Girls and Boys!

[#1TiggerFan]

here is a thread where u can talk about ur crush, ur single or going out, give advise, just broke up, just getting together, or whatever u can think.


Crazy for a boy/girl talk about it.
Rachel:3dglasses

[#1TiggerFan]

ok i'll start!
i like this boy, he's super cute and funny:flower3: but the bad part is i'm to darn shy!:headache: our school doesn't have dances so i can't ask him out or nobodys b-day is coming up:mad: so... NEED GUY HELP!!!!:guilty:
Rachel:3dglasses

[HSMndLKfan92]

Talk to him, and his friends. If you're in any of the same classes, talk about that. Then probably something sports related. Ask him what his favorite sport is. Favorite team.

But if you're genuinely not interested in sports, then just listen to what the other guys have to say and tune in and add to that.

[#1TiggerFan]

it's hard b/c people make fun of me b/c of my back but not him!:lovestruc

[cra_z_dude_17]

im single and proud

[Lizbon]

it's hard b/c people make fun of me b/c of my back but not him!:lovestruc

Because of your back?

Ignore what other people think. If you like him, then talk to him. He may like you back. :goodvibes I know, its easier said then done, but you gotta try!!!

[StitchfansJr]

im single and proud
So am I. :)

[Sparx]

This guy named Tyler met me at a birthday party last may. He was instantly flirting with me and all that. We were both in other relationships at the time. His attraction and attention towards me never waivered though. There was one time he drove 13 miles, back the way he'd just traveled to see me. He really liked me. It was all innocent flirting back and forth until december of last year. He asked me to go to the christmas dance with him. let me tell you, I was super excited. we really hit it off, and he asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes.

about three weeks later, i go to disney world. the night before i left, he texted me and broke up with me. we had gotten off teh phone like ten minutes before hand. i was crushed. I mean, he was acting like everything was fine, and he wouldn't talk to me. in the text, he said "please forgive me for my actions."

we get back to school two days later, and he didn't say a word to me. the next day i had been tutoring and i got finished about six minutes before wrestling practice let out. i was walking out to the parkinglot, and we crossed paths. I said "how much longer are we gonna keep playing this 'i won't talk first' game, cause i mean, i love winning, but its getting a little childish" i finally got him to say, "the kind of person you are is not the kind of person I want to be with."

well, i got over it. i stopped crying, i stopped moping and i stopped caring about wanting to be with him. but lately, i've been waivering on that feeling. lately my feelings have been redeveloping. he and i are still good friends, so i told him. he said he didn't feel the same. okay, no big deal.

he and i were planning on hanging out this weekend, and i called him about it last night. he tells me that this girl he works with (akita) asked him out today. my jaw hit the floor. he said, 'let me think about it' to her. i know tyler. that means yes. he went on to tell me that she and her boyfriend broke up a month ago. (jan 14, approx) and he tells me that she was messing around with tyler before they broke up (which is why they broke up) about two or three weeks before hand (this puts us in late december or early january. when tyler and i were together.) he didn't flat out tell me, but he told me that he was cheating on me with her.

fastforward to about an hour later after we got off teh phone. i finally call him back and say, "tyler, were you cheating on me with akita? when you said you and she were messing around, you told me that was happening when you and i were still together. " he said, "no, those dates were rough. i don't remember exact times. its not like we were actually messing around or anything though, it was just a little touching here and there" if he hadn't explained any further and just said "no" i would have believed him. his guilty conscience made him try to justify it to me. (now, i really know him very well. we're close friends, i konw how he lies, and he was lying)

i fell apart. i cried for like two hours. it wouldn't hurt so bad if he had been, god i don't know, drunk or high or something, but he did it SOBER and AT WORK and with a hoochie. Akita is pregnant by the 20something year old ex boyfriend she was cheating on with tyler. shes a ho. (this isn't a catty girl saying this, i'm being flat out honest. she's slept around with tons and tons of people.)

it hurts to realize someone would rather be with a white trash ho than be with you. I mean, if shes better than me, how bad must i be?

[Lizbon]

Shelby, don't think for one second think she is better than you. She's not and this guy is obviousley a real jerk if he cheated on you and lied to you. I know you are upset now, but soon you will realize that you are so much better off with out him. :hug: :hug:

-Liz

[Rockstar mentality]

ouch if he cheated on u then u can do soo much better. i know how it feels and it sucks but dotn do anything stupid like get revenge

[ginnygirl102]

OMG!! I really like this guy and I liked him last year at school too and he liked me, but he never told me and I was sad he didn't bec I could have gotten a boyfriend. I don't know if he likes me still but there is this other girl he might like. One of my BFF's told me (which so happened to be his twin sister) that he is starting to like me again but he still likes that other girl and the girl he still kind of likes is one of my best friends! I didn't tell her he likes her but I am really sad because I don't get to talk to him that often! She sits close to him in all of our classes and she knows I like him and she doesn't like him. I just wish he would talk to me more and would like me more!! I NEED HELP!!

[Sparx]

I don't care that he cheated on me. its that he cheated on me with her.

all i have to say is that i hope it doesn't break his heart too bad when she cheats on him.

if he/she will cheat with you, he/she will cheat on you.

[Rockstar mentality]

hahahah those are very wise words. i never though of it that way

[3mtn-kate]

I am single and I would love to be proud of it but the truth is I miss having a boyfriend so much! And the worst part is that my last boyfriend dumped me then started dating my best friend a week later.:eek: I KNOW I don't like him anymore but seeing them together still hurts. Just knowing that they don't know or care how bad they both hurt me.

And now this guy has been all over me lately and I just think he wants to do stuff with me, I know he doesn't really like me. A huge part of me and saying "God no, stay away from him." But another part is loving the attention. I haven't gotten real guy attention in so long and it feels good. I don't want to go against my better judgement though, anyone got any advice? To either situation.:confused3

[Ms.Squeakers]

I don't care that he cheated on me. its that he cheated on me with her.

all i have to say is that i hope it doesn't break his heart too bad when she cheats on him.

if he/she will cheat with you, he/she will cheat on you.

Wow,

Im sorry.

[::Snow_White::]

I've been single...
My whole life!

And I'm fine with that.

I think I've only had about 3 real crushes...
Yeah.

[CheezDoodle]

At least none of you ever had to deal with a gay boyfriend. And I'm a girl. But my gay boyfriend 'broke up' with me because it was making my other friend 'feel bad'. :mad:

[ginnygirl102]

I am single and I would love to be proud of it but the truth is I miss having a boyfriend so much! And the worst part is that my last boyfriend dumped me then started dating my best friend a week later.:eek: I KNOW I don't like him anymore but seeing them together still hurts. Just knowing that they don't know or care how bad they both hurt me.

And now this guy has been all over me lately and I just think he wants to do stuff with me, I know he doesn't really like me. A huge part of me and saying "God no, stay away from him." But another part is loving the attention. I haven't gotten real guy attention in so long and it feels good. I don't want to go against my better judgement though, anyone got any advice? To either situation.:confused3

Well I think you should give this guy a chance but if he only wants to do stuff with you break up with him FAST!! And to your sitch with your ex my friend is goin through the same thing and I'm gonna tell you wat I told her, You should build a bridge and get over it!! It may take a while to build the bridge because Rome wasn't built in a day and your bridge won't be built in a day either but it shouldn't take too long so just be proud and srong or whatever and Think about giving that other guy a chance!
Peace out!

[Sparx]

Wow,

Im sorry.

life goes on. i'm tired of being sad about him.

she makes him feel really hot, because she wants to get laid, and shes playing him. she makes him feel good about himself, because shes really hot and she wants him. i give it two weeks at best. then she'll cheat on himbreak his heart and he'll be alone and sad becasue he lost his virginity to a ho.

[Babyjustrun]

Things are.. okay right now I guess.
I can't figure out whether I have a crush on this guy or not. Whether I actually like him, like him because it's the first guy who's paid attention to me in a real long while, or if he just makes me happy. I can't make up my mind. And right now I can't figure out a way to really find some time to get to know him better. I have classes with him all day, but none where I can really hang out with him.
I wish I could figure it out, I wish I could just say 'Let's hang out this weekend' or whatever. For some reason, I think things are more complicated than they really are.

[VolleyballQt07]

I like this guy. But I am too shy to talk to him. My friend thinks I should ask talk to him. He always looks at me, and I always look at him. I know he is shy too but yeah. So IDK what to do. And I have told my friend multiple times that I do not do well talking to the opposite sex when I like them..........=/

[ginnygirl102]

I like this guy. But I am too shy to talk to him. My friend thinks I should ask talk to him. He always looks at me, and I always look at him. I know he is shy too but yeah. So IDK what to do. And I have told my friend multiple times that I do not do well talking to the opposite sex when I like them..........=/

I think you should talk to him because I am in the same sitch but the guy used to like me at the same time i liked him and he never told me until the beginning of this year and I dunno if he still likes me but he likes me and this other girl and we are best friends but she dont like him and she knows i like him so I'm good but he is shy too so I out of luck if I want him to admit that he likes me but you should really talk to him and hang out with him but not so much that it's creepy! Get to know him and when you guys are good friends go for it dude!
Peace Out!

[life of the party]

It seems to me like almost everyone on the dis is very shy twards the oposite sex.. (except sparx aparently who went up to that guy YOU GO GIRL [: )

i am the total oposite (: i go right up to them & im like "heeeeeyy hottieeeeeeeee" . its quite fun (:

to me, best & fastest way to get a date. because they think its funny & they flirt backk . thats just me i guess.

i like my way :D

[Babyjustrun]

I wouldn't say I'm shy towards guys. I'm fine with talking to them, and the ones I like. Heck, the ones I like are generally the ones I talk to the most.
They're usually the easiest to talk to.
And they're usually the ones who don't like me back xD

[Ms.Squeakers]

life goes on. i'm tired of being sad about him.

she makes him feel really hot, because she wants to get laid, and shes playing him. she makes him feel good about himself, because shes really hot and she wants him. i give it two weeks at best. then she'll cheat on himbreak his heart and he'll be alone and sad becasue he lost his virginity to a ho.

Thats depressing to read.
Probably even more depressing to write.
Even more depressing to witness
The most depressing to be there.
The worst depressing to have that be you.

You honestly dont deserve that kind of stuff, and if he is like that then thats a good lesson to learn to stay away from people like that.
You are a great person, I dont see how or why someone would ever hurt you like that.

Karma will happen.:goodvibes

[life of the party]

Thats depressing to read.
Probably even more depressing to write.
Even more depressing to witness
The most depressing to be there.
The worst depressing to have that be you.

You honestly dont deserve that kind of stuff, and if he is like that then thats a good lesson to learn to stay away from people like that.
You are a great person, I dont see how or why someone would ever hurt you like that.

Karma will happen.:goodvibes

this sittuation is just depressing isnt it ? hahaha

i know i shouldnt be making jokes about this because its aful but i just had to say that !
sorry :D

[StitchfansJr]

Edit

[Sparx]

i was sad when he broke up with me.
i was sad when i first started thinking he'd cheated.
i was sad when i realized he cheated.
i was sad when i realized how much he'd lied to me.
i was sad when i realized i was probably the last to find out.

i'm done being sad.

i was angry when he broke up with me.
i was angry when i found out he cheated.
i was angry when i found out who he cheated with.

i'm done being angry.

now i'm going to sit back and watch the drama unfold. she's going to cheat on him, just like she cheated on her ex, and it'll knock him flat on his face. i can see it happening, but he's blinded by lust. i'll be here when she knocks him down. i'll help him stand back up again, but when he tries to crawl back to me, i won't take him back. i'm not angry. i'm not sad. but i won't be disrespected that way again.

I am not second best to a pregnant, cheating, white trash, man stealing, hoochie.

[JessBell**]

http://i250.photobucket.com/albums/gg242/KUFAN00/Photo_Jon-Bon-Jovi_304RGB.jpg=http://i250.photobucket.com/albums/gg242/KUFAN00/thLOVE-1.gif

I WUV MY BON JOVI

[Damhsa04]

I had this huge crush on a guy this year. I told him and we used to talk every night through text and stuff. But we never hung out. This went on for a month and a half. Finally I just gave up on him because we used to make plans and then for some reason he wouldnt be able to pull through.

Now I kinda like this other guy but with my luck in the next couple of years he'll probably come out of the closet.

[#1TiggerFan]

I like this guy. But I am too shy to talk to him. My friend thinks I should ask talk to him. He always looks at me, and I always look at him. I know he is shy too but yeah. So IDK what to do. And I have told my friend multiple times that I do not do well talking to the opposite sex when I like them..........=/

that's like me except he's not shy! i am!:guilty:

[VolleyballQt07]

I think you should talk to him because I am in the same sitch but the guy used to like me at the same time i liked him and he never told me until the beginning of this year and I dunno if he still likes me but he likes me and this other girl and we are best friends but she dont like him and she knows i like him so I'm good but he is shy too so I out of luck if I want him to admit that he likes me but you should really talk to him and hang out with him but not so much that it's creepy! Get to know him and when you guys are good friends go for it dude!
Peace Out!
Yeah not gonna happen anytime soon! My friend is willing to talk to him for me but I think that would make things really awkward because I wasn't a big girl and talk to him myself. But IDK what to do. I'm thinking about just waiting a little bit. I know he notices me because he always looks at me in math. And in the hallways/lunch. *sighs* God, why are crushes so difficult?

that's like me except he's not shy! i am!:guilty:
Like he's shy and quiet when he's not with his friends. But get him with his friend and he'll open up. Same with me though................but a thing I am worried about is that he's friends with the popluar people so IDK if I add up to them? But really, I don't care about that, and I really don't think he should consider that but whatever. Hopefully things will start happening soon. =/

[ginnygirl102]

Yeah not gonna happen anytime soon! My friend is willing to talk to him for me but I think that would make things really awkward because I wasn't a big girl and talk to him myself. But IDK what to do. I'm thinking about just waiting a little bit. I know he notices me because he always looks at me in math. And in the hallways/lunch. *sighs* God, why are crushes so difficult?


Like he's shy and quiet when he's not with his friends. But get him with his friend and he'll open up. Same with me though................but a thing I am worried about is that he's friends with the popluar people so IDK if I add up to them? But really, I don't care about that, and I really don't think he should consider that but whatever. Hopefully things will start happening soon. =/

OMG! Your sitch is the same as mine! The guy I like is shy except when he is around his friends too and he looks at me in all my classes (he's in all my classes isn't that awesome!) and I look at him but u didn't have to go through him liking you once and liking both you and 1 of your really good friends! Just get to know him! It's not like you have to ask him out right when you walk up to him! Just wait until you guys are really good friends and ask him who he likes and who knos maybe it'll be you! When I asked the guy I like who he likes at the time we both liked each other but didn't know it he told me a lie which he told me was a lie later and I think he liked me when he lied too! but he got freaked out bec i would always talk to him and pass notes to him and walk with him to lunch! Then he stopped liking me 4 a while but his twin sis told me he is startin to like me again so YAY!! Well I say you should get to kno your guy and then see if he likes you!!:love:
Peace Out!!

[meeshheartsdisney217]

i talk to the opposite sex much more than i talk to the same.
guys like me better than girls. i think that's cuz i treat guys better cuz most girls are just huge jerks.

but i talk to guys. and tell them i like them.
they just usually don't like me back.

[ginnygirl102]

i talk to the opposite sex much more than i talk to the same.
guys like me better than girls. i think that's cuz i treat guys better cuz most girls are just huge jerks.

but i talk to guys. and tell them i like them.
they just usually don't like me back.

I totally get along with a lot of guys better than a lot of girls bec girls are way too dramatic and that ticks me off bec that just makes us look like spoiled BRATS!!
Peace Out!

[llama62]

I broke up with my girlfriend last month but I have two friends who are girls to support me

[StitchfansJr]

I'm that type of girl who finds talking to guys are extremely difficult.:p I'd rather talk to a girl then a guy..cause it just seems easier.

[3mtn-kate]

i talk to the opposite sex much more than i talk to the same.
guys like me better than girls. i think that's cuz i treat guys better cuz most girls are just huge jerks.

but i talk to guys. and tell them i like them.
they just usually don't like me back.


that was me in elementary school i had one friend who was a girl and the rest of my friends were guys, it was so much more fun until like 4th and 5th grade when the actually figured out i was a girl and decided to make my life completely miserable and make it so i had absolutely no friends at all...

not even exaggerating it was a hellish 2 years

[life of the party]

I totally get along with a lot of guys better than a lot of girls bec girls are way too dramatic and that ticks me off bec that just makes us look like spoiled BRATS!!
Peace Out!

omfgg i know !
i like guys better.
because if guys get in fights they get pisttttt
and then their like all cool-chill !
ughhhh . im jealous !
guys have it way better ):
& sometimes i just like hanging with the guys because i can kid around more

[cinnamon1332]

single and random yay me:happytv: ;) :lmao:

[#1TiggerFan]

i found my thread! ya'll can post away!
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Yestreday at school we were playing battle ball and i was on my crushes team. some starnge kid on the other team threw a ball at his foot. so as he got hit it bounced off his foot, i thought it bounced off the ground i i went to catch it and i caught it! i didn't know untill he said i not out! and ran right up to me and started to jump and stuff! and soo i started jumping too! i was soo happy for me and him!

[Ms.Squeakers]

Bring it on!

Alrightie
So.. I like this guy and lets just say...he died before I was born XD

Okay okay no,
heres me story.


I like 2 guys. The problem is
one is extremely popular and tons of girls like him and hes in my grade.
The other one is a year older then me and is kinda popular...but in a differentway.

Example :
The first guy :
Sweet
Funny
Laughs at my stupid jokes :)
Doesnt dis Freddie Mercury
Everytime we touch I seriously loose control and shiver deep down inside.
He is the quiet mysterious type (not to me though)

The second guy :
Super sweet
Remembers things even I dont remember until he says them
Says hes sorry because he forgot to say hello to me that day.
He says he likes being around me *squeal*
He is like one of my best friends.


I feel so weird, but at the same time I think I like the second one more just because he remembers me.
At the same time, I feel guilty that I like him because it would be a hypocrite thing of me to do... *PM me if you want to know the entire story of that*

[Tinkerbell424]

I hung out with my crush today.
We shared a seat and too put a picture together. My friend even got him to put his arm around me for the picture.

Ahh it was an amazing day.<3

[#1TiggerFan]

I hung out with my crush today.
We shared a seat and too put a picture together. My friend even got him to put his arm around me for the picture.

Ahh it was an amazing day.<3

do u have the pictures?

[Tinkerbell424]

do u have the pictures?

Yesh. I'm going to post it later on the SYF thread. :)

[#1TiggerFan]

ok

[#1TiggerFan]

I hung out with my crush today.
We shared a seat and too put a picture together. My friend even got him to put his arm around me for the picture.

Ahh it was an amazing day.<3

what did u and ur crush do? did ya'll see a movie or what?

[life of the party]

I hung out with my crush today.
We shared a seat and too put a picture together. My friend even got him to put his arm around me for the picture.

Ahh it was an amazing day.<3

howw cuutee (:
im jealouss !

[Tinkerbell424]

what did u and ur crush do? did ya'll see a movie or what?

I was volunteering at a carnival and his family was working the booth right next to mine. So after a while my friends came over to my booth and he was at our booth.

We talked and hung out.
I took his seat and he made me move over so he could sit there too. (There were 2 other seats open.)

awwwwwwwwwww.

[3mtn-kate]

o god okay we have a semi formal at school in april and people are already GETTING ASKED omg i'm freaking out i really dont need this pressure and stress right now but everyone is asking me who i was to ask me and who i'm gonna ask and it's just GRRRRRRR...

k i just had 2 vent 4 a second

[joepic]

I'm single

all the girls in my school are stupid

[#1TiggerFan]

I was volunteering at a carnival and his family was working the booth right next to mine. So after a while my friends came over to my booth and he was at our booth.

We talked and hung out.
I took his seat and he made me move over so he could sit there too. (There were 2 other seats open.)

awwwwwwwwwww.

u 2 look so cute!:goodvibes

[3mtn-kate]

I'm single

all the girls in my school are stupid

nice...

lol;)

[CastawayJ]

single, probly gonna stay that way for a while

my friend thinks that when we go on a trip to richmond in april that he is gonna walk into our hotel room and find me on the bed doing anythig from kissing to...

i just tell him that we are there representing our YMCE (in this mock congress) and tht this is farthest from my mind

i don't know why i am saying all this

[Sparx]

I got a date to this Military Ball that I'm working in May. Tyler's gonna be there, but he's going single. He suggested my date, actually. Ty and I still talk, which is good I guess. I dunno what's happening with him and that girl, i've not asked.

[#1TiggerFan]

hi guys! well this morin i was with my friends and my crush comes up and says to us what r ya'll goin to do at the talent show and of course i look the other way and he starts to stare at me the whole time! well little shy me says i'm gonna play the piano and then people ask if we we were going to do volleyball and i said yes and once i said that he starts to stare again! well little me i walk off and i scared but in a good way.

[Cassidy]

I like this guy names Reid.
Hes in my avatar. with the blue Backpack.

But i really dont wanna give you any boy trouble. I think im starting to realize all this stuff i say is stupid. i dont need a boy in my life. XD

[dancergirlsasha]

I like this guy names Reid.
Hes in my avatar. with the blue Backpack.

But i really dont wanna give you any boy trouble. I think im starting to realize all this stuff i say is stupid. i dont need a boy in my life. XD

I'm realizing the same exact thing. Whenever I listen to myself go on about my crush, I think about the fact that if I was someone else I would probably punch me.

[Lizbon]

I'm realizing the same exact thing. Whenever I listen to myself go on about my crush, I think about the fact that if I was someone else I would probably punch me.

:lmao: :lmao: :rotfl: :rotfl: That was so funny! Just the way you worded it and everything. I feel the same way sometimes. I think to myself "okay this person is probably getting really annoyed." but then I go insane when I don't say something.

Not just if I like someone, just if I'm talking about one thing for too long.

[Ms.Squeakers]

Okay,
This might sound really weird, that Im changing my crushes around because Im shallow...WRONG.

Alll wrong.

Really wrong.

I actually TALKED to this guy that I thought was cute :blush: for the longest time,
and he was really nice, plus I learned a LOT about him in 5 minutes.

It was the most amazing case of clicking I have ever had before.

:goodvibes


(Other then Queen, that was pure love at 0 seconds.... ♥)

But..
I dont like him.
Yet.

I could possibly.
I dont know him enough at all to like him.


So for now Im sticking to Orange :flower3:

[ginnygirl102]

OMG!!! Today I started a new class (we have 12-week courses) and we all stay with the same people and my crush is in my class!!!! Today we had assigned seats and me and him sit right next to each other and there is nobody else around us so I felt all wierd when we were just sitting there not saying a word when all of a sudden, he starts talkin to me and I talk to him and IT WAS MAGICAL!!! Ok I'm getting a little over entusiastic here but you guys and girls know that feeling when you really like someone!!! And those of you who have read my other posts on this thread know my story!!
Peace Out!

[Babyjustrun]

Oh I don't even know if I like anyone or who I like.
There's too many guys shoved into my life right now, and I can't make up who's a friend, who's a crush and who's just a person who doesn't mean anything.

[miniminniemouse]

same here
right now i am dealing with my friends crushes and what happens to them rather than who i hav a crush on. but i dont really like anyone

[miniminniemouse]

when do u guys think a guy likes u

[Rockstar mentality]

what u said sounds quite homosexual. What do u mean? When do the grls on this board think guys like them?

[HDD]

fdgfbhghj

[DisneyGirl003]

Ok I like this boy and I am not sure if he likes me but i dont have the nerve to ask him to go oout! I liked him last year and the other thing is that ALL my friends dont like him and say how gay he is and so i dont want to make a fool of myself either

[CastawayJ]

i can't believe it

7:25

we are underrepresented

[Lizbon]

Ok I like this boy and I am not sure if he likes me but i dont have the nerve to ask him to go oout! I liked him last year and the other thing is that ALL my friends dont like him and say how gay he is and so i dont want to make a fool of myself either

Okay, first of all how old are you? Because my advice kind of depends on age.

If you like him go for it. Don't be worried about what your friends think. If they think he is "gay" then they need a wake up call. It is so rude that people go around saying that kind of stuff. So what if he is gay? You will never know if you don't find out from him yourself. Don't let your friends opinions about him get in the way of how you feel.

[disney100666]

I'm single and honestly don't care.
Every guy is immature and not cute.

[ohdisco]

I'm engaged and lovin' it.

omg, haha...that sentence totally reminded me of a totally off-topic story. The guy who coined "I'm Lovin' It" committed suicide. On digg, next to the story about it was one of those pop-out advertisements for a McSkillet and in big letters it was like, "I'M LOVIN' IT". It was hoorrriibbllee.

Anywho, yes, I love it. I've had horrible, horrible relationships in the past, and this one is nice. First boyfriend sexually and emotionally abused me (I was 14, he was 19). Second boyfriend decided that he liked my best friend better, so he broke up with me a day after she broke up with her boyfriend. Um, too bad she thought he was horrible and left him alone and cold. Eric and I are just the right kind of people for each other.

[DisneyGirl003]

Okay, first of all how old are you? Because my advice kind of depends on age.

If you like him go for it. Don't be worried about what your friends think. If they think he is "gay" then they need a wake up call. It is so rude that people go around saying that kind of stuff. So what if he is gay? You will never know if you don't find out from him yourself. Don't let your friends opinions about him get in the way of how you feel.



Well I am sorry I can not tell you my age even though you seem sweet but srry just a personal issue i have i wont give my age to people i dont know srry


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[Ms.Squeakers]

Question :


What does it mean when someone :

Moves their seat away from their best friends to sit next to you
Remembers the little stuff
Says sorry for not saying hello (or talking)
Doesnt mind bein goofayz with ya?
Compliments you (saying how prettay you look n..stuff)

I have no idea what it menas.
Friends!? :O
I hopez so

[cindys_castle2011]

ok i'll start!
i like this boy, he's super cute and funny:flower3: but the bad part is i'm to darn shy!:headache: our school doesn't have dances so i can't ask him out or nobodys b-day is coming up:mad: so... NEED GUY HELP!!!!:guilty:
Rachel:3dglasses

ahh well what i would do is, talk to his friends get to know them. when i like a boy i always make friends with his friends. cause usually their easy to open up to and give you good advise on how to get him. or they can keep you updated on how they feel about you . =)

[cindys_castle2011]

Question :


What does it mean when someone :

Moves their seat away from their best friends to sit next to you
Remembers the little stuff
Says sorry for not saying hello (or talking)
Doesnt mind bein goofayz with ya?
Compliments you (saying how prettay you look n..stuff)

I have no idea what it menas.
Friends!? :O
I hopez so

ugh maybe a little more than friends ;)
-hmmm if they pick you over their friends they like you for sure.
-i love when guys remember the little things, plus it means they care.
-if they apologize for not talking, they obviously wanted to, but didnt have
time.
-ahhh being goofy and still feeling comfortable around someone if def. a plus.
hmmm i say he likes you.

[cindys_castle2011]

Ok I like this boy and I am not sure if he likes me but i dont have the nerve to ask him to go oout! I liked him last year and the other thing is that ALL my friends dont like him and say how gay he is and so i dont want to make a fool of myself either

well at my school you can call someone gay and your really saying that their dumb/immature/ ect. or do they really think hes gay? but i dont like dating someone who my friends dont like. your friends will be there forever, their the ones who breaks the guys faces after he breaks your heart! ;)
but i made a mistake last time and dated someone my friends told me not too. they said he was a jerk and all that, but of coarse i didnt listen and in the end they were right. so remember your fiends always knows best and their just looking out for you. :thumbsup2

[Lizbon]

well at my school you can call someone gay and your really saying that their dumb/immature/ ect. or do they really think hes gay? but i dont like dating someone who my friends dont like. your friends will be there forever, their the ones who breaks the guys faces after he breaks your heart! ;)
but i made a mistake last time and dated someone my friends told me not too. they said he was a jerk and all that, but of coarse i didnt listen and in the end they were right. so remember your fiends always knows best and their just looking out for you. :thumbsup2

See my opinion is, if your friends think the guy is a jerk or they don't trust him, don't go out with him. If your friends just think he's weird, I think its a little different.

[Ms.Squeakers]

ugh maybe a little more than friends ;)
-hmmm if they pick you over their friends they like you for sure.
-i love when guys remember the little things, plus it means they care.
-if they apologize for not talking, they obviously wanted to, but didnt have
time.
-ahhh being goofy and still feeling comfortable around someone if def. a plus.
hmmm i say he likes you.



So

You think he is my friend?

:cutie:

[cindys_castle2011]

This guy named Tyler met me at a birthday party last may. He was instantly flirting with me and all that. We were both in other relationships at the time. His attraction and attention towards me never waivered though. There was one time he drove 13 miles, back the way he'd just traveled to see me. He really liked me. It was all innocent flirting back and forth until december of last year. He asked me to go to the christmas dance with him. let me tell you, I was super excited. we really hit it off, and he asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes.

about three weeks later, i go to disney world. the night before i left, he texted me and broke up with me. we had gotten off teh phone like ten minutes before hand. i was crushed. I mean, he was acting like everything was fine, and he wouldn't talk to me. in the text, he said "please forgive me for my actions."

we get back to school two days later, and he didn't say a word to me. the next day i had been tutoring and i got finished about six minutes before wrestling practice let out. i was walking out to the parkinglot, and we crossed paths. I said "how much longer are we gonna keep playing this 'i won't talk first' game, cause i mean, i love winning, but its getting a little childish" i finally got him to say, "the kind of person you are is not the kind of person I want to be with."

well, i got over it. i stopped crying, i stopped moping and i stopped caring about wanting to be with him. but lately, i've been waivering on that feeling. lately my feelings have been redeveloping. he and i are still good friends, so i told him. he said he didn't feel the same. okay, no big deal.

he and i were planning on hanging out this weekend, and i called him about it last night. he tells me that this girl he works with (akita) asked him out today. my jaw hit the floor. he said, 'let me think about it' to her. i know tyler. that means yes. he went on to tell me that she and her boyfriend broke up a month ago. (jan 14, approx) and he tells me that she was messing around with tyler before they broke up (which is why they broke up) about two or three weeks before hand (this puts us in late december or early january. when tyler and i were together.) he didn't flat out tell me, but he told me that he was cheating on me with her.

fastforward to about an hour later after we got off teh phone. i finally call him back and say, "tyler, were you cheating on me with akita? when you said you and she were messing around, you told me that was happening when you and i were still together. " he said, "no, those dates were rough. i don't remember exact times. its not like we were actually messing around or anything though, it was just a little touching here and there" if he hadn't explained any further and just said "no" i would have believed him. his guilty conscience made him try to justify it to me. (now, i really know him very well. we're close friends, i konw how he lies, and he was lying)

i fell apart. i cried for like two hours. it wouldn't hurt so bad if he had been, god i don't know, drunk or high or something, but he did it SOBER and AT WORK and with a hoochie. Akita is pregnant by the 20something year old ex boyfriend she was cheating on with tyler. shes a ho. (this isn't a catty girl saying this, i'm being flat out honest. she's slept around with tons and tons of people.)

it hurts to realize someone would rather be with a white trash ho than be with you. I mean, if shes better than me, how bad must i be?

:hug:
truthfully, (sorry bout the guys on here) i think alot of guys are just after one thing. and if they dont get it, they want to move on to someone more skankier that will. you seem like a really nice person and someone who def. doesnt deserve to be treated the way you was. i know its really hard, i hate it when ppl tell me this, but i would try & move on. it sucks to be cheated on.
ive never been cheated on but my best friend has and i stayed up night after night with her listening to her cry. so i have an idea on how bad it is. but if he wants to go off and do what he did, with that chick and then not even let you know about it, hes not worth it.

[Lizbon]

Well I am sorry I can not tell you my age even though you seem sweet but srry just a personal issue i have i wont give my age to people i dont know srry


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That is perfectly fine. I don't give my age out either. I wasn't really asking you for your age, my point was this:

If you are younger, I wouldn't really worry about it that much. Having a boyfriend when your younger, to me, is pointless. If you like someone and they like you, thats great but if you want a boyfriend just to say you have one (I know a few people who are like this), then the relationship is pointless.

If you are a bit older, and you really like this guy go for it. Like I said above, if your friends don't trust him and they think he is a jerk, maybe you shouldn't pursue him. If they just thnk he is weird and he's not omeone they would date, I say go for it.

[cindys_castle2011]

So

You think he is my friend?

:cutie:

define friend?? :)
i really think he likes you to be honest.

[cindys_castle2011]

See my opinion is, if your friends think the guy is a jerk or they don't trust him, don't go out with him. If your friends just think he's weird, I think its a little different.

yeah, i wasnt saying dont date him if they just dont like him for no specific reason. i was saying if they really have a bad vibe about him or something.
:)

[Ms.Squeakers]

define friend?? :)
i really think he likes you to be honest.

Like...like like!?


I dunno..

Friend :

Hang out
When saying goodbye give hug (NO not a ...intense hug. Ew. No. Like... "Alright ill see ya later grandma" type hug)
Uhm...
Talk on a regular basis..
Share life events

I dont know how you would define friend..but thats my definition.

[Rockstar mentality]

:hug:
truthfully, (sorry bout the guys on here) i think alot of guys are just after one thing. and if they dont get it, they want to move on to someone more skankier that will. you seem like a really nice person and someone who def. doesnt deserve to be treated the way you was. i know its really hard, i hate it when ppl tell me this, but i would try & move on. it sucks to be cheated on.
ive never been cheated on but my best friend has and i stayed up night after night with her listening to her cry. so i have an idea on how bad it is. but if he wants to go off and do what he did, with that chick and then not even let you know about it, hes not worth it.

ok ok i will betray my own gender by saying this. GENERALy guys are looking for "onething" but when a guy finds someone special then that "onething" doesent matter and all that we want is a smile of he grls face.

[cindys_castle2011]

Like...like like!?


I dunno..

Friend :

Hang out
When saying goodbye give hug (NO not a ...intense hug. Ew. No. Like... "Alright ill see ya later grandma" type hug)
Uhm...
Talk on a regular basis..
Share life events

I dont know how you would define friend..but thats my definition.

well yeah thats how i see friend.
hmm i guess like like (as a future boyfriend/girlfriend)
he would smile a lot when hes around you, he'll look you in the eyes when your talking to him, or vice versa. ect.

[cindys_castle2011]

ok ok i will betray my own gender by saying this. GENERALy guys are looking for "onething" but when a guy finds someone special then that "onething" doesent matter and all that we want is a smile of he grls face.

ahh dang that gave me chills. =)) its sad but its true. (the first part)

[Rockstar mentality]

both parts are true. But honestly the safest way to not get hurt if your a grl is go for the inexperienced boys. They dont know the manipulativee ways yet soo they are less likely to hurt you

[Ms.Squeakers]

well yeah thats how i see friend.
hmm i guess like like (as a future boyfriend/girlfriend)
he would smile a lot when hes around you, he'll look you in the eyes when your talking to him, or vice versa. ect.


Yeah.
He stares straight into them
BUT.
Isnt that normal?

I thought it was....until now i guess??

Yeah future boyfriend in like...3 years xD
IF he would ever consider me like that. Which i dont think he would. Maybe..I guess I dont know.

[cindys_castle2011]

both parts are true. But honestly the safest way to not get hurt if your a grl is go for the inexperienced boys. They dont know the manipulativee ways yet soo they are less likely to hurt you

well then come to my town and tell me if you find an inexperienced boy =X.
haha

[cindys_castle2011]

Yeah.
He stares straight into them
BUT.
Isnt that normal?

I thought it was....until now i guess??

Yeah future boyfriend in like...3 years xD
IF he would ever consider me like that. Which i dont think he would. Maybe..I guess I dont know.

ahh you seem just a tad confused. lol.
but not really if your talking to a boy and they are looking you directly in the eyes the entire time. it means they are listening and want to know what you have to say. but 3 years?? wow loonnng time. or you young or just saying that?

[Rockstar mentality]

well then come to my town and tell me if you find an inexperienced boy =X.
haha

same in my town but im pretty sure a couple have to exist..... somewhere

[ohdisco]

both parts are true. But honestly the safest way to not get hurt if your a grl is go for the inexperienced boys. They dont know the manipulativee ways yet soo they are less likely to hurt you

Not always so. It can be also how they're raised. I know people who are extremely manipulative in their first relationships because they're parents are manipulative.

I wouldn't talk in generalities about topics like sex. I don't feel that in general guys only want sex or to hook up, or whatever. I would say there is a large population of guys who only want that, but not in general.

[::Snow_White::]

Uhhh.
Single.
My whole life.
Go me!
=D

But seriously I haven't really met a guy I really like. Although I haven't met many guys, but all I see of most of the guys at school they are jerks and immature. I liked someone a couple months ago, but not anymore. He was very nice from what I knew of him, problem was just that though. I hadn't really ever talked to him. I didn't know much about him, just that he was real nice and smart.

I could really care less if I'm single my whole highschool life or not. I think I'd rather be actually.
I want to be able to focus on my schooling and my future fully instead of a guy...
Once schooling is over though, I'd be fine on finding someone if they came around. :)

[Ms.Squeakers]

ahh you seem just a tad confused. lol.
but not really if your talking to a boy and they are looking you directly in the eyes the entire time. it means they are listening and want to know what you have to say. but 3 years?? wow loonnng time. or you young or just saying that?

Nah.
Im being totally serious xD
in 3 years I will be 15 *actually...really darn close to 16*


Yes.
I am VERY confused, my friends make up stuff to make me happy, when all I want is the truth.


Well.
He always pays attention when I talk.
No wonder he remembers the little stuff.


:rotfl:

So yes.
Im very confused.

[ohdisco]

same in my town but im pretty sure a couple have to exist..... somewhere

I'm sure there are quite a few guys in both of your towns that are inexperienced. There are guys who are pretty secretive about it (out of embarrassment or they just don't feel it's anybody's business), and guys also lie. Biigg time.

[dancergirlsasha]

well yeah thats how i see friend.
hmm i guess like like (as a future boyfriend/girlfriend)
he would smile a lot when hes around you, he'll look you in the eyes when your talking to him, or vice versa. ect.

Does that really mean a guy likes you?! This is darn good news.

[cindys_castle2011]

Not always so. It can be also how they're raised. I know people who are extremely manipulative in their first relationships because they're parents are manipulative.

I wouldn't talk in generalities about topics like sex. I don't feel that in general guys only want sex or to hook up, or whatever. I would say there is a large population of guys who only want that, but not in general.

mmhmm, but like this guy im talking to now. He was raised in a very nice home. I know his family/cousin/his friends. and Their all the kind of people i would love to be with. But he was done things with past girlfriends. But hes really not that kind of guy if you know what i mean.

[ohdisco]

Nah.
Im being totally serious xD
in 3 years I will be 15 *actually...really darn close to 16*


Yes.
I am VERY confused, my friends make up stuff to make me happy, when all I want is the truth.


Well.
He always pays attention when I talk.
No wonder he remembers the little stuff.


:rotfl:

So yes.
Im very confused.

The best answer you will ever get: just ask him. Honestly, we can go back and forth telling you what we feel, but it might be completely off as to what he feels. I know it's really embarrassing and you'll think "easier said than done", but honestly if you get into the habit of not putting too much pressure on it, the anxiety of situations like this will get much better.

[cindys_castle2011]

Nah.
Im being totally serious xD
in 3 years I will be 15 *actually...really darn close to 16*


Yes.
I am VERY confused, my friends make up stuff to make me happy, when all I want is the truth.


Well.
He always pays attention when I talk.
No wonder he remembers the little stuff.


:rotfl:

So yes.
Im very confused.

well.. your not to to young. umm when friends make up things they usually just do it not to hurt you, and sometimes that better than knowing the truth and not getting hurt.

[cindys_castle2011]

The best answer you will ever get: just ask him. Honestly, we can go back and forth telling you what we feel, but it might be completely off as to what he feels. I know it's really embarrassing and you'll think "easier said than done", but honestly if you get into the habit of not putting too much pressure on it, the anxiety of situations like this will get much better.

:thumbsup2 :thumbsup2 :thumbsup2
couldnt have said it better myself.

[Ms.Squeakers]

The best answer you will ever get: just ask him. Honestly, we can go back and forth telling you what we feel, but it might be completely off as to what he feels. I know it's really embarrassing and you'll think "easier said than done", but honestly if you get into the habit of not putting too much pressure on it, the anxiety of situations like this will get much better.

Well.
Thats what I mean.
Its too odd for me to do, not because im embarassed but because i dont want to ask him if he likes me and completely distroy the friendship AND never talk to him again.
I feel its best to wait it off 3 years.
When it "really matters most".

[Rockstar mentality]

Does that really mean a guy likes you?! This is darn good news.
nooo. i have an impulse to do that when im talking to any grrl thats not a friend of mine. unfortuanly that has led 2 many problems becaue alot of grls think that means a guy likes them but it doesenr nessacily mean that

[Ms.Squeakers]

well.. your not to to young. umm when friends make up things they usually just do it not to hurt you, and sometimes that better than knowing the truth and not getting hurt.

I dont care.
It takes alot to "hurt" me.

I mean, I like knowing the truth to know what im going against.

[ohdisco]

mmhmm, but like this guy im talking to now. He was raised in a very nice home. I know his family/cousin/his friends. and Their all the kind of people i would love to be with. But he was done things with past girlfriends. But hes really not that kind of guy if you know what i mean.

I know what you mean. Well, if you like his personality and he seems like a nice guy, I don't see what's wrong with being experienced. As long as you hold your boundaries and never let him manipulate you into doing something you're not ready to do, it should be ok.

[dancergirlsasha]

nooo. i have an impulse to do that when im talking to any grrl thats not a friend of mine. unfortuanly that has led 2 many problems becaue alot of grls think that means a guy likes them but it doesenr nessacily mean that

Oh. Well, can you like give any specific signs for how to tell if a guy likes you? I'm pretty desperate over here. :P

[cindys_castle2011]

Does that really mean a guy likes you?! This is darn good news.

hmm its always meant that for me. like one night after a ball game we was all standing around waiting for our rides. it was me, my crush, his friend, and mine friend and my cousin. and i was talking about something, and he was the only one looking at me directly in the eyes<3 we started dating three days later =)

[ohdisco]

Well.
Thats what I mean.
Its too odd for me to do, not because im embarassed but because i dont want to ask him if he likes me and completely distroy the friendship AND never talk to him again.
I feel its best to wait it off 3 years.
When it "really matters most".

Why wait 3 years? Is that a personal/parental limit? Like, no boyfriends until 16 or whatever?

[dancergirlsasha]

hmm its always meant that for me. like one night after a ball game we was all standing around waiting for our rides. it was me, my crush, his friend, and mine friend and my cousin. and i was talking about something, and he was the only one looking at me directly in the eyes<3 we started dating three days later =)

Awwww. That was like the cutest story ever. I'm jealous. :goodvibes

[Rockstar mentality]

Oh. Well, can you like give any specific signs for how to tell if a guy likes you? I'm pretty desperate over here. :P

well if a guy goess 100% out of his way for you then thats a really good sign. but all people are diffrent. i could give you general signs but they wouldnt apply to all people soo it may lead to trouble

[cindys_castle2011]

I know what you mean. Well, if you like his personality and he seems like a nice guy, I don't see what's wrong with being experienced. As long as you hold your boundaries and never let him manipulate you into doing something you're not ready to do, it should be ok.

oh yess. im very good at doing what i want to do, and not what someone wants me to do. and plus i dont think he would ever put me in that situation, like i said hes not that kinda guy. =)

[cindys_castle2011]

Awwww. That was like the cutest story ever. I'm jealous. :goodvibes

:). well were not together anymore. not cause of anything bad. he just moved. ugh military family =(. but were still friends and he comes down to visit and he still looks me in the eyes =X. haha

[cindys_castle2011]

well if a guy goess 100% out of his way for you then thats a really good sign. but all people are diffrent. i could give you general signs but they wouldnt apply to all people soo it may lead to trouble

mmk im with her. ive been talking to this guy. and he says he likes me, but he talks to a lot of girls. he said a lot of them he talks to he knows they like him. how would i know that he likes me?

[Ms.Squeakers]

hmm its always meant that for me. like one night after a ball game we was all standing around waiting for our rides. it was me, my crush, his friend, and mine friend and my cousin. and i was talking about something, and he was the only one looking at me directly in the eyes<3 we started dating three days later =)

Aw.
Thats really cute.
Its almost like one of those things where you know its like a fairytale and you always wonder when that will happen to you and then it hits you when you least expect it.


:)

[Ms.Squeakers]

well if a guy goess 100% out of his way for you then thats a really good sign. but all people are diffrent. i could give you general signs but they wouldnt apply to all people soo it may lead to trouble

What would going out of his way exactly?
What if a guy is friends with lots of girls, but they only see him as the friend type?


Hmph.
Ive got millions of questions and I know theres only one person that can answer them 100 percent and that person is the one I am afraid of...


Its so weird

I can tell him anything
EXCEPT THAT

[Rockstar mentality]

mmk im with her. ive been talking to this guy. and he says he likes me, but he talks to a lot of girls. he said a lot of them he talks to he knows they like him. how would i know that he likes me?

He said he likes you. Now that means
1 he accualy likes you
2 thinks ure hot and wants you as a girlfriend

Now to tell i would say ( ok this wont apply to super players cause they are really good and there is now way u can ever tell if a super player likes you or hes playin you) that if the guys does somthing specail for youday after day. like is late for a class just to walk you to ure class. etc as long as its special

[ohdisco]

Haha, speaking of fairy tales, lemme tell you the story of Eric and my first kiss:

SO THERE WE WERE (haha)...We were leaving my friend's house, and he gave me a piggyback ride back to my house. We got to the little walk way (where he had to duck cause he's so tall, haha), he put me down and walked me up to my door. He told me I looked lovely tonight, I said thank you. He looked at me, smiled, and looked like he was going in for a kiss. I smiled, and did the same.

Well...our height difference can be horrible sometimes. As we both go in for a cute fairy tale kiss...*BONK* His chin SLAMS into my face. We both weren't really looking (it was his first kiss ever, so his eyes were closed, and I always feel weird kissing with my eyes open, so I closed my eyes), so we didn't know how unclose we were, haha. We backed up, laughed, and went in for a real kiss.

[Rockstar mentality]

What would going out of his way exactly?
What if a guy is friends with lots of girls, but they only see him as the friend type?


Hmph.
Ive got millions of questions and I know theres only one person that can answer them 100 percent and that person is the one I am afraid of...


Its so weird

I can tell him anything
EXCEPT THAT

im friends with alot of grls and by no means do i like any of them. Accualy a grl asked me literly 5 mins ago if i liked her. This is ironic. Then the guy only see the friends (which happen 2 be grls) as friends no more no less. THat means that he does not like any of the grls which are his friends.

[cindys_castle2011]

He said he likes you. Now that means
1 he accualy likes you
2 thinks ure hot and wants you as a girlfriend

Now to tell i would say ( ok this wont apply to super players cause they are really good and there is now way u can ever tell if a super player likes you or hes playin you) that if the guys does somthing specail for youday after day. like is late for a class just to walk you to ure class. etc as long as its special

ugh we dont even go to the same school =X
i use to go to that school though.
the towns are both small and right next to each other.
so everybody knows everybody. you get it.
And hes 17 and im only 14, but that really doesnt seem to bother him. =)

but what if he says goodnight like every single night, does that mean anything or does he just say it cause hes going to bed. lol.

[cindys_castle2011]

Haha, speaking of fairy tales, lemme tell you the story of Eric and my first kiss:

SO THERE WE WERE (haha)...We were leaving my friend's house, and he gave me a piggyback ride back to my house. We got to the little walk way (where he had to duck cause he's so tall, haha), he put me down and walked me up to my door. He told me I looked lovely tonight, I said thank you. He looked at me, smiled, and looked like he was going in for a kiss. I smiled, and did the same.

Well...our height difference can be horrible sometimes. As we both go in for a cute fairy tale kiss...*BONK* His chin SLAMS into my face. We both weren't really looking (it was his first kiss ever, so his eyes were closed, and I always feel weird kissing with my eyes open, so I closed my eyes), so we didn't know how unclose we were, haha. We backed up, laughed, and went in for a real kiss.

:lovestruc :lovestruc :lovestruc :lovestruc :lovestruc :lovestruc :lovestruc :lovestruc :lovestruc :lovestruc :lovestruc :lovestruc :lovestruc :lovestruc :lovestruc :lovestruc times a billion and threee.

[Rockstar mentality]

goo dnight in person, on the phone, or online?

[Ms.Squeakers]

Why wait 3 years? Is that a personal/parental limit? Like, no boyfriends until 16 or whatever?

No.
I just feel usless to date at any age before that.

Haha, speaking of fairy tales, lemme tell you the story of Eric and my first kiss:

SO THERE WE WERE (haha)...We were leaving my friend's house, and he gave me a piggyback ride back to my house. We got to the little walk way (where he had to duck cause he's so tall, haha), he put me down and walked me up to my door. He told me I looked lovely tonight, I said thank you. He looked at me, smiled, and looked like he was going in for a kiss. I smiled, and did the same.

Well...our height difference can be horrible sometimes. As we both go in for a cute fairy tale kiss...*BONK* His chin SLAMS into my face. We both weren't really looking (it was his first kiss ever, so his eyes were closed, and I always feel weird kissing with my eyes open, so I closed my eyes), so we didn't know how unclose we were, haha. We backed up, laughed, and went in for a real kiss.


Oh my gosh.
That is terribly cute.
:cutie:

im friends with alot of grls and by no means do i like any of them. Accualy a grl asked me literly 5 mins ago if i liked her. This is ironic. Then the guy only see the friends (which happen 2 be grls) as friends no more no less. THat means that he does not like any of the grls which are his friends.

Thats kind of what I figured.
Thanks.

[cindys_castle2011]

goo dnight in person, on the phone, or online?

well sometimes we'll be on the phone and when its getting late i say "hey im getting tired i'll talk to you in the morning and he'll be like "oh alright" then ill say okay bye. and he'll say "okay goodnight!"

If were texting he'll be like hey im bout to go to bed ill text you in the morning ill say okay he'll say night.

hmm then we rarely talk on myspace cause were texting all day anyways but since i been grounded with no phone! ;( he still says goodnight over the computer.

[Rockstar mentality]

with all honesty it sounds like ure blinded by love. Saying good night means nothing at alll. At 1130 wen people usualy go to bed on aim i say goodnight to them b4 they sign off. That doesnt mean that i like them

[ohdisco]

well sometimes we'll be on the phone and when its getting late i say "hey im getting tired i'll talk to you in the morning and he'll be like "oh alright" then ill say okay bye. and he'll say "okay goodnight!"

If were texting he'll be like hey im bout to go to bed ill text you in the morning ill say okay he'll say night.

hmm then we rarely talk on myspace cause were texting all day anyways but since i been grounded with no phone! ;( he still says goodnight over the computer.

Not a lot of guys put that much effort into people that they don't care for romantically.
I never talk on the phone to people I'm not close to, and the only guy besides boyfriends I've talked to on the phone has been my best guy friend.

[cindys_castle2011]

with all honesty it sounds like ure blinded by love. Saying good night means nothing at alll. At 1130 wen people usualy go to bed on aim i say goodnight to them b4 they sign off. That doesnt mean that i like them

yeah i know, but people arent nice around here, we dont tell ppl goodnight, haha
but idk, i just want to know what to look for, to tell if he likes me.

[Ms.Squeakers]

I say goodnight to people I hate.
I say goodnight to everyone.

Examples of saying goodnight in mouse language:

Nightie Noodles
Toodles with noodles
Toodle noodle!

OR

Night yall.
Aight im hittin the sack

[cindys_castle2011]

Not a lot of guys put that much effort into people that they don't care for romantically.
I never talk on the phone to people I'm not close to, and the only guy besides boyfriends I've talked to on the phone has been my best guy friend.

ugh yeah it took us so long to actually call one another =X.
we were always texting.

[Ms.Squeakers]

Texting is fun.
Except for the paying part.
Which is why Im glad my entire family has unlimited.
Its kinda cool i guess.

:D

[Rockstar mentality]

arround where? i understand that u dont want to give away where u liv ebut can u give me a general idea to work off of?

[cindys_castle2011]

Texting is fun.
Except for the paying part.
Which is why Im glad my entire family has unlimited.
Its kinda cool i guess.

:D

uhh yes!!
i was always getting in trouble for texting so much.
but we all have unlimited now.
When I first start talking to guys,
i always like texting more! for some reason.

but the first time he called me was late at night like 12.
and it was storming like realllllly bad. and he knows im
deathly afraid of thunderstorms. =X so he called me
so unexpectedly.

[cindys_castle2011]

arround where? i understand that u dont want to give away where u liv ebut can u give me a general idea to work off of?

ahh down south.
in Louisiana.

[ohdisco]

uhh yes!!
i was always getting in trouble for texting so much.
but we all have unlimited now.
When I first start talking to guys,
i always like texting more! for some reason.

but the first time he called me was late at night like 12.
and it was storming like realllllly bad. and he knows im
deathly afraid of thunderstorms. =X so he called me
so unexpectedly.

Aww, so cute!

[Ms.Squeakers]

Thats cool.
I dont know how special that is, it depens what type of town you live in.


In my neighborhood texting is...a simple form of getting information.

[Rockstar mentality]

hmm ok think of that guy. think of 5 things that he does for u that a normal friend wouldnt do for you. list them on here and ill see if they mean anything. that might help with determining if he likes u

[Ms.Squeakers]

hmm ok think of that guy. think of 5 things that he does for u that a normal friend wouldnt do for you. list them on here and ill see if they mean anything. that might help with determining if he likes u

I know this wasnt pointed twords me at all, but I seirously wanna do this because im bored and when im bored..god only knows what im going to do xD



1. Remembers EVERYTHING
2. Moves to sit with me
3. Stares into eyes
4. Is afraid to say "yeah baby" to my face but can say it to any other girls face
5. Says sorry for not saying hello


It could mean nothing
or it could mean everything.

[cindys_castle2011]

hmm ok think of that guy. think of 5 things that he does for u that a normal friend wouldnt do for you. list them on here and ill see if they mean anything. that might help with determining if he likes u

1. he always asks me when im coming into town. (his town)
2. he is always asking me if im going to come to his football/tennis games.
3. he asks me to come riding his horse with him.
4. mmk one time we was texting and he said he was cold. i said well go get
yourself a cuddle partner, he said mmk let me know when you coming. =)
5. hes always singing when were on the phone. lol
6. he laughs non-stop when were talking. so either he likes talking to me, or
my voice is funny sounding. haha

[Rockstar mentality]

1. he always asks me when im coming into town. (his town)
2. he is always asking me if im going to come to his football/tennis games.
3. he asks me to come riding his horse with him.
4. mmk one time we was texting and he said he was cold. i said well go get
yourself a cuddle partner, he said mmk let me know when you coming. =)
5. hes always singing when were on the phone. lol
6. he laughs non-stop when were talking. so either he likes talking to me, or
my voice is funny sounding. haha

woahh he has a horse. thats kool. o well i wouldnt know since im in the city. well 3 and 6 my mean somthing eveything elsed means nothing soo if i had to judge then (sorry) your blinded by love and her probaly doesent like you. Remembere therres only one wat 2 find out

[cindys_castle2011]

mmk thanks.
ill just see what happens from here.
i havnt even got to talk to him, cause im grounded =X no phone!!
so whatever. but the weekend i get ungrounded is the weekend
of a festival down here. & he asked me if i wanted to go with him
and his cousin. So... ill just see what happens

[cindys_castle2011]

woahh he has a horse. thats kool. o well i wouldnt know since im in the city. well 3 and 6 my mean somthing eveything elsed means nothing soo if i had to judge then (sorry) your blinded by love and her probaly doesent like you. Remembere therres only one wat 2 find out

wow having a horse to you is cool?? lol.
theres horses every time you turn a corner here.
haha thats strange.

[PrincessJazz]

Here's My story...

Just this weekend. Me and my b/f got into it. His ex is soooo crazy, may I note you that she stabbed her uncle in the back with a butcher knife and paralyzed the man, yea thats crazy. She hates me, but any way she had the password to his Myspace, because when they were together she made it for him. So she like went on his page and changed his password and he couldn't get on it.


So he calls her and confront her about it, so she told him the only way he could get it back, is if to call me and go off on me. Note: She was listening to everything we were talking about. He calls me and tells me, " Oh I miss her, she was over here earlier playing basketball with me, watching movies, making popcorn." So I got offended and say well you can call her and talk to her about that, and I hung the phone up.

He call me back and says "Do you want to hear everything thing she says about you?" and I say yea. So he call her on three way, and she is just talking about me like crazy. I had the phone on mute, so I didn't say anything. She says "tell me you love me" and he said it. I was so hurt, I just hung the phone up. Then he calls back and says "You can't get mad because I love my baby Brandi" that was it, the last and final stand. I hung up called back, and went off. Then he says, we have to talk this was all I set man. I didn't want to do this.

CONFESSION:

He tells me the whole story of what happen and why it happened. He said, " It was the only way I could get my password back. He begs for forgiveness, I don't even car anymore. I just asked him 1 question, and that was, "When you did, what you did. Did you even stop to think about how I would feel, or what our relationship would be like after this happened?"

[ohdisco]

Here's My story...

Just this weekend. Me and my b/f got into it. His ex is soooo crazy, may I note you that she stabbed her uncle in the back with a butcher knife and paralyzed the man, yea thats crazy. She hates me, but any way she had the password to his Myspace, because when they were together she made it for him. So she like went on his page and changed his password and he couldn't get on it.


So he calls her and confront her about it, so she told him the only way he could get it back, is if to call me and go off on me. Note: She was listening to everything we were talking about. He calls me and tells me, " Oh I miss her, she was over here earlier playing basketball with me, watching movies, making popcorn." So I got offended and say well you can call her and talk to her about that, and I hung the phone up.

He call me back and says "Do you want to hear everything thing she says about you?" and I say yea. So he call her on three way, and she is just talking about me like crazy. I had the phone on mute, so I didn't say anything. She says "tell me you love me" and he said it. I was so hurt, I just hung the phone up. Then he calls back and says "You can't get mad because I love my baby Brandi" that was it, the last and final stand. I hung up called back, and went off. Then he says, we have to talk this was all I set man. I didn't want to do this.

CONFESSION:

He tells me the whole story of what happen and why it happened. He said, " It was the only way I could get my password back. He begs for forgiveness, I don't even car anymore. I just asked him 1 question, and that was, "When you did, what you did. Did you even stop to think about how I would feel, or what our relationship would be like after this happened?"

A Myspace is NOT that important. He could've just contacted the website and told them that she hijacked his myspace and changed the password.

Baggage like that, and a guy who can be manipulated like that so easily, is NOT worth it.

[PrincessJazz]

Exactly, I told him if Myspace is more important than me then it's over. Now, he begging back. TIP: Think before you act, it would be a well lesson learned.

[Rockstar mentality]

wow having a horse to you is cool?? lol.
theres horses every time you turn a corner here.
haha thats strange.


Well it is here since i live in ny. U need to pay 1000 (or more per month) to keep the horse somewhere. Then you need to drive an hour or so to get to a placw here you can pick it up from thee stable. Then you need to pay for it to get trained since you cant do it cause its far away. Im just sayin i love horses but there a costly thing to have if u want one here.

[ohdisco]

woahh he has a horse. thats kool. o well i wouldnt know since im in the city. well 3 and 6 my mean somthing eveything elsed means nothing soo if i had to judge then (sorry) your blinded by love and her probaly doesent like you. Remembere therres only one wat 2 find out

I'm sorry, but I'm going to have to disagree. Not that I don't think they can't just be signs of friendship, but when coupled with signs of feelings more than platonic, it makes those "signs of friendship" more than just that.

While I would have to agree that the best way to find out what all of this means is to ask him, according to me (and my vast knowledge of 17 year old boys :rolleyes: ), I would say he has feelings for you.

[poisoned apple]

ok...
i am the shyest person i know...
i really really really like this guy troy but i have absolutely no idea how he feels about me...
we are both really smart...i guess you could call being in Alg2Hon frosh year smart...
he is in 4 of my 5 classes...i sit with him and my other guy friends at lunch...
he is friends with my other guy friends but we were all on academic team together...
we all know each other pretty good...
i don't know how to talk to troy...
i feel so stupid...

[#1TiggerFan]

WOW!!!! i made this thread sometime ago and i thought it would only have 2 pages and now it's got 10!!!! dang!!! thx u guys!!!!



Keep on posting!!!

[cindys_castle2011]

Well it is here since i live in ny. U need to pay 1000 (or more per month) to keep the horse somewhere. Then you need to drive an hour or so to get to a placw here you can pick it up from thee stable. Then you need to pay for it to get trained since you cant do it cause its far away. Im just sayin i love horses but there a costly thing to have if u want one here.

dang, haha well here you go to your neighbors house and ask when his horse is giving birth, haha and there usually only about 200 or so. Not to much. Plus you dont have to go get land somewhere. Theres plenty in your backyard. especially if you have like 15 acres =P. but anyways this is off of subject. lol

[cindys_castle2011]

I'm sorry, but I'm going to have to disagree. Not that I don't think they can't just be signs of friendship, but when coupled with signs of feelings more than platonic, it makes those "signs of friendship" more than just that.

While I would have to agree that the best way to find out what all of this means is to ask him, according to me (and my vast knowledge of 17 year old boys :rolleyes: ), I would say he has feelings for you.

yeah he says he does, but its just how i know he talks to other girls that like him too, i know its not of my business and all but still.

[cindys_castle2011]

ok...
i am the shyest person i know...
i really really really like this guy troy but i have absolutely no idea how he feels about me...
we are both really smart...i guess you could call being in Alg2Hon frosh year smart...
he is in 4 of my 5 classes...i sit with him and my other guy friends at lunch...
he is friends with my other guy friends but we were all on academic team together...
we all know each other pretty good...
i don't know how to talk to troy...
i feel so stupid...

i would just start up a conversation at the lunch table. (not about your smarts).
Just if you hear something that him and his friends are talking about during class or something i would bring it up, so he would think that yall have the same interest and all.

[poisoned apple]

okey-dokey...
i mean, it's not like we don't talk at all...
we're both in the play so i talk to him there, but i can't find the nerve to talk to him about serious things...
serious things? what the heck am i saying?

[cindys_castle2011]

okey-dokey...
i mean, it's not like we don't talk at all...
we're both in the play so i talk to him there, but i can't find the nerve to talk to him about serious things...
serious things? what the heck am i saying?

well does he play any sports, like any specfic tv shows, have any certain hobbies?

[cindys_castle2011]

Okay I was thinking a while ago..

I wanna know how everyone meet the boy or girl they have a crush on or dating?

[poisoned apple]

school...
i guess if i had to be specific, it would be biology honors in the first trimester...
i didn't know him yet...
i thought he was a dork at first actually...

[Babyjustrun]

School.
Tech class to be specific.
I had a computer near him, he was semi friends with my tech partner..
He just started talking to me out of the blue.

[cindys_castle2011]

Okay well this is how i met, (lets call him) Danny.

I use to go to his school. But in like 7th grade i moved. (im a freshman)
Anyways. Ive heard of him before but didn't actually know him. Plus he was 3 years older than me. But all my friends at my new school is really good friends with my old friend Britnie, (from my old school) Well, one night it was like six of us girls having a sleep-over. And it was like 4am, and Brit was like hey text this number real fast. So she gave it to me and i texted it and was like hey. he never texted back. Well the next morning he was like who is this. i said kelsi ******. well all my cousins and alot of friends, go to his school, so of coarse he's heard of me. Well that was all we talked at all that day. (this was back in Nov). Then like around the end of January I was walking through the mall, and i got a text from his and he said Hey! and we been talking ever since. lol. long completely meaning less story but i was bored =))

[ginnygirl102]

Tomorrow I am going to my friend's house and her twin brother is my super crush and I can't wait to spend time with him!!!!!!!!!!!! I just thought this had something to do with this thread!!!!
Peace Out!
Rose

[VolleyballQt07]

Oh I was so close in talking to my crush today in math because we had to do something very weird in history so I was gonna talk to him abou it but then I chickened out at the last second.......gosh darnit!!!

[xomunchkinox13]

i liked this kidd anthony since 7th grade (now in 8th) he hadd a gf but then he was single then he went out wit a sort of friend gloria then a really gud friend azeb but she neva new i liked him so im not mad at her but now hes single and i really like him but i dont no id my friend still likes him and i dont want to risk ur friendship wat should i do


ashley

[ohdisco]

Okay I was thinking a while ago..

I wanna know how everyone meet the boy or girl they have a crush on or dating?

We'd known of each other for a while; both of us were on the speech and debate team (he was a debater; I was a speaker). Neither of us really completely noticed each other until the beginning of Junior year. I realized how cute he was, so I started getting one of those silly school-girl crushes on him. He was a football player, so I would go and watch him play football secretly.

One late December evening, he imed me telling me he was going to call me, so I waited by the phone all day the next day with no luck. Then one day he started talking to me about Congress stuff, which I knew nothing about. Not wanting to look stupid, I just went along with what he was saying, and he didn't get any hint of anything. Finally, a guy we know named Max IMed me about Congress stuff as well. Being weirded out by people talking to me about Congress, I asked him who he thought I was. He replied, "Joe". I explained to him that I was Brianna, and he apologized, stating that Eric gave him the screen name. After finding out who I was, Eric finally talked to me as Brianna. One random sunday, he imed me at around 10 in the morning...and we talked to each other for 13 hours. Everyday after school that whole week, we talked to each other for hours, just getting to know each other. On that Monday I "asked" him to Sadies, and he said yes. We also decided to get valentine grams that the school passed out for each other to "embarrass one another". That Saturday, we hung out and it was really nice. I was leaving for LA on that Sunday, so I gave him my cell phone number, and told him to call me. He said he would. He called me for about an hour everyday I was in LA. On the Thursday I was there, I basically stated that I liked him. Friday morning, he told me the feelings were mutual.

The Tuesday I got back, Eric, my friend Maria, and I went to the mall. The whole time I tried to hold his hand, but he would never take my hand. Finally, I got up the courage and I grabbed his hand. He walked me to my door, and we had the most movie-like innocent kiss ever. The next day he asked me to the movies for Friday. We went and saw CURSED, and it was a perfect date. While walking back to my house, he got down on one knee and asked me to be his girlfriend. I, of course, said yes.

[Ms.Squeakers]

We'd known of each other for a while; both of us were on the speech and debate team (he was a debater; I was a speaker). Neither of us really completely noticed each other until the beginning of Junior year. I realized how cute he was, so I started getting one of those silly school-girl crushes on him. He was a football player, so I would go and watch him play football secretly.

One late December evening, he imed me telling me he was going to call me, so I waited by the phone all day the next day with no luck. Then one day he started talking to me about Congress stuff, which I knew nothing about. Not wanting to look stupid, I just went along with what he was saying, and he didn't get any hint of anything. Finally, a guy we know named Max IMed me about Congress stuff as well. Being weirded out by people talking to me about Congress, I asked him who he thought I was. He replied, "Joe". I explained to him that I was Brianna, and he apologized, stating that Eric gave him the screen name. After finding out who I was, Eric finally talked to me as Brianna. One random sunday, he imed me at around 10 in the morning...and we talked to each other for 13 hours. Everyday after school that whole week, we talked to each other for hours, just getting to know each other. On that Monday I "asked" him to Sadies, and he said yes. We also decided to get valentine grams that the school passed out for each other to "embarrass one another". That Saturday, we hung out and it was really nice. I was leaving for LA on that Sunday, so I gave him my cell phone number, and told him to call me. He said he would. He called me for about an hour everyday I was in LA. On the Thursday I was there, I basically stated that I liked him. Friday morning, he told me the feelings were mutual.

The Tuesday I got back, Eric, my friend Maria, and I went to the mall. The whole time I tried to hold his hand, but he would never take my hand. Finally, I got up the courage and I grabbed his hand. He walked me to my door, and we had the most movie-like innocent kiss ever. The next day he asked me to the movies for Friday. We went and saw CURSED, and it was a perfect date. While walking back to my house, he got down on one knee and asked me to be his girlfriend. I, of course, said yes.
:rotfl:

[#1TiggerFan]

great storys every1!!!

[poisoned apple]

so today, troy sat across from me at lunch. it was blue and gold day. those are the best! too bad lunch is in the period when i am outside and in a trailer. i had to go back and forth in the snow like 4 times. but anyway, he sat across from me and i think he might have been flirting. i can never tell cuz i never really had a bf/gf relationship before. he also sat behind me in introcath(religion) and sits two seats behind me in alg2hon. i keep freaking out about him...
i talked randomly that whole time...

[ginnygirl102]

Ok my crush sits next to me in keyboarding and I talk to him all the time and we were talkin about spring break and we both are doing absolutely nothing but sadly this is not 1 of those stories that ends with the guy askin the girl out but we are really good friends so maybe itll happn soon!!!!

[CoolMickster1995]

I hate when I have a crush!

Last year I developed a crush on a girl named Hannah, just to learn that she thought I was weird and annoying.
Now I have another crush on a girl named Claudia, and I might be doomed. I don't know what she thinks about me, and I really don't want to ask her out because of what happened with Hannah.

[reminisce]

sadly, i have a crush on my best guy friend. its not going to work out (as far as i know), but everyone thinks were dating. its pretty strange..

[jbcheerchick93]

okay. so im new, but this is the first ting that caught my eye. i like things to be orderly, so all of this is gonna be in a list.

NAME:Brad

APPEARANCE:Majorly hot. Dark italien, an origional New Yorker, and perfectly two inches taller than me.

PERSONALITY:Super fun to be with. Funny, sweet, and close to his friends.

EXTRA:Texts me all of the time, calls at two in the morning, has fights with his friends over who I like more, and calls me his wifey(jokingly).

:goodvibes

[reminisce]

okay. so im new, but this is the first ting that caught my eye. i like things to be orderly, so all of this is gonna be in a list.

NAME:Brad

APPEARANCE:Majorly hot. Dark italien, an origional New Yorker, and perfectly two inches taller than me.

PERSONALITY:Super fun to be with. Funny, sweet, and close to his friends.

EXTRA:Texts me all of the time, calls at two in the morning, has fights with his friends over who I like more, and calls me his wifey(jokingly).

:goodvibes
aww!!! and :welcome: to dis!

[HPGIRL]

Do any of you hang out with guys, just as buds? That's what I do and I always get teased by my "girl friends!" I get sooo sick of it. And another thing that annoys me is when they sit at the table and draw air hearts and make kissy faces when I sit with them. Do you guys think I should stop talking to him or maybe all of my guy friends? HELP!!!!:scared1:

[Lizbon]

Do any of you hang out with guys, just as buds? That's what I do and I always get teased by my "girl friends!" I get sooo sick of it. And another thing that annoys me is when they sit at the table and draw air hearts and make kissy faces when I sit with them. Do you guys think I should stop talking to him or maybe all of my guy friends? HELP!!!!:scared1:

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!! Absolutly not!!!!!! You should not have to stop being friends with someone because your friends are immature.

It is perfectly normal to hang out with guys. Just ignore your girl friends. They are just being immature. Trust me, hang out with your guy friends all you want and ignore your girl friends when they tease you. Eventually they will get over it.

[jbcheerchick93]

aww!!! and :welcome: to dis!

thanks!

Do any of you hang out with guys, just as buds? That's what I do and I always get teased by my "girl friends!" I get sooo sick of it. And another thing that annoys me is when they sit at the table and draw air hearts and make kissy faces when I sit with them. Do you guys think I should stop talking to him or maybe all of my guy friends? HELP!!!!

i agree with Lizbon. you should NEVER give up your other friends just because the girls are immature. i have tons of guy friends that i hang out with all of the time, and even when my friends make a big deal of it i just keep them as my friends. its not worth it to just let them all go. :thumbsup2 you'll be fine!

[reminisce]

Do any of you hang out with guys, just as buds? That's what I do and I always get teased by my "girl friends!" I get sooo sick of it. And another thing that annoys me is when they sit at the table and draw air hearts and make kissy faces when I sit with them. Do you guys think I should stop talking to him or maybe all of my guy friends? HELP!!!!:scared1:

nearly all of my friends are guys, and for most of them im their only girl friend. i know that at first, it may seem like everyones making fun of you, but im assuming that because youre being singled out, there are two possible reasons:
1) this guy actually does like you
2) theyre just jealous that they dont have any guy friends

if the second one is true, then it will fade with time, especially if you dont let it bother you. what grade are you in? that can make a difference, too

[dancergirlsasha]

The guy I like sang See You Again by Miley Cyrus to me. Don't get me wrong, I hate her. But it was an amazing moment.




:love:

[reminisce]

The guy I like sang See You Again by Miley Cyrus to me. Don't get me wrong, I hate her. But it was an amazing moment.




:love:

aww!!! :goodvibes

[Ms.Squeakers]

sadly, i have a crush on my best guy friend. its not going to work out (as far as i know), but everyone thinks were dating. its pretty strange..

DITTO!
:o
Except,
I know it will never work for me, I mean, I like him..a lot, but...him..me? Its just too good to be true. If that makes sense.

EVERYONE thinks were going out and its frustrating because people are like "MOUSE IS GOING OUT WITH BANANA! :o" and Im saying "HUH!? THAT STARTED OUT AS A JOKE, ARE YOU SERIOUS!?"

Hah,
we are still good friends though...which..is weird but its awesome.
Friendship is more then love to me...if that makes sense..

[llama62]

I'm only crushing on 1 girl right now... She goes to my karate school and is in my grade. I don't know what to do, we have a dance this friday..

I'll probably just end up asking my best girl friend.

[Ms.Squeakers]

I'm only crushing on 1 girl right now... She goes to my karate school and is in my grade. I don't know what to do, we have a dance this friday..

I'll probably just end up asking my best girl friend.

1. Well most NORMAL people only crush on one person because its kinda like cheating I guess?
2. That's sweet
3. Take a chance, you never know how wonderful something might end up as.

EXAMPLE :

I had this crush on this one guy (a long time ago) and word got around that I liked him (on accident, see I told my friend, but I forgot that she personally knew him so she told him without realizing) then he came up to me one day and said "Well...I like you" and I said "Yeah we are friends aight?" and he said "Naw, I mean I really like you. I kinda have this "thing" for you" and..so...that was that.

We never went out, but it was just the best feeling to know that someone out there liked me, who I thought was TOTALLY out of my league...which...is everything and everyone.


Don't be afraid, the only reason Im not telling my crush why I like him, is because it would ruin EVERYTHING, and it would be a hypocrite thing of me to do. Im not supposed to like him.

ANYWAY.
Go for it.
If not you always have the best back up of friends waiting for you.

[Babyjustrun]

Meh, I'm capable of liking two guys at once.
But normally, I have stronger feelings for one.

[Ms.Squeakers]

Meh, I'm capable of liking two guys at once.
But normally, I have stronger feelings for one.

I am really extremely weird.
I have to line one guy, and only one guy.
For me that isnt hard because everyone at my school is jerks, and im pretty sure if my crush knew that, he would know I liked him.
I think he already does get the idea, but just doesnt say anything, which is good. Thats the way I want it to be.

:D

WAIT

SCRATCH THAT,

Yes,
I like 2 guys at the same time *well..actually I can LOVE one guy and Like one guy or..LOVE AND LOVE but there will always be at least 1 love*, and I always will. I mean..hes dead, so what more can I possibly do?


Wait, I think I have a picture of him somewhere..
Let me find it..

AH HERE IT IS!

http://i91.photobucket.com/albums/k300/zombiedreams/freddie_mercury_18.jpg


Mr.Yummilicious Tasty-cakes!!





Exactly

[::Snow_White::]

Bah.
Forget it.

[dancergirlsasha]

I've personally never had the smallest want to tell my crush that I like him. Although it's probably obvious enough without me saying anything.

[Babyjustrun]

My crushes have been flighty lately. I don't stick to one person often and I don't really like them.
I've only ever had one serious liking for a guy, and well.. I guess things might have been different if I had told him. We just lost touch and don't talk anymore..

Right now, I've got two guys that I like. #1, I talk to most days, and because I'm kind of obsessive, I get sad when he doesn't talk to me at all. I'm bad at starting convos.. so. Like, he may have liked me at one point, but I think he got tired of having to always be the one to approach.. kinda felt alienated?
Second one, he's quiet, has beautiful eyes and he's really nice. I don't have any serious feelings for him, I hardly know him and only talk to him in Math.

[cindys_castle2011]

im stuck between cousin =X

long story short.

ive liked this one boy for about a month now, but i started to think he didnt like me, but things he was saying last night got me thinking maybe he does. but i met his cousin at a baseball game the other day, and he told me earlier today he liked me. =X

im a freshman. 14yrs.
their both juniors and 17yrs.
both very good-looking
ive never actaully "met" the first one.
but we have seen each other at games and all.
but never actaully approached each other.
but i have met, the second cousin.

My parents know both of their families well.
urghhhh this is complicated. what to do????

ETA: to make things clearer.
i use to go to their school.
the towns are right next to each other,
its one of those things where every knows everyone
in the towns and we all hang out with each other.

[Casey <3's you]

GAH. The problem I have is like, UGGGHHHH IDK how to describe it. There are two guys I like so here it goes:

The first guy I like is like super sweet and everything and he's really nice (well, to me at least.) but when I tell my friends i like Frasse, They're like EEW he's such a perv!! and I know where they're coming from, but it's not like he 'suggests anything explicit' as my mom would put it, which is totally 100% true. It's really just his jokes. They're quite immature. We talk everyday except on the weekends, and I think he's had a girlfriend but she asked him out. I know for a fact he's single bacuse he made it a point to tell me like last week. We both know A LOT of stuff about each other including some stuff most of my friends don't even know. I don't think he's ready for a girlfriend, but I really wish he was. I've liked him since like the fourth week of school. So that's Nick :lovestruc .

The second guy I like is Jeremy. I don't talk to him much, there's just something I ADORE about him. I've liked him on-and-off since the first day of school. I've known him since kidergarten sort of (he moved in fourth grade to Ohio and came back this year.) but I'm not too concerned anout him because one of my friends like him so my main focus is on Nicky ahaha!! (Spanish teacher calls him that buut she says it funny kinda like this: Neekeey. hahaha!!)

I reallly wanna ask him out but he prolly doesn't like me. We talk A LOT but that doesn't mean anything. I could talk for hours about him, but I'll stop here.

[jemberly_ann]

idk, im looking for my "edward" i thought i had found him, but then i heard he didnt like me, and in english, were reading anne frank, and im anne and he's mr. frank, and i had to basically scream that he was the only one i loved.:love: but :faint:

[pirateprinces_dancer]

Yeah i like a guy....

[llama62]

1. Well most NORMAL people only crush on one person because its kinda like cheating I guess?
2. That's sweet
3. Take a chance, you never know how wonderful something might end up as.

EXAMPLE :

I had this crush on this one guy (a long time ago) and word got around that I liked him (on accident, see I told my friend, but I forgot that she personally knew him so she told him without realizing) then he came up to me one day and said "Well...I like you" and I said "Yeah we are friends aight?" and he said "Naw, I mean I really like you. I kinda have this "thing" for you" and..so...that was that.

We never went out, but it was just the best feeling to know that someone out there liked me, who I thought was TOTALLY out of my league...which...is everything and everyone.


Don't be afraid, the only reason Im not telling my crush why I like him, is because it would ruin EVERYTHING, and it would be a hypocrite thing of me to do. Im not supposed to like him.

ANYWAY.
Go for it.
If not you always have the best back up of friends waiting for you.

It's tomorrow and she hasn't been in school since last week, so maybe she won't go and I'll stop worrying.

[jbcheerchick93]

*UPDATE*

this is the official update on brad. :goodvibes mmm brad. i just love even saying his name!

our most amazing 8th (thats what grade im in) boys baseball team had tryouts wed, thurs, and today. today was cuts and i only wished three people luck. my two best friends jesse m. and andrew s. i was all good luck guys!! i hope that you make the team!! then theres BRAD brad brad brad.:) :)

i texted him good luck everyday right as i knew that he was changing into cleats, baseball pants, hat, etc. and after the first tryout day he asked me of i would go to all of his games once he makes the team. (he can be kind of arrognat, but not too obnoxious;))i was like, of course i will! i was going to anyways, but the fact that he actually asked me....:love:

but back to the story!!

so to day he just texted me out of the blue.."i made the team!" so of course i was like, "AH-MAZING! im so happy for you. im def comin to all the games now: ) " then he said "what do i get from u as a presnt for makin it?" of course, what he wants is what every teenage boy wants. something that im not giving him. but hes like, thats okay but before i die, we're gonna do it. then he told me that hes going to a lil wayne concert in philly and that he is gonna die. i was like "noooo i love ya!" then he was like "okayy...night, i love you." i can't text him that much b/c hes in a different network :sad1:

o well, he is the cutest in the world!! :woohoo:

yayyyyy!!!!!

[Ms.Squeakers]

I got banana to say I was adorable, and purdy

Score!

xD

[Babyjustrun]

Heh, my crush told his like best friend (or whatever, I don't know what she is to him, they hang out all the time at school though) to beat it when she tried to sit with him (she tried to sit next to me) because he wanted to sit next to me.
Probably meant nothing and made me feel good.
Well, other than I felt bad for her.

[Ms.Squeakers]

I.
Flirted.
Today.
WILLINGLY.
Without
People
Saying
I was
Flirting
and that he should be my BF.

I loved it!
I love this year, and yet I hate it.

My new friends are AMAZING, just for that reason.

This is my first REAL crush, that ME MYSELF AND I chose, not someone my friends said we would look cute together as.

:D
Its so awesome.
I flirted so much with him, and he LIKED it.
*giggles*

[::Snow_White::]

I got banana to say I was adorable, and purdy

Score!

xD

I had a guy tell me I was ugly and called my friends and I something I can't repeat here.

Score!

xD

I thought it was funny...

(Although, this is the same kid that follows my friends and I around everywhere we go and tried to kiss my friend and won't leave me alone....By that I mean, when we are on the computer he'll smash his hand on the keyboard so I have to keep re-typing things, he throws paper in my hair and all this other stuff he does to my friends and I.)

[Ms.Squeakers]

I had a guy tell me I was ugly and called my friends and I something I can't repeat here.
Score!

xD

I thought it was funny...

(Although, this is the same kid that follows my friends and I around everywhere we go and tried to kiss my friend and won't leave me alone....)

Well, thats why everything is a score to me right now.
See, normally thats ALL that ever happens (and then people wonder why Im depressed).

People call me...really bad words
People say Im ugly
People yell at me for nothing
People make fun of me for nothing

ALL OF THIS IS RANDOM.
I DO NOTHING TO THEM
AND IM ALWAYS THE ONE,

But for once... there is a prince charming out there...:cutie:
I just hope the suspense lasts!

(BTW: Ive never seen a picture of you before, but Im positive you aren't ugly, not even close.)

[::Snow_White::]

Well, thats why everything is a score to me right now.
See, normally thats ALL that ever happens (and then people wonder why Im depressed).

People call me...really bad words
People say Im ugly
People yell at me for nothing
People make fun of me for nothing

ALL OF THIS IS RANDOM.
I DO NOTHING TO THEM
AND IM ALWAYS THE ONE,

But for once... there is a prince charming out there...:cutie:
I just hope the suspense lasts!

(BTW: Ive never seen a picture of you before, but Im positive you aren't ugly, not even close.)

:hug:
Yay you! :D
:goodvibes

I've had 3? people say I was ugly.
One was that kid, which doesn't really matter to me, because I'm almost positive he liked me earlier this year and I think he still kinda does. But he also was mad that my friends kept messing up his computer, so I figure that had a little to do with it. Although I don't know what that has to do with me?
This kid my friends had a crush on told me I was ugly over msn, I ended up deleting and blocking him. He was a jerk anyways, but that didn't much bother me either...
Then this one really random kid I didn't know told me I was ugly. xD
I'm sure others have said I was ugly, I just don't know about it.
Oh well.

And Thanks. =)

[Babyjustrun]

People round here don't call others ugly.
Well to their face.
The most pig headed guy ever thinks I'm an ugly freak, but he'd never be rude enough to say that to my face..
Well so far anyways.

[Sparx]

a couple nights ago, a boy that I've known since the seventh grade and I started dating. And I've had serious boyfriends before, but no one has ever made me quite as happy, quite as quickly as Zach has. I'm falling hard and fast for this kid. We've been friends for years and years, so we already know what each other like, and now that we're dating, that comes in handy. I'm so happy. :lovestruc

[llama62]

Eh, my crush wasn't at the dance thingy....

[dancergirlsasha]

The kid I like told me he hated me, for like no reason. And then he was like just kidding! WTH was this? Can any guys just like explain to me what it means if you say this to a girl?

And then I was standing in math and he purposely walked into me and then turned around and smiled at me. I came pretty close to fainting right then.

[kc1296426]

The kid I like told me he hated me, for like no reason. And then he was like just kidding! WTH was this? Can any guys just like explain to me what it means if you say this to a ?

And then I was standing in math and he purposely walked into me and then turned around and smiled at me. I came pretty close to fainting right then.

That sounds pretty spiffy, he might like you, but you can't really tell. Great story, haha even us guys have that "feeling" when they see a cute girl smile or look at you.

[Ms.Squeakers]

a couple nights ago, a boy that I've known since the seventh grade and I started dating. And I've had serious boyfriends before, but no one has ever made me quite as happy, quite as quickly as Zach has. I'm falling hard and fast for this kid. We've been friends for years and years, so we already know what each other like, and now that we're dating, that comes in handy. I'm so happy. :lovestruc

Aww thats so cute.

Sorry, I love stories of people getting together!

Today, I listened to "Do Wah Diddy Diddy" over 20 times straight in a row because its so adorable :laughing:

[ginnygirl102]

The guy I like is so unpredictable! At 1 point he acts like I'm annoying (at some points I am) but then he starts talkin to me and makes me laugh and smiles at me I NEED HELP! If you guys out there know wat this means please help!

I also have another story. Ok my friend likes this guy and i sorta like him too but I don't wanna hurt my friend's feelings and you know go out with him if he asks bec people are tellin me and her that he either likes me or her and she doesn't kno I sorta like him so if you have advice for me I would love to hear it!!

[Babyjustrun]

The kid I like told me he hated me, for like no reason. And then he was like just kidding! WTH was this? Can any guys just like explain to me what it means if you say this to a girl?

And then I was standing in math and he purposely walked into me and then turned around and smiled at me. I came pretty close to fainting right then.

I don't think the 'I hate you' thing has to do with anything.
The guy I like sits in front of me in French and always turns around and tells me he hates me, then I pout and he says 'No I'm just kidding'
It's his idea of humor/a lack of better things to say to me.

[cindys_castle2011]

I have a question for the guys and girls.
Okay girls, you know how we get all nervous, and butterflies, ect.ect.
Do you think guys get like that too. All nervous and all.

And guys...
Do you get nervous on a date, when you get next to a pretty girl, or your crush.

My mom, sister, and dad told me that boys are just as nervous as us girls are. Im not sure if I can believe that. :)

[HDD]

The guy I like is so unpredictable! At 1 point he acts like I'm annoying (at some points I am) but then he starts talkin to me and makes me laugh and smiles at me I NEED HELP! If you guys out there know wat this means please help!

I also have another story. Ok my friend likes this guy and i sorta like him too but I don't wanna hurt my friend's feelings and you know go out with him if he asks bec people are tellin me and her that he either likes me or her and she doesn't kno I sorta like him so if you have advice for me I would love to hear it!!

My crush does this to me. Sometimes he just completely freaks out and says I am annoying. Then when he sees I am upset he feels bad and says sorry and feels bad. I sometimes think he does it because I scare him. We both kinda know we like each other but we are too afriad to do anything about it. So one day he is like you're making me so mad right now and then next day he will be like you're the best I don't know what I would do without you.

[O_Look_Its_Steph]

I have a question for the guys and girls.
Okay girls, you know how we get all nervous, and butterflies, ect.ect.
Do you think guys get like that too. All nervous and all.

And guys...
Do you get nervous on a date, when you get next to a pretty girl, or your crush.

My mom, sister, and dad told me that boys are just as nervous as us girls are. Im not sure if I can believe that. :)

I think some guys can get nervous.
I mean me and my boyfriend dated online for a long time and we finally met a few months ago at Disney and he said he was really nervous then.
It just totally depends on the guys personality and everything.

[HDD]

I have a question for the guys and girls.
Okay girls, you know how we get all nervous, and butterflies, ect.ect.
Do you think guys get like that too. All nervous and all.

And guys...
Do you get nervous on a date, when you get next to a pretty girl, or your crush.

My mom, sister, and dad told me that boys are just as nervous as us girls are. Im not sure if I can believe that. :)

LOL I think guys might be equally or even more nervous than girls.

[Ms.Squeakers]

:D
I have some questions here :

Do guys ever uhm...make their voices deeper then it really is to impress a girl they like?

Do guys ever NOT slap their butts to greet each other?

Am I insane for just seriously asking that!? xD

When you like a girl, and you aren't sure if she likes you back what do you do?

Why do guys always go for the uhm..skank girls?

Is it possible for a cute guy to like an "ugly" girl?

Do guys ever base things on personality and times shared, instead of how great their butt looks in a mini skirt?

[Babyjustrun]

1) Not that I know of. But then again, I don't know many guys with prepubscent voices anymore.

2) I've never seen a guy slap another guys butt. Well, maybe on tv.

3) Meh.

4) Can't answer that because I'm not a guy xD

5) I personally think it's possible.

6) There are great guys out there who could care less about a girl's body.

I'm sure those questions were meant for guys.
But whatever xD

[Ms.Squeakers]

1) Not that I know of. But then again, I don't know many guys with prepubscent voices anymore.

2) I've never seen a guy slap another guys butt. Well, maybe on tv.

3) Meh.

4) Can't answer that because I'm not a guy xD

5) I personally think it's possible.

6) There are great guys out there who could care less about a girl's body.

I'm sure those questions were meant for guys.
But whatever xD



:laughing: :rotfl: :laughing:


Thats the weird part about being in middle school, sometimes I have to ask people "Has your voice changed yet!?" because I just cant tell.

[Babyjustrun]

I know maybe about..
Two guys who have really immature voices?
But their bodies themselves haven't matured yet.

[cindys_castle2011]

1.) i wonder... i've never thought about that. um mm, wouldn't they get tired and sore throated if they changed their voice every time you come around. aha

2.) haha i've dated football players and they even do it outside of the games.
:rotfl:

3.)hahahaha yes you are. :rotfl:

4.)i would hope they would get enough courage to ask her out. or something. cause girls usually aren't the first one to make a move.

5.)well believe it or not their all not like that, but usually they go get the "skank girl" for (coughcough) the leave her.

6.)actaully it really is, at my friends school, theres this very very cute guy, thats dating a hmm, not so cute girl.

7.)Well sometimes, a girl wheres a mini-skirt so the guys will look at their butt. i said sometimes, cause i wear skirts, and i dont just wear them for that reason. but... im not sure, i hope they do. but ya never know.

[reminisce]

1) ive heard some guys do it, and its the funniest thing ive ever seen. they sound like theyre trying to be cows.

2) it seems to be a jock thing...

3) incredibly so...just kidding there. i think it makes you pretty sane, so now you can be knowlegable or something like that..

4) i wish i knew

5) the skank girls seem perfect to guys in their moments of weakness. when they really think about it, most guys hate them.

6) ive seen it happen, but rarely

7) not many, but again, ive seen it happen

[ginnygirl102]

Ok I just wanna make this clear to all the guys out there..
Girls usually don't make the first move and are usually nice about turning you down (not that it happens often but i'm just sayin) and we like guys who just come up and tell us and are straight about it because if you hang out for us for too long and become really good friends with us it'll be really awkward. Trust me on that.. my friend just tried goin out with her best guy friend she's known since kindergarten and she broke up with him after 3 days!

I also have a question...
My guy friend told me that guys like it when a girl goes up to them and tells him that she likes him and "makes the first move". Is this true?

[cindys_castle2011]

woo hoo..
my crush told me he liked me =)
we went out bowling the other night,
just me, him, and his best friend.

We was getting to know each other since February.
Then we finally went out on a date. He told me he wanted
to hang out before he tells me he likes me forsure.
(since we don't see each other due to different schools)

Anyways I was texting his friend after they dropped me off.
And he said that he told him he liked me. Yay!!

And then I had asked him that since now we had went out,
if anything has changed. And he said yes, that he knows forsure
he likes me, but wasnt ready for a relationship yet.
He would like to go out some more, before we fall in to deep.

And then I had sent him one of those text forwards. it said.
I am your:
1.homie
2.best friend.
3.crush.
4.partner in crime
5.future bf/gf.
6.enemy
7.baby.
8.none of the above.
He picked 3,5,7!!!
Yay!! again.

Then.. last one.
My best friend told me today that she was texting him tho other day, and she had asked him when the next time we was going out. And he told her he didnt know but hopefully very soon. And she said ohh, cause she like really likes you. And he said oh really?=) (with the smiley face) And she said yeah she really does, like no lie. And he said oh well good cause I really like her too!!

Wooo Hooo again. The only bad thing is I know he talks to other girls that like him. and I dont know how to find out if he likes them too.... hmm??

[ginnygirl102]

woo hoo..
my crush told me he liked me =)
we went out bowling the other night,
just me, him, and his best friend.

We was getting to know each other since February.
Then we finally went out on a date. He told me he wanted
to hang out before he tells me he likes me forsure.
(since we don't see each other due to different schools)

Anyways I was texting his friend after they dropped me off.
And he said that he told him he liked me. Yay!!

And then I had asked him that since now we had went out,
if anything has changed. And he said yes, that he knows forsure
he likes me, but wasnt ready for a relationship yet.
He would like to go out some more, before we fall in to deep.

And then I had sent him one of those text forwards. it said.
I am your:
1.homie
2.best friend.
3.crush.
4.partner in crime
5.future bf/gf.
6.enemy
7.baby.
8.none of the above.
He picked 3,5,7!!!
Yay!! again.

Then.. last one.
My best friend told me today that she was texting him tho other day, and she had asked him when the next time we was going out. And he told her he didnt know but hopefully very soon. And she said ohh, cause she like really likes you. And he said oh really?=) (with the smiley face) And she said yeah she really does, like no lie. And he said oh well good cause I really like her too!!

Wooo Hooo again. The only bad thing is I know he talks to other girls that like him. and I dont know how to find out if he likes them too.... hmm??

Well if he said he likes you and has gone out with you but said he's not ready for a relationship then you don't have to worry about him goin out with other girls, but if u r worried about him liking other gals u shudnt be bec u kno he likes u and if you get jelous and can't take it barge in on the conversation and be obnoxious!!! I do that all the time!!

[BAMBIFOREVER]

lol on the poll i accidently clicked girls instead of boys oops!!!

[lpe_bratz]

^^ haha nice one....


uhm....yah my life is confusing now w/ guys! lol

[jbcheerchick93]

i just have to recap this conversation i had with this guy i like....

ME: heyy! im standing in a store and looking at this little flip flop that has i <3 brad on it and it is hte cutest thing in the world!

HIM: get it!! i wannntt you to gett itt!

ME: my mom wont let me:(

HIM: i dont believe you, you just dont want to get it.

ME: what?! dont you have any faith in me:(??

HIM: hmph.

ME: fine then ill just get the one that says i <3 ******.

HIM: noooo! im sorryyy gett htee onee thatt hass myyy nmmeee on ittt!

ME: okay then love ya bye<3

HIM: love you goodnight and sweet dreams<333

:goodvibes

[AbsoluteAwesome1]

Bah, there's all this pairing-up crap going on in my class.
Considering my class is 20 kids, that makes it a little weird.

Everyone is like OOOMG YOU TALKED TO DIS PERZUN IN THE VAN SO JOO MUST LIEK HIM

I actually do like someone. But am I going to tell anyone? Heck no. They'd make this huge deal about it. Plus, the year's almost over.

[Ms.Squeakers]

can i vent?
----

Someone. Just. Called. Me.

PRETTY!!

;D

YEAHHH!!


Thats like...the first time anyone (that I personally know) has ever said I looked good, instead of "DEFORMED LARD"

Then they dont understand when I scream "MASK" (...you know..the movie? with the boy who had calcium deposits in his face?)

Sorry.
I just had to vent that.

[Babyjustrun]

I'm kind of really frustrated right now.
There are days where C will jump to do things for me, is really nice and wants to spend time with me. Which I really love.
But then there's day like today, where he doesn't even feel the need to speak to me... and it makes me feel detached.
And it gets me thinking that I need to stop thinking about him that way, that it's unhealthy to be that emotionally attached to someone, especially when there's no hope they like you back...

[Ms.Squeakers]

I'm kind of really frustrated right now.
There are days where C will jump to do things for me, is really nice and wants to spend time with me. Which I really love.
But then there's day like today, where he doesn't even feel the need to speak to me... and it makes me feel detached.
And it gets me thinking that I need to stop thinking about him that way, that it's unhealthy to be that emotionally attached to someone, especially when there's no hope they like you back...

:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
Thats further then most people I know get to their crush.
I have hope, that he likes you.

My crush, we are really good friends, but he never TALKS to me. I mean, not in school. Out of school, its like "blah blah blah blah blah, blah blah blah oh really!? blah blah blah blah blah!" but..in school..i can honestly hear the crickets.

Its upsetting, he used to say "Hi" to me in the hallways, and wink at me ...n stuff...but now..he just clings to his "guy-pals" and only says goodbye to me and winks when no one is looking...

He used to come up behind me, pinch at my waist (which i love it when he does that), then says "Heeeyyyy ;)" but now..its just "*softest voice* Bye Mouse;)"


Ugh!
I know he doesn't like me, and I keep telling myself "Mouse, don't like him back, its no use"
Like I tell myself "He doesn't like you, you don't like him" time after time, but then..i feel myself turn cold, and my stomach aches when we talk.

[Babyjustrun]

:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
Thats further then most people I know get to their crush.
I have hope, that he likes you.

My crush, we are really good friends, but he never TALKS to me. I mean, not in school. Out of school, its like "blah blah blah blah blah, blah blah blah oh really!? blah blah blah blah blah!" but..in school..i can honestly hear the crickets.

Its upsetting, he used to say "Hi" to me in the hallways, and wink at me ...n stuff...but now..he just clings to his "guy-pals" and only says goodbye to me and winks when no one is looking...

He used to come up behind me, pinch at my waist (which i love it when he does that), then says "Heeeyyyy ;)" but now..its just "*softest voice* Bye Mouse;)"


Ugh!
I know he doesn't like me, and I keep telling myself "Mouse, don't like him back, its no use"
Like I tell myself "He doesn't like you, you don't like him" time after time, but then..i feel myself turn cold, and my stomach aches when we talk.

Guys are so confusing.
I don't know why he stops talking to me. It was never a guy friends thing, because he rarely actually hangs out with guys (other than on break).
And I'm kinda pissed that he's not sitting near me in French anymore, meaning I hardly really get to talk to him unless we need to have groups.
Which kinda bugs me a lot, because I've been slowly making progress with him since December, and now it's all come to a roaring halt.
And I hate losing touch with people. And I hate the feeling that I'm really emotionally attached to them, and they account for an unhealthy amount of my happiness... and then things like this happen and I feel really awful for a long time.

[jbcheerchick93]

hehehe. i dont like the guy that was previously stated as liked. t least, i dont like him that much anymore;) its too bad too, cause hes hot, i just heard things that are a major turnoff:eek:

now i like his even hotter and much more suitable best friend.

[Ms.Squeakers]

Guys are so confusing.
I don't know why he stops talking to me. It was never a guy friends thing, because he rarely actually hangs out with guys (other than on break).
And I'm kinda pissed that he's not sitting near me in French anymore, meaning I hardly really get to talk to him unless we need to have groups.
Which kinda bugs me a lot, because I've been slowly making progress with him since December, and now it's all come to a roaring halt.
And I hate losing touch with people. And I hate the feeling that I'm really emotionally attached to them, and they account for an unhealthy amount of my happiness... and then things like this happen and I feel really awful for a long time.

Arg, I hate that feeling!
That really stinks.
Why dont you sit..near him?
Like he moved or whatever, but why dont ya just...follo- okay,
I honestly DONT want to sound like a stalker, but i mean.. i kinda do that with my crush but... not..in a stalker like way (inside joke involved there..) but yes.


I mean if ya like him, go for it, dont be clingy, but...


Crap,
Im bad.
Who am I to give advice?
No ones ever liked me before, except jerkfaces.

Dont listen to me:headache: and my stupid brain!

[peterpangirl_22]

ok well i'm looking for advice. my friends aren't really giving me real advice anymore so i've decided to ask all of you. ok january 2007 i broke up with my boyfriend of 10 months and while i was with him i got to know his friends. i started to get to know his friend peter and by june i was starting to have a crush on him. when we came back in september i saw him agian and all the feelings came right back. we started getting to know each other really well and it was clear to everyone around us that something was there. so i waited to see what would happen and in november i told him i liked him. i was nervous and excited to get his response, that was until i actually read it. he sent me this on facebook:

Well, I really don't know how to say this.
At first I was quite shocked to get that note from you because, well, I never get notes.
Yeah, I'm pretty loserly (even a word???).
But I don't have a clue how to respond. I especially don't want to hurt or insult you in any way. But, even though this sounds corny in my head, I like things the way they are, I mean, we're pretty good friends, you are one of my best friends, and I've seen TV shows and I have a sixth sence like no other that tells me things would be wierd any differently, and anything more I feel I wouldn't be that comfortable with with anybody right now. That's just not how I am. I respect you incredibly for the courage to express that though, I know I could/would not be able to. But hey! That doesn't mean I don't like you. And the thing that I like about you most, is that you are so easy to talk to because you have the same personality that I'd like to think I have. If this was anyone else, I'd probably freak out and avoid. But Amy you are just awesome in every way.
I just have one more thing to add before I send this message, just to prevent whatever wierdness may come of this.
Friends?

that really hurt but i eventually got over it and things went back to the way they were before. and then just a week ago we got back from a school exchange trip to europe. we always talked and hung out on the trip and then when we got to our host family town he looked me in the eyes said to me he really would like for us to hang out sometimes( it was intense). so we hung out alot but nothing happened. and now that we are home things are like before but i'm starting to notice him paying a little more attention to me which is pretty good considering he's friends with everyone. and that's where i'm at right now.
i don't know why i care so much about if he likes me or not, maybe it's because i think i like him more than any guy i've ever liked before. when he's gone i feel lonely and when we're together nothing can make me feel anything but happy.

what do you think?


Amy

[Ms.Squeakers]

ok well i'm looking for advice. my friends aren't really giving me real advice anymore so i've decided to ask all of you. ok january 2007 i broke up with my boyfriend of 10 months and while i was with him i got to know his friends. i started to get to know his friend peter and by june i was starting to have a crush on him. when we came back in september i saw him agian and all the feelings came right back. we started getting to know each other really well and it was clear to everyone around us that something was there. so i waited to see what would happen and in november i told him i liked him. i was nervous and excited to get his response, that was until i actually read it. he sent me this on facebook:

Well, I really don't know how to say this.
At first I was quite shocked to get that note from you because, well, I never get notes.
Yeah, I'm pretty loserly (even a word???).
But I don't have a clue how to respond. I especially don't want to hurt or insult you in any way. But, even though this sounds corny in my head, I like things the way they are, I mean, we're pretty good friends, you are one of my best friends, and I've seen TV shows and I have a sixth sence like no other that tells me things would be wierd any differently, and anything more I feel I wouldn't be that comfortable with with anybody right now. That's just not how I am. I respect you incredibly for the courage to express that though, I know I could/would not be able to. But hey! That doesn't mean I don't like you. And the thing that I like about you most, is that you are so easy to talk to because you have the same personality that I'd like to think I have. If this was anyone else, I'd probably freak out and avoid. But Amy you are just awesome in every way.
I just have one more thing to add before I send this message, just to prevent whatever wierdness may come of this.
Friends?

that really hurt but i eventually got over it and things went back to the way they were before. and then just a week ago we got back from a school exchange trip to europe. we always talked and hung out on the trip and then when we got to our host family town he looked me in the eyes said to me he really would like for us to hang out sometimes( it was intense). so we hung out alot but nothing happened. and now that we are home things are like before but i'm starting to notice him paying a little more attention to me which is pretty good considering he's friends with everyone. and that's where i'm at right now.
i don't know why i care so much about if he likes me or not, maybe it's because i think i like him more than any guy i've ever liked before. when he's gone i feel lonely and when we're together nothing can make me feel anything but happy.

what do you think?


Amy

I think, he might just wanna be friends.
He might like you a teensy weensy bit, but I dont know THAT much about the guy, so... yeah.

[Stitch&figment 4 eve]

:D
I have some questions here :

Do guys ever uhm...make their voices deeper then it really is to impress a girl they like?

Do guys ever NOT slap their butts to greet each other?

Am I insane for just seriously asking that!? xD

When you like a girl, and you aren't sure if she likes you back what do you do?

Why do guys always go for the uhm..skank girls?

Is it possible for a cute guy to like an "ugly" girl?

Do guys ever base things on personality and times shared, instead of how great their butt looks in a mini skirt?

1. I can honestly say I've never done that. Maybe kids who's voices haven't gotten deeper, but I doubt it.

2. Yes. But not very often. JK, yeah it's a football thing. I'll walk around and get slapped in my butt, depending on the person. Wait for the Fall, when football season comes around, it gets a lot worse.

3. I usually just keep talking to them, and then ask.

4. The mind of a teenager. Usually the shallow guys go for "skanks".

5. No girl is ugly. It's personality that sets one ahead from another.

6. Personality is everything. It's really pointless to try and even talk to someone without personality.

7. Having fun with someone is essential. If someone has a fun personality then being with them makes everything great.

[C.J. Sparrow]

Do guys ever uhm...make their voices deeper then it really is to impress a girl they like? I haven't.

Do guys ever NOT slap their butts to greet each other? ...I never have. If anyone did that to me, they'd receive a fist to their nose.

Am I insane for just seriously asking that!? xD Yes.

When you like a girl, and you aren't sure if she likes you back what do you do? Lose sleep over it, ask her friends, keep talking to her.

Why do guys always go for the uhm..skank girls? They usually look like Jessica Alba or something on the outside, but what they don't know is that they're ugly on the inside.

Is it possible for a cute guy to like an "ugly" girl? Yes. Depends on what they think is ugly.

Do guys ever base things on personality and times shared, instead of how great their butt looks in a mini skirt? I focus more on the former. I couldn't care less about butts.

[Babyjustrun]

Arg, I hate that feeling!
That really stinks.
Why dont you sit..near him?
Like he moved or whatever, but why dont ya just...follo- okay,
I honestly DONT want to sound like a stalker, but i mean.. i kinda do that with my crush but... not..in a stalker like way (inside joke involved there..) but yes.


I mean if ya like him, go for it, dont be clingy, but...


Crap,
Im bad.
Who am I to give advice?
No ones ever liked me before, except jerkfaces.

Dont listen to me:headache: and my stupid brain!

The thing is, is I'm not sure if he's started noticing that I kind of leave class quickly so that I don't miss him walking out the door (he's really tall, he can walk down a hallway faster than I am) and then will slow down, hoping he'll end up walking beside me.
I don't know if it's obvious or not.
French class is one of those classes with a seating plan. If I sat next to him, my teacher would be mad, he'd be confused and the girl who sits next to him would probably tell me to get lost (well not in those words, she's a rather kind person).
Every other class, there aren't seating plans, but you don't change seats because we've been sitting there forever. Especially in Music, because of having to get the piano's out and the plugs (the plugs hang from the ceiling). I sit in a different spot, and it screws the person who sits there over.

He wasn't at school today. He left yesterday at lunch, I don't know if he's sick, had some form of religious thing to do/attend or if he was going on vacation somewhere. I'd kind of like to know. And I hate the weekend because I feel so detached from everything, from my friends, from him and basically everyone I know.

[Ms.Squeakers]

Ahh gotcha,
So kinda like its assigned seating based on your class, but its NOT assigned seating?

[Babyjustrun]

Pretty much.
Homeroom, I've been sitting in the same seat since October, and so has everyone else. If I were to change seats it would confuse everyone.
Second, it's not an assigned seat really, it's just where I sit, there isn't really any open seats anywhere.
Third, well it's the same class as homeroom, but I decided to sit across the class because the person who sits there is in art instead of music.
Fourth.. I've been sitting there for months.

And fifth is my assigned seating seat xD

[Ms.Squeakers]

Yeah thats how my classes are, we dont have assigned classes, but since day one, we all chose seats, and if we were to change people would be terribly confused on where to sit, and it wouldnt make sense.

[#1TiggerFan]

idk if i should go to my crushes baseball game or not?? help!!

[DramaQueen]

idk if i should go to my crushes baseball game or not?? help!!

yes! go
boys love it when you go to their games!!!
they want to impress you!! ;)

[Ms.Squeakers]

yes! go
boys love it when you go to their games!!!
they want to impress you!! ;)

Interesting!
I didnt know that...

[Sparx]

I spent most of last night at one of zach's games.

he makes me happy.

today was terrible. like, terrible. i was on the verge of tears about something pretty bad (and I don't cry. if i'm crying, its bad) and he was great. he kept me calm, and made me laugh. this kid is amazing.

[#1TiggerFan]

yes! go
boys love it when you go to their games!!!
they want to impress you!! ;)


well idk if he like me but i like him and i just to go see him play b/c they say he's good at pitching the ball!:goodvibes
i need major boy advice!!!

[jbcheerchick93]

idk if i should go to my crushes baseball game or not?? help!!

go go go go go!!!!!

hehe. little story.....
the day that MY crush made the baseball team he calls me to tell me and then makes me PROMISE to go to all of his games. but i would have anyways.

but yeah they love it when you do that. first they want to show off, then they look hotttttt in those baseball pants, and finally, the next day you will have something to talk about.

wll another thing is...do you know him?? like are you friends or do you just like him. and then i am the craziest person in the world. ill go up to a guy on the team and they look at me like, why were you at practice??? they havent had a home game yet so i say i just wanted to see the ah-mazing team that won 9-0 yesterday.

[#1TiggerFan]

i wish i could just talk to him but just us two then we'd be friends. i just to shy and i wish someone out there would like me but who knows. how could i impress a guy and when a guy impresses me??? i need advice

[Sparx]

go go go go go!!!!!

hehe. little story.....
the day that MY crush made the baseball team he calls me to tell me and then makes me PROMISE to go to all of his games. but i would have anyways.

but yeah they love it when you do that. first they want to show off, then they look hotttttt in those baseball pants, and finally, the next day you will have something to talk about.

wll another thing is...do you know him?? like are you friends or do you just like him. and then i am the craziest person in the world. ill go up to a guy on the team and they look at me like, why were you at practice??? they havent had a home game yet so i say i just wanted to see the ah-mazing team that won 9-0 yesterday.
Zach's a keeper on the soccer team. I love his uniform. ;) its basically under armor pants and a green and black jersey.

[catycatcat4]

XD ive been going out with my bf for two montsh and i have know him for 3 or a little over we got together from a bet that im not going ot say on here but i foyu wanna know pm me.

[jbcheerchick93]

Zach's a keeper on the soccer team. I love his uniform. ;) its basically under armor pants and a green and black jersey.

now that, that is hot!:lmao:

[Sparx]

now that, that is hot!:lmao:

he gets upset when i make fun of his pants. :rolleyes1

[Ms.Squeakers]

For me, Icant exactly talk about how "hot" my crush looks, because he isn't.
No wait, that came out wrong.

I mean, hes...so...
Hmph.

hes not "hot" like "supermodel" hot, but i mean like...hes a cutie pie, but not...like...baby faced or anything like that.

I mean, UGH.
Hes adorable but..not..baby adorable, yet hes cute, and...KINNDDAA hot.
BUT.

He isnt hot.

Is this making ANY sense?
I guess its because we dont exactly look at each other that often, half the time we are looking each other in the eyes, talking about everything.


His personality?
Now that, thats HOT.
;)

[Babyjustrun]

My crush isn't hot. I don't go for hot guys, hot guys round here generally aren't my type. They prefer to get drunk and listen to ****ty music. Not my taste.
Cute guys are more fun. I like nerdier guys =) (When I say nerd, I don't necessarily mean smart or whatever, I mean the things they like can tend to be considered lame).
He's cute, people say he looks like a monkey, but ever since I saw him, I think his face resembles that of a bear cub. He's rather tall, and really skinny. I don't even go up to his shoulders xD

[Axel]

I'm single and wishing like heck that John would ask me out.

He's just so friggin' amazing and I love him to pieces. He's my ex-boyfriend's friend and that's how I got to know him. Then he joined the track team and we got to know each other better during practice and on the bus rides home.

He's not "hot", he's handsome. He's distinguished. He's originally from New York City, but he lives up here with his Grandmother (whom he calls Granny, BTW- it's so adorable!) to finish out high school. He's about 6' tall, 180-ish pounds. He plays football and is well-built. Not bulky and massive, but he's got enough muscle that he could knock out anybody talking crap about somebody he cares about. He's got just the right about of muscle that he's not squishy (except for one little bit of tummy flab, but it's adorable, too.) and when he gives hugs it makes me feel safe and warm like I'm in a cocoon. He's full blooded Norweigan with scottish cousins. He's blond and blue-eyed with a quirky smile. He's got a chipped tooth where he got hit with a fastball when he was a kid in Brooklyn and he's missing a couple molars from cavities. He's funny and extraordinarily entertaining. If I'm having a bad day, he's got some sort of sensor about it and just walks up to me, gives me a hug, and does something to make me smile.

He doesn't speak french, but he doesn't care that both my iPod and phone are in french, he's got the humility to ask me what everything means instead of trying to go it alone like Alex. He cares about his family and he's a hard worker. He wants to go to college to study architecture.

GAH! I love this kid.

[Babyjustrun]

Aww. He seems so great.

Just adding a bit. I actually have no idea what color his hair is. It's like that grey-ish borderline color. I think it's a very dull brown color, but it may be blonde. That probably doesn't make sense.
I don't know about his eyes either. Actually, he doesn't even know. Sometimes they look hazel, sometimes they look green (I think they're green) and sometimes they're green with blue. I never get long enough to look at them to decide, because whenever I look at him he tends to be looking me right back and I find it uncomfortable to have eyes locked with someone for a long time.

[Sparx]

I'm single and wishing like heck that John would ask me out.

He's just so friggin' amazing and I love him to pieces. He's my ex-boyfriend's friend and that's how I got to know him. Then he joined the track team and we got to know each other better during practice and on the bus rides home.

He's not "hot", he's handsome. He's distinguished. He's originally from New York City, but he lives up here with his Grandmother (whom he calls Granny, BTW- it's so adorable!) to finish out high school. He's about 6' tall, 180-ish pounds. He plays football and is well-built. Not bulky and massive, but he's got enough muscle that he could knock out anybody talking crap about somebody he cares about. He's got just the right about of muscle that he's not squishy (except for one little bit of tummy flab, but it's adorable, too.) and when he gives hugs it makes me feel safe and warm like I'm in a cocoon. He's full blooded Norweigan with scottish cousins. He's blond and blue-eyed with a quirky smile. He's got a chipped tooth where he got hit with a fastball when he was a kid in Brooklyn and he's missing a couple molars from cavities. He's funny and extraordinarily entertaining. If I'm having a bad day, he's got some sort of sensor about it and just walks up to me, gives me a hug, and does something to make me smile.

He doesn't speak french, but he doesn't care that both my iPod and phone are in french, he's got the humility to ask me what everything means instead of trying to go it alone like Alex. He cares about his family and he's a hard worker. He wants to go to college to study architecture.

GAH! I love this kid.
dude. ask him out.

[Axel]

dude. ask him out.

We're talking about me, Miss "I'm not shy about anything except asking out guys/girls that I like" Malone.

[lpe_bratz]

i really like my best guy friend but i think it'll ruin our friendship if we go out.