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taz
09-28-2007, 05:58 PM
What is a good year? I really like some people but am a little shy to talk too them for too long:confused3

Other people have a boyfriend/girlfriend but just don't talk.

My opinion is if you go out with someone now their is no way you can make it too highschool with the same person

P.S.- I just turned 13

Tinkerbell424
09-28-2007, 06:06 PM
A good year to get a GF/BF is when you feel comfortable and mature enough to have a BF/GF. IMO. :)

So maybe just try to talk to the people and try to become friends with them first. And learn more about them.:goodvibes

Disney.Ears
09-28-2007, 06:11 PM
A good year to get a GF/BF is when you feel comfortable and mature enough to have a BF/GF. IMO. :)

So maybe just try to talk to the people and try to become friends with them first. And learn more about them.:goodvibes

::yes::
And don't "go out" with a person if you're not going to go out.

barfownz
09-28-2007, 06:13 PM
My opinion?

Freshman year of high school. Thats when the real stuff kicks in. Middle school is nothing.

I really like some people but am a little shy to talk too them for too long

I am the same, but thats if i'm really on to somebody. My friends help me out and make me more comfortable, It takes a lot of 'balls' for me to do it, but you got to do it anyways and I step up and walk over.

Whats the worst they could do? Ya know? They are just like you and may think the same as you too.

::Snow_White::
09-28-2007, 06:28 PM
Whenever you are ready for one.

Lizbon
09-28-2007, 06:38 PM
I'd say 14 or older. I know people who have been in lasting relationships younger than that, but not many. My one friend started seeing someone when she was 13 and they have be going out for over a year. I think anything younger than 13ish is more about that fact the you can say you have boyfriend. Thats JMO. Sorry if I offend anyone. If you are ready to have a boyfriend, then you are ready but don't go out with some just so you can say your going out or because you think it makes you mature.

Hope that helps.

Arielfn93
09-28-2007, 07:15 PM
I'm 14, and honestly, I dont think i'm ready. Yes, i want a boyfriend, but when I really think about it..i dont think I'm the type of person that can handle it. A lot of girls have boyfriends that are my age, and usually it's just a little fling, that lasts for maybe a month.
I want the perfect guy for me, and it does hurt to wait sometimes, but I know that it'll hurt a lot more to be dumped, or have a bad boyfriend.

Damhsa04
09-28-2007, 08:16 PM
Well I got my first "boyfriend" in 8th grade when I was 13. It was a really pointless relationship. When you're that young you can't really do anything unless you want your parents to drive you around. All you do is hang out at school and have awkward hugs. Make sure you're ready to have a relationship.

RaggedyAnnPrincess
09-28-2007, 08:36 PM
It's probably not a great idea to get a bf/gf below 8th grade. IMHO

Ms.Squeakers
09-28-2007, 08:56 PM
Im about 1/3 of a year younger then you maybe more but the point is shes right : Dont go out with someone if your not going to GO OUT.

I have ALMOST had a bf but it was stupid i even said to my friends "I dont have a bf thats so dumb because im only 12" i mean its just pointless, but honestly if thats how you feel and you wanna go for it then do it

i guess my main point is : when your young you cant do much i would say wait another year but try and just HANG OUT with guys and then after a year or so slowly move into the whole "Hey, you wanna go to the movies sometime? great then its a date"

Pirate Me
09-28-2007, 09:00 PM
I'm 13. My grade doesn't have that many kids but some of them are "going out". They don't get it though. I think we're not old enough. They say it for attention and stop after a week.

FairlyOddGrlz
09-28-2007, 11:03 PM
I personally dont give a care. I have my school to focus on and i hate and i said HATE pre-algebra. I have a D!!! im usually with that group of kids who get straight A's and perfect citizenship. Anyway about the BF/GF thing i try to focus on my schoolwork. School is tough.





.:World Geography stinks!!:.

DramaQueen
09-29-2007, 09:34 AM
really, whenever you feel ready for a boyfriend is when you're ready for one.

I had my first 'boyfriend' when i was about 12, and I've had about 9-10 boyfriends since then.

i had a lot of like, 'boyfriends' (i put that in quotes because, it wasn' much like a real relationship, it was just two young kids who had crushes on each other) but i only had my first REAL (or what I would consider real) relationship when i was about...16.
I had a bunch of boyfriends, but only about 2 real relationships.
I'm 18 now, and only now do I actually LOVE my boyfriend.

So it's kind of a complicated question...but whenever you feel like you are ready for a boyfriend, go for it! So what if it's not 'true love', it's fun and exciting to have a boyfriend when you're young!

disney100666
09-29-2007, 10:02 AM
well I'm 12 and alot of people are "going out", but they don't like "go out", they see eachother at school and at dances and I'm guessing that's it. so when you feel ready to date and whatnot, go for it! :thumbsup2

taz
09-29-2007, 10:19 AM
Thanks! I think people my age just see each other at school/dances. Every Saturday a bunch of people my age go to the movies though.

TinkerTracy
09-29-2007, 10:36 AM
Whenever you want, and feel comfortable. There's no rush....really.

StitchfansJr
09-29-2007, 11:32 AM
I'm 13. My grade doesn't have that many kids but some of them are "going out". They don't get it though. I think we're not old enough. They say it for attention and stop after a week.
::yes::
Even though I'm only 13, I'd like to have a guy friend who LIKES to just hang out without having to worry about the BF/GF thing, but that's like impossible. =/ All of my guy friends never hang out with me besides for at school.

taz
09-29-2007, 12:05 PM
::yes::
Even though I'm only 13, I'd like to have a guy friend who LIKES to just hang out without having to worry about the BF/GF thing, but that's like impossible. =/ All of my guy friends never hang out with me besides for at school.

Same here, except girls.

Lil_Tink
09-29-2007, 02:18 PM
When I was 13 my relationships were more just 'going out' I would say. We hung out at lunch and at school, but weren't a serious BF/GF. I got my first one in 6th grade but it differs for everyone I guess.

Kats~Meow
09-29-2007, 02:20 PM
I think it just differs for everyone. I know I went out on little dates when I was younger, but never really considered any of those guys a real BF. Now that I am 17 and I have my 1st real BF I am seeing what it is truely like.

Talons
09-29-2007, 02:37 PM
I was 16 when I had my first proper relationship, so don't feel like you have to dive in right away to get it over with. Whenever you feel you are ready, go ahead and by all means take the plunge :thumbsup2

Axel
09-29-2007, 03:17 PM
I'm 16 and I've got a boyfriend that I absolutely adore. I really love him to pieces and I think he's way too good for me, but he thinks I'm too good for him so it evens out. Currently, neither of us have our liscense to drive so we can't really "go out" and he's got a broken ankle. But we still try to make time to see each other during the day. I see him on the bus and at breakfast, but that's it. I'm debating wether to break up with him, though, because as much as I love him I'm so focused on grades and appearances to colleges and volleyball and my life is so messed up right now that I can't give him the attention he deserves. He's my boyfriend and I should spend more time with him than I do and I feel really mean when I don't see him. But my life is upside down and backwards right now, so I dunno.

Ms.Squeakers
09-29-2007, 03:50 PM
Like i said im 12 and i sometimes go to the movies with guys (and of course my gal-friends) and we totally just goof off and have fun, but since they turned into selfish jerks this year and got gfs im making different guy friends

Guy or gal friends are totally acceptable for this age but having a bf or a gf is honestly who you are and what type of school you go to

pigletgirl
09-29-2007, 07:56 PM
Anytime starting in college. You do not have to have a girlfriend/boyfriend in high school.

InLuvWithE.Swann
09-29-2007, 08:02 PM
I am 13 , but since I am homeschooled I am not around a lot of girls in school. I do have some friends that are girls, but they are just friends. I guess I would have a GF whenever I feel comfortable having one.

Sparx
09-29-2007, 08:22 PM
I was fourteen, almost fifteen when mike and I started dating. We've been together for more than 13 months and we're still doing great. I love him. Being in a serious, committed relationship is not easy all the time, its work too, but I wouldn't trade it for the world. He means everything to me, and a lot of people don't understand being this loyal to someone at our ages, but it makes sense for us, and thats all that matters.

Whenever youre comfortable, or hte time/person is right for you, thats when you need to get into a relationship. There no magic age saying "hey, youre this old, you need a boyfriend." just like theres no magic age saying 'hey, youre this old, you need to get married nad have kids'. It just doesn't work that way.

Ms.Squeakers
09-29-2007, 09:49 PM
I was fourteen, almost fifteen when mike and I started dating. We've been together for more than 13 months and we're still doing great. I love him. Being in a serious, committed relationship is not easy all the time, its work too, but I wouldn't trade it for the world. He means everything to me, and a lot of people don't understand being this loyal to someone at our ages, but it makes sense for us, and thats all that matters.

Whenever youre comfortable, or hte time/person is right for you, thats when you need to get into a relationship. There no magic age saying "hey, youre this old, you need a boyfriend." just like theres no magic age saying 'hey, youre this old, you need to get married nad have kids'. It just doesn't work that way.

Nicely said!
You are like my hero now:rotfl:

Sparx
09-30-2007, 06:23 PM
Nicely said!
You are like my hero now:rotfl:

:)