Taking a 6 wk old to BC.. [Archive] - The DIS Discussion Forums

jel0511

09-26-2001, 06:15 AM

I wouldn't take the baby. I'd either stay home or leave the baby home with someone. A six week old is still getting up 2 -3 times per night (at least both of mine did), and you are in one room. You will not only disturb your sleep, but the sleep of your whole family. Definately not a recipe for a fun vacation!!! We took our son a couple of months ago when he was 4 months, definately was a very different trip. We only were at the parks for a few hours each day, since the baby needed to nap often. I also needed a nap!!! I'm sure your older children wouldn't like being at the parks for only a few hours than having to hang out in the room while you and the baby rested.

ducklite

09-26-2001, 07:13 AM

First of all, IMHO it's not a good idea to expose a young infant to that many people/germs.

Next, the baby will cry at night to be fed, and wake up you, your family, and potentially the people in the next room. (DS is 15, but I still wake up instantly when I hear a baby cry--when my neice/nephews were young and visiting, I got no sleep...)

On the same train of thought--you will be exhausted, and an exhausted mom with kids who are hyper to go to the theme parks does not a good mix make. Your husband will be tired from his conference, so I wouldn't count on much help for him, although the 9 yo is probably a good helper...but not enough to be alone with three kids in a theme park.

The amount of baby gear you'd have to lug is incredible! If you are nursing you'll have to be prepared for either doing so in public, or taking what can be a fairly long trip to the other side of the park to the first aid areas for privacy. If you are feeding formula, sterilization, heating and etc. will be at the least, problematic.

I strongly suggest you wait until you are better rested, the baby is older, and your husband can give you full help and attention, and plan a trip that way.

Anne

scrapper

09-26-2001, 10:35 AM

I appreciate your responses..but, I am so upset b/c as you can see "I" really want to go to Disney & you guys are really talking me out of it.
Is there anyone else with any thoughts?:confused:

jel0511

09-26-2001, 11:04 AM

I'm going to aplogize first, so here goes...

I have to say that you should be thinking about the welfare of your newborn first before you think about what YOU want. I understand you you want to go, but the health and well being of your child should come first. Do you realize how selfish your previous post sounded? All we are doing is giving our opinions on what we feel is appropriate in your situation. I was very apprehensive on bringing my 4 mth old, I did it only because we were going to FL anyway to visit my MIL. Would I do it again, probably not. It was a very taxing vacation, the times we were in the room with my 3 yr old climbing the walls, while the baby was sleeping were torture. Luckily we were in a villa and were able to place the baby in a separate room so he could get some peace and quiet away from his sister, another reason we choose to go. If you are dead set on going I would DEFINATELY recommend on getting a villa. YOu 'll have the kitchen facilities that you really need to prepare anything, wash clothes at a moments notice and have separete areas for sleeping. This is decision is yours and yours alone to make. All I can do is tell you that I think it is a bad idea and that the baby should stay home. I also understand that you probably don't want to leave a baby that young with anyone, so you feel the only way you can go is to take the baby with you. I think you should just pass on this opportunity and plan a vacation when that baby will be a little older.

KellyJ

09-26-2001, 11:25 AM

Have you checked with the baby's pediatrician? If the Dr. feels it would be OK, it can be done, although, as others have mentioned, it might make for an exhausting trip. That being said, I would probably do it if my Pediatrician thought it would be OK. When our third child was born, she was no trouble to put into the baby sling and carry with us wherever we needed to go. I didn't want our older two children to feel as though the baby was keeping us from doing things like school trips and vacations that were of importance to them. My pediatrician told me that as long as I was comfortable, kept the baby out of the sun and out of direct contact with strangers (she was 5 weeks and it was a short trip near home) we would be fine. I'm not sure I would fly with a baby that young because of the recirculated air but a Dr. could advise you better on that. As far as park touring... just take it slow, rest when you need to, keep the baby in a carrier or sling close to you and you should be OK. Most importantly, do whatever makes you feel comfortable!

Kelly

lovethemouse

09-26-2001, 11:37 AM

As far as taking an infant to DW, it can be easily done. Young babies sleep so much, and usually love being in a snuggly/sling next to Mom. Or sleep very nicely in a stroller. I was apprehensive about taking our then 4month old in Jan. but it worked out great. I don't think you need a villa, if you staying on site there are laundry facilities are convenient. I too suggest you talk to you baby's pediatrician, and if she says its ok then just use your common sense. People aren't going to be touching your baby, and just make sure you wash your hands often, especially before a feeding( can you tell I'm and R.N? lol) I understand you wanting to go, we all need a break too, I don't think you should have gotten flamed for that. But I think if you listen to your baby's DR. you will be fine. Good Luck!

jodyb

09-26-2001, 11:50 AM

OMG! I was shocked by the responses you got!!!!
I think they are all terribly off base, and I have a completely different type of answer for you. Just so you might have a bit
of confidence in me I have 3 kids - the oldest is 20 and the youngest is 10 and I worked with infants on a kibbutz for 3 years so I do know babies.

Your baby will NOT be at risk for anything bad if you take him/her to WDW!!!! The idea is nothing short of ridiculous! YOu do not have to keep your baby in a sterile environment. YOu should carry your baby with you everywhere you go, whenever and wherever you want!! You are NOT being selfish! YOur 6 week old infant just wants to be with you - it doesn't care if you are at WDW or in Timbuktu!!! You will be FINE. I think you should go and have a wonderful fantastic time!!!
Keeping your baby in a front-pack or Snugli type thing, or best yet, a sling, would probably be better than a stroller.
That is the ONLY advice you need!!! You are already an experienced mother so you know your baby just needs to be loved, fed, changed, and held - at that age that's all there is.
Please don't ask a pedicatrician about this - NOTHING in their medical training has anything to do with parenting, and your baby is NOT more likely to get sick at WDW!!!!

Just be relaxed and flexible. If you baby is fussy - carry him/her. That's really all there is to it. It's easier to take a tiny infant than a toddler who already has a mind of its own. Infants are portable and don't have any but primal needs. Meet those and you will be FINE. You can even take your baby on some rides, in the sling or front pack.
The BC is a beautiful resort and you and your baby can relax by the pool while your older kids play...
Just go - ignore all the silly advice above (sorry, just MY opinion!!)
WRite me if you want more support!
Jody

lovethemouse

09-26-2001, 11:50 AM

I should have mentioned that when we went last Jan. I was in your exact situation. Had a 9yr old, 5yr old and 4month old and DH was on a business trip. We stayed longer though and vacationed after he was finished. I have to say I didn't take the kids to the parks while he was working , we did other things. DS did the Pirate cruise, DD did the tea party. They swam, played on the playground and had a wonderful time. If you decide to go maybe you would be more comfortable saving the parks for when your DH is there to help.

Magic2000

09-26-2001, 12:00 PM

Just my opinion - if your pediatrician says its OK, then I would say DEFINITELY GO AND HAVE FUN!!! I have traveled many times to Disney with a baby (although mine were always at least a year old) and we had a great time! As long as before you go, you and the other kids understand you may not be able to see all and do all. Just my opinion, but I could never go on a vacation and leave one of my children at home. Just take it easy, try to have a nice sit down lunch somewhere and let the baby nap. I don't recall if you said when yall were going, if it were summer or not, but just take care of yourself and the baby. The other two children will probably be so excited to be there and they'll probably want the baby to "see" everything with them. When we went with my 13 month old, my two older girls wanted to do everything with the little one - they enjoyed buying her little surprises and seeing her face when she saw the characters. We always take our time and enjoy - sometimes traveling with a little one can make you "stop and smell the flowers".

Cathy baby RN

09-26-2001, 12:03 PM

I say GO FOR IT!!

I am a mother of 5. We took our 5th child when he was a month old and had a wonderful time. Our trip had been planned fo a year and I didn't want to disappoint the other children.
The Baby Centers at the parks were wonderful!! I would go in, sit in a rocker in the air conditioning and feed the baby. They have everything you would need for the baby in case you forget something.
Make sure you bring your own stroller, one that lies flat for the baby to sleep. We also were staying at the Contemporary which was really convienent for going back and forth to the parks.

I also am a obstertrics nurse and work with newborns everyday. As long as you use common sense, the baby will be fine. It's much easier to travel with a one month old than a 12 month old. All our son did was eat and sleep.

The important thing is to relax and not stress out. I knew I wouldn't be going on all the rides and thing that I normally do, but that was ok with me.....I knew I'd be back. Just strolling through the parks and going to the shows made me perfectly happy. :)

danacara

09-26-2001, 12:18 PM

Go for it and have a great time. I saw lots of really little guys when I was last at Disney. They seemed to be happy enough sleeping in Mom's chest pack. Your other kids will have a blast! Good luck.

Carl

09-26-2001, 12:27 PM

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This will give you a little idea of how much I'm against it.

Bad for the child.
Bad for your other children (you will be having them look after the little one so YOU can have a little fun. Or/And they will be hindered from enjoying the parks)
Bad for everyone that comes near you.

flynnmnstr

09-26-2001, 12:44 PM

I think that you know your child better than anyone. As long as you take it easy and understand that you will not be able to move at the same pace that you did without an infant you'll be fine. I am sure your pediatrian will give you similar response. I am going in Feb. with a 4 month old (my due date is tomorrow so cross your fingers he arrives soon). I was going to originally postpone the trip but my mother said something similar to above posts-- it is much easier to travel with infant than 1 year old (or when they become mobile). My parents and 17 yo DS are also coming with us so we will have extra hands but we only have two rooms, not a villa and I am sure it will work out fine. I think you should go if you really want to go. I love Disney and I know when we go this time it is going to be a totally different experience with an infant, but its still going to be magical.....

Couple more things... I am planning on bringing front baby carrier because i think it will be easier than stroller, but I am also bringing his car sear with snap and go stoller (infant seat snaps right into base with wheels). We plan on only eating dinners at sit down restaurants and I thought I would use the carrier during the day, but the snap and go in the evenings so he could nap and easy to bring him into restaurants. We are going to be flexible thought its all really going to depend on his mood on any given day. Also I plan on "practicing" before we leave. I am going to go to mall during his nap times and nurse him and have him sleep in snap and go a couple times a week. I thought it would get him used to noise, lights and sleeping in stroller.

Good luck and have fun!

MJS

09-26-2001, 12:47 PM

Carl, I laughed so hard at your "main attraction" graphic. Too funny!

As to the original post, does your trip have to be at this time, or could you defer it a few months until the baby is older? I know you are tagging along on dh's trip, but will there be other opportunities? We took our one year old, and it was a delightful experience. I think we would have enjoyed the trip when she was younger too, but not at 6 weeks. I was too exhausted then! A few months old, maybe. I would worry about the heat (especially in a front baby carrier), as well as the normal stuff (germs, etc.)

Bugster

09-26-2001, 02:06 PM

If you are tagging along on dh's business trip, does that mean that you will be alone with the three kids for most of the trip, while your dh attends business meetings? If so, and you really want to do this, all I can say is I wish I had your energy!;)

mirlow

09-26-2001, 03:36 PM

Is this a decision you have to make right now? I would say go for it, but you might want to find out your little one's temperament is like first. My first daughter was colicky and I can't imagine being at WDW with a baby that screams for 3 hours every night. That's not fun for you the baby or anyone else. Now my 3rd child was very mellow and I could see taking her at that age. We took her when she was 6mths old and she was much easier than her 3yr old brother and 6 yr old sister :D She had so much to look at, she would sleep or eat wherever we were. We all came back to take a much needed rest for all not just the baby. It would probably be much easier if you could stay at a villa but if you can't then I'm sure you could make it work at the BC.
BTW I don't think it would be a "bad" idea if you went to WDW with your baby and I wouldn't feel like it would be "bad" to come in contact with you or your baby:)

carriep1657

09-26-2001, 04:55 PM

I also say go for it. We have traveled quite a bit with our children. They are 3 1/2 and 8 months right now. I find it much easier to travel with infants than toddlers.

I talked to our pediatrician about traveling with my first baby and he looked at me like I was crazy. He said that the baby would be ready to travel before I was. As soon as I felt like going on a trip, my daughter could go, so long as we weren't taking her to a developing country that would require vaccinations.

I didn't see where you live but the most stressful part of any trip for us has been the plane rides. We live in California and the shortest flight we have taken was to St Louis. Once we reach our destination we have a great time. We just change our expectations of what we can get done while there & always schedule naps. I'm sure you have realistic expectations since you already have two children.

Sure you will spend a lot of time feeding the baby and changing diapers but you would be doing that at home as well. I would rather be doing it at Disney than home anyway. I would just talk to your older kids & explain that you won't be seeing as much as they usually do. I bet they would love splashing in the pool or playing in the playground while you feed the baby.

My DH and I have wonderful memories of vacations with our children and I don't regret taking any of them.

Dizpro

09-26-2001, 04:59 PM

Is make a mental picture of walking thru,say,MK(while hubby is at convention)....holding the 2 kids hands..pushing the stroller...imagine which rides you and baby could do....or will you wait while the older kids ride by themselves? Could these 2 stand in a long line by themselves,or if you are with them will you hold the baby in line and then watch them ride. Just visualize the whole experience of WDW but add the baby,stroller,bottles,etc PLUS taking care of the older ones ....maybe that will help.

(FYI....my hubby has gotten sort of sick from every trip to WDW because of the germs on all the railings and then touching his face-I would not take a baby for just this reason)

kfs

09-26-2001, 06:52 PM

I agree with what mirlow had to say. Are you going in the summer heat?-- If so, I'd think you would be too hot and uncomfortable to carry a baby in a snugli carrier. If it's not summer, and you are blessed with a non-colicky baby, and you have help from your hubby, and your older kids won't need tons of attention, and you have lots of energy---- go for it! I can understand your not wanting to miss WDW. But, if I thought that I wouldn't have fun- I'd save my money for another time.

d-r

09-26-2001, 07:15 PM

One thing is, there is a big difference between a six week old new born and a four month old infant. I would agree that there are benefits for infants at walt disney world, and that they can enjoy going. Moreover, I am strong proponant of families enjoying their time together and parents being closely involved with their infant - of course. But the issues of keeping up with an infant at a theme park aren't the only ones involved in this case. There are medical risks with a newborn that don't apply to slightly older infants. For a new born, it is entirely possible that at six weeks old their respiratory system isn't fully developed and their immune system isn't completely independent. Someone touching your new born isn't relevant for airborn illnesses you might be exposed to around thousands of people or traveling. I take some umbridge at the post that pediatricians wouldn't know what they are talking about. That is bad advice, in my opinion. It is fairly common practice to advise against exposing a newborn to extremely public situations until they are two months old. I think that you should turn to your pediatrician to make your call, not an internet group. That is just my opinion, but I do have a ph.d. in child development, and have worked for 12 years in early childhood. I am fairly confident that you could take your new born with no ill effects, but I'm not sure why you would want to risk it and I am not going to advise you either way not knowing you or your baby. Let a medical professional that has examined your baby give you advice.

DR

ehagerty

09-26-2001, 07:48 PM

I've been taking my two children every year since they were 2 1/2 and 6 months old. I'm with the lady from the kibbutz. You know what your children and you can do - you make the call.

BTW - When I was pregnant with #2 (and first child was 1 1/2), I was scouting aroud DisneyWorld to see what the youngest child was - to see how they handled it - and so I would know when I could return the following year. There were several families there with infants - they youngest was 5 weeks. She said, "No problem".

I have to agree - they were actually easier to take on vacation when they were that age than they are now. They complained less about heat and fatigue, didn't care what attractions we went on (baby hand-off in the ride queue), slept immediately at any dark attraction (HofP, Am Adventure, any movie, etc).

If you are calm and take everything in stride, so will the rest of your family.

Disneydenise

09-26-2001, 08:34 PM

Gosh I feel really bad about the answers everyone is giving you. I think I would not be able to take a baby to WDW. I am very high strung and had a difficult time going to the grocery store with 2 children 18 months apart but I am older now and I think I could do it, the grocery store I mean. If you are the type of person who is easy going then I would say go. There are germs every where and if you are nursing you baby I think that they are supposed to get your immunities so I wouldn't worry about that. If you have the energy then I would go. Years ago you never took your baby out anywhere before it was baptized. Things change and I really think it is up to the individual. I have seen people in the parks with 6 week old children and they are sleeping peacefully in those kagaroo pouches everyone has now. Way back in the 80's everyone thought I was nutty to take my 2 YO to Disney now everyone thinks thats normal. Good Luck and hope you have a nicetrip if you go. Make sure you keep taking those prenatal vitamins.

KJMAX1

09-27-2001, 12:38 AM

I am NOT a mother YET <trying to change that through adoption>. However, I have watched kids for 10 years and get this, I had two boys, three months apart who were 2 months and 5 months, plus a 2 year old, AND a 7 year old. We spent the entire day walking at an event here , and the boys slept most of the time except for feedings and changings.

I say go to WDW. It will be a struggle sometimes, and youll probably wonder why youre doing it, but it will be so worth it. Especially if you use a Baby Bjorn carrier which I think is easier on the shoulders, and take plenty of breaks at the comfort stations. My big think with the kids is I am always pushing drinks down them which means more bathroom breaks, but less headaches. Also you probably wont be able to go on as many rides, but thats what is so great about WDW, not everything is a ride!

Good luck!

P.S. I too saw a lot of newborns at WDW on our honeymoon and one of them was just 9 days old!

Redmic

09-27-2001, 07:18 AM

This is a tough one, because so much depends on the personality of the baby. My youngest daughter was a quiet and calm baby, the kind you could take anywhere. However, my oldest was very sensitive to stimulation. I could not take her out in public or she would cry - noise, people, anything would set her off. She needed a calm, quiet environment as an infant or she was miserable. Every baby is an individual, and their personalities cannot be predicted in advance (unfortunately, LOL!). I'm with those who would encourage you to wait. Six weeks is awfully young and you can't be sure how the baby will react. Just my opinion.

KathyK

09-27-2001, 08:52 AM

I'm sorry you have been getting so many negative responses. It is not up to other people on what is right for your family. You asked for resources and received a lot of grief.

For tips on traveling to WDW with very young children, read some of Brian Bennett's information on www.Mouseplanet.com. He went to WDW when his first adopted son was only 2.5 *weeks* old. They had a fabulous trip. Also, on Deb Will's site, (www.wdwig.com) there is a section all about traveling to WDW with young childrena nd infants. This information should be useful to you.

I'm currently pregnant with my first, and our first trip for baby is planned for when she will be about 5 months old. I would have no qualms about bringing her earlier, but that's how things worked out. many people say that it is easier to travel with infants than with older children (though you will be dealing with both). As an experienced mom, I'm sure that you know what to expect, and you will have a fabulous trip.

HTH

-Kathy

Carl

09-27-2001, 01:02 PM

I've been hanging around this board for 2 years and I've noticed that when a person asks others if they should go to WDW in spite of _____ (fill in the blank,) they really are just looking for a stamp of approval for the decision they have already made - to go to WDW. (period)

My bet is that if every single person who answered the question had stated that they thought the person with the infant should NOT go - that person would go anyway. Want to bet?

casmanuel

09-27-2001, 01:05 PM

I was thinking it, Carl, but you said it!

Lershac

09-27-2001, 01:31 PM

GO. If you are bottle feeding I wouldnt go just based on the pain in the neck on getting bottles together in the park.

All this talk about "exposing the baby..." is a bunch of baloney. Kids are tough at that age, alot tougher than alot of people on this thread give them credit for being. About all your kids need at that age is YOU.

If you want to protect your kids against all the world will do to them... use a condom, that way they will never get hurt!

Like Carl sez, you are going to go anyway... SO HAVE FUN and do not feel "guilty"...sheesh

Mario

09-27-2001, 02:17 PM

This thread really concerns me. An infant does not have the ability to regulate his/her internal temperature until he/she is about one year old. Please be careful that your baby does not become overheated or dehyrated. Also, infant's skin is extremely susceptible to sunburn during the first six months. Watch out for direct and indirect sunlight. I am not sure, but I do not think that you can use sunblock on an infant until they are at least 6 months old. Finally, baby equipment that is out in the sun can get really, really hot.

IMHO, and in the interest of the child, I think I would plan a trip once the baby is little older. Good luck with your decision, and with the trip if you choose to go.

KathyK

09-27-2001, 02:28 PM

Originally posted by Mario
An infant does not have the ability to regulate his/her internal temperature until he/she is about one year old. Please be careful that your baby does not become overheated or dehyrated. Also, infant's skin is extremely susceptible to sunburn during the first six months. Watch out for direct and indirect sunlight. I am not sure, but I do not think that you can use sunblock on an infant until they are at least 6 months old.

First of all, the OP did not say what time of year she is going on this trip. If it is during the winter, then the heat and sun are not really an issue, even in Florida. Secondly, it is always a parent's responsibility to make sure that their child is dressed/covered appropriately for the temperature and exposure of the sun regardless of whether the family is vacationing or taking a stroll around the block. As the OP has two other children, I'm sure that she is well aware of how to care for young children to ensure that they are safe from the elements.

People have babies in the summer all of the time, and yes, even people who live in Florida have babies (and sometimes in the summer)!

As far as the sunscreen issue goes, I'm pretty sure that Coppertone makes a product called "Waterbabies" that is SPF 45 and appropriate for babies (though I would have to check the packaging, and don't hapeen to have a bottle in front of me).

lisag1

09-27-2001, 02:37 PM

I would say go for it! I have 3 children aged from 1 - 4 and although I haven't taken any that young - ours have always been from 15m onwards I do know friends who have taken their very young babies over to Spain and have been fine. I would make sure that your baby is not exposed to the sun. I'm not sure about sunblock not being used before 6 months that may be sunblock with insect repellant. Newborns sleep most of the time so you should be able to just keep him/her in a sling without any disruption to the baby. As you'll know yourself it will be tiring, but as you say you've older children who will probably want to go on holiday also. If you have your GP's permission then I'd go.

Lisa

Mario

09-27-2001, 02:57 PM

Thanks KathyK! I did not realize that people in Florida had babies, too! I am glad we cleared that up! LOL! :) Your views on this topic may change once you give birth to your little one. Congratulations and best wishes on your pregnancy.

The source for the information that I posted is from The American Academy of Pediatrics (KathyK, they have a great book entitled "Caring for Your Baby and Young Child"). Sunblock (of any type) is not recommended for children under 6 months of age, regardless of what the Coppertone bottle says. :rolleyes: That even includes children born in Florida!

We have been to WDW in all seasons and have gotten sunburned in January! The best way to stay "safe" is not to be exposed to the sun. The OP is going in October, and the average highs can be in the mid 80s.

Bugster

09-27-2001, 03:16 PM

Ignoring the baby for a moment, will your OB/Gyn let you travel 6 weeks after delivery? I remember that was when I had my postpartum check, and there was no way that I way up to it!

GoldenPrincess

09-27-2001, 03:46 PM

I just have to jump in here with my opinion. There seems to be a lot of conflicting information regarding whether to take a 6 week old out in public for health reasons.

If it were my decision I wouldn't dream of taking my 6 week old baby out around that many people--no matter what my physician or science or anyone told me. There's always an exception and I wouldn't want to take a chance that my baby would be the one.
I just couldn't risk it.

No. I'm not a clean freak. I'm not one of those who are afraid of a few germs. I have no medical knowledge to back me up. I just have concerns about a baby that young being exposed to who knows what.

I suppose I worry because my nephew passed away at six weeks. No one could explain why. Please don't misunderstand, I'm not suggesting that anything would happen. I only bring it up to explain why I think the way I do.

I know some of you are thinking "there's no proof." You're absolutely correct--there isn't. You have no way of knowing if it will happen, and medicine has no way of knowing why it happens. They can only give guesses. To my mind guesses aren't enough.

Why take an unnecessary chance? Wait a few months. Disney will still be there, and you and your baby will be better able to enjoy it along with the rest of the family.

Tracy00

09-28-2001, 12:19 AM

Hi Scrapper!

First of all let me say this - GO, GO, GO!!! and ENJOY, ENJOY, ENJOY!!!

I am so sorry for all the negative posts you have gotten on this!! I really think the majority of the negative posts come from older people. Or maybe people are jealous that you are going and not them? That will make people say very hateful things. Having babies was a LOT different years ago - I can tell from the stories that my mom and grandma tell me! My mom was "knocked out" for the delivery of me and had to stay in the hospital for a minimum of 7 days after she had me - and this was normal at the time! Then as my grandma tells me about her delivery of my mom, she was told by her doctor that she was not to leave the house until the baby was a month old and then the only reason that she was allowed to leave was to take the baby to see the doctor, then it was directly home again!

In August of 2000 we took our 3 month old daughter and 8 year old daughter and had a great time! I don't know what time of year you are planning on, but hopefully it's not August! It was HOT! But we did survive! You will have an even EASIER time than I did as you have a smaller baby! Even at 12 weeks all our baby wanted to do was SLEEP!!! Every picture we have of her, whether it's at a park, with a character, at the pool, WHATEVER - SHE IS SLEEPING!!! It was GREAT! I breastfed her, so it was SOOOO EASY!! You can do that anywhere - in the parks, on any ride you can take a baby, in any show, at the pool, in the restaurant, etc.

I did skip over a lot of the posts cause I couldn' take all the negativity anymore, but I did see a few that were positive! Hopefully there are more than I realize! After all you are talking about a baby that will be 6 WEEKS old, not 6 DAYS old!!! Get real people! When my baby was 7 days old we were at the local semi-pro baseball game. My doctor surprised me and came up behind me and told me that he was so glad to see that people are not afraid to take the baby out with them. He could see that I had her dressed for the weather and that she was, what else -- SLEEPING comfortably! Whenever we had her out that early we always joked that we were building her immune system - same as when that pacifier drops on the ground for the hundredth time! For that first kid you scrub it each time, for the second, third, etc. - they are lucky if you pick the lint off before you give it back!

As far as the ridiculous sunblock comments go - my doctor explained to me (as my friend's doctor's have all explained to them) when my daughter was a few weeks old that sunblock shouldn't be a problem as long as it states that it is PABA FREE. He said to test it on a small part of her to make sure that there is no bad reaction before leaving on vacation. We put it on her if she was going to be in the pool, but otherwise we just kept light clothes on her and she was mostly in the stroller with the stroller shade and an attachable umbrella over that. We brought a wet washcloth with us to cool her down with if needed.

We are going again next May and she will be two! I would much rather be repeating the trip with the infant than the plane trip with the toddler!!

I really hope you do decide to go and I know you will have a great time. I am jealous of you, but only in a GOOD way!

Tracy

P.S. Does you username mean that you are a scrapbooker?

Redmic

09-28-2001, 07:10 AM

TracyOO, I have read through all of the posts and I did not find a single one that was "hateful"! Nor do I think that the people who had concerns about taking a 6-week-old on such a trip were old and senile. Please remember that the original poster ASKED for opinions. Yours is welcome, but please do not attack and insult others. Thank you.

Lershac

09-28-2001, 07:14 AM

Huh? Who? wha....? What time is it? What am I doing here? Who said senile?

Bugster

09-28-2001, 07:19 AM

Even though I have little ones, I guess I am senile, too!;) I put their health (safety) and happiness before my own desires. Makes me crazy, I guess.

I am curious, WHAT DOES ANY OF THIS DEBATE HAVE TO DO WITH THE RESORTS AT WDW?

Lershac

09-28-2001, 07:22 AM

See, we all posted to this thread even tho its on the wrong board.... We must ALL be having some senior moments... kinda early for me tho, I am only 31.....

BevS97

09-28-2001, 09:31 AM

Go, have fun, it's never any easier than when they are little.

Make sure you have a shade for the stroller, and baby can lie flat for a nap and you'll be fine.

My dd has been all over and the older she gets the harder it gets!

Tiny baby's are extremely easy and extremely portable - if you are bottle feeding then PM me and I'll give you my top 10 tip on how to keep bottles fresh without a refrigerator, there is no need for it to be a hassle at all - I could get a bottle out of my bag and be feeding my daughter within 30 seconds.

my only concern is if you will be in the parks without your hubby - simply because one adult will struggle to get 3 kids on a ride (especially if one isn't riding) will your kids be happy to stick to 'It's a small world' etc while dad's not around? Maybe you could bring Grandma or someone else for a spare set of hands?

Bev

DizneyDreamer

09-28-2001, 09:52 AM

I never let other peoples fears stop me from doing what I thought was right. The only one who knows if you and your family can handle it it YOU. Go with your gut feeling.

Some parents couldn't possibly deal with 3 kids at WDW regardless of their ages. I saw a perfect example of this in June. A little boy age.. 6 maybe was having a total meltdown (not uncommon for that age..especially after being hot, tired and probably hungry). Well MOM was the one I got angry with. She was very verbally mean to him and extremely humiliating. I wanted to put HER in time-out.

I have also seen quite a few parents with very young ones and they were doing fine. You know the temperment of your children. You know what you are capable of handling.

All it takes is a little common sense and a relaxed attitude and everyone can have a great time. :)

And to those who say.. but that baby will never remember. You are right..but Mom and Dad will remember the look of wonder and amazement in their childs eyes. :)

GEM

09-28-2001, 10:12 AM

Originally posted by Disneydenise
Years ago you never took your baby out anywhere before it was baptized.

Gosh. I guess if that was still true mine would be holed up inside the house forever . . . :rolleyes:

I don't really know how it would affect a baby that young to be out and about among so many people, etc. - but I do know that I wouldn't do it myself because it just seems like a HUGE amount of work with a baby that young. I don't think I would enjoy it. It sounds exhausting. If you think you are up for it, though, and your doctor seems to think it is OK for the baby, then go.

And hope you live to tell about it. ;) Have fun!! :D

I would never even consider leaving a baby that young at home with somebody else. I'm sure the baby wouldn't mind - but I would be a wreck!

scrapper

09-28-2001, 12:54 PM

OMG
Well, it certainly is great to hear all your responses. I actually had a few good laughs reading them & thank god I am thick skinned b/c I am not offended by anyone,.. I asked and everyone just gave their honest opinion! I had already spoken to my ped's who said I can defn. take him to Disney. I had just wanted some opinions from people who had been & if they thought it was worth the trip. I actually do not plan to take the kids to the theme parks w/o dh. Since we would be staying at the BC my kids will love swimming in stormalong bay. When dh is avail. @ about 4pm we would go to the parks for a few hrs. I guess I kind of feel like some of the above posters, if I can be at a beautiful resort with my kids ...why stay home? Yes, we won't see as much but my older kids will love to swim & just be away. Carl, I actually am still unsure if we are going. The trip is just a few wks. away, so I have to decide this w/e.
I am so thankful for this board. I DO find it helpful to hear about other people's experiences. Anyone else?

donnamerry

09-28-2001, 01:17 PM

No offense I wouldn't even consider taking a 6 wk old baby to WDW - wouldn't want to expose him so very young to so many airborne germs. Wait and go when he is a little older. BUT IF YOU ABSOLUTELY HAVE TO GO, do this - take turns with DH watching the baby while you both take turns park hopping with the other children. I would worry though the baby crying alot at nighttime and disturbing other neighbors. Needless to say, I definitely would not and postpone it til he's older.
good luck whatever you decide~:)

MJS

09-28-2001, 03:10 PM

scrapper - I do not know when you are planning on going, but you might want to check the park hours, especially if you are going to the MK/AK after 4pm during the week. I am not sure how late the park is open, but I remember when we were there last fall, the park closed around 7pm. Also, we stayed at the YC, and getting to the MK does take time, given the bus schedules, so if you do go after 4pm, be sure to figure in some bus time (we did not rent a car, so I do not know how long it takes to drive, park, etc.) I do not know if you are locked into staying at the BC, but in your situation (solo during the day with three kids, and a desire to start your day at the theme parks after 4pm, the Poly might be a better choice. Kids love it, and transportation is the best.)

If you stick with the BC, Stormalong Bay is wonderful, and I am sure that your 4 and 9 year olds will enjoy it. The pool is quite large, so you might want to strategize with some YC/BC veterans on how they keep track of their older kids with an infant. Good luck and have a great trip!

Dizpro

09-28-2001, 04:24 PM

Since the "tragedy"......I;d check into what the current open hours are...good luck!

gepetto

09-28-2001, 04:39 PM

I'd rather take an infant than a toddler any day! Infants are a lot easier to travel with. :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: I hope you decide to go. If you take advantage of child-swap, your 9 year old can go on all the big rides twice.

Antonia

09-29-2001, 06:18 AM

Forget germs. It will just be hard with the baby and two other children and DH in meetings. Hard to manuever, hard to watch two kids in a pool and a baby, hard to ride the rides, hard to all stay in one hotel room, HARD on the people in the room next to yours if the baby cries. We stayed in a room next to a baby and it was not fun.
I was just wondering if scrapper has ever been to WDW before? I don't recall her saying. I personally would not put the family through it.
Wait and go when the mom and baby can get in the pool some with the older kids and the baby can get a little enjoyment out of his siblings and his surroundings. In just a matter of months, the family could take a trip that would be completely different than taking a 6 week old and get a lot more enjoyment out of it for everyone. Dad would not be in meetings. Mom would have better recuperated from childbirth. Baby would be a little older and have a little personality. The whole family could do more than they could at this point and the older kids would turn out having a beter trip. WAIT a few months - let Dad go this trip as a scout and in the meantime have fun planning a trip a few months down the road!!!!

gepetto

09-29-2001, 03:42 PM

Oh, Pooh! I've been to a lot of Disney resorts and have had rooms next to babies and not heard a peep. :D

rjwinj

09-29-2001, 07:03 PM

hi!
i have read a few of the responses and wanted to reply to some of the concerns. when my son was 4 weeks old, we flew (at thanksgiving) from oregon to the midwest. the flights were fine, and he did not get sick. we did have one challenging night (out of 7) at a hotel room, but we survived.

we also took him with us (when he was 8 weeks old) to new york city for new year's eve in times square - for the new millenium. obviously, people thought we were crazy, but we had a great time. my point is - if you really want to go - GO, it will work for you. since you have older children, you know what to expect from infants and will plan accordingly.

good luck and have a great time!!!!

Antonia

09-29-2001, 09:38 PM

LadyTrampScamp&Angel

09-29-2001, 10:04 PM

Well . . . only my opinion but I would not do it.

I have a DD who is 15 mos old now, we took her to WDW at 9 mos for the first time. Personally I wouldn't take the chance with such a small infant I don't care even if the Dr. said ok. There are just so many people and too many chances of catching something. It's so tough when a baby that young even gets a cold. You can't give them anything to make them more comfortable, and they can't sleep, then you can't sleep -well I'm sure you know how that part is.

It's your family and your decision. I'm just offering an honest opinion.

Dolizza

09-29-2001, 10:15 PM

I belive if you don't want to expend the extra effort of bringing your baby...thats simply being selfish! In July My Husband and I took our 8yr old, 3yr old and 12 week old. I BREASTFED the entire time. It was so wonderful having our entire family there. Some people may argue that THEY won't remember it, but YOU will, and that is something I would never give up.

stefanie08

09-29-2001, 11:46 PM

Scrapper
Well your post has finally lead me to register. I have been a fan of this site for over a year but have always been a little nervous to respond. Even though I think I will have alot of people disagree with me for what I am about to say, I thought our experience might be of interest to you.

Last year my DH, DD(2yr at time) and DS (7weeks at time) went to Disney for 10 days. We went because my family was going and it meant alot to my dad to have the whole family go. Coming from Washington State we had a long plane ride but we took a over nighter and both kids slept most of the trip. Our peditriciation said go for it that our infant was healthy and our two year old would be more of a handful that our 7week old. Which of course he was right. Touring the parks were fine, I used a sling and was nursing so never had to worry about bottles or finding a place to feed him. We went the end of October and the weather was in the high 70's low 80's so just made sure ds was always out of the sun and he was fine.

With this said I think you should go. As long as you and the rest of your family have a relaxed attitude about it and just enjoy being on vacation without a need to do everything I think you'll have a great time.

Lershac

09-30-2001, 12:03 AM

I have changed my mind completely and think you should take the baby and go. Especially take the advice of the person who took an 8-week old infant to Times Square for New Years. Or the advice of the honeymooner who thought a 9-day-old at WDW was sweet. LOL I'm sure the baby in each case was having a ball.
What baby would not want to have a mom who would ask advice from strangers on the internet in order to make a decision about a family trip. If you have to ask, maybe that is the answer in itself. After all, it is your baby. Not mine, nor any of us well-meaning strangers. And we'll not be on your trip. Don't mean to sound sarcastice, but I think this thread has gotten ridiculous.

Why do you attack her becasue you disagree with her? That is being pretty closed minded. I hope no one attacks you in the same way if you ask their opinion on something because you VALUE IT. Others may have had some experience in the parks that would lend itself to her situation. I think that is what she was after, not people attacking her for wanting to go to Diz with her child... If you disagree, why not list the reasons instead of insulting her intelligence for even asking. There is no such thing as a dumb question.

Misti

09-30-2001, 08:19 AM

Since this thread doesn't have much relevance to the Resorts Board, I'm closing this thread and moving it over to the Trip Planning Board. Although, with the tone of things, maybe I should move it to the Debate Board. ;)

Just a reminder--please keep things respectful. If some of you haven't already, please take a look at the Forum Guidelines. There is never a need to attack ANY poster. Thanks in advance for your understanding!

Disneydenise

09-30-2001, 09:01 AM

Hiphip Misti!!!!!:) :) :)

Dopey Sharon

09-30-2001, 09:24 AM

I agree with Carl, in that, when people come on these boards asking everyone's opinion about whether or not they should do something, they are going to do what they want anyway, and I don't understand why they bother to ask. To answer the question...I wouldn't take any kids under the age of 6 or 7, (ducking now), so my answer would be no. To quote my mother..."Do what you want, you will anyway"!

CarolAnnC

09-30-2001, 09:54 AM

Since the focus of this board is the Theme Park Rides and Attractions, and this thread is continuing along the lines of traveling with an infant, it is being relocated to our Disney for Families Board where many people enjoy discussing traveling with infants and children. :)

Montana Disney Fan

09-30-2001, 01:18 PM

We did it!

We went to WDW with my mother-in-law for help. It tuned out that she was not very helpful. We were able to do a lot of the attractions, however, because two of us would go, and one would stay and watch the baby (12 weeks). Our Dr. told us TO take the baby when we asked him. He said his senses would be stimulated by everything that is going on.

We took a GOOD QUALITY stroller with us and a huge suitcase that held his "Bouncy Chair" which he ended up sleeping in at night. Every room has the crib in it so no problems there. Our little guy would sleep during the day while we stolled around and nap on his own. It was very easy. We did it again a year later when he was a little over a year and same thing... very easy.

I say, GO FOR IT! Just take it easy and prep your family.

hobo1947

11-16-2001, 01:11 AM

If you think you can have a good time, then do it. The baby is not going to get any thing at WDW that it couldn't get at the local market, or mall when your shoping. I am a grandma and
while I myself would not stay home and take care of my grandchildren so my daughters could run off to WDW or Disneyland, I will, have, would take them myself. WDW isn't just for children. I love WDW, Cruise and Disneyland and love taking all three of mine. Disneyland this
Christmas, WDW and the Cruise in January and loving it. Bonnie

xplor144

11-16-2001, 08:50 AM

Just a little side note. I have 4 children. They are 29mths, 20mths, and 12mths apart. All I can say is that it is hard! It is hard to go anywhere with them. Hard at the doctors, hard at the grocery store, hard in the backyard! At least if you go along on this trip, you will have his help after 4pm, instead of sitting at home all by yourself with 3 kids- right? Parenting is hard work anywhere you go!LOL
As for all the people talking about all the "stuff" you need to bring for a baby, I would wonder what stuff? This is what I would have for a 6 week old..... I would breastfeed, so no bottles, but if I used bottles I would have 3 of them with water in it. Then have 3 or 4 TW midgets with powdered formula in it to mix. There is no need to steralize the bottles, or even to warm them if you are using room temp water (although my first child drank her formula bottles straight from the fridge from birth). Lets see....diapers, but you would need those for a 12months old too. And a change of clothes. That is pretty much all I would carry. Now, I may have felt the need to bring a bunch more with my first child (whom I traveled with by myself from Panama to Virginia when she was 7 weeks old)- but with each child I learned the importance of "less is more".
I have been reading this thread for so long today that I can't even remember now when it originally started- so I think the OP has probably gone and been back. I hope you had a great time, and I am sure everyone else that was around you had a great time

Amy

jillhou

11-19-2001, 07:29 AM

OK - will admit I could bring myself to read all the posts!!!

I say go for it. OP seems like a pretty laid back mom. she knows her older children and knows they will be happy swimming and being at the hotel for the day. She is not planning on handling all 3 kids at the parks by herself!

My only deal on this is feeding the baby. I never bottle fed, but that seems like it might be a little difficult to keep enough bottles with you, to be able to warm things up in the room, etc. If you are breastfeeding - no problemo! When I was there with infants (4 and 6mo), the CM's told me I could breastfeed anywhere! In shows, during parades, anywhere I wanted. I used the baby stations a couple of times, but did not feel confined to those places - which were VERY nice with wonderful people, nice rockers, special rooms for breastfeeding moms. I think especially if you use a sling or snugli.....the baby will be fine.

Ok - have to make a comment regarding the husband who gets sick everytime he goes to WDW because he touches the rails at the rides and then his face!!!!! How in the world would he know that is how he got sick? Didn't other family members touch the guard rails? Some people tend to get sick on vacation - the relaxing, the different schedule, not eating right, being tired, stress, letdown of stress....lots of reasons- all different people!

BTW - babies, esp if breastfed, have better immunities when young than they do with older!!!

LKS

11-19-2001, 08:14 AM

My advice for you is no eating at food courts or buffets, especially during the day when you have the three by yourself. Splurge on sit-down meals where they will bring the food to you. I hate hauling food around while trying to keep an eye on the kids. In fact, we kept cereal, milk and juice in the room (got a fridge) so no one had to go out for breakfast. We went when the kids were 5, 3 and 3 months and again when they were 5, 3 and 7 months. We went in October and February and I don't think we used sunscreen on the baby and I know no one got burned. We did not swim much on those trips. On the first trip, we drove to the parks with the baby in the car seat because we were at Fort Wilderness in a cabin and driving seemed much easier than negotiating the buses. On the second trip, we were on the monorail at the contemporary and that was really easy.

It all went great, we nursed discreetly everywhere and I usually volunteered to sit with the baby while my husband rode the rides with the bigger kids. Do take your own stroller as the rentals are not appropriate for small infants. Oh, and we had a backpack style diaper bag that we kept everything in and that was GREAT.

MinnieGi

11-19-2001, 12:04 PM

If YOU are up for it, I would take the baby and be sure to bring a sling or Baby Bjorn type carrier and the the baby will be fine. At 6 weeks post-partum I would be more worried about your energy and feeling up for taking the baby. We were going to take our then two month old to Disney last year when my DH had a bus. trip down there, but it ended up being canceled so we didn't go. But I didn't give it a second thought, we would have gone if the bus trip had been on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I was so excited at the thought of getting a picture of our DD and Mickey! Think of the memories! No way could I ever leave her with Grandma when she was so young! Disney has awesome "Baby Service" rooms to help you relax and nurse and take care of baby.

We do have friends that took their 2 1/2 month old along with a 2 year old and had a blast. If you are up for it - go for it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!