Advice

[JackSparrow0791]

Hey everyone,

I need some advice,
theres this girl i like at my school and im friendly with her, but we dont talk too much, though the times i have talked to her shes been raelly nice and stuff, we also made i contact today and looked at each other for what felt like 30 seconds


any advice???? thank you

[hidmickey:myantidrug]

I'd see if you have some mutual friends or mutual mutual ;) and get together sometime so you get to know each other better. It'll be a lot easier to do something about it if you have more contact.

[AngienLuLu]

Girls like it when boys do this:

You go up and complement her on her hair or shoes or something. Then, you just walk away. And within 10 seconds, she'll come after you. Girls like it when boys just complement them and don't try to hit on them. It shows a lot of class. Trust me, it works. That's how my boyfriend got me.

~LuLu

[HSMndLKfan92]

Girls like it when boys do this:

You go up and complement her on her hair or shoes or something. Then, you just walk away. And within 10 seconds, she'll come after you. Girls like it when boys just complement them and don't try to hit on them. It shows a lot of class. Trust me, it works. That's how my boyfriend got me.

~LuLu


::yes:: We women love compliments.
I also personally like it if guys make a lot of eye contact. Its kind of like an unspoken bond.

Anyway, don't run after her all the time. Don't drown her in compliments.

Also, get her screen name or phone number. Im her or call her sometime. But once again, don't make anything 24 / 7.

If you have a trusted female friend that is friends with this girl, explain your situation.

[Sparx]

heh. I won't share how my boyfriend and I got together. We're seriously twisted. you don't wanna know.

Flirt with her, but don't get like obscene. Try complimenting her and just playfully flirt with her, then kindof just pretend to walk away, like the poster above me mentioned.

works

every

time.

[wishspirit]

When i saw my boyfriedn for the first time i went head over heals for him. I asked a mutal friend what he was liked, joined some of his clubs and got to know him better.

its now been 2 years!

It can work, just find out what they like and try and start a conversation

good luck!

[PatriotsRule]

Girls like it when boys do this:

You go up and complement her on her hair or shoes or something. Then, you just walk away. And within 10 seconds, she'll come after you. Girls like it when boys just complement them and don't try to hit on them. It shows a lot of class. Trust me, it works. That's how my boyfriend got me.

~LuLu

Absolutely! ::yes:: But don't compliment her in a way that makes her respond with: "Okay, what do you want?" Don't try too hard. Just get to know her. Above all, when she's talking to you, LISTEN! Nothing's more frustrating than talking to someone who doesn't even look like they're listening to you. Make eye contact and actually listen to what she says.

[BeachBabi0]

talk to her. listen and make sure she knows that you care about what she has to say. that's the best thing

[AngienLuLu]

Good luck hun. Let me know how it turns out, because I care. If you ever have an questions, I would be glad to help. :wizard:

~LuLu :smooth:

[StitchfansJr]

::yes:: We women love compliments.
I also personally like it if guys make a lot of eye contact. Its kind of like an unspoken bond.

Anyway, don't run after her all the time. Don't drown her in compliments.

Also, get her screen name or phone number. Im her or call her sometime. But once again, don't make anything 24 / 7.
If you have a trusted female friend that is friends with this girl, explain your situation.
This is what my friend did last year. He called me almost 5 times every day. Rumors started spreading that we were boyfriend and girlfriend. Now he doesn't talk to me anymore.

[minnie_2006]

okay i haven't got a boyf but still...

just be a friend. show her that u care but don't over do it. email her, text her, IM her-show interest but again don't over do it. just be friendly, nice, kind. just get to know her and be urself, that's the main thing and if she doesn't like u how u are, don't change '*** she's obviously not the one. if she does lyke u, she'll lyke u 4 who u are. good luck :)

and please tell us what happens!!

[HSMndLKfan92]

My little secret that I use on guys that I like:

I'll im him one night. Yes, always night. No apparent reason.

Once the conversation starts to die, I'm say,

What's your favorite football team?

And we'll talk about it.

But, basically, I'll talk about someting to him that interests him.

Find out what she likes, and eventually talk to her about it.

[WORLDwarQUIFFLE]

compliments can sometimes make girls oh so neverous.
so if you compliment her & she gets nervous.. she may like you.

[Captain Brain]

Why can't it work for me? Maybe it could have to do with the fact that my girl is also a friend....

[HSMndLKfan92]

Why can't it work for me? Maybe it could have to do with the fact that my girl is also a friend....

That's true.

Honestly, if you like a girl, you're better off just being her friend.

Getting into a relationship with her will ruin your friendship after you would brake up.

I learned the hard way with my ex. Even though we dated for a month and a half. Even if he says that we didn't really date . . .

[WORLDwarQUIFFLE]

Why can't it work for me? Maybe it could have to do with the fact that my girl is also a friend....

actually, there are a lot of girls who have to be friends with a person to even like them in the first place.

[JackSparrow0791]

thanks for the help guys, but now im even more confused(not becuase of you) but cause i went to a sweet 16 party and met this really cute girl and now im confused :(

[HSMndLKfan92]

thanks for the help guys, but now im even more confused(not becuase of you) but cause i went to a sweet 16 party and met this really cute girl and now im confused :(


:sad2: What have we gotten ourselves into.

If you need any advice concerning both girls, you could always pm me.

[WORLDwarQUIFFLE]

aha.
don't let it end up like a movie,
where you give up on the girl who you liked first
& go out with the one you met at the party..
and then you find out the girl you liked first liked you all along.

[PeterPan#1Fan]

Why can't it work for me? Maybe it could have to do with the fact that my girl is also a friend....
You see the hard thing with friends is that if they never had a clue that you liked them when they find out theyget weirded out and don't talk to you again, but sometimes they wwant to be your friend because they like you. It is very confusing.

[Captain Brain]

I'll just have to see how things go, maybe somehting could happen....

If we were a movie....

[HSMndLKfan92]

I'll just have to see how things go, maybe somehting could happen....

If we were a movie....


Just keep being her friend for now.

Mayyybee ask one of her friends you can trust if she likes you?

[JackSparrow0791]

If we were a movie....

ud be the right girl, and id be the best friend...

[Sparx]

Why can't it work for me? Maybe it could have to do with the fact that my girl is also a friend....
Theres a thin, thin line between friends first and just friends. When you're becoming friends with a girl, with hopes to become more than that, you have to make sure to not cross that line.

Girls are stupid sometimes. I'll admit to that much.

I had this guy sit there and tell me about breaking up with his girlfriend. then he asked me if I was single. I went on and on for ten minutes about how great my boyfriend is. Upon recounting the story, mike informed me that he was trying to hit on me, and I shot him down in about the bloodiest way possible.

I had no idea. I felt really stupid afterwards, but honestly, I had no idea he was interested in me.

[JackSparrow0791]

funny im in that exact situation alot, cept im the guy