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Imzadi
05-05-2006, 06:10 PM
I am very discouraged. I frankly doubt people now who say they went on such & such a diet & lost 10 lbs in the first week/month. That hasn't been my result of the two diets I've been on. Not even losing water weight.

For the last two years , I was on the South Beach Diet because I tend to be hypoglycemic & adult on-set diabetes runs in my family. I wanted to balance my blood sugar levels & KEEP my weight down. A doctor told me that as long as I maintained my then current weight of 115, at 5'4", I'd probably never have to worry about getting adult on-set diabetes.

On the SDB, I ended up gaining 12 lbs :furious: It is hard to stick to the program as prescribed. When I could not find lean proteins, (there aren't many in my local supermarkets,) I figured any protein is better than none. And when I would binge on sugar, sugar was like crack cocaine to me. :sad2: No one tells you about that down side. The cravings you get from having a little, after having had none, are more intense than being allowed to have some sugar now & again. Plus, I never agreed with substituting artificial sugars for real sugars in treats. :rolleyes:

The ONLY good thing I got from SBD is to make sure I eat a protein with every sugar/carb I injest, to make sure I don't spike my glucose levels & blow my pancrease. There is even a recent study that says watching the glycemic index msy not be accurate - which is what I began to suspect. http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/11616968/

A light bulb went off in my head a couple months ago & I realized, SBD is NOT working for me if I have been gaining weight. :rolleyes: I didn't really have a weight problem before SDB, so much as I needed to exercise & tone. Now, an old pair of pants that used to be loose, now wont close by 4".

So I switched to the Weight Watchers points program at the end of March. The one big thing I noticed was how it automatically cut down my portion sizes - especially the proteins. That in itself, may account for the weight I had been gaining. :cheer2: My fat intake is down. And I could have low point/low sugar (not no sugar) treats - as long as I ate them with a protein. :banana: This thread: What do you keep in your WW pantry? (http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=485818) has given a wealth of low point, yummy treats. :thumbsup2 I rarely go overboard on any binging as I'm allowed to have them (with a protein.) :cheer2: I actually had days where I was close to not eating enough points!

I have been exercising at the gym. In Jan-Feb, I was there 3 times a week. Then I hurt my back in March. :( I didn't get to work out for a full 3 weeks. :sick: When I got back into the gym, I could barely do as much of ANYthing I was doing before. That has been quite discouraging. Now, I'm only in the gym 1-2 times per week.

I haven't lost ANY weight, but since I've been exercising & hopefully building muscle mass, I expected that on the scale. I HAVE noticed that my shoulders, upper chest, & arms are much more toned & look pre-weight. I lost an inch & cup size on my bust. I fit into my old bras that had started straining at the elastics.

I heard once that women are like buckets when we gain weight. We fill up from the bottom & hips upwards. Then lose the same way, from top (bust) downwards, last to go is the hips. That seems to be true of me. :rolleyes: I wouldn't have minded losing a bra cup size, but I'm not losing ANYTHING in the ONE area I want to be losing: my waist & tummy! :furious:

I am very discouraged. It is really the ONLY area that I want to lose weight the most. If I felt like I was making any headway in that area, I wouldn't mind how long it is taking. :(

Please don't say, losing the last 10-12 lbs is the hardest. That doesn't make sense to me, as how does the body know it's the last 10 lbs?. :confused3 Plus, I ONLY have to lose 12 lbs. Why should that be any different from any other 10 lbs? As far as my body is concerned it has gained weight - & this amount is more than it's ever had. :(

Help! I need words of encouragement. I also fear I'll have that belly flap even after I lose the 12 lbs. taslked about in: Flat Stomach. (http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1082146)

DVCkidsMOM
05-06-2006, 06:49 PM
Wow, this could have been my post from a couple years ago. I gave up - why deprive myself of anything if I don't get the result I wanted? So now I am back at my heaviest as I was then. I'm so miserable at the moment that I'm realizing that an inch off my arms and bust is better than this. I've adjusted my goal to lose some inches somewhere rather than lose where I want. I don't know if I'll get what I want eventually or not, but I've got to feel better than I do now. I would love to be the size I was before I had kids, which I though at the time was worse than when I got married which was worse than when I was a grad student which was infinitely worst from school and undergrad college where I thought I was fat at the time - I've been wrong. It can always get worse and it's time to get better.
Here is my plan, in addition to the above. Since SB is recommended to BF's DH and BF has asked me to join it, I'm going to try it. I don't know if I can handle the first 2 weeks - will try but have a personal goal of 1 week without modifications. I'm commited to trying SB for 6 weeks ('til I leave for WDW) then I'll reassess the situation when I return from WDW. (I'll use portion control and some discretion but not strict rules while at WDW.) I've got to exercise more than I am now and am going to have to build it into the schedule. I've been getting up early to check for AP codes, so I guess I've got extra morning time now... I've got BF and am going to post on here if anyone is starting SB Monday for a first-two-weeks buddy. If you're interested in buddying up since I had a similar sizing experience last time I actually "dieted", PM me. Hope something here helps - if all else fails at least you know you're not alone ;)