View Full Version : we are offf on Friday but under very sad circumstances.
millys
07-18-2007, 03:21 PM
Hi Folks
We are off on Friday for our long planned for Silver Wedding Anniversary Trip. Sadly our DS1 was killed in a road accident five weeks ago. He had just celebrated his first wedding anniversary. We have discussed the holiday with all our family and friends and have decided to go ahead and go to Florida as planned. We have all agreed that this is what Matthew would have wanted.
We are totally devastated and will find this really difficult.
I have set up a website in his memory gonetoosoon.co.uk - type Matthew Mills in the name box.
Lena, Tim, Ricky and Hannah (the Florrys)
Goofysmate
07-18-2007, 03:32 PM
My thoughts are with you & your family .
Perhaps at Epcot you could put your DS name on a tile in his honour. Sorry my mind has gone completely blank & can't think what it's call at this moment in time but i'm sure you might know what i mean, or someone else could.
Once again sorry to hear about you lost.
UKDEB
07-18-2007, 03:33 PM
I can't even begin to imagine what you must be going through. Your Silver Wedding Anniversary Trip should be a standout moment of happiness in your lives, but instead you have to contend with something inconceivable to any parent. I guess the fact that your loss is still very new will help you through this and I hope you will all be able to make some happy memories. Thank you for sharing this with us. :hug:
UKDEB
07-18-2007, 03:36 PM
I can get to the link, but can't get Matthew's page to open. Anyone else having any luck?
saratogagirl
07-18-2007, 03:39 PM
I am so sorry to hear of your loss, my heart goes out to you, I think you are right to go ahead with your plans, knowing that it is what your son would have wanted for you. Massive hugs to you, and thanks for allowing us to share this with you. We are a good bunch and would like to think that we will all provide a shoulder for you should you need it xx
tennisfan
07-18-2007, 03:44 PM
Sorry for your loss, I hope you have a good trip as i'm sure he would have wanted you too:hug:
saratogagirl
07-18-2007, 03:45 PM
Deb, I found and opened it, is very touching, I am mopping up the tears, Ian is too ...
wideeyes
07-18-2007, 03:56 PM
I am so sorry about your loss, I don't really know what else to say, its just so sad.:hug: :hug: I hope you can have a lovely trip in his memory even though I am sure it will be hard.:hug:
Lizzybear
07-18-2007, 04:07 PM
Very sad to hear about your son, I remember reading a trippie from a lady on one of the other boards on here whose daughter had died not long before their WDW trip and she said it was bittersweet but in the end they were glad they hadn't cancelled as it was a chance to them to bond and spend time together as a family aswell as reflect on their daughter and what she would have enjoyed without the added pressures of everyday life. I hope you all have a wonderful trip :goodvibes
BRobson
07-18-2007, 04:10 PM
I am sooo sorry to hear of your loss:hug: I hope you can enjoy your trip as best you can as I am sure your son would want you.
CarolynU
07-18-2007, 04:25 PM
Words cannot express just how hard this must be for you. My heart goes out to you all.
sending you some :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
florida sun
07-18-2007, 04:33 PM
I am so very very sorry to hear of your loss, my heart goes out to you. Loads of hugs to you and please enjoy your trip as Im sure your son would have wanted you to, take care:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
Tammy Stringer
07-18-2007, 04:43 PM
I am so sorry to hear about your son, and I have to say what a wonderful tribute you have put on the website gonetoosoon.
I hope you can enjoy your holiday as much as your son would have wished you to.
My thoughts will be with you all
Tammy
Pootle
07-18-2007, 05:19 PM
My thoughts are with you. I live very close to the accident spot and knew it had been very serious when I saw the amount of police presence on that Wednesday. Everyone who spoke of it was so very very sad, particularly because of the age of your son.
I hope you manage to have inner peace and tranquility on your holiday. I cannot imagine how you must feel. All the very best.
Ware Bears
07-18-2007, 05:41 PM
I am so very very sorry. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug:
So sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you and everyone else who have been left heartbroken by this tragedy.
I hope you can have a good trip at this sad time as i'm sure your son would want you to.
jockey
07-18-2007, 11:29 PM
I am so sorry for your loss :grouphug:
natalielongstaff
07-19-2007, 12:50 AM
so sorry to hear of your sad loss, i hope your trip can give you some comfort :hug:
Minniespal
07-19-2007, 01:48 AM
Very sad news about your son, my heart really goes out to you.
I hope that you can find some happiness during your trip as you say that is what Matthew would have wanted for you.
:hug: I am sorry for your lost. I hope your trip gives you some rest and relaxation
TinkTatoo
07-19-2007, 02:06 AM
So sorry to hear your sad news :(
carolfoy
07-19-2007, 02:57 AM
Words cannot express how much I feel for you at this time, when my sister died I saw first hand how my parents suffered. It has been 17 years and although the pain and memories of that terrible time are still with us all we have learnt to live with it, Time does not heal but it does allow you to manage your feelings a little better.
Do not feel you have to 'enjoy' yourselves, you can use this time to reflect and mourn and talk the good times through between you both.
My thoughts are with you :hug:
jen_uk
07-19-2007, 04:19 AM
Im so sorry for your loss :sad2:
Lizzy Lemon
07-19-2007, 04:34 AM
Just wanted to add my thoughts are with you.
angel659
07-19-2007, 04:49 AM
I am really sorry to hear of your loss. :hug:
Merylj
07-19-2007, 06:39 AM
I`m so very very sorry to hear of your loss :hug: :hug: :hug:
Still thinking......
07-19-2007, 10:59 AM
Sorry to read about your sad news. :hug:
wicket2005
07-19-2007, 11:20 AM
Though I am a total stranger, I do feel a connection with you and your family through reading Florry's (my all time favourite) trip reports of your happy holidays. The world has changed and I feel so desperately sorry for you all and so sad this has happened. I hope you can all draw strength from each other and help each other cope with the days ahead. I know there is nothing I can say to really help but I do send you and your family my deepest and most sincere condolences. :grouphug:
Bevx
KayleeUK
07-19-2007, 11:47 AM
Sorry to hear of your loss :hug:
sharon78
07-19-2007, 01:00 PM
So sorry to hear of your sad loss, my thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time.
jtlover
07-19-2007, 01:09 PM
I am very sorry to hear your news. I hope that you can enjoy your holiday:)
Lisash
07-19-2007, 01:47 PM
:grouphug: My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time :grouphug:
Booknut
07-19-2007, 02:11 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss :hug: I hope you all find some peace and comfort on this trip
carolfoy
07-19-2007, 02:50 PM
I just wanted to add that I've only just made the connection with you and thefamous Florry trip reports. i have so enjoyed reading your adventures and I want you to know that we really are thinking of you.
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