who understands that every once in a while I have to watch Brokeback Mountain just because I needed a reason to cry.
Somebody who understands that I have a huge spot in my heart for Heath Ledger.
Somebody who is willing to educate me about Star Wars/Star Trek and is willing to learn about Stargate/Firefly.
Somebody who doesn't mind that my family is as dysfunctional as nobody else's.
Somebody who doesn't mind that I like to buy organic instead of who-knows-what.
Somebody who doesn't mind that I'll pay extra for the product that's going to donate money to a foundation that I like.
Somebody who doesn't mind that I like to fall asleep with an arm around my shoulders and a wrestling match on TV.
Somebody who understands my religion and why I chose it.
Somebody who doesn't care that I'd rather have a ruby set in platinum than a diamond set in gold.
reminisce
05-05-2008, 05:45 PM
Someone who won't mind me going coupon crazy saving money. (I hate spending money that you don't have to!)
Someone who is fine with my different taste in music.
Someone who's fine with ordering out and playing video games all night.
Someone who is funny, smart, nice/kind/sweet.
Someone who is respectful and honest and trusts me as well.
Someone who can laugh at themselves.
Someone who is laidback but serious when he needs to be.
Someone who doesn't ask me if I'm ok when I'm not smiling.
Someone who understands my thinking face from my worried face.
Someone who when I say they can pick the movie, they pick it or when I say they can pick the resturant, they pick it.
Someone who would give me flowers randomly instead of on valentines day or other holiday.
Someone who will talk to me and listen to me at the same time.
Someone who isn't too attached and gives me space. I need time alone with girl friends as I would believe they would too.
Someone who supports my dreams and will compromise if they disagree.
Someone who is pretty calm in conversations or when angry.
Someone who doesn't mind going on walks in the park, beach, or going to museums.
Someone who understands I have many things to take care of along with a relationship and will forgive me for being pushy, uncaring, or irritable and try to help me in anyway possible as I tend to be all 3 every so often even if I don't notice it and really don't mean to be.
And of course, someone who shares my love of disney or at least is OK with it. :p
::yes::
jemberly_ann
05-05-2008, 05:50 PM
someone who will hang out with me proudly
who has a great sense of humor
who likes the same kind of stuff i do
who has a great personality
who is in a sport
who loves that sport so much as to ask me to go practice instead of a movie.
who isnt going to take it too fast
who will be there to support me
who isnt going to dump me after 2 weeks
theres more, but whatever
marypops!
05-05-2008, 05:54 PM
I actually never give it much though O_o
I don't really mind how they look but i'd like someone who is rather smart, likes all the things I do, has a good sense of humour, doesn't complain about how they look too much, doesn't spend alot of money on things they'll probably only use once, saves money and likes Disney as much as I do.
♥DizzyDizney♥
05-05-2008, 05:54 PM
Someone who has humor.
Someone who can be mature with my parents. :headache:
Someone who can protect me.
Someone who teases me.
Someone who is athletic.
Someone who actually likes me for my personality, and they don't care about my looks. ( Except when he compliments me :D )
Someone who is romantic.
Someone who doesn't spend a lot of money for me.
Someone who only pays attention to me, and doesn't flirt with other girls.
Someone who is confindent.
Tinkerbell424
05-05-2008, 06:12 PM
Someone who is confident.
Someone who is respectful.
Someone who is sweet and caring.
Someone with a sense of humour.
Someone with a personality.
Someone who won't flirt with other girls when we date.
Someone who likes me for me.
Someone who get's decent grades.
Someone who enjoys Disney.
Someone who I can hold a conversation with.
Someone who is fun and doesn't mind staying in sometimes.
Someone who won't rush me into doing thing's I'm not ready for.
Someone who doesn't smoke,do drugs, or is a constant drinker.
Someone who won't choose video games over me.
Someone who is honest and trustworthy.
Someone who is responsible.
Someone with dark hair and tall.
m-and-m
05-05-2008, 06:20 PM
-funny
-protective
-smart (not in a school way, but rather with life in general)
-caring
-cuddly
-dosen't care what everyone else thinks (my self-esteem is in the gutter, this helps me alot)
- he has to be into cars or Harleys
-flirty
-if someone says something about me i want him to either reassure me and shrug what they said off, or reassure me and then deck them
-easy to talk to
-talks alot (has to be able to keep up with me)
-semi-athletic
-mysterious eyes that only i can read
-doesn't care what i look like, just loves me for me
-plays rough with me but is gental at the same time
-is always there for me
-comforts me when i'm upset
-knows when i need a hug
-is very open with emotions
-never walks away from me when we're in a big group (seperation anxiety)
-kisses me not caring who is watching
-randomly does extra special things for me to brighten my day
-makes my life better (my life when i'm home isn't that great)
with my standards so high i'm amazed i found a guy that fits all of this:cloud9: :love:
BAMBIFOREVER
05-05-2008, 06:29 PM
funny
sweet
protective but not overly
sporty
loves disney
likes me for me
not a player
someone who i can count on
someone i can talk to
some one who will listen
my guy isnt perfect but still love him
llama62
05-05-2008, 06:32 PM
Funny
Likes me for who I am, not who they think I am
Always willing to talk
Has mild interest in video games
Always willing to hug me and listen
Has to have decent grades
Has to be shorter than me (not very hard... Im 5'10")
Can't be shorter than like 5'2"
Someone who isn't perverted
Can play a musical instrument
Always wants to see me
Will hug me and hold
Someone who isn't emo or goth
Can mesmerize me with either their eyes or smile, not their body
BabyPiglet
05-05-2008, 06:35 PM
Funny
Likes me for who I am, not who they think I am
Always willing to talk
Has mild interest in video games
Always willing to hug me and listen
Has to have decent grades
Has to be shorter than me (not very hard... Im 5'10")
Can't be shorter than like 5'2"
Someone who isn't perverted
Can play a musical instrument
Always wants to see me
Always wants to see me
I agree. I guess I'm weird but I kinda like a clingy person.
Babyjustrun
05-05-2008, 06:51 PM
Someone who makes me happy. I've struggled in the past with being happy, and I need someone who can help me try to be cheerful when things aren't great. Someone who is there for me.
They have to be able to make me laugh, I prefer witty and light humor. I am NOT into gross humor or racist humor.
Someone who truly enjoys who I am. Who gets the random crap that comes out of my mouth and is willing to make up farfetched stories with me.
But at the same time, I want someone I can REALLY talk to, the way I can talk to my best friend. About serious things, and takes my opinion seriously.
Someone who isn't overly friendly, I'm not big on guys who just kind of only hang out with people because they seem entertaining at the moment. They'll hang out with whoever, but it doesn't matter to them who it is. I like quieter guys with a good group of friends.
Someone who absolutlely makes my heart melt, either by what the say, or what they do.
DramaQueen
05-05-2008, 10:26 PM
Sooo...I'll basically just be describing my BF here :P
but he really does have most, if not all of the qualities that i look for
Can handle me
(which is a big one...he has to know how to deal with me when i'm crying---which is more often than not. he has to know how to handle me when i get angry or upset or sad. he has to understand and accept that i'm slighty crazier than the next girl)
Willing to talk things out
(when we get into arguements, rather than hang up on each other, or stay angry and just boil over with anger, I need someone who can talk things out--rationally!)
Good Looking.
Understands/shares my sense of humour
(dry, sarcastic, sometimes vulgar humour.)
Not afraid to be himself in front of me
(I know my BF sometimes puts on a front infront of his friends, but when it's just he & I, I know he can just relax and be his true self)
Loves Vietnamese food
(considering I eat there weekly....and luckily Derek shares my love and we eat in/take out aaaall the time. I could NOT handle a BF that didn't like vietnamese food. I NEED IT)
CARES ABOUT ME & worries about me
(makes me feel loved when he gets worried about me)
Confident, Honest, Trustworthy, Open, Cuddly etc.
FOrgiving of my faults
(i know i can be bossy or pushy or selfish sometimes, but I'm lucky & happy that he understands that is just how I am sometimes and knows not to take it seriously. That is definitley important!)
Gets along with my family!
CrazyChik
05-06-2008, 12:32 AM
Can't be shorter than like 5'2"
What may i ask is wrong with being shorter than 5'2"?
Ok:
Has to tolerate a great deal of sarcasm (and also has to distinguish it from non-sarcasm as apparently that's hard to do with me)
Has to love/like/tolerate my enthuiasm for horses.
Has to be somewhat clever (i don't want a genius but i don't want an idiot.)
Has to have a good sense of humour.
Has to like me for me.
Has to be forgiving and has to handle me.
Has to be snuggable.
Danny12
05-06-2008, 01:06 AM
- sensitive
- affectionate
- sweet
- caring
- funny
- smart
- respectful
- not afraid to be himself
- cute
ohdisco
05-06-2008, 01:09 AM
I don't want someone who's perfect.
I want someone with flaws.
They have to have a sense of humor. I'm not really into gross humor, but I get every other kind of humor. I'm all for awkward people, so even awkward humor makes me laugh.
They have to be open about music, even when I'm not completely open.
They have to be able to stay in for the night, just watching movies, but also be able to do dorky date things (like mini golf).
They have to proudly walk beside me as I dance around (which I do very, very, very frequently).
They have to be ok that I have crushes on celebrities all the time, and I get really into my celebrity crushes, haha.
If I break up with Eric, the next person HAS to have their driver's license and a car. I'm tired of being a chauffeur. I want to be able to sit in the passenger's seat without having a heart attack.
They have to love disney, or at least be ok that I love disney.
They have to do duets with me when I burst into songs they know (which I also do very frequently).
They have to respect my mother, and the responsibility I feel toward making sure she's alright. They have to respect the rest of my family as well, but mostly my mom.
They have to be able to handle how completely girly and romantic I am. I love to be hugged and cuddled. I get jealous, but in a cute way. I love getting random cute little gifts, like flowers and candy on days that aren't special. I cry during movies, and I need to be snuggled against. No, I will NOT just ignore the spider...you've gotta get up and kill it with your big shoe. It has to be ok that we go to the mall every once and a while, and you unfortunately have to carry the bags (but it's ok if you whine about it). If it's really cold out and I forgot a jacket, you gotta give up your jacket.
BIG THING: HE CANNOT SMELL. He has to smell GOOD. I have a very sensitive nose, and I will smell you and not be attracted to you if you smell.
He can get jealous, cause I'm extremely loyal when I'm being treated correctly (aka, not being picked on and ignored, made drive around all over the place, and being told I'm wrong about how I FEEL).
He can be stupid sometimes, cause it'll make me laugh.
He can be overprotective.
He can be clingy.
He can have boys night.
If we're talking about wishful thinking for looks:
Dark hair.
Dark eyes.
Very tall.
Scrawny to thinish.
Big, strong hands.
Pluses:
musician (piano is the best, but anything classical or modern would be ok).
same taste in music.
cute fashion sense.
STOPxmickeytime
05-06-2008, 05:48 AM
Someone who makes me happy. I've struggled in the past with being happy, and I need someone who can help me try to be cheerful when things aren't great. Someone who is there for me.
They have to be able to make me laugh, I prefer witty and light humor. I am NOT into gross humor or racist humor.
Someone who truly enjoys who I am. Who gets the random crap that comes out of my mouth and is willing to make up farfetched stories with me.
But at the same time, I want someone I can REALLY talk to, the way I can talk to my best friend. About serious things, and takes my opinion seriously.
Someone who isn't overly friendly, I'm not big on guys who just kind of only hang out with people because they seem entertaining at the moment. They'll hang out with whoever, but it doesn't matter to them who it is. I like quieter guys with a good group of friends.
Someone who absolutlely makes my heart melt, either by what the say, or what they do.
Exactly.
Someone I can talk to for hours and never run out of things to stay.
Someone who I'd look foward to rolling out of bed at 7 am just so I can see him at school.
Someone I'd spend more time laughing with than crying over.
Someone who would still give me butterflies, no matter how long we'd been together.
Someone who would say, "Wow, you look BEAUTIFUL," if I'm in a ball gown or a pair of sweats.
Someone that I'd feel completely free to be myself around.
Someone who'd know all my quirks and love me more for them.
Someone who'd let me cry on their shoulder, and who I'd feel comfortable enough with to show my vulnerable side to.
Someone who only had eyes for me :]
MrsSparrow..
05-06-2008, 11:20 AM
Someone who gets me, accepts me, understands me and most importantly someone to accompany me on my crazy dreams, which I will achieve.
-:hippie:Ashleigh
BabyPiglet
05-06-2008, 01:16 PM
Definitely has to be okay with me hugging and snuggling with them all the time.
Loves Disney
05-06-2008, 01:39 PM
Do not give up on me so easily.
Laugh.
I cannot handle too much drama. Just live life and enjoy what you've got. Don't go crying and whinning about pointless stuff. However, a little sensitivity never hurt. Most girls crave for very sensitive guys, but honestly, I just want someone who is only moderately such. I'm not a dramatic person and would prefer to keep as much of that out of my life haha.
Chivalry. I am old fashioned when it comes to relationships. I won't ask for it, but things such as opening a door for me, pulling out a chair for me, and those sort of things really catch my attention. Do that a few times and I might get attached ;) lol.
Communicate. I'm a blunt person. I will say things as I see 'em so do the same with me. Obviously know boundries and what is going too far. But if a dress makes me look fat, tell me! I will change. I don't get offended much at all (seriously). I'd perfer honestly as it would save me public humiliation more times than not. If my make-up makes me look ugly as heck, tell me! I will wipe it off. If something I am doing annoys you, TELL ME!! Communication is key. Don't assume I am a mind-reader. Because I don't have that ability haha.
Don't be crude. Sexual innuendos do not impress me. Save it for the guys. lol.
Be yourself. Don't put on an act for me. Things like this never work because an act can only take you so far before you burst...then, suddendly, I'm with someone who I don't know. Just be you!
tinkerbell12
05-06-2008, 03:24 PM
Someone I can be myself around and not feel like an idiot.
Someone who'll be there for me and won't laugh at my 'blonde moments' but has a sense of humor.
Someone who'll stick up for me.
Someone who doesn't care what I look like.
I'm not too picky, but I'd love if they had the added bonus of:
Nice hair
Sweet smile
Is sarcastic
Wears deodorant
Loves Disney.
Sparx
05-06-2008, 03:33 PM
something else i need:
a series of rough breakups and all around bad relationships have made me an incredibly clingy person. i don't always need you, but when i need you, i need you.
i need someone that i won't drive away.
OneTreeHill
05-06-2008, 03:47 PM
Someone who wants me and only me.
Someone who likes my friends.
Someone who is protective, yet not controlling.
Someone who won't push me to do things I'm not ready to do.
Someone who is loving and sweet.
Someone who is totally random.
Someone who is okay with the things I love. (ie: RENT, twilight, Bat Boy etc)
Someone who loves me for me, and doesn't want me to change.
Someone who lets me be myself.
Someone who doesn't care if I am wearing sweats.
Someone who has a great personality.
Someone who would get all dressed up with me and go to a fast food joint.
Someone who would be okay just hanging out.
Someone who can tell me the honest truth, no matter what.
Someone who laughs at me, and lets me laugh at him.
Someone who would always be there when I need him.
Someone who is respectful.
Someone who is sarcastic.
Someone who is funny.
Someone who gets jealous, but totally trusts me.
Someone who I can trust 100%.
CrazyChik
05-06-2008, 03:59 PM
Someone I can be myself around and not feel like an idiot.
Someone who'll be there for me and won't laugh at my 'blonde moments' but has a sense of humor.
Someone who'll stick up for me.
Someone who doesn't care what I look like.
I'm not too picky, but I'd love if they had the added bonus of:
Nice hair
Sweet smile
Is sarcastic
Wears deodorant
Loves Disney.
No need to describe me.
xD
BabyPiglet
05-06-2008, 04:12 PM
something else i need:
a series of rough breakups and all around bad relationships have made me an incredibly clingy person. i don't always need you, but when i need you, i need you.
i need someone that i won't drive away.
I agree, I'm sorta clingy as well.
llama62
05-06-2008, 06:02 PM
What may i ask is wrong with being shorter than 5'2"?
Nothing. Didn't mean to offend anyone, but Im 5'10" and i dont want to have to look down that far on my girlfriend
AbsoluteAwesome1
05-06-2008, 06:09 PM
Okay, I have to get this out of the way--
good hair. That's the FIRST thing I notice about a guy. I love the emo-hair xD
But after that, I want someone who's--
Caring
Sensitive
Funny
Not obsessed with sports... I don't like it when a guy's life is ruled by sports.
Musical!! I'm a sucker for musicians.
Artistic
Intelligent
Tall.. heh.
Open-minded.
Respectful
And it'd be nice if there was a guy that liked ME, and thought I was beautiful. And if he reminded me of it, because I need someone telling it to me or else I don't think I am.
llama62
05-06-2008, 06:23 PM
Oh I must add to mine.
Must be tolerant of my NASCAR obsession
Ms.Squeakers
05-06-2008, 06:37 PM
Oo.
Willing to give me huggies :) (*cough cough*)
Ampris
05-06-2008, 08:05 PM
My ideal SO? Hmm. I'd say, someone who...
- I can communicate with. This is the most important thing; if nothing else, I'd want somebody I can listen and talk to constantly, who'll want to say what they think and feel and cares about what *I* think and feel. Ideally, somebody who's on the same wavelength as me, but any sort of understanding between us would be lovely. (And hopefully I'm not just shooting for the moon here.)
- Is empathetic. (In general, that is; not just to me.)
- Has at at least some common interests with me. Doesn't matter which ones or how many, just something we could enjoy together; though it would still be great to be able to introduce and be introduced to new things by them.
- Is open-minded and fair, and looks at things in a balanced way, without thinking in extremes all the time. Not a bigot.
- Is emotional and has no problem expressing it. Being emotionally detached is huge, huge, put-off.
- Not a super-rigid thinker; doesn't mind wandering off on a totally different tangent and considering things in a new way. Gets excited over little things that intrigue them. :goodvibes:
- Loves life and doesn't mind feeling and acting happy, even for some silly reason.
Yay for bullet lists. :cool1:
C.J. Sparrow
05-06-2008, 08:48 PM
I want a girl
-Who is tolerant of me when I'm acting like a horse's behind
-Who is ok with me teasing them a bit
-Who likes to tease me, but doesn't take it too far
-Who I can carry on a conversation with
-Who has a pretty interesting life
-Who shares my interests
-Who are really cute
-Who is not all over 5420978654976539 other guys per minute
-Who is insane like me
-Who has a twisted sense of humor
-Who doesn't act like she's PMSing 24/7/365.25
-Who likes classic rock like me
-Who doesn't talk about me negatively behind my back
-Who shares my disdain for obnoxious preppies, their dunderheaded boyfriends, and Abercrombie
-Who doesn't think that video games are a total waste of time
-Who likes pizza and ice cream
-Who is not a control freak
-Who loves life
-Who likes me for who I am and not for who she thinks I should be
Looks wise:
Small and rather short (Small girls are really cute to me).
Freckles (Don't ask; I love freckles).
Dark-ish hair.
Not an overapplication of makeup (Too much makeup makes me want to throw up).
Doesn't wear clothes that are 2197459073409679382342342545677890 sizes too small for them.
Who are really easy on the eyes. :rolleyes1
CrazyChik
05-07-2008, 12:09 AM
Nothing. Didn't mean to offend anyone, but Im 5'10" and i dont want to have to look down that far on my girlfriend
Well alright.
=]
Pirana
05-07-2008, 09:31 PM
I know this is going to sound weird but as long as they like hockey!
Seriously Im usually the girl getting in fights with guys that all other sports are stupid and that hockey is the best;]
chandlerwolf
05-09-2008, 01:32 AM
I know this is going to sound weird but as long as they like hockey!
Seriously Im usually the girl getting in fights with guys that all other sports are stupid and that hockey is the best;]
heck yea! I play hockey...by far the best sport lol
Pirana
05-09-2008, 09:12 PM
heck yea! I play hockey...by far the best sport lol
Awesome! My Dad grew up playing hockey so its just apart of me i guess :upsidedow
HSMndLKfan92
05-09-2008, 09:25 PM
I want a guy who can put up with my incessant chatter.
A guy who isn't afraid to stand by my side when I'm hyped up over, well, anything.
A guy who knows when I'm being serious or I'm just kidding around.
A guy who can tolerate my insane obsessions over the most random stuff.
A guy who can appreciate the music I listen to. He also has to have his own love of music.
A guy who has a lot in common with me, but has interests of his own.
I want a guy who can calm me down when I'm PMSing, who can knock some sense into my head, give great advice, and know when I really need a shoulder to lean on.
I want a guy who can get my humor, and my weird outlook on life.
But most of all, I'd like a guy who can notice me from the other side of a crowded room and think, "yup. that's my girlfriend."
Lucky for me, I think I found him.
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