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reminisce
01-06-2008, 04:22 PM
i can normally solve my own problems, but this ones a little hard.

i have this bf. weve been going out for 2 weeks, and hes scaring me away. hes told me he loves me, that he thinks were soul mates, that were going to be together till one of us dies :scared1: ...i cant take it. i need to figure out how to break up with him without completely crushing him. also, everyone says i need to be careful how i do it because they dont want him to stalk me or get revenge. anyone got any ideas for me?

pirateprinces_dancer
01-06-2008, 04:56 PM
text him and tell him your over....jk um idk what u could do since i have NO experience in this subject

BandGeek911
01-06-2008, 05:30 PM
Don't text him breaking up. That's just awful, and that might get him mad.
And tell him yourself. Don't get someone else to say it for you.

I don't know what you should say though. Maybe, "I think, we should take a break from each other. I don't know if I'm ready for this type of relationship."

:confused3
Hope I helped. I don't have very much experience with this kind of stuff xD

SBubba18
01-06-2008, 05:30 PM
I have en ex boyfriend who did what your boyfriend is doing. I just told him that I think it's not working out. He never stalked me or anything.

BandGeek911
01-06-2008, 05:30 PM
sorry, doublee post.

Axel
01-06-2008, 06:02 PM
I had a boyfriend like that. Actually, I just broke up with him a few months ago. I was a terrible person and I did it through a note, which I had a mutual friend deliver to him. I couldn't face him when I did it because I knew he'd be heartbroken. We haven't talked since, but I'm fine with that.

Do it delicately if you think he'll be upset about it. If he harrasses you afterward, go to an adult because you can file a restraining order no matter your age (at least, at my school/town you can).

TheAmazingSpidey
01-06-2008, 06:04 PM
Uh...fake your death? :goodvibes

reminisce
01-06-2008, 06:04 PM
Uh...fake your death? :goodvibes

:lmao:

SBubba18
01-06-2008, 06:11 PM
I had a boyfriend like that. Actually, I just broke up with him a few months ago. I was a terrible person and I did it through a note, which I had a mutual friend deliver to him. I couldn't face him when I did it because I knew he'd be heartbroken. We haven't talked since, but I'm fine with that.

Do it delicately if you think he'll be upset about it. If he harrasses you afterward, go to an adult because you can file a restraining order no matter your age (at least, at my school/town you can).

Where you live you can file a restraining order. I know we can here.

reminisce
01-06-2008, 06:12 PM
Where you live you can file a restraining order. I know we can here.

SCORE! [that may come in handy]