Oh Baby!

[allamericancheergirl]

My best friend just told me yesterday that she might me having a baby with her neighbor (who she isn't even dating) who may I remind you is 15! And she is only 13! I have no idea what to do! She is so nervous. I really need your help! She asked me to put this up here so she can get some help! PLEASE HELP!!!


Kate:grouphug:

[AngienLuLu]

Wow, that's some pretty crazy stuff. I really don't know what to say...

[PG Sweetie]

when you say she might be, is she pregnant or is she thinking about getting pregnant????

[Sparx]

Mmmkay, I'm assuming she's had sex and her period is late. But you have to remember, most 13 year old girls aren't like clockwork. I suggest a cheap pregnancy test, and a talk with her mother. If she is in fact pregnant, she's got some important decisions to make. If shes not, I hope she realizes that she's not ready for sex if she's not ready for the obvious consequences.

[PG Sweetie]

Mmmkay, I'm assuming she's had sex and her period is late. But you have to remember, most 13 year old girls aren't like clockwork. I suggest a cheap pregnancy test, and a talk with her mother. If she is in fact pregnant, she's got some important decisions to make. If shes not, I hope she realizes that she's not ready for sex if she's not ready for the obvious consequences.


Very well said.

Also wanted to add that if she is pregnant she needs to figure out what her beliefs about what to do are. No one can tell her what decision to make. If she believes that abortion is the right choice for her than that is what she should do, I personally wouldn't do that but she has to decide for herself. If she decides to have the baby just make sure that she always has someone there to support her because it will not be easy for her.

And as Shelby said she needs to talk to her parents or just her mom if that's easier for her. Also if she is having trouble dealing with what could be the result of the sex than she was obviously not ready for it and she needs to realize that. She has to understand that this is something she will have to deal with for the rest of her life wether she's pregnant or not.

I hope that everything works out for your friend.

[PrincessKally]

OKay, well like both Tara and Shelby stated, she has some very important decisions she needs to make. First she needs to speak with her mother, and have a pregancy test done, one that you buy from the store. Then you need to go from there, at 13 girls periods are not on a very secure cycle, they vary alot.

Now even though a 13 year old girls reproductive system is ready for a baby, a 13 year old girl is not emotionally ready, or even 100% physically ready. The younger you are the harder it is to give birth. At 13 she will have a very difficult time giving birth. But if you go with abortion there is a chance she could never have a baby again. Basically it is a lose lose situation.

I'm very sorry for you because you have to go through this, thats to young too deal with such emotional stress. Even at 15, 16, 17 and 18 thats a big load to carry. Good luck with everything.

[meeshheartsdisney217]

no flaming.

but why if you have an abortion can you maybe not have another child?

[poconoboatniks]

She had it about a year ago. Then she had it about 3 weeks ago. On Monday she went to the doctor's and he said that she might be pregnant. She can't talk to her mom about it because if she does she will be kicked out of the house and her step dad will beat the living fire out of her. Her sister went with her so only me her and her sister know about it. She said if she is pregnant that she is not going to get an abortion. "That's just out of the question." she said.

Kate:grouphug:

[allamericancheergirl]

Sorry the computer logged me on to my mom's account. OOOOPS!

Kate:grouphug:

[daughter_of_amid_chaos]

She had it about a year ago. Then she had it about 3 weeks ago. On Monday she went to the doctor's and he said that she might be pregnant. She can't talk to her mom about it because if she does she will be kicked out of the house and her step dad will beat the living fire out of her. Her sister went with her so only me her and her sister know about it. She said if she is pregnant that she is not going to get an abortion. "That's just out of the question." she said.

Kate:grouphug:


Well see now every single person on the public DIS forum knows too...I know you didnt give her name but you have given enough information where someone could possibly figure it out if they know the girl.

[pigletgirl]

The only really that you can do is just be there for your friend. I'm really sorry to hear that.

[Sparx]

no flaming.

but why if you have an abortion can you maybe not have another child?

when you get an abortion, most of the time the equivalent of a BC pill is put inside the ******l canal. that is incredibly dangerous. That concentration of hormones in a place like that is enough to make you infertile. Sometimes abortions aren't preformed by the best doctor either.

Its been awhile since I've studied them, so this info may be a tad outdated. feel free to correct me.

EDIT:
I love how we can't use anatomically correct terms here. thats just fantastic.

[PG Sweetie]

Just curious as to why the doctor couldn't tell her if she was actually pregnant or not. They should have been able to give her a definate answer. And she needs to tell her mom regardless of the consequences because they would find out eventually and personally if I were her parents I would want to know right away not find out later.

[pigletgirl]

I wanted to add to Shelby's post, but it also scars the uterus, and all the surrounding areas.

[Mickey1122]

I agree with Tara...this doesn't seem like the kind of thing she should be hiding.

[Vannah]

Like other posters have stated, her parents will find out. I don't really know much, but a girl in my science class had her baby on Thanksgiving, she is adorable. But still, it's not right having a baby at 13.

[StephaBabe50]

I agree with what everyone is saying, she
needs to find out for sure, make her own
decision, tell her parents, and find out
what she is going to do. But as her best
friend the best thing you can do is be
there for her:hug:

[StitchfansJr]

Hmm.. I wonder if they have a video about this of Maury on YouTube. There are several episodes about this.
EDIT: This is close.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=px4Q8jEjBnI If she doesn't tell her mom this could happen to her.

[BeachBabi0]

ok i know there are probably people who are going to hate me for saying this, but i think she needs to tell her parents and get an abortion. tell only her parents and the neighbors parents. having a kid will ruin her life, if it doesnt kill her.

[StitchfansJr]

ok i know there are probably people who are going to hate me for saying this, but i think she needs to tell her parents and get an abortion. tell only her parents and the neighbors parents. having a kid will ruin her life, if it doesnt kill her.
::yes:: Too bad I can't find the right Maury video. Listen, if she does have a baby, no doubt she'll be one of those girls that says "I can't do my schoolwork and take care of a baby!" *cry cry* *sob sob*
No doubt about it!

[BabyPiglet]

I really don't know your situation but I have some advice.

13 year olds defantly are not ready for a child, as they are still young kids themselves. They are not mature or emotionally ready. Does she realize how hard a pregnancy is? Especially at her young age? Now, I'm not saying she should get an abortioon, but maybe she should think about adoption. Their are plenty of mature families out there ready to take in a baby.

The doctor should have been able to give her a defanite answer, I don't know what's up with that. She also needs to go tell her mother now!

[StephaBabe50]

I really don't know your situation but I have some advice.

13 year olds defantly are not ready for a child, as they are still young kids themselves. They are not mature or emotionally ready. Does she realize how hard a pregnancy is? Especially at her young age? Now, I'm not saying she should get an abortioon, but maybe she should think about adoption. Their are plenty of mature families out there ready to take in a baby.

The doctor should have been able to give her a defanite answer, I don't know what's up with that. She also needs to go tell her mother now!

I agree that adoption is probably the best idea...

[BandGeek911]

She needs to get a definate answer. What's up with that doctor? Could she see a better doctor?

And if she is pregnant, she needs to tell her mother now. Her mom will find out evenutally, she can't hide a baby. And her mother is most likely going to notice the weight gain. She should just tell her parents now.

Adoption is a better idea than abortion IMO.


I'm sorry, prayers and pixie dust to her. :hug:
This must be a difficult situation for her.


13 years old is way to young for giving birth

[RrCoAsTeR]

Um. wow. Like a year ago? So like, 12?

Sorry. Just getting over that.

I agree with what most posters are saying. I think her parents would probably be more upset to find out later on, when there is less time to make desicions...

but... why not buy a cheap pregnancy test or two with her sister, and see how that goes before jumping to conclusions.

And if it turns out she is preg, and her parents aren't willing to take the child as their own, then IMO, adoption is the best route. If you go over to the CB and just cruise through, you can see numerous stable adult couples wjo would really like to have children and are unable.

This is JMO.

[RrCoAsTeR]

The doctor should have been able to give her a defanite answer, I don't know what's up with that. She also needs to go tell her mother now!


Yeah...

maybe, since they are both minors or something the doctor can't?:confused3

[DisGirlAllie]

:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: wow just wow! I do not know what in the world abortions are but i will find out tomorrow in FLE.:scared1: Trust me nobody at school likes FLE.:scared1: Anyway about your friend she should tell her parents because sooner or later they'll find out.

[Gaius]

Tip off the parents of the father.

Screw him over a bit.

[VolleyballQt07]

Question for you and everyone else who's posted on this thread.

How do we know she's not making this up?




Anyways, If she IS pregnant, like others said, she needs to tell her mom. No ifs ands ors or buts about it. Her parents need to know the situation. And if she isn't pregnant, she should still tell her mom because if it was unprotected sex, then she could have gotten a disease. :confused3 Either way, help her tell her mom to get her tested for sure. And if it is a false alarm, tell her to not consider sex until marrige............:confused3

[Sparx]

Question for you and everyone else who's posted on this thread.

How do we know she's not making this up?




Anyways, If she IS pregnant, like others said, she needs to tell her mom. No ifs ands ors or buts about it. Her parents need to know the situation. And if she isn't pregnant, she should still tell her mom because if it was unprotected sex, then she could have gotten a disease. :confused3 Either way, help her tell her mom to get her tested for sure. And if it is a false alarm, tell her to not consider sex until marrige............:confused3

How do we know that ANY of us aren't making ANYTHING up? :confused3

[VolleyballQt07]

How do we know that ANY of us aren't making ANYTHING up? :confused3

true. but it was just a question............i mean, she could be lying or telling the truth. we'll never know. :confused3

[PrincessKally]

true. but it was just a question............i mean, she could be lying or telling the truth. we'll never know. :confused3

That was my intial reaction, how do we know its the truth, we don't so I just gave my advice as if it was. You can't ever be to sure if something is real or not via the internet.

[VolleyballQt07]

That was my intial reaction, how do we know its the truth, we don't so I just gave my advice as if it was. You can't ever be to sure if something is real or not via the internet.

::yes:: i agree.

But, if it is a real situation..............Prayers and Pixie Dust to the girl and hope that everything will be ok. :) :wizard: pixiedust:

[BabyPiglet]

I'm sure people lie on here all the time. But I'll never know for sure, so I just give my suggestions.

[CrazyChik]

true. but it was just a question............i mean, she could be lying or telling the truth. we'll never know. :confused3

we won't know but her friend will if abortion is ouuta the question and she is pregnant it's very very very likely for her to develop a bump. it's NOT certain as a few people have had pregancies and not known it coz the baby was somewhere towards the back or something and it never created a bump i cant remember now but thats vey very very rare.


anyways i'm 13. no way could i have a baby right now. no 13 year old is emotionally prepared for it and it will get in the way of schoolwork.

adoption is a good option. some ways even allow you to chose the parents(not sure if you have to be a certain age) but still it's going to be really hard to carry a baby for 9 months give birth to it and let it go. nothing can prepare you for that. specially not at 13

[Mickey1122]

How do we know that ANY of us aren't making ANYTHING up? :confused3

Well, we can always ask that question, but I think that for the most part, I trust the more active posters on here. They have built up credibility during the time I have known them. I haven't gotten to know the OP, so at this point she has no credibility, unlike posters like you.

[Sparx]

Well, we can always ask that question, but I think that for the most part, I trust the more active posters on here. They have built up credibility during the time I have known them. I haven't gotten to know the OP, so at this point she has no credibility, unlike posters like you.

I don't have the time or energy to keep up with lying to you all.

None of you know me, few of you speak to me off the TB. why would I lie?

I don't understand why anyone else would.

[Mickey1122]

We were talking about how that kind of "lie" relates to the American Dream and The Great Gatsby. Here, you can exaggerate or change facts to essentially make yourself a new, different person. It's like a fantasy. We have that opportunity here, and when we first go to college. That could be a reason, but I really don't know. I started posting on the trip planning boards when I joined, and there's no point in lying there, so I just continue being honest. Still, there's a HUGE difference between honest and open. For example, I try to tell the truth, but I won't spill my life story on the dis.

[Sparx]

We were talking about how that kind of "lie" relates to the American Dream and The Great Gatsby. Here, you can exaggerate or change facts to essentially make yourself a new, different person. It's like a fantasy. We have that opportunity here, and when we first go to college. That could be a reason, but I really don't know. I started posting on the trip planning boards when I joined, and there's no point in lying there, so I just continue being honest. Still, there's a HUGE difference between honest and open. For example, I try to tell the truth, but I won't spill my life story on the dis.

If someone asks, I'll tell. If its relavent, even if I'd rather not share it, I'll tell. I'm an open book. Most of my life has been normal. but I'm more than willing to share the parts that haven't. I've done it several times here.

[BabyPiglet]

If someone asks, I'll tell. If its relavent, even if I'd rather not share it, I'll tell. I'm an open book. Most of my life has been normal. but I'm more than willing to share the parts that haven't. I've done it several times here.

*nods head in agreement*

[AllyGirlie]

Sure it's easy to say get a pregnancy test and be positive she is before going to her parents. But have you put in any thought about what happens if the pregnancy comes back negative? My guess is she'll put this incident in the past, never breathe a word of it to her parents and possibly go right back to doing what she's been doing (although I hope she learns from this and thinks twice).

In my opinion she needs to tell her parents now regardless of whether she's sure or not because the longer she puts this off, the worse it'll be. I'm sure her parents will be furious, but most likely after the shock wears off they'll sit down with her and have a serious talk about what to do.


So much for keeping this a secret now that its posted on a forum where thousands of people can view this. Also the OP posted on this thread using her mom's account by accident meaning that most likely her mom now has a link to this..

[milkabum]

Why would someone post a lie about their friend having a baby?

Anyways, I say adoption. I mean she obviouisly isn't ready for a baby, and I don't completely agree with abortion. Pray to god she didn't catch any STD's because obviously she was unprotected. Good luck to her, hugs!

[DramaQueen]

i kinda thought what VolleyballQt07 that too. I mean, this sounds absolutley INSANE to me!

a 13 years old pregnant!!!
when i was 13, i was still playing Barbie with my sister (yeah, I'll admit it!)
I don't mean to impose my values on anyone but a 13 year old should NOT be having sex!

That being said, I'd really like to say that this must be REALLY scary for her.
As stated before, she should probably get tested to make sure, that can be VERY scary and nervewracking but it needs to be done!!
And when she finds out the results go from there.
Take things one step at a time, she needs to REALLY think about what she is going to do.

I really hope that she is NOT pregnant. And I hope that she will think about what she has done and WAIT until she is ready to have sex.

Prayers & PD. :hippie: Caitlin

[kjkcool]

My friend's biological mom had her when she was 14.Her mom had another kid a year later,my friend's sister,when she was 15. Then at 16 and 17,she had my friend's other sister and her brother. They lived with her grandma,but their basic needs were barley met.Bothe of her mom's boyfriends,the dads, were in prison.My friend's grandma really wanted to make it work I think,but she finally one day relized it just wasn't possible to keep them,and asked her mother to put them up for adoption.The mother reluctantly did so,and my friend and her siblings were bounced from foster home to foster home,sometimes all together,but mostly apart.Some of the foster people drank and were terrible to them.One day,a couple who was told they couldn't have kids adopted them all together. My friend had a hard life.I'm extremly glad that her mother didn't have an abortion and my friend is too.I think of course my friend's mother should have put all of her kids up for adoption in the first place,(and used protection,but not going there....).
I just want all of you people who say she should definitly get an abortion should think.I could have never gotten my best friend in the world if her mother had had one.

[ktbutterfly2011]

Question for you and everyone else who's posted on this thread.

How do we know she's not making this up?




Anyways, If she IS pregnant, like others said, she needs to tell her mom. No ifs ands ors or buts about it. Her parents need to know the situation. And if she isn't pregnant, she should still tell her mom because if it was unprotected sex, then she could have gotten a disease. :confused3 Either way, help her tell her mom to get her tested for sure. And if it is a false alarm, tell her to not consider sex until marrige............:confused3


Why does it even matter? I mean really... if you give your advice and it turns out this is just a big scam how will it hurt you? Well anyways thats just MHO.

I can't give any better advice than the advice already gave.

[VolleyballQt07]

Why does it even matter? I mean really... if you give your advice and it turns out this is just a big scam how will it hurt you? Well anyways thats just MHO.

I can't give any better advice than the advice already gave.

Again people..........I was JUST asking! Sorry. :confused3

[Tink-a-boo]

What if you told your mother about the situation? Maybe she could help you with your friend? :confused3

[EeyoreFan1]

How do we know that ANY of us aren't making ANYTHING up? :confused3

I'm sure we all make things up. Its just the web for you.

[hidmickey:myantidrug]

Again people..........I was JUST asking! Sorry. :confused3

Hey, don't worry about it. I was thinking the same thing. Mine was based purely on the fact that the doctor couldn't tell her. Any credable (sp) doctor is able to determine pregnancy.

[Adi12982]

So what ended up happening? Was it a false alarm or . . . ??

[Loves Disney]

It is the parent's responsibility to care for their children until the children are capable of supporting themselves. Every parent makes that vow at the moment the baby is concieved. If your friend's mother feels it necessary to kick her daughter out at 13 years old...well then, I don't know what to think lol. Her parent's should be the ones to help her get through this. If she is pregnant, there is no use in crying over spilled milk, it is not her parent's job at that point to tell her how wrong she is and how she ruined her life and all that jive. It becomes their job to care for her and help her through this emotional bomb.

What I have to say as far as advice goes has already been said over and over again on this thread lol.

13 is WAY too young to have a baby...it's a pity she might be pregnant. :guilty:

[catycatcat4]

Hey, don't worry about it. I was thinking the same thing. Mine was based purely on the fact that the doctor couldn't tell her. Any credable (sp) doctor is able to determine pregnancy.

maybe shes not and the doctor wanted too scare her out of doing it any more

[VolleyballQt07]

So what ended up happening? Was it a false alarm or . . . ??

Yeah.....what happened? :confused3

[BabyPiglet]

maybe shes not and the doctor wanted too scare her out of doing it any more

I highly doubt that. He might have done that if we really really wanted a lawsuit on his hands.

[_tinkerbell_]

ok i know there are probably people who are going to hate me for saying this, but i think she needs to tell her parents and get an abortion. tell only her parents and the neighbors parents. having a kid will ruin her life, if it doesnt kill her.

i understand what you mean and i know this is terrible thing to happen to anyone in their teens (let alone a 13 year old) but i think too many people stereotype other people. just because people say "she wont cope" and "it will ruin her life" it doesnt mean that "everyone" will be the same.
My friends sister was pregnant at the age of 12 :confused3 yeah thats terrible but she managed. she still went to school with the help of her mother and then went to college. she is now a teacher and has built her life around her child. i know some parents cannot stay home and look after grandchildren. but im just saying that it sometimes can work out. xxx

[BabyPiglet]

i understand what you mean and i know this is terrible thing to happen to anyone in their teens (let alone a 13 year old) but i think too many people stereotype other people. just because people say "she wont cope" and "it will ruin her life" it doesnt mean that "everyone" will be the same.
My friends sister was pregnant at the age of 12 :confused3 yeah thats terrible but she managed. she still went to school with the help of her mother and then went to college. she is now a teacher and has built her life around her child. i know some parents cannot stay home and look after grandchildren. but im just saying that it sometimes can work out. xxx

?Why do people say she won't cope? Because for goodness sakes she is still a child. Barely a teenager. Why should she have to plan her life around a child. I have a free and open fututre. At this point I can do whatever I want. Even if she did have an abortion, her soul would be scarred for life. She will never be the same. You're acting like it's no big deal!?! She might have a baby growing inside of her, when she is just a baby.

I reccomend putting it up for adoption.

[shakebear]

Although I am firmly against abortion, this girl does not really seem to have a choice if she is pregnant. No one who is 13 years old is emotionally or physically ready to have a child. By physically I mean it will probably kill her, or the child, or both or have the child be born prematurely and sick. I am not at all recommending abortion, or am I pro-abortion, but I don't see much of a choice for this girl.

If she hasn't already, she needs to find out A.S.A.P. if she is, in fact pregnant she has some major decisions to make, and she absolutely needs to tell her parents.

Adoption is an option though , she should consider that if she is considering having the child. But, if she wants to have this child and raise it, that's her decision.

But overall, my prayers go to her and I hope she is alright.

[BabyPiglet]

Although I am firmly against abortion, this girl does not really seem to have a choice if she is pregnant. No one who is 13 years old is emotionally or physically ready to have a child. By physically I mean it will probably kill her, or the child, or both or have the child be born prematurely and sick. I am not at all recommending abortion, or am I pro-abortion, but I don't see much of a choice for this girl.

If she hasn't already, she needs to find out A.S.A.P. if she is, in fact pregnant she has some major decisions to make, and she absolutely needs to tell her parents.

But overall, my prayers go to her, I hope she is alright.

Okay, yes but oh nevermind...

[Loves Disney]

I don't think anyone can tell someone to get an abortion. That is such as sensitive decision that many people are against.

[crazy2beautiful]

Things like this happen way too often.
I'm in high school, and I can't even count how many girls are walking around pregnant or they've already had babies. One of the most recent girls is just a sophmore now. It's way too early.

[Mickey1122]

Things like this happen way too often.
I'm in high school, and I can't even count how many girls are walking around pregnant or they've already had babies. One of the most recent girls is just a sophmore now. It's way too early.

:scared1: It's shocking to hear that it happens so much at your school. It has never happened here.

[BabyPiglet]

:scared1: It's shocking to hear that it happens so much at your school. It has never happened here.

I think my town is similiar to yours Andrew. I have only heard of one girl ever that got pregnant in high school. She quit school and I never heard about her again.

[AmoDolphin]

My opinion:
When she was having sex she was saying that she was ready to be a parent with that dude. Even if she wasn't planning on getting pregnent, that's what she was saying. If she is pregnant, then she should live with the consequence, and have and keep the baby.
Abortion to me is murder, and I don't think adoption is great either for teen mothers. Doesn't anybody watch Cold Case? The post-abortion/adoption depression can kill you because you're so depressed. As the baby grows, most (I'm not saying all), mothers grow to love their child. It's just motherly instinct. I know there are mothers who had sex at 13, and never loved their child/abused them, but I think she should keep the baby. I think the baby will grow on her (no pun intended).
The girl may be better off if she just leaves that house, even if she isn't pregnant. Does she have a grandparent that she could stay with? What about a close friend / other family member? With a step dad who would beat her if she were pregnant, then he could abuse her if she wasn't pregnant, too.

[CastawayJ]

no matter what

this is not good for her

[Maleficent909TL]

Before I offer any advice that might pop into my head, what's the current situation? Has she taken any pregnancy tests or anything? What has she done so far?

Now that that question is out of the way, if she hasn't taken a pregnancy test, she needs to. Knowing if she's pregnant or not will make a huge difference in the important desicions she going to have to make. Regardless, I think she should tell her parents. They have a right to know what goes on in her life, especially something this important.

As for whether she should have abortion, put it up for adoption, etc., I think that's really up to her. No one else can tell her what she should do. She made the desicion to have sex at such a young age, and she should have been ready to deal with the consequences. I don't want to sound harsh, but there's so much to think about. What if the baby she has is adopted out to a family that doesn't care for it? That's just another child suffering from abuse. It could become another subject to abortion. I just don't like the carelessness invovled in such an act.

But really, I think she should tell her parents. The rest is up to her.

[VolleyballQt07]

I'm starting to think this isn't real because the OP hasn't posted anything for a couple weeks on here. :confused3

[hidmickey:myantidrug]

If she is pregnant, there is no use in crying over spilled milk,

I believe I understand what you're trying to say here but this is WAY more than a "spilled milk" situation.

[Loves Disney]

I believe I understand what you're trying to say here but this is WAY more than a "spilled milk" situation.

I know it is, I used that expression in the context I had. That he should not sit there and abuse her and force it in her face that she is a bad person for doing what she did and going over what she did. She knows what she did and she probably feels very very bad about it. She doesn't need a close person to tell her what she knows and how she feels...what she needs is a shoulder to cry on and someone who will help and support her.

[_tinkerbell_]

:sad2: ?Why do people say she won't cope? Because for goodness sakes she is still a child. Barely a teenager. Why should she have to plan her life around a child. I have a free and open fututre. At this point I can do whatever I want. Even if she did have an abortion, her soul would be scarred for life. She will never be the same. You're acting like it's no big deal!?! She might have a baby growing inside of her, when she is just a baby.

I reccomend putting it up for adoption.

Thats the problem with people today! ooo your pregnant lets just abort it because i think you cant cope....why should she have to cope? because she made the huge mistake..i didnt say it wasnt a big deal did i? even if she has the baby and then puts it up for adoption..think about all the women around the world who pay a lkot of money over and over again that would die for a child and people just go around getting rid of them! yeah shes a baby but all i was trying to say that it can work not that it will...abortions are getting so regular these days as if its not really a life, quite upsetting how people think really.

[tigger/winnie/tink]

is she prgnent its two months later????????????????????

[_tinkerbell_]

yeah sorry, how is she?

[Mickey1122]

I think this situation has been dealt with. I think early in the thread, she posted as her mother by accident. Call me the DIS tattletale, but the intelligent thing to do was to get a parent involved..in all honesty, what good are a bunch of teenagers who live miles and miles away preaching their opinions on pregnancy and what should be done with it. I contacted the parent.

[Sparkle_Cherry]

You did the right thing, Andrew. Considering the seriousness of the situation, you're no tattletale.

[DarlingDonald]

That was the right thing to do Andrew.

[StephaBabe50]

I agree, that was the right
thing to do. I am curious
though, what ever happened
to the girl?

[Mickey1122]

I don't know what happened. I contacted the mother when this situation first cropped up.

[DarlingDonald]

Thats good. But, I still would like to know how things are.

[JulielovesDisney]

That's sad! I knew a girl who had a baby at 14.

I would tell her to talk to her parents and her doctor to find out if it is true! Even though it'll be hard, it has to be done.

[McBritIsBack]

Yes I'm glad an adult knows about the situation now

[BabyPiglet]

Are we going to start this whole thing over again?

[Tinky89]

Gosh, I am going to be 18 on July 7th and I am still not ready to have a baby. It is not that I don't love kids(which I really do) it is because when I have a child of my own I want to be able to provide for that child the best I can. Even at the age that I am about to turn I am no where near that. I hope to get through college and then start thinking about marriage and having a baby.

[allamericancheergirl]

OK so this is wat happened. I got grounded for a while so I couldn't come on. Anyway. She wasn't pregnant she just wanted all the guys to feel bad for her and do her favors. I'm not friends with her and none of my other friends are either. We can't stand her anymore.

[StephaBabe50]

Wow. I don't understand why people make up things like that just for attention..

[pigletgirl]

Trust me, as much as babies are cute and stuff, they are a TON of work. I'm going to wait a LONG time before I even think about having them (assuming I get married).

It's SO hard to get up every single night sometimes more than once and also to be on during the day.

So please wait. There is no way any of us are ready to a mom or dad.

[BabyPiglet]

Wow.

That's a pretty sick thing to make up.

[tigger/winnie/tink]

its rude to do that i don think i want attention like that

[Axel]

making something like that up is incredibly stupid, especially because I'm pretty sure 13 is waay too young to be considered the age of consent in any state, so her parents could have pressed charges against the "boy" if the situation hadn't been resolved. That is just an incredibly stupid thing to do.

[tinkerbelle22]

Wow.

That's a pretty sick thing to make up.

Yeah, it is. And she thought that would make the guys do her favors? Wow. There was a girl in my school who did the same exact thing, now that I think about it, and for the same exact reason. We all knew it wasn't true though :confused3

[DisGirlAllie]

wow. O_o

[meeshheartsdisney217]

mature thing to do.

[allamericancheergirl]

I no rite? She was such a jerk to do that!!! The other day my friends and I were at an Ice Cream Parlor and we saw her there with the whole football team. It was kinda sad. She was in a belly shirt and a band aid size skirt. Then she had the nerve to make fun of us by calling us a nerd herd when she used to be one of us. We were all so mad!! Its annoying.


~Kate~:grouphug:

[disney100666]

OMG, what is horrible thing to make up, wow that's sickining.

[GirlWithSpunk]

Your ex-friend needs to grow up and be a little more mature.
You dont mess around with stuff like that, seriously. :sad2:

[Pirate Me]

Very immature..

[bouncytigger22]

Mmmkay, I'm assuming she's had sex and her period is late. But you have to remember, most 13 year old girls aren't like clockwork. I suggest a cheap pregnancy test, and a talk with her mother. If she is in fact pregnant, she's got some important decisions to make. If shes not, I hope she realizes that she's not ready for sex if she's not ready for the obvious consequences.

totally agree shelby.

[C.J. Sparrow]

That's really sad. She used to be your best friend, and she turned around and did this.

What a jerk.

[lpe_bratz]

wow thats a bad thing to make up. and actually pretty stupid. :sad2:

[bouncytigger22]

Wow......

[chevyxxroks]

wow.
how immature.
:mad: