Grr. Need...to...tell....him...

[Cassidy]

GAH.
I need to tell him.
:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(
Im sad.
I wanna tell him.
But afraid to be let down.
We went out once.
My darned friend Kaeona told him. Grr.
I think he is reconsidering.
He's looking at me alot.
He gives me the " Maybe one more time " Look.
I love that look.
He spent his entire isolated lunch staring at me.
I KNOW IM YOUNG.
But I've liked him for 2 years.
I cant believe it either..
http://i248.photobucket.com/albums/gg190/igotyouforeverxx/GetAttachment.jpg
Hes the boy in the picture. He was looking away.



I dont care if people say " Your too young to know what love is "
I dont care.

[Rockstar mentality]

hopefully ull realize when ure older that theres no reason not to tell him. I mean if u tell him what u truely think what can happen thats sooo bad. O welll good luck and how old are u

[Cassidy]

12.

[Rockstar mentality]

ehh 12 not that bad. i was thnkng 10 cause all the people by me are tall and overdevloped for there age. but 12 isnt that bad. u may not know what full love is but u have a person u like and if he likes u back u should deserve the right to go out

[Cassidy]

I dont want to ask him.
I want to be friends...at least:(

[Rockstar mentality]

Just talk 2 him without being overwheled my ure cruch for him. have a meaningful convo.

[Cassidy]

Im not the type of girl to be like

OH..MY...GOSH!
*jumps up and down*

Im like a relaxed type.

He will never talk to me though..

[SBubba18]

I have a story for you. It's from my own personal experience..

Right now, I have a boyfriend named Andrew. I met him a little over a year and a half ago during marching band season. We really didn't talk then. But as time went on, we started talking more and more. Then this last year, we became great friends. Then he went out with my best friend..They lasted about 3 weeks. After that, I started liking him. But at the same time, my other friend liked him. What we did, was we both asked him out at the same time. He choosed my friend over me. I didn't stop liking him. After about 3 weeks, they broke up. I waited a few weeks and he basically said one day that he liked me. So I asked him out again. We talked about it for about a hour, and he told me yes.

Basically, what I am saying is that you should never give up. Even if you do get shot down a few times.

[Cassidy]

I never will.
2 darn years.:)

[Rockstar mentality]

Im not the type of girl to be like

OH..MY...GOSH!
*jumps up and down*

Im like a relaxed type.

He will never talk to me though..

No offenc but i only half believe that. My logic is that u wouldnt have posted this thread if u were soo calmish. Why wont he talk 2 u.

[Cassidy]

Nooo. Lol. Im not the "girly" type who would be like OH MY GOSH HE SAID HI TO ME!!!!!

And, well, I dont know.
Im *kinda* friends with his friends. Hes always hanging around them. I barely ever talk to them. Im afraid to just say hi..:(

[Rockstar mentality]

Just saying hi could mean everything. Saying hi gets you noticed. How can u be liked of be friends with anyone if they dont know u exist because they ignored u becasue u didnt speak to them

[Cassidy]

I smile at him instetad of saying hi???

[Rockstar mentality]

From experience hi is better. Just say hi and hope to start a natural convo from there. I can tell it would probaly be ackward for u but dont let it be. GO up to him like hes ure bestfriend

[BabyPiglet]

What we did, was we both asked him out at the same time. He choosed my friend over me. I didn't stop liking him. After about 3 weeks, they broke up. I waited a few weeks and he basically said one day that he liked me. So I asked him out again. We talked about it for about a hour, and he told me yes. Are you me? That happened to me in 4th grade.

Me and my friend both asked out this kid, Mason. I had had a little crush on him since 1st grade. Anyhoo, he first picked my friend but they broke up a couple weeks later. I called him that night, and asked him 'out' again and he said yes. I went around the house screaming my little head off. Anyways, we didn't really go anywhere during elementary school but I'd send him little notes with hearts on them and he'd smile and stare at me. Anyone who's been on the TB for more than a year would pretty much know how that all evolved. :goodvibes

ANYWAYS, CassidyLilly you just need to tell him. You have nothing to lose.

[Cassidy]

Yeha.
I might.

[DramaQueen]

I'll tell you from expirience Cassidy, there is nothing more freeing than telling someone you like them. Even if they turn you down and break your heart, once you tell them, you are FREE.
Free from the constant, haunting thoughts about them, free from your obsession, free from waiting, free from thinking "what if"

I went through that a couple of years ago, I was OBSESSED with this guy, totally thought I was in love with him. He was constantly invading my brain, I would go out of my way to see him, I'd take the BUS HOME when I didn't even need to just to see him.
When I finally told him I liked him, he said he didn't feel the same (in a very nice way mind you) and it broke my heart, and I cried, and I was sad for a couple of weeks, but then it was OVER. I could stop thinking "what if" and go on with my life.

So honestly honey, you just need to let him know (and TRUST ME, I know how scary it is!!!) but who knows, maybe you'll get lucky and he'll feel the same way.

pls feel free to mesage me if you need any advice or anything like that!!
I truly hope everything works out for you.
(and sorry for the tremendously long response!)

[BabyPiglet]

This is what I'd do...

Casually I'd ask him at school one day, if he'd like to see a movie with me this weekend. A little before the movie, I'd joke a little and say, "Honestly, I'm a bit nervous. I've liked you for a while now." therefore making him more comfortable because I was honest and said I was a bit nervous. Then you guys could just be yourself and laugh about the movie. Then afterwards we'd go to get something to eat. That way we could really get to know each other.

^ That's just what I'd do if I had someone near me who I liked.

IF you go to a movie or something like that, I suggest eating afterwards. My first date was a BLIND date...

My mom's co-worker had came over to our house to pick up some office stuff. He brought his cousin with him (he was about my age.) Well I looked awful! In my pajamas, my hair all frizzy, makin' mac and cheese. I just tried to stay in the kitchen. Well, a couple weeks later I get a call saying who he was, and when he was at my house he thought I was really cute. Problem is, I couldn't remember what he looked like!!! Anyways, we talked constantly for about a week and went to see a movie that weekend.

When he was paying, he dropped the money and wind blew it everywhere. While we were walking in, he didn't even offer to get me a soda and we just walked briskly to the theatre. During the movie, we didn't say two words to each other. After all that, we both felt awkward. I didn't get to talk to him, because it was a movie, and you don't get to talk to people during the movie! It really didn't help that I didn't know the guy, and couldn't remember what he looked like. Anyways, we started chatting again on the phone but I couldn't go through anymore of those painfully awkward dates so I just told him he was really nice and sweet, but I don't think we really clicked. I kinda regret it now, because I didn't give him a chance.

Just some stories that hopefully made you feel better. If not, sorry. :blush:

[Cassidy]

LOL. Speaking of the movies...

After school, "(in my avatar) i took that picture,
RIGHT after i snapped it, he said " ANYBODY WANNA GO TO THE MOVIES?!"
I wanted to say so, but just looked at him like something just hit me on the head. It was embarrassing, cause he was looking at me to. Then i smiled and tiptoed away quickly.

But i really did wanna go to the movies...lol.
Not just for him.
I wanted to go during school.

[BabyPiglet]

Then you should've said, 'Yeah, I've been wanting to see a movie all day.'

That way you'd probably be surrounded by friends as well.

[Cassidy]

I need to tell him. Badly.

[DramaQueen]

I need to tell him. Badly.

if it's bugging you that much DO IT!

I let my crush on a guy torture me for months!!
I really felt MUCH better once it was out in the open.

[BabyPiglet]

I'll tell you from expirience Cassidy, there is nothing more freeing than telling someone you like them. Even if they turn you down and break your heart, once you tell them, you are FREE.
Free from the constant, haunting thoughts about them, free from your obsession, free from waiting, free from thinking "what if"

I went through that a couple of years ago, I was OBSESSED with this guy, totally thought I was in love with him. He was constantly invading my brain, I would go out of my way to see him, I'd take the BUS HOME when I didn't even need to just to see him.
When I finally told him I liked him, he said he didn't feel the same (in a very nice way mind you) and it broke my heart, and I cried, and I was sad for a couple of weeks, but then it was OVER. I could stop thinking "what if" and go on with my life.

So honestly honey, you just need to let him know (and TRUST ME, I know how scary it is!!!) but who knows, maybe you'll get lucky and he'll feel the same way.

pls feel free to mesage me if you need any advice or anything like that!!
I truly hope everything works out for you.
(and sorry for the tremendously long response!)
::yes:: I know exactly how that feels! I thought I was in love, and it tortured me for months. I never actually told him, but I realized I wasn't actually in love. Just that deep deep crush.

[Rockstar mentality]

Crushes are ment to ummm... crush you as per the name crush

[chisnpeke]

You NEED to tell him. It will torture you. I know it's hard but you just need to spit it out. You aren't dating him now and if he says no you won't be dating him then, so you aren't losing anything and at least he will know how you feel. If he says no, give him time to think it over. And if nothing comes out of it, you will at least be happy that you did tell him how you felt instead of wondering about the "what ifs".

[Cassidy]

I told him.
He was a jerk.
Im over him.
2 years I'll never get back.

[crazytp93]

I told him.
He was a jerk.
Im over him.
2 years I'll never get back.

What did he say?

[Cassidy]

I said...
" Hey Reid...umm, I know this might be a little weird..But..i think i like you"
Then he said..
"Well too bad, i dont like you!"

[crazytp93]

I said...
" Hey Reid...umm, I know this might be a little weird..But..i think i like you"
Then he said..
"Well too bad, i dont like you!"

Wow. That wasn't very nice.

I'm Sorry...

[Hollywoodhaha]

Kids are so cruel.

I am 14 and a freshman in high school and to me, middle school was the worst three years of my life.

High School is better to me. BUT, College is the BEST you will EVER have.
;)

[Cassidy]

2 words.

Boys suck.

[Sparx]

I said...
" Hey Reid...umm, I know this might be a little weird..But..i think i like you"
Then he said..
"Well too bad, i dont like you!"

:hug: I'm sorry.

Tyler and I went through this a bit back. I still had feelings for him, but he'd moved on. But once I told him, I was done with overanalyzing the time we spent together. I felt so much better. And I've since moved on and have my eyes on another guy. (He's actually my date to this formal affair that I'm doing the photos for. )

Don't let this get you down though. Like you said, you're only twelve. I hadn't even had my first kiss by the time I was twelve. You've got years and years to date and have fun. Rejection is just the other side of that.

The way I like to think about it:
There is one person that I'm supposed to be with. But I can't be with that person if I'm with someone else, so every rejection, every breakup is just one step closer to finding my person. Its hard, but its true.

:hug:

pm me if you need to talk, hon.

[OneTreeHill]

I said...
" Hey Reid...umm, I know this might be a little weird..But..i think i like you"
Then he said..
"Well too bad, i dont like you!"




Oh, that's terrible, and cruel.
I am so sorry that that happened to you.
Don't let it get to you.
Atleast your only 12. You have so many years ahead of you for dating and things like that. If he is going to be like that, then it was probably better that you didn't go out with him.
I am so sorry. :hug:
Let me know if you wanna talk.:hug:

[Lizbon]

I saw an icon one time and it said "One day someone will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else."

It's like Shelby said, rejection is a part of dating.

In my opinion, you can't really be in love with someone when you hardly ever talk to them. Yet I belive in love at first sight. It kind of doesn't make sense :rotfl: but its the way I think.

Your only 12. Don't be in such a rush to find a boyfriend.

[dancergirlsasha]

Boys are so confusing. You think they like you, but you can never be sure.

[Rockstar mentality]

I said...
" Hey Reid...umm, I know this might be a little weird..But..i think i like you"
Then he said..
"Well too bad, i dont like you!"

please dont let that bother you. i will accualy admit grls mature faster then boys here. At that age i did somthing like that to a grl also. He didnt realize what that could do to someone. To this day thats one of things i regret doing soo much. Hopefully one day he will to and realize how bad that accualy was. So i guess what im trying to say is he didnt know better just brush yourself off and look to the bright things in life.