BoYfRiEnDs?? GiRLfRiEnDs??

[Musicprincess]

Anyone here got boyfriends or girlfriends? wanna spill why they are the greatest (or worst...) part of your life? wanna spill all the goods of being single?or wanna tell the world about ur secret crush?? SPILL!! heres your moment to tell everyone your feelings...and get advice about what to do about someone you like!!
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I've been single for a while now and actually...i can tell everyone here that im pretty happy like that. I've gone out with 3 guys...and they were all COMPLETLY different. Steve was my "Perfect guy" but he dumped me so that didnt work out...Sean was a cutie but he never called me and could never go anywhere...Nick was...Nick lol!! hes weird and hes still weird only now its in a bad way (hes mean to me now). I like being single because its really fun and you never feel guilty when you flirt or say someones hott!! its just more fun for me right now!! yes i know its great to go out with someone who really cares about you because you feel so wonderful around them and everything...but being single is NOT bad! its really cool to be a single chica!
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My advice to you people...: ITS NOT BAD to be single sometimes!! chances are you wont find your future husband/wife in Jr. Hi and rarley ever you find someone perfectly perfect in highschool! just wait and date and someday you'll find your special someone!!

[Mousekateer55]

I don't really need a relationship with a girl yet. I don't think anybody really needs one unless they are mature enough to have one (and most kids at my age are not mature enough to have one).

[Meg]

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I'm 16 1/2 & i've been going out w/my boyfriend for 19 months (& 3days.. lol). He's the greatest, & definately one of my best friends, we can talk about anything! I don't even remember what it's like to be single... then again, i don't really want to... cuz i'm happy rite now! :) Don't try to rush into having a boyfriend if you're younger & just want one to have to call a "boyfriend." Enjoy being young! umm.. i can't think of anything else to say... i gave a couple words of wisdom.. lol</font>

[Crazytrack27]

Im 15 years old and i have a girlfriend and she dose not want me to tell any one that we are gooing out but she is getting mad at me because i have told som people that we were going out but i have not told anyone. What should i do?:confused:

[JuviRex11]

Not to sound cocky, but I would need at least an hour to type about my different girlfriends(Ive had like 20 in the past few years), and thats not including the girls that Ive just hooked up with. Anyway, I had a crush on my last girlfriend for 2 and a half years, then we went out towards late March, then we broke up last week, while we were in Orlando. We broke up because we have really different personalities and she was VERY jealous and controlling. Regardless, I'm single now, which Im never sad about(especially when Ive hooked up with 2 girls this week.) And another booster was picking up 12 girls in MGM the day after me and her broke up.

[Musicprincess]

To Crazytrack27:
do you have any idea why she doesnt want you telling people? because usually I want to tell all my friends about it. if shes really getting mad for you telling some close friends then maybe shes not ready for a boyfriend. Thats all the advice i can give LOL

[nsyncraider17]

I totally agree that you're probably not gonna find the person you spend the rest of your life w/ in Jr. Hi! Actually, I'd be kinda scared if I ever ended up marrying any of the guys in my school!
I'm single 4 now. BUT there's this guy who everyone I know (girls anyway) say that I should go out w/ cuz we would look so cute together. And we're gonna be in Washington D.C. this weekend, and they might try to hook me up w/ him on the Dinner cruise on fri. night. I don't know!

[WDWfanatic288]

I have a boyfriend!! It will be 6 months on May 14th!!! He is a great guy!! He really sweet and caring and very smart!!! He has blonde hair, blue eyes, braces and is about 5'8 or so(Im 5'6). He in 8th grade and Im in 9th. We go to different schools and we will go to different schools next year too. It doesnt bother me about going to different schools, its more special when we do get to see each other.

To the person above that doesnt know what to do about the girl that gets mad for tellnig people about going out...are yall like form different cliques in school?? Maybe she doesnt want to date anyone or maybe shes not supposed to date. Thats weird that she wont tell anyone. Maybe she thinks people will take yall are a "weird" couple or something.

[Mai Ku Tiki]

:p :p :p :p :p :p
Hey JuvyRex11!!
Right On!!!!
PUNK ROCK IS SWEET!!!

[susieq119]

WHERE DID YOU GET THAT ICON WITH THE THREE GIRLS AT??? I HAVE BEEN LOOKIN FOR THOSE ON WEBSITES!!!!! PLEASE TELL ME
:bounce:

[Joe Cool]

I'm 17, and I've been going out with my girlfriend Talli for about 10 and a half months now. If you want an exact number...you're gonna have to ask her...our relationship started as a mutual crush, but the thing was, we thought we hated each other when we met! We went to prom last year, and then after school was out we spent a weekend together at the beach (cape may, jersey shore) which pretty much clinched it. :cool: I
I hate thinking about the future, but right now staying together at least until we graduate sounds like a pretty good idea. I've had other relationships before Talli that weren't as good...you know, different personalities, etc....i went out with a blonde ice skater who, after we broke up, began to remind me of an annoyed house cat (<i>MEOW! hisss....</i>) nuff said...and then there was the goth artist girl with the purple hair and black nail polish. All O.K. people, and i guess i learn more about myself every time i have a relationship with a different kind of girl. Which brings me to Talli, who actually can put up with a sentimental introspective guy like me and still feel incredible about it. OK, i'm done, thanks for listnin. *laughs*

JC

[KittieKat]

i havent had to many boyfriends before. But im not sure i would WANT to go out with any of the boys in my school.LOL, their are a few good ones though.

[poohbaby]

I have a boyfriend and we will have been going out for six months may 30th. I am in seventh grade and he is in sixth. we both go to the same school to

[susieq119]

Hey musicprincess!!! where did you get the icon with the three girls at. I have been lookin for those so i can put them on my web site.. please get back to me on this.
:confused:

[samster]

http://go.to/dollzmaster is a great place for those!!!:p

[Girly2004]

I take offence to any one who thinks that 14/15 year olds are not older enough to have boy friends.
I had 5 during the last school year, but that's only cause I went out with 4 of them to get over the first one.
I went out with my first boyfriend for over 4 months and was totally hooked on him when, his dad got a job in PA and they had to move. That was at the end Oct., and I don't think I very really got over him.
Thank full he's moving back on June 15, and he can't to take me out on the 16th of June. He's the most wonderful person I know, and Even though he lived half the country away, we've stayed in touch. I don't think your ever to young to fall in love.

[WDWfanatic288]

PREACH Girly2004!!!!

I agree...my boyfriend and I are having problems rigt now and hate it!!! I really like him enough and I agree that you can never be too young to love!!!
People get this idea that teens dont know what we are doing and I wann tell them they are wrong!!! I have my head on straight and know what I want!! Im smart and I know what I want!!! just because most of teens smoke and drink and dunno what they want dont judge us all that way!!!

[Girly2004]

Thank You WDWfanatic288!
I'm so sick of being told that "Oh your to young to know what love is. your only in it for sex, and to drink and smoke." Well, I for one was raised right and I know where to draw the line, and so do all my boyfriends. I've got a line of how personal we can get and theres no moving the line.
I've been in love for almost a year, and even the time when we are apart I still know there's no one else like hm for me. He makes me feel like a princess. even the little things he does like calling to check on me when I miss a day of school mean so much to me. It's like the best feeling in the world to fall asleep knowing that some in this world is truly worried about you and your health.
Love, Christy

[Joe Cool]

The words I have for guys who have the gall to ignore any personal connection (on <i>any</i> level in a relationship) and just date a girl to get laid...I...don't think I'm can say on here. *laughs*

I don' t think there's a universal age limit for falling in love, but I do think that people fall in love on different planes at different times in their lives. I mean from my POV, had I not gone through the relationship with my ex-girlfriend, I probably wouldn't be in such a wonderful relationship with Talli, my girlfriend now. Though...being with Talli feels so right that when i try and think about anything else...i can't, at least right now. I guess thats anybodys right, even if it happens for you when you're 12 vs. 16 or even 20.

JC

[Girly2004]

You know I've come a cross as really rude in my last two posts. Its just that people act like they were never 15, or never in Love. Everyone thinks that they know how I'm going to act or what I'm going to say and the truth is that they have no clue.
Thanks Joe Cool! for you post. I've had boyfriends who only went out with me because they wanted to get laid and when that didn't happen they broke off the relationship. And that is tough on a girl, but that doesn't mean I'm going to change my values to fit them. I have to put my self and what I think is right before anything else.
And me being in Love has done nothing to change that. If for some reason It looked like Derek was only after me for only one reason and that was to get laid then I would stop the relationship. It would hurt me for a while, but I'm still young and I would find someone new.

Lots of Love,
Christy

[WDWfanatic288]

well yall are my love preachers now...lol

me and boyfriend broke up today..Im over it already...i feel great...I got weight lifted off me...its great...I mean I loved him..honestly...but he lied to me(if u wanna know more..PM me...ill tell u the WHOLE story...lol)


but yall know what is gong on and Joe Cool you should like a great guy...not like all these jerks running around my school(thats why my now ex-boyfriend went to another school)

[Girly2004]

WDWfanatic288, I think that it has to be something with south east Texas that a lot of the guys are jerks. I've dealt with more the my fair share of them.
I'm sorry to hear about what your boyfriend to you I know how rough that is. Some people just don't seem to have hearts, or if they do they are really good at hiding them. I hope that I never understand how someone can look another person that they are suppose to love and lie to them.
Oh, there is one thing I've been wanting to get out in the open. Am I the only person who the words "I love you" mean a long term relationship? More then once I have been scared out of a relationship when the other person tells me that they love me after only a week or two? I can't bring my self to say "I love you" tell I have been with a person for a while and I know that I really do love them. Me and Derek didn't say "I love you" to each other tell he had already moved and we had both tried dating other people. OH well, I'm just venting!

[WDWfanatic288]

I understand where you are coming from...Ive said it but I think I meant it at the time but now I think it was stupid..there is nothing wrong with you..guys know that girls like it said so they just say it..guys are dumb sometimes....yeah I think it might the guys down here in Texas!!

[iLovDisney]

My BF is Michael and he is both a blessing and a curse.
Half the time he is sweet and funny, but half the time he ignores me and flirts with this girl named Jessie. He's liked her forever, but I thouhght you were not allowed to flirt once you had a GF. But he's so blatant.
I wuv him to death but I can't stand it when he does this!!! I'm undecided about what to do. We've been together for a while, but all my friends say top ditch the "loser". I Dunno. The good times hardly make up for the bad anymore. (PS- he refused to dance at the School dance and didn't say happy birthday or even look at me an my bd.) :(

[Girly2004]

iLovDisney, Here's what I would do. I would tell him to choose who he wants you or the other girl. If he says the other girl then he maynot be the one for you and he's a real loser anyways. He he chooses you then you tell him that he needs no stop flirting with other people.


OR>>> you could just flirt with oter guys and see what he does then.

Love, Christy

[WDWfanatic288]

DUMP HIM!!!



oh my gosh..thats a very jerkish thing to do!!! Dump the loser,pronto!!! that such a jerk...I mean he going out with YOU,he shouldt flirt..I mean yeah,its gonna happen but thats what is considered the friendly flirt and thats a little different.:mad: :mad:

he DIDNT tell you happy birthday??? oh my gosh...even my ex-boyfriend told me happy birthday..even people i dont like I tell them happy birthday!!! :mad: :mad:
hes making you miserable...I mean you SOOOOOOO deserve better...I mean let him go out with the other girl..he will do the exact same...guys never change..:mad:


He even makes me mad and I dunno him!!!
http://www.wdwinfo.com/sites/family/diablos.gif do that to him!! :mad:

[iLovDisney]

I dumped him and feel much better now. :D

[Girly2004]

Good for You! He got what was coming to him!

[iLovDisney]

Bump. I like this thread.

[Joe Cool]

This thread is great, I'll bump it to...

I feel bad for you girls who are in relationships with those anal apertures...my girlfriend Talli's friend Amber has been dating this guy J.R. for forever, and it seems like she's only with the guy for his money. I mean, the dude's a <i>complete</i> sellout, always trying to get in bed with Amber's friends (Talli included...*grr*), but thank God for me Talli sees right through him, no pun intended *laughs*. Amber's kind of a player, though, and I predict she and J.R. will be over by August, but of course Amber has to have another boyfriend lined up first. Oy, vey.

My outlook on relationships and love is pretty basic...keep it real, keep it all for the girl (or the guy in your case), no exceptions. I learned a few years ago that love and lust are like donuts and coffee, in no particular order...(*laughs*...stay with me here for a sec)...both have their own sweet and bittersweet appeal, but you can get burned or gorged on either...or neither.

Stay cool, and keep this thread goin...

JC

[JuviRex11]

There seems to be alot of guy trashing here, even from guys(sell-out). Well, I'm gonna give my 2 cents. I am a 17 year old guy, and I get alot of attention from girls for some reason(Ive had a bunch of different girls say I look like Freddy Prinze Jr). Anyway, I am leaving for college in a few months, so it would be stupid to get into a relationship, and Im gonna have fun over the next few months. I hook up with alot of girls, usually a few per weekend. But I always tell them before that it is the extent of the relationship, and that I will never go out with them. Or I'll say something to the extent of "I will probably never talk to you again". Regardless, 95% of the time they dont care. They accept this situation and they dont mind, and just want the pleasure. So before you say that I'm a user, remember, these girls enjoy being used. Or Something(And before you say theyre ugly, they definately are not. Last weekend the girl looked like Jennifer Love Hewitt and the other was Syracuse's top amateur model. Theyre both in the top 10!)

[Girly2004]

That may be true, but keep in muind that not all girls want to be used! There are some girls and guys that get used when thay don't want to! I personally don't think that a guy who is willing to say that there are others of his own kind that are jerks is a sellout. As for the guy trashing, well I'm sorry! we're just sharing are views on a touchy subject!

Love,
christy

[PigSoldier]

Wow!!
Last time I looked at this thread, people were just talking about how cute/lovely their boy/girlfriend was. Now I come back and we're having a big, lovely argument!! :D

To add my two cents, I think that people have very mixed up ideas of love. You can think you love someone, but in most cases, you don't.
This doesn't mean that you shouldn't go out on dates, have boyfriends, etc, etc.

And JuviRex, we have words for people like you, but I won't post them here :D .

[Girly2004]

HEy!
Lets all be nice! Now Every has differnet views no matter how messesd thay might be! We should be nice to them about it! Love, is a very touch subject and it is my view that when your in love you know it!
As I have said before I'm in love, and I threre is nothing you can do to change my mind about it. Threre is only peroson who can do that and he thinks that he's in love with me also!

Love, Christy

[Joe Cool]

I probably forgot half the stuff I was going to say in this post, so here's my...eh...two dollars anyway

<i>Hoooo</i> boy...

Eh...ya. <i>Uh</i> huh.

I'm trying to figure out what's more disappointing...the fact that some people seem so insecure that even one less than stellar comment about another guy (who of course <i>must</i> be completely perfect...:rolleyes:...and I know, you didn't say that...) makes them think 'sellout'...or the realization that a someone that hooks up with so many random girls...and thinks somehow that they're a better person for it. Am I sounding defensive yet? <i>shudder</i>. I'm not going to waste time aiming insults or crafting comebacks for a part of an argument that's not worth having. (and then, some people will go, "you already did"...) Granted, there are girls who want to be used. Fine with me, but if they want to hook up with me, they'll have to find another jerk or gigolo to fulfill their pseudo-relationship cravings for the weekend (or even the hour.... :rolleyes: )There are girls who don't want to be used, too, and Granted, there are guys who in other people's opinions are users, or players, or whatever. Everyone's entitled, but you knew that. I'll say this much, and then I'll step off my high horse...you can call me a sellout, which I'm not (who sells out to whom?), but then of course I'll ask which requires more integrity: hooking up a girl for 10 minutes, or 10 months...(along with that, finding someone you're "not tired of").

You know, there's no concrete standard to what guy-trashing (or relationshipping) is. Open-mindedness is what makes online forums thrive, so let's bite the bullet and move on. I...don't think anyone was trying to change anyone's mind <i>any</i>way, but that's just me. Good for him, if girls think he looks like Freddie Prinze, Jr. and he hooked up with a Jennifer Love Hewitt look-alike. Better for you, if you're in love...that's the most incredible thing in the world, and no one should ever tell you otherwise.

JC

[PigSoldier]

Very, very well said :D .

[Joe Cool]

Thanks, PigSoldier, I needed to get that off my chest.

Today's my last day here for a <i>while</i>...see you all in late June or early July!

JC

[JuviRex11]

First of all, the sellout thing was meant as a joke. Chill out.
Second, I feel love. Are you saying I'm unloved? I have an incrediably supportive family and great friends. I don't need to feel relationship love. Ive had relationships, unfortunately they don't work, and I know what love is from those. Yes, it feels good, but I know the relationship will end, be it from me going to college in 2 months or other circumstances.
Third of all, I'm a jerk because I hook up with girls who simply want some fun? That's being a jerk? I'm not making these girls feel bad, I'm not lying to them. They know what they're in for. And even to make sure they're happy, I stay in touch with them, I don't just ditch them.
Fourth, its not a psuedo-relationship craving. It simply feels good, and you can have be close friends too. Just because its a guy and girl doing stuff doesn't mean that they have to be dating or in a long supportive relationship, they can just be friends.
Fifth, You question my integrity? Well, you need to come down off your pedestal, and realize that just because you're a "nice guy" does not make you above anyone. I'm not a nice guy. I never will be. Does that make you better than me? Does that give you the right to trash and condemn my choices? I understand that a guy such as myself is not the best boyfriend or husband. What I am is a great friend to many people, and the resident counselor among my friends when they have personal problems. I help out my elderly neighbors. I drive my siblings around if they need to go somewhere. I worked myself hard in school for 4 years to get into a top University, so I could complete my parents dream of someone in the family going to college. And despite your preconceptions, girls often consider me their best friend, regardless of if I hook up with them or not. What does it take more integrity to do: Date a girl for 10 months and break up, or stay a close friend with a girl for 10 years, then hook up with her because she wants her first guy she does anything with to be a close friend, not some bozo. You want to question my integrity? Question this.

[PigSoldier]

http://www.emoticons.f2s.com/sad/pissed.gif
With Joe Cool away, I feel that I should reply, but I think this thread has got un-Disney enough already, so I'll bite my tongue and move on.

[Musicprincess]

[FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=deeppink]Hey people!! sorry i havent been here in a while but im glad that the thread i started has held up! I was just reading all the posts on here and i cant believe how much advice and great stories we've gotten out of this! ill write more soon...sorry i wasnt here again! LOL ttyl!
~*~Mwaz~*~
~*~Mandy~*~

[Girly2004]

ok! I thinks it's time I responded to the posts!
Joe Cool, you are so right win what you said! I don't how else to put that I agree with you 100%! But that doesn't mean that JuviRex11 doesn't have some good points also! I agree that it is better to be friends, with a person for 10 years that it is to date for 10 months than break up and never talk! BUT! I for one can say that I am still friends with all of my exs but one! One of my exs I've been friends with since we were both in diapers. Me and him decided to try a more personal relationships and it didn't work, but we are still friends. Now I know a lot of ya'll are like "But that must be awkward" well for me it has not been. I know that I can date a guy and still be his friend!
I also, as I said in one of my first posts know how to make a long term relationship work. Ya'll can use that reason that your going off to college in 2 months or whatever, but if you really love someone that won't matter! I went about 7 months with out my love! me and him had that agreement that we date other people and see what happened. Well, what happed was we both missed the other so much that no other relationship worked. So don't try and tell me that you leaving for college in 2 months so you can't have a relationship.
And! as for the comment on love from your parents and friends! That love is a completlly different kind of of love then the kind you get in a relationship with a boyfriend or girlfriend! and you can have both kinds of love! I do!
Ok! One last thing! No one is trashing anyone else! belive me I'm a debater at school,and I know from experience that all the is going on here is "Trashing" of what is said. No one has said that you (who ever you are) is a bad person, or anything else!

Love, Christy

[samster]

Wow! Stop arguing! This is a disney site!

[poohbaby]

why don't yall take a chill pill. this is nothing to get all heated up about!

[socca princess*]

alrite, me and matt were going out 4 like 3 months maybe. we hadnt fought once, but then last friday we got in a little bit of a fight. it was fixed by saturday though, and i thought it was a healthy fight and i felt like our relationship was strnger.... i guess not though cuz last nite i told him he sounded like one of my friends and out of nowhere we were in another foght. so i called him and he wouldnt talk. he told me to come online, and i told him that if i had a b/f i wanted 2 at least be able to talk on the phone. so he said maybe i should find another boyfriend. i asked him if he was serious, and he totally changed the subject (i noticed he'd been doin this a lot lately). hez like : "i found out 2 things today: my grandmother is dying of cancer, and im never going 2 play basketball (his dream) ever again cuz im having surgery on my knee." so im like alright i understand u have too much on your find. so what does he do today??? ask my best friend out!!!! excuuuuuse me!!!:mad:

[Joe Cool]

:confused:

Juvi, why do you have to get that defensive? Was I <i>really</i> trashing and condemning? I'm sorry that's what you got out of my reply. I didn't call <i>you</i> a jerk. I didn't call you unloved. I think you confused preconceptions with opinions...but that's just my opinion. What I was saying in my post wasn't directed at you in particular, anyway. So <i>you</i> chill.

Oh, yea, and did I say I was better than anyone? I didn't even say I'm a quote-unquote 'nice guy'. I'm human, so are you. Life is too precious to get bogged down with arguing over P's and Q's. :)

It's fantastic that you consider yourself such a great friend, and that you do so many things for other people. By the way, no one should ever diss your hard work and what you make your life out to be; as long as you're the hero of your <i>own</i> life, nothing else matters all that much.

Thanks for the great points, and I think that even though this is a Disney site, the online forums were intended for community in the truest sense of the word...

Stay cool,

JC

[fboy9287]

i have been single for a couple of months till i went to islands of adventure. i met a great girl on fire. we totally clicked. she liked coasters. i love coasters. great match. she really thinks i am funny. kinda weird that her and i both love fire and cant stand ice!

[JuviRex11]

That's pretty ironic, because when me and my friend Greg went to Islands of Adventure last year, we met 2 girls in line for Dueling Dragons, and we became really close friends, and they even came up to visit me at Downtown Disney when I went to Orlando in April.

[Girly2004]

well, it looks like we've clamed down on this site> and that is very good. As for the fact that this is an un-disney like thread. Well, I have yet to see a rule that says all post have to be about Disney!

[*Tink*]

I have a crush on someone but he does know and he has liked me for the past 2 years and that is how long I have liked him to. My parents tease4 me alot because I have known him since I was 2 years old.

[PigSoldier]

There are people on these boards as young as 9. When I said this thread was un-Disney, I meant it was something I wouldn't want a 9yo to read.
Please don't think I meant that we should only discuss Disney here. :D

[Girly2004]

Ok, 9 year olds have no reason to be reading stuff like this thread! anyhow!
My boyfriend moved back from PA yesterday! I'm sooo very happy! Thing fell though so we couldn't go out today,but I'm going to meet him next week! OH!!! Having him in the same time zone makes this relationship so much easyer!

Love, Christy

[WDWfanatic288]

well socca im sorry about that...the guy was a jerk anyways so be glad hes gone

christy...LOL..u r so crazy sometime..lol...tell me what happens when u see each other...

[socca princess*]

:rolleyes:bump! i liked this thread!:rolleyes:

*~:bounce:~*morgan*~:bounce:~*

[Meg]

<font color=blueviolet size=4>Ok guys, I've stayed outta this... but Girly, 9 y/o's have every rite to be reading this... whether they <b>should</b> be or not... it doesn't matter...

& as for Juvi & Joe Cool... both of you just CHILL! Ok, & at the risk of sounding like a moderator (no offense Disney Daniel or Dancergirl! :))... or... *shudder*.. my mother... this is a "family site"... save your arguments for email or PM...

ANYHOOOOOOO... letz get back to talkin about gfs & bfs!! :) Not tryin to be a downer.... sorry :( just don't think you should be fighting about the stupid umimportant things... there's a lot worse things going on in the world....

BYEEEEEEE!!

*Meg*

[poohbaby]

i agree with ya 100%

[JuviRex11]

Ok, I'm going to complain about something that has happened to me all over the DIS. As you can tell, I'm a very confrontive person, and I never back down to any sort of conflict. Whenever I get into some kind of spirited, emotional debate, there are automatically a bunch of people who say "chill" and "calm down". Or a moderator flys into the scene like Batman, and makes sure that no one is harmed, cause lord knows that we don't know better, and the same goes with the "adult" boards. Oh no! It's an argument! Well that can't happen! They can't settle their differences by themselves. Well it's ridiculous.
No one is being hurt, and 9 year old kids can't see stuff like that? I have not swore at all, which is a rarity for me. First of all, 9 year olds shouldn't be on here at all it is called TEEN Disney. So if they do go on here, they know what they're getting into. You become a teen at 13, and this board is alot tamer than any PG-13 movie anyone's seen, and I bet that those kids have all seen PG-13 movies. My brother is 9 and his favorite movie is There's Something About Mary. Tell me a 9 year old hasn't seen Titanic. So don't tell me that a kid will see this and immediately become defiled.
Basically, arguing is not a bad thing, its something that will happen in normal conversation. We don't all have the same opinions. Fortunately, we're not all Disney robots who march through the internet typing "DISNEY IS GOOD. DISNEY IS GREAT. WE ARE ALL DISNEY FRIENDS." Although some of you want us to be like that, because apparantly, its too wild and disorderly to emotionally express your opinion, instead of saying "Yea, I guess you're right!!!!" followed by some stupid smiley face. Bottom line is that I respect Joe Cool more than any of you, because he stood up for what he believed in, instead of avoiding confrontation like the majority of you sheep. I can't sit back like that, I talk and I tell about what I believe in, and give reasons to back it up. You want me to "chill" like all you? Chill this.

[samster]

LOL, that is pretty ironic you both met girls on the same ride. I love the DIS and I don't want to get kicked off for something stupid and I don't want this to happen to any of you either:p I think this post may have helped some of you in relationships so lets keep it positive and focus on the good.:D

[WDWfanatic288]

yeah samester is right
I agree with JuviRex...who cares if we agrue...its human nature and it wasnt a bad arguement(I loved reading it...lol)
but im sorry..juvi u dont have the right to call ppl sheep..its rude...everyone thats says calm down is just trying to save your butt from a moderator ruining this post b/c good does come out of it.

[poohbaby]

This is to juvirex11

One thing not all nine yr. olds are your brother. some stuble into places by axcident like this board. Also little kids lok up to teens and i know that i do not want my sisters who six or any of their friends hearing, reapting or acting like you. unlike adults teens have a way were things get worse then just an agrument. and yes you have swore when you said "Lord" that was using my Gods name in vain and i do not appreciate that. neither do i appreciate u calling people sheep because they do not like what the world is coming to. and trust me you are not helping the world get better you are only making it worse. i am not trying to be rued or mean but i do not appreciate the way you are acting!!!!!!!

[WDWfanatic288]

poohbaby-you're right...i hate what the world is coming too.

Juvi you can call me sheep but why should I rewrite the exact same thing that Girly and JC wrote...I believe the same thing they do.

[PigSoldier]

Juvi, you ever been to the debate board? You seen Eros's thread about McVeigh on the CB? Those are real debates and discussions, not crappy little arguments where everyone thinks they're right, with posts ending with the words, 'chill this'.
I'm not getting into this whole 'appropriate age' debate (not sure if that's the right word), but there are things you've said that I wouldn't like my 7yo niece to read, swearing or not.
Regarding the moderators, I think they do a great job. Notice how they haven't said anything about this thread (although they don't really need to), but you still feel the need to insult them. These aren't your boards, the mods have the right to decide what is appropriate, and I think I've only ever seen one thread where I've thought they were over the top.
Fortunately, we're not all Disney robots who march through the internet typing "DISNEY IS GOOD. DISNEY IS GREAT. WE ARE ALL DISNEY FRIENDS."
Hmmmm.......You ask for a debate, and then you go along to insult (nearly) everyone on the boards. I don't think your tactics are all that great. What's this trying do to/prove? I just don't understand what you're trying to do apart from stir up more trouble.
like the majority of you sheep
Again, not sure what this is trying to do apart from stir up trouble. So we're sheep, because we told you to shut up (in the nicest possible way of course, we are all Disney friends, after all).
Overall, I think I'd rather be a sheep than someone like you (I'd like to elaborate, but you know, I still think that these are Disney boards, and we should keep it clean.) You want me to "chill" like all you? Chill this.
You have no idea how tempting it is to reply to this, but I'm trying, I really am trying.

- Suzi

PS - I know this post is kinda all over the place, but I wanted to express my feelings without resorting to petty name calling, which was a lot harder than it sounds :D .

[Musicprincess]

Hey you guys!! sorry to "bust in and tell everyone to chill" but what are we fighting over?? geez theres nothing wrong with this thread and i dunno why everyones sooo worked up about a comment if a 9 year old could read this or not. Ive been reading all the posts on here and none of them are rude. this is just a thread for advice about dating and to tell about relationships...nothing rude there. And also, isnt a 9 year old (or any aged kid) going to be dating at some point in their life? and this is a public posting site...anyone could come on here and read this stuff...any age. we really need to quit focusing on this junk and let this post stay clean and GOOD. and no, im not an adult or a 9 year old telling you this...im 13 also and i AM a teenager on TEENdisney...ok?? so please lets just quit the arguments and get on wit posting...this is a good thread...lets keep it that way

[nsyncraider17]

I haven't looked at this thread for a looong time, cuz the last time I checked it was still about girl/boyfriends. Now I'm thinking a WWF smackdown is about to break out on the DIS! lol...I have plenty of my own opinions about this stuff, but I'm thinking it's probably best to stay out of it.

[socca princess*]

as much as i would love to get started in this, as i have many things i would love to say, i will try to go back to the original topic of this thread which was b/fs and g/fs.....

so anyways, if any of you read about matt, then i have part 2.... my best friend said no being the good friend that she is and i now realize that i am totally over him and what a jerk he was being when i was going out with him (i have my resources :p) so now there is danny who is a sixth grader, going into seventh, and he is really sweet and he likes me a lot. i don't really know him, but apparently some sixth graders of my soccer team have generousl handed over information to him and he calls me a lot to talk and his friend just asked me out for him... do you think i should say yes??? i don't really know him... he sounds real nice, he's smart, and my friends say he has a sense of humor... plus he's hot... that always helps

what do you think i should do??

*~:bounce:~*morgan*~:bounce:~*

[Disney Daniel]

Hi everyone,

Please remember, that this is a Disney teen board. Other subjects can be discussed, however the main focus is normally Disney related. I would suggest that this topic was meant to be a light hearted discussion of boyfriends and girlfriends, and was not intended to become a heated discussion.

Keep in mind, the rules for posting on the DIS, and especially those restricting personal attacks.

If you have any questions or concerns, feel free to email or private message me.

Thanks and enjoy your time on the DIS.

Disney Daniel

[Musicprincess]

to socca princess:

I think you should say yes cuz dating is all about getting to know different people and what traits you like in certain people. If it doesnt work out then you'll remember what you didnt like about him for the next guy. And if it does work out then it will be worth while that you said yes!

I went out wit someone who asked me out just to see if i liked him or not. he was nice but i didnt really know him that well before we went out. turned out that it didnt work out and we broke up, but i did learn a lot more about what i liked and disliked in guys. it'll be worth while either way if you say yes.

[JuviRex11]

First of all, you want me to go to a debate board, where they "debate for real"? I was on my school's debate team for 4 years, and each debate I ended with the words "something this". It became my trademark around Central New York. I am going on a full scholarship to Niagara University because of my success on the debate team. I had a front page article in the Syracuse Herald-Journal, and the headline said "Ganley this!" Item of note: Ganley's my last name. So obviously that quote is not all that bad. Next....
These aren't my boards, these aren't the mods' boards either, these are......that guy's boards. I forgot his name. But it doesn't matter. What matters is that the Teen Disney board's mods are ok. I'll give them credit, even though a board like this where there is a spirited debate is rare, and once I made a harmless joke and they got all freaked out. Unfortunately, I have encountered many mods, where in this exact situation, they have freaked out and gone off on power trips on me. Mods dont do much but moniter their boards, so alot of them love to get the chance to flex their power. And you're not going to agree with me on that one, obviously. And besides, I dont think the moderators are going to shut this down, they're probably enjoying it as much as all of you. Next........
then you go along to insult (nearly) everyone on the boards.
I insulted everyone on the Disney boards? Let's take a look at my quote again.
Fortunately, we're not all Disney robots who march through the internet typing "DISNEY IS GOOD. DISNEY IS GREAT. WE ARE ALL DISNEY FRIENDS."
Did I say anyone on the board is like that? I said that WE'RE NOT Disney robots. Settled that.Next......
My infamous sheep quote. I knew that would work people into a tizzy, because that was its goal. What I meant by a sheep is the people that shy away from a confrontation. All I need is this recent quote to prove that alot of you are sheep:
I have plenty of my own opinions about this stuff, but I'm thinking it's probably best to stay out of it.
I could put in a bunch more, but that sums it up. Also, after I called you sheep, I got a lot of replies focusing on that, proving you're not sheep. It took me insulting you to prove that you can add to this debate.
Then you criticize me for insulting people during my tirade.
Overall, I think I'd rather be a sheep than someone like you
Sure sounds like an insult to me.
Onto the age debate. 9 year old kids can read. They see Teen Disney, theyre not stupid, if they go here they know they're out of their element. Second, if a parent lets their 9 year old go on the computer unmonitered, then they've probably let their kid see much worse than this board. And the kid will probably stumble onto something much worse. Type in "mummies" into the Yahoo search engine and you'll know what I mean.
I'm anti-religion, and saying Lord didn't refer to God, it refered to.....I don't know, a lord in medivel times. Just because it had some kind of connotation with religion doesn't mean that it was religious.
And I'm making the world worse? I was not aware that my controversial posts to the Teen Disney forum were having a direct effect on the workings of the world. And because of my attitude and the like-minded attitude of people with my same views the world is going down?Every era thinks their era is deteriorating, its a fact. You name an era you think was the best, and Ill tell you the negatives about it. There will always be problems in the world. I can guarantee you that nothing I wrote in my posts are anything implying the negativity of the world. If they are, go ahead and point them out.
Not that speaking out and having unbiased opinions is a negative. You're right, this is a public board, and 1st amendment rights apply to anything public. Would you rather live in a place and time when people could only say what was socially acceptable and good? Because there was such a place. It was called Nazi Germany. I've said it before in my debates, and I'll say it again: Censor this.

[poohbaby]

ok
i will give you a era how about the very first on in the garden of edan?
you tell me the wrong there and i will give you all the respect in the world!
And about nazi germany it was not fair for all people their for instance my
best friends family were jewish germans and they were certainly not treated right!

[JuviRex11]

Wow. Uhh, since I'm going to be above insults for once, I'm just going to say I'm speechless. I think everyone else saw the point I was making with Nazi Germany. And if God is all-knowing, then why did he place the apple tree there if he knew Adam and Eve would eat the apple? Besides, evolution has already disproved Adam and Eve.

[WDWfanatic288]

ok..im staying out of the agruement for now....


ok socca princess...go out with him..it sounds like yall have a good time together.

[PigSoldier]

Sure sounds like an insult to me.

Ok, guilty, but I really did try........

I'm anti-religion, and saying Lord didn't refer to God, it refered to.....I don't know, a lord in medivel times.

Oh please. That is the worst excuse I've ever heard. 'lord knows' is a phrase refeing to God, and whether you believe in him or not, its offensive and blasphemous (sp?).
Comparing these boards to Nazi Germany offends me. More than 6million people died under Hitler's power, and what's happening here? People are telling you to chill. Not quite the same thing.
Evolution hasn't disproved anything, its a theory, just like God creating the world. You believe one, poohbaby believes another, what's the problem?

- Suzi

[fboy9287]

ok people play nice (now i feel like my mother)

[CathyCanada]

Enough of the insults, this thread is done.
Cathy