What's your sexual orientation? [Archive] - The DIS Discussion Forums

Timon-n-Pumbaa Fan

04-11-2008, 08:47 PM

ConcKahuna

04-12-2008, 05:58 AM

I'm gay. I tried to be straight, really I did, it just didn't work out for me. Kind of a "been there, done that, didn't want the T-shirt" type thing.

Viki

04-12-2008, 06:20 AM

I am 100% lesbian, but in my younger years (read TEEN years), which were so very long ago, I tried playing for the other team, but was very, very happy to be traded at the ripe age of 20.

Timon-n-Pumbaa Fan

04-12-2008, 06:45 AM

I dated guys in high school and college, but I just never achieved a level of intimacy outside of the bedroom that made me want to go into the bedroom. I, even, had a couple of proposals, which just floored me when they happened, because these guys believed that I was worthy of spending the rest of their lives with and I couldn't even imagine spending the night. :laughing:

Finally, somewhere along the way, I allowed myself to dump all of the "straight world programming" and follow my heart. My biggest hurtle was finding a way to keep my relationship with God intact. I may not be a regular church goer, but I do have a personal relationship with God and I didn't want to lose that. I spent a good couple of years on that one. Somewhere along the way, I fell in love HARD for a friend and when she broke my heart, it hurt worse than anything that I had ever felt before. I didn't even identify it as me being in love until she said that she never wanted to see me again. I was devastated. It was right then and there that I knew that no man had ever made me feel that way and that I had better get busy following my heart or else my life was going to pass me by with no real love or happiness.

In my early twenties, I dated a lot. I found out that there was a DEEP level of intimacy with some of these women. I found that it translated into wanting to go inside the bedroom. :woohoo:

AmandaSparks730

04-12-2008, 08:32 AM

smartestnumber5

04-12-2008, 08:54 AM

I am bisexual.

I only fully realized this towards the end of college. I can remember as early as middle school have fantasies about women and wondering if that made me a lesbian. But at the same time I knew I was attracted to men and had crushes on boys in school. I think a lot of gay and lesbian people figure out what their sexual orientation is after trying dating/sex with the opposite sex and realizing that something isn't right about that for them. But things did feel right with guys in high school, so I think I just wasn't pushed to think about whether I also liked girls; and I don't really think that there were any individual girls in high school that I was attracted to.

When I got to college I got involved with the GLBT group as an ally and that was the first time I was really around any significant number of GLBT people. That was also the first time I really felt sexually interested in particular women I knew. Even then, I was a little hesitant to identify as bisexual--I almost felt like since all of the GLBT group members first knew me as a straight ally, that I needed "proof" :rolleyes:. So it was only after the first time I become sexually involved with a woman that I actually started identifying as bi.

Tigger&Belle

04-20-2008, 09:48 PM

Fitswimmer

04-21-2008, 08:09 AM

I should have kept reading and voted "I am not sure what I am yet!". Let me see...I thought I was a CSP (straight cool person ;) ) for 46 years and then realized that wasn't quite accurate. I don't know whether to say I'm bi or lesbian, but I voted lesbian because I really feel that I am. Strange to think about and I'm in counseling to sort all this out (should have started with the current counselor long ago).

Same here. I consider myself a "non-practicing" lesbian. I always considered myself straight-but I don't really think that fits either. I don't know that I fit in ANY of the boxes...but I guess personality wise-lesbian comes the closest.

I've been considering counseling too-but I've kind of dismissed the idea because it seems silly at my age...but then...you're my age....

Tigger&Belle

04-21-2008, 08:17 AM

Same here. I consider myself a "non-practicing" lesbian. I always considered myself straight-but I don't really think that fits either. I don't know that I fit in ANY of the boxes...but I guess personality wise-lesbian comes the closest.

I've been considering counseling too-but I've kind of dismissed the idea because it seems silly at my age...but then...you're my age....

Go to counseling! HOWEVER find someone who is an expert in this field. I used to go to someone who wasn't and quit when I really realized I started with the sexuality questioning. I knew she wouldn't have any knowledge about it (and she wasn't a very good counselor, anyway--I actually needed someone who was going to question me more and wasn't going to simply make my husband out to be the bad guy, which she was basically doing). Anyway, the person I now see has been doing this sort of counseling for 30 years and seems to really understand.

Fitswimmer

04-21-2008, 11:09 AM

Go to counseling! HOWEVER find someone who is an expert in this field. I used to go to someone who wasn't and quit when I really realized I started with the sexuality questioning. I knew she wouldn't have any knowledge about it (and she wasn't a very good counselor, anyway--I actually needed someone who was going to question me more and wasn't going to simply make my husband out to be the bad guy, which she was basically doing). Anyway, the person I now see has been doing this sort of counseling for 30 years and seems to really understand.

How did you find an expert?

Tigger&Belle

04-21-2008, 11:30 AM

How did you find an expert?

I found my person by looking on the internet, but I can't remember which site I went to. Where in NJ are you?

Fitswimmer

04-21-2008, 11:57 AM

I found my person by looking on the internet, but I can't remember which site I went to. Where in NJ are you?

NW NJ...about 45 minutes from NYC

uklad79

04-21-2008, 01:22 PM

" I am a gay" :lmao: I love that! I am full on **** but did have a play with the girlie's when I was in my early teens but the playing with the boys was more my style so by the time I was 16 I had a full time bf but his wife wasn't too pleased :scratchin

Tigger&Belle

04-21-2008, 01:34 PM

NW NJ...about 45 minutes from NYC

Sent you a PM with some links to check out.

wallyb

04-21-2008, 05:03 PM

mo.

Mo, mo, mo
How do you like it, how do you like it
Mo, mo, mo
How do you like it, how do you like it
http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f241/wallyb3/disco.gif
http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f241/wallyb3/dancingflwr1.gifhttp://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f241/wallyb3/dancingflwr1.gifhttp://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f241/wallyb3/dancingflwr1.gif

douglisa

04-23-2008, 11:40 PM

I am bi, but I prefer men.

fan of the TTA

04-24-2008, 03:25 AM

i'm straight, and at this moment in time, involved with no 1

cybertheo

04-24-2008, 07:28 AM

I am a straight male who is only attracted to other straight males -
where's my catagory?
;)

I give this post till noon before it goes south, someone gets too saucey/discriptive and it is locked.

wallyb

04-24-2008, 07:35 AM

I am a straight male who is only attracted to other straight males -
where's my catagory?
;)

I give this post till noon before it goes south, someone gets too saucey/discriptive and it is locked.

Don't look at me :sad2:
Not my fault - this time.

R.S.Winters

04-24-2008, 07:49 AM

Gay and proud :thumbsup2

Dx :3dglasses

Viki

04-25-2008, 09:38 AM

PghLybrt

04-25-2008, 01:45 PM

You're apparently unfamiliar with THIS forum... south we merrily go ... lock down, not so much! ;););)

What can I say to in response that will not get to innuendo- y and get me in trouble? :rolleyes1

Anyway I agree! That's why we all like it around here.

Tigger&Belle

04-25-2008, 01:51 PM

What can I say to in response that will not get to innuendo- y and get me in trouble? :rolleyes1

Anyway I agree! That's why we all like it around here.

I was trying to think of something to say, too, but since my posts are examined with a :magnify: I decided to stay quiet. :rotfl:

LuisT

04-25-2008, 04:15 PM

I am a teen trying to discover what I am.. I love girls, but at the same time.. I have a feeling for guys X_X. its crazy.. Maybe bi?

-luis

TuckandStuiesMom

04-26-2008, 07:19 PM

"...have only been intimately involved with both men and women in the past."

well... there WAS that one time with an angora goat... :confused3 (I know; i am bad...)

Tigger&Belle

04-26-2008, 07:30 PM

As long as it was an angora goat and not a Swedish Landrace.

Saxton

04-26-2008, 07:53 PM

"...have only been intimately involved with both men and women in the past."

well... there WAS that one time with an angora goat... :confused3 (I know; i am bad...)

:lmao: Too funny. Now where's Wally with an appropriate graphic for that?!

MonorailMan

05-05-2008, 12:56 AM

I'm the gay. I was actually engaged to a girl right after high school, but came out to my family (and myself) when I was 19. Best decision I ever made. :thumbsup2

wallyb

05-05-2008, 10:33 AM

:lmao: Too funny. Now where's Wally with an appropriate graphic for that?!

Sorry didn't see my name invoked -
This is all I got ....
http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f241/wallyb3/goat.jpg
Baa-ram-ewe, baa-ram-ewe!

TuckandStuiesMom

05-05-2008, 07:20 PM

or...Following up on Swedish Landrace option:
http://log-homes.thefuntimesguide.com/images/blogs/pig-yard-art-with-hat.jpg

Tigger&Belle

05-06-2008, 10:53 AM

or...Following up on Swedish Landrace option:
http://log-homes.thefuntimesguide.com/images/blogs/pig-yard-art-with-hat.jpg

I see a red X...

wallyb

05-06-2008, 10:59 AM

I see a red X...

"I see dead people." :lmao:

Tigger&Belle

05-06-2008, 11:16 AM

"I see dead people." :lmao:
:scared1:

I don't want to be where you're at! :rotfl:

wallyb

05-06-2008, 11:21 AM

:scared1:
I don't want to be where you're at! :rotfl:

Or... What I'm on. ;)

tiggerUK

05-06-2008, 12:43 PM

I'm a lesbian. tried the straight thing, but as someone else said, this didn't extend to the bedroom!! met my lovely GF 9 years ago and we are legalising our relationship by having a civil partnership ceremony next year (honeymoon booked - disney cruise yay!!!)

Todd&Copper

05-06-2008, 01:50 PM

I'm bi. My gf and I broke up in February (well, she broke up with me). I've been on-and-off sad about it since. Basically, I still have feelings for her, but she only loves me "as a friend/sister".

I'm developing a crush on another one of my best friends. Who's a girl. And straight. Yikes!

Basically, I've only had one relationship so far, and it was with my best friend. I'm young, though, so I still have time!

Hee - I am a straight girl who was once the object of another girl's crush! We went to high school together, were very close friends, but I went away to college and she stayed home and went to community college. We saw eachother a bit during the summer, but then for her 21st b-day she had a huge blow-out at her beach house (she "inherited" it from her parents when they moved out of state) and after one too many swigs of the Thunderbird, she told me she had a mad crush on me for years. We kissed, then "dated" I guess for the rest of the summer, but looking back I don't really think I am bi. I think I was just uber-flattered that someone had such an infatuation with me.

Oh, and I read some study that concluded that straight women can and do get turned on by the notion of straight sex as well as gay/lesbian sex. I know I am all about the lovin' from my DH, but I still get turned on by noodie womenz.

rosiep

05-06-2008, 01:53 PM

Does everyone realize that in the above poll us CSP are in the lead?????

Now, that's funny!

Tigger&Belle

05-06-2008, 01:53 PM

Or... What I'm on. ;)

No, I do want whatever you're on! :rotfl:

JohnZ46

05-06-2008, 02:06 PM

100% Gay. Have never had a sexual experience with a woman.

However, my partner married and fathered 3 children before he fully accepted that he was gay.

ConcKahuna

05-06-2008, 03:36 PM

ProudMomTo3Boys

05-06-2008, 03:47 PM

Well I am straight, married for almost 14 years. I tend to lurk here because I like you guys and gals. My uncle was gay and we just got along great. I think thats why I tend to lurk here.

rosiep

05-06-2008, 04:14 PM

Maybe the boards should be re-named "The Straight Forum for people who like Gay People and the few gay people who actually are here" :rotfl2:

The Straight Board for CGP????

wallyb

05-06-2008, 04:42 PM

No, I do want whatever you're on! :rotfl:

okay you asked...

Stare into Miss Puss's eyes...
http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f241/wallyb3/paging-nurse-hypnokitty.gif
Over the big rock candy mountain we go...
http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f241/wallyb3/l_1a457615cc80c4a45a16e06dbfa4894f.gif
Floating past the second star to the right,
then straight on 'til Morning...
Then the giggles kick in!
http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f241/wallyb3/laughingmickey.jpg

rosiep

05-06-2008, 04:48 PM

WOW! Weren't we friends in High School?

wallyb

05-06-2008, 04:56 PM

WOW! Weren't we friends in High School?

Remember I went to art school... http://i298.photobucket.com/albums/mm278/fitfitink/063-1.gif nuff said

Saxton

05-06-2008, 04:56 PM

okay you asked...

Stare into Miss Puss's eyes...
http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f241/wallyb3/paging-nurse-hypnokitty.gif
Over the big rock candy mountain we go...
http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f241/wallyb3/l_1a457615cc80c4a45a16e06dbfa4894f.gif
Floating past the second star to the right,
then straight on 'til Morning...
Then the giggles kick in!
http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f241/wallyb3/laughingmickey.jpg

Wow, I think I just had a seizure.

Tigger&Belle

05-06-2008, 06:00 PM

TuckandStuiesMom

05-06-2008, 06:57 PM

I see a red X...

OH NO! you can't see the pig??? He's got kinda a Blues Brothers thing going on with a hat and sunglasses...:confused:

TuckandStuiesMom

05-06-2008, 06:59 PM

Then the giggles kick in!
http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f241/wallyb3/laughingmickey.jpg

You left out the part about getting REAL hungry...:rotfl:

jackskellingtonsgirl

05-06-2008, 08:58 PM

I hadn't read through the responses until tonight. Interesting!

I am just a straight girl. I dated a guy who was gay, but apparently the straight thing wasn't working for him! :rotfl:

I currently have crushes on some gay men, but DH doesn't mind. :rolleyes1

No matter how you spin it, I am just a plain straight girl. Boring, huh?

I find the number of responses from the gay men to be fascinating, because almost ALL of my gay friends have dated (or even been married to) girls at some point. Maybe that's less common than I think?

RickinNYC

05-06-2008, 09:49 PM

I currently have crushes on some gay men, but DH doesn't mind.

(sigh) Will you please stop looking at my butt?

rosiep

05-06-2008, 10:50 PM

(sigh) Will you please stop looking at my butt?

Butt it's soooooo cute!

Liann

05-07-2008, 01:41 AM

I am straight and have been with the same man since I was 17, 23 years now. If anything ever happened to our relationship (doubtful but for the sake of conversation) I would definitely be open to new experiences. I'm pretty sure I prefer a guy or at least a chick with accessories..... Sex is sex to me I think, it's all hot. A relationship is on another plane. :hyper2:

wallyb

05-07-2008, 05:20 AM

(sigh) Will you please stop looking at my butt?

(Trying to think :idea: of something to say using the term asset-backed)
http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f241/wallyb3/coffeeicon.gif
Need more coffee to get up to full puck mode.

jackskellingtonsgirl

05-07-2008, 06:26 AM

(sigh) Will you please stop looking at my butt?

Butt it's soooooo cute!

:rotfl2:

You know, it's not really about butts with me so I think Rick is safe. ;)
All of the gay men who make my heart go pitter-pat are kind of skinny, but very handsome, well-educated, and interesting to talk to. :)

rpmdfw

05-07-2008, 07:37 AM

:rotfl2:

You know, it's not really about butts with me so I think Rick is safe. ;)
All of the gay men who make my heart go pitter-pat are kind of skinny, but very handsome, well-educated, and interesting to talk to. :)

How about those of us who are more . . . ahem . . . Well rounded?

Still well-educated, witty, and conversationally adept. But heck, we're foodies, and it shows.

jackskellingtonsgirl

05-07-2008, 09:26 AM

How about those of us who are more . . . ahem . . . Well rounded?

Still well-educated, witty, and conversationally adept. But heck, we're foodies, and it shows.

I would be happy to add you to my "crush" list. ;) Perhaps you guys should consider hanging out with us in August.

rpmdfw

05-07-2008, 09:36 AM

I would be happy to add you to my "crush" list. ;) Perhaps you guys should consider hanging out with us in August.

Any other time, I'd jump at the chance! THIS AUGUST, however, is going to be VERY hectic for us. The BFGDW is in September, and I turn 40 in August, so there are plans afoot for some celebrating. So between wedding preperation and planning, and social obligaitons, I will be a basket case!

That said, we'll probably be at the Adventurers Club a couple evenings a week. It'll be the only thing keeping me sane (sane being a relative term, of course)

RickinNYC

05-07-2008, 10:02 AM

All of the gay men who make my heart go pitter-pat are kind of skinny, but very handsome, well-educated, and interesting to talk to. :)

Dang, leaves me out. How about if we become BFF's so we can talk about boys and go shopping?

jackskellingtonsgirl

05-07-2008, 10:08 AM

Dang, leaves me out. How about if we become BFF's so we can talk about boys and go shopping?

DEAL! :thumbsup2

jackskellingtonsgirl

05-07-2008, 10:11 AM

Any other time, I'd jump at the chance! THIS AUGUST, however, is going to be VERY hectic for us. The BFGDW is in September, and I turn 40 in August, so there are plans afoot for some celebrating. So between wedding preperation and planning, and social obligaitons, I will be a basket case!

That said, we'll probably be at the Adventurers Club a couple evenings a week. It'll be the only thing keeping me sane (sane being a relative term, of course)

We've never been to the AC. My DS12 isn't much of a drinker. ;)
My birthday is 8/5, so I get to celebrate at WDW! I'll have to chat with you as the trip gets closer and see if we can work it out to at least say a quick hello some evening! :)

rpmdfw

05-07-2008, 10:28 AM

We've never been to the AC. My DS12 isn't much of a drinker. ;)
My birthday is 8/5, so I get to celebrate at WDW! I'll have to chat with you as the trip gets closer and see if we can work it out to at least say a quick hello some evening! :)

They keep the goings on fairly child friendly for the early hours. Typically, they do a "free preview" from 7 to 9pm where you don't need a ticket to enjoy the club. There tend to be lots of families with children for those shows. You're son would probably really enjoy it.

Just saying . . .

jackskellingtonsgirl

05-07-2008, 11:07 AM

They keep the goings on fairly child friendly for the early hours. Typically, they do a "free preview" from 7 to 9pm where you don't need a ticket to enjoy the club. There tend to be lots of families with children for those shows. You're son would probably really enjoy it.

Just saying . . .

Well, cool! I didn't know that! We should definitely try to plan something! :)

rpmdfw

05-07-2008, 11:11 AM

Well, cool! I didn't know that! We should definitely try to plan something! :)

Definitely a possibility! :thumbsup2

jackskellingtonsgirl

05-07-2008, 04:29 PM

Definitely a possibility! :thumbsup2

I was just reading a bit more about AC. It sounds interesting! I think it would be a lot of fun to meet you guys (and anyone else available!) one evening. We're at WDW 8/1 - 8/17 so it's a pretty wide window to shoot for!

I was also reading that DS can go to the comedy club with us AND that it's NON-smoking! :thumbsup2 I think I need to pencil in a couple more nights at DTD! We have been missing out!

If we have regular APs do we get any sort of admission discount? Of course if AC is free from 7-9 PM that should work fine. The stupid Passholder site is down so I can't look at the benefits. :mad:

hematite153

05-08-2008, 09:49 PM

Does everyone realize that in the above poll us CSP are in the lead?????

Now, that's funny!

Maybe the boards should be re-named "The Straight Forum for people who like Gay People and the few gay people who actually are here" :rotfl2:

Yes, it's the first thing I noticed!

How'd that happen?

(btw rosiep? Are you redefining as a CSP? Haven't you indicated other interests???? ;))

rosiep

05-09-2008, 12:03 AM

Yes, it's the first thing I noticed!

How'd that happen?

(btw rosiep? Are you redefining as a CSP? Haven't you indicated other interests???? ;))

In reality I am a cute er...I mean cool Bi person....however I have been married and monogamous for 25 years, somehow I feel this makes the bi thing moot. Mike always refers to me as CSP but I'll be glad to join the club if you'll have me. (for the poll I voted bi)

OrlandoMike

05-09-2008, 12:17 AM

Rosie,

You're just overall cool! :thumbsup2

hematite153

05-09-2008, 10:25 PM

In reality I am a cute er...I mean cool Bi person....however I have been married and monogamous for 25 years, somehow I feel this makes the bi thing moot. Mike always refers to me as CSP but I'll be glad to join the club if you'll have me. (for the poll I voted bi)

Yeah, I think you count.

Actually, I think that the societal suppression of half of oneself is one of the hardest things about being bi.

I'm happy to say that I'm in a monogamous marriage to a woman and that I fully expect to reach the 25 year mark still saying that. (Congratulations, btw.) But, I don't think that this makes me a lesbian.

Interest, attraction, fantasy are quite different from action.

I'm glad you voted as you identify...but, where are all the CSP? Are there really 86 of them around? Do they just lurk? Because, while I could name a dozen, I couldn't get to the 80s. If you're lurking, but voted, come say 'hi' and identify yourself--Welcome!

MickeyDee

05-10-2008, 10:39 AM

I'm very lesbian. In my younger days I was attracted to guys, but as I tell everyone now...as a fine wine ripens with age, I get gayer and gayer with age.

:)

Footnotegirl

05-15-2008, 04:16 PM

I'm not quite on the list. I identify mainly as straight, but had a 2 year relationship with another woman whom I loved very dearly. It was not a LUG thing (well after college just for starters.) My chemistry tends heavily towards men, but you fall in love with a person (or crush on, or swoon over) and for me, that person has on occasion been female. But I wouldn't go so far as to claim to be bisexual across the board. I guess if it's a scale of one to ten, I'm a three.. or a seven, depending on what's at either edge.

FireballFL

05-17-2008, 04:02 PM

So, now that we have established that there is at least one of everyone on the boards, I figured it would be kind of cool to see in a private response poll, just how the posters identified themselves.

Well, cut me a little slack on the choices. I am tired and it's storming, so I really have no business being online right now. I realize the choices could have been worded better and been much more grammatically correct and spelled better too.

Oiy!

I am extremely gay (only do guys, but thinks women are beautiful in a non sexual sense) and proud and am happy that I live in a town that honors, respects, and gives diversity a shot. I am happy that I live near all the major theme parks, including Walt Disney World.

QCast_Michael

05-18-2008, 11:27 AM

Gay boy here!

WDWFreak200

05-22-2008, 07:48 AM

I'm gay and proud! :D

Timon-n-Pumbaa Fan

06-24-2008, 08:18 PM

276 voters.....how many people post here again? What 25 or so on a good month? :rolleyes1

Come on out and post with us folks. We don't bite.

SFBayDon

06-25-2008, 03:49 PM

Ok changing status from a lurker and occasional poster to more active on this board. Yes, I am a gold star gay. The polling button I selected was I am a gay. I have only been intimately involved other with men. Let see if we can flush out more of the 276 voters and have them post starting with this thread. Don

CBisMe

06-25-2008, 05:27 PM

Hi all,

I'm new to the boards, and of course this poll caught my attention. I'm a lesbian and lovin' it.
Hope to become a regular on the boards!

Timon-n-Pumbaa Fan

06-25-2008, 05:44 PM

We love new people! Feel free to look around and join in.

:welcome:

hematite153

06-25-2008, 06:34 PM

Welcome SFBayDon & CBisMe

MouseketeerOvaHere

06-26-2008, 04:57 AM

Gold Star Lesbian here. :wave2:

Timon-n-Pumbaa Fan

06-26-2008, 11:10 AM

Gold Star Lesbian here. :wave2:

Nice to meet someone else from the 7%. lol :cool1:

tomboy_m

06-26-2008, 11:18 AM

lesbian.. 100% like women.. have been with men in past.

Tigger&Belle

06-26-2008, 11:20 AM

Welcome newbies! :woohoo:

insoin

06-26-2008, 01:48 PM

I am gay and have only ever been with another man. Does that mean I'm a Gold Star?

SFBayDon

06-26-2008, 04:55 PM

I am gay and have only ever been with another man. Does that mean I'm a Gold Star?

Yup, Gold Star, just like you got when you were a child in school. 100% earns you a gold star.
:rotfl2:

insoin

06-26-2008, 05:59 PM

Yup, Gold Star, just like you got when you were a child in scholl. !00% earns you a gold star.
:rotfl2:

Woohoo! :woohoo:

Timon-n-Pumbaa Fan

03-28-2009, 10:59 AM

Bumping for a fresh round of voting.

yasuern

03-28-2009, 01:39 PM

Wow I thought I would be in the minority (straight women) but it seems i'm in the majority;)

SUE:goodvibes

jenn&nelsonrego

03-28-2009, 05:25 PM

Wow I thought I would be in the minority (straight women) but it seems i'm in the majority;)

SUE:goodvibes

Me too! I was surprised!

MemoToMe

03-28-2009, 05:53 PM

Since this has been bumped, I'll go on record. I'm like 7Up with women:

"Never had it, Never will" :thumbsup2

Sphyrna

03-28-2009, 08:23 PM

I identify as gay. However, I'm not really out. My family knows but that's about it. I'm not out at work. In HS I tried a girl but quickly realized it wasn't for me.

pixierella

03-29-2009, 08:24 AM

Since this has been bumped, I'll go on record. I'm like 7Up with women:

"Never had it, Never will" :thumbsup2

I'm sorry but this made me laugh so hard!

I guess I could say I'm bi. I've dated both men and women and just happen to fall in love with a man. If I had found the right woman then I would be with her.

Kennywife

04-01-2009, 03:07 PM

I'm bi. I'm married to a man, but I still have crushes on women. (I dated a few before I met him).

Anna

Kennywife

04-01-2009, 03:08 PM

Oh, hey pixierella, my name's Gabbie too! Anna is my writing name. Gabbie or Gabrielle is my middle name! Small world, eh? (Excuse the pun!) :laughing:

Gabbie

aheape1979

04-13-2009, 07:58 PM

Straight. . . and only been with 1 man my whole life. He's only been with me, too. How rare is that?
We've been together since our late teens.
I have a cousin and a coworker friend who are gay.
Hi to everyone!

locolala

04-13-2009, 08:15 PM

Both DH and I are bisexual (he calls himself ambi, like being ambidextrous lol), however now that we're married we have no intention on being with people of the same sex. I still appreciate a nice looking female, and him with good looking guys, but thats where it ends :)

R2D1

04-13-2009, 10:27 PM

"I am a bi-sexual. I identify as a man currenly intimately involved with a man."

The "currently" is 9 years... but yeah... :hug:

I had feelings for both sexes from a very early age. I remember being 3 years old and seeing a guy on a soap opera and thinking he was really cute. (beards are yummy) :woohoo:

On the flip-side, I have a sister who is 9 years older than me and she always had her girlfriends over to hang out. I had the BIGGEST crush on one of her friends to the point where I'm embarrassed anytime my sister brings it up. :sad2:

Anyhow, I'm bi. Thanks! :thumbsup2

NHdisneylover

04-14-2009, 09:23 AM

I gotta learn to read dats better. I tried to vote and was told i had already voted. Checked the date--April 11th--I could not for hte life of me remeber voting in a poll like this in the past two days and FINALLY realized only after reading that Rob was weddig planing that it said 2008 Mystery solved, some time LAST YEAR I must have chimed in:rolleyes1

Maybe the boards should be re-named "The Straight Forum for people who like Gay People and the few gay people who actually are here" :rotfl2:

Yeah, like a couple of other of the girls I was totally surprised to see myself in the majority here:confused3
Bumping for a fresh round of voting. see above--you confused the heck out of me:lmao:

I am one of those straight girls who doesn't get along all that well with other girls but always seem to have gay friends. What's up with that anyway:confused3 I really don't quite understand why I tend to enjoy the company of gay men more than any other group (if you are grouping people based on preference) but there it is. Anyway I am still totally head over heels in love with DH and we have been a couple for nearly 20 years--since we were college Freshman (and I had a crush on him for a couple of years before that).

2 Little Mermaids

04-15-2009, 11:12 PM

I'm straight but my brother is gay. He told me in September and my parents in October. I'd cried because I felt bad he had to go through it without the support of his family. I know he was scared but my parents took it well (I think they kind of knew) Anyway I love him for who he is and shout out to all who are proud.:cutie:

JoeyAnyc

04-21-2009, 01:00 AM

Gay here as well.
No confusion what so ever.

At birth, once I popped out, I swore I would NEVER go back.

Luckily, my entire family and friends had no problems.
I officially came out around 17/18.
Was 21 when I meet someone I liked and was my first time.
Been in 2 major relationships. Still happily in my second one
for about 5 years with many many more to come!